Dragon Slayer.

Many people in this world will always feel that they have shortcomings of one kind or another......

Many people feel dissatisfied with these shortcomings of their own......

For example, many people will always be dissatisfied with their ordinary family background, not satisfied with their ordinary appearance, not satisfied with their ordinary salary, this dissatisfaction, if it continues for a long time, it is often easy to become inferior, or simply become cynical, feeling that the world owes them the same......

People who become inferior will always slowly disappear from the crowd, thinking that their fate is destined to be mediocre people, that they are destined to have no chance to get ahead, and that their defects are irreparable......

People who become radical will often try to do some shocking things, to try to prove their existence to the world, to be like those who ignore them, to let out their own roar and roar of counterattack, or always feel that everyone around them is full of malice towards them, and will always subconsciously feel that others look down on them, and become very sensitive, very concerned about what other people think of them......

While caring about other people's opinions, they are often unwilling to accept the opinions given to them by others, and always subconsciously feel that everyone else is wrong and only they are right......

Speaking of which, the vast majority of people will have these two states, either because of low self-esteem and no sense of existence, or in order to highlight their sense of existence and constantly try to prove their success......

At the end of the day, these two types of people. Essentially, they are all the same kind of people. They all feel that they have some irreparable shortcomings. The former feels that this is fate, belongs to accepting fate, while the latter is unwilling to admit these defects, so they always hysterically try to prove that they do not have this or that problem......

Short people will always think that it would be nice if they could be taller, stupid people will always think, if only their brains could be smarter, and ordinary people will always think. It would be nice if his appearance could be more eye-catching, so that he might be able to attract more attention from the opposite sex, married people always envy the freedom of single people, and those born in ordinary families will always envy the luxurious life of those who are official and rich second generations......

However, in fact, while they envy others, why not the object of envy of others?

It's like short people want to be taller, some people who are too tall. They also tend to want to be shorter, and being too short is a nuisance. But being too tall will also have its own troubles, such as the disagreement of the size of the clothes, for example, the bed is always not big enough, for example, it will always hit the door frame, and when you are a taxi, it is always easy to hit your head......

And in the same way, stupid people always hope that they can become smarter, but in fact, for many smart people, sometimes, I am afraid they also hope that they can be difficult to be confused, sometimes, the more things you know, the more things you understand, not necessarily a lucky thing, but it is likely to become a big trouble, in fact, according to the survey of many relevant institutions, in society, people with primary school education, in fact, the happiness index is the highest, from a certain degree dùIgnorance can sometimes be a kind of happiness......

As for ordinary-looking people, they certainly hope that their appearance can become more attractive, because in this way they can more easily attract the attention of the opposite sex, but on the other hand, for those who look like a disaster for the country and the people, they often hope that they can look ordinary and ordinary, because only in this way can they distinguish whether the other party likes their beauty or themselves......

Even in a sense, beauty is a resource, but when the owner of this resource does not have the wisdom to protect this resource, this resource may sometimes become the source of disaster, there is a saying called red face and thin life, in fact, this is the truth, the vast majority of red faces, almost it is difficult to die, their beauty will certainly give people a lot of advantages in interpersonal communication, but it can also become the source of disaster, Almost the vast majority of beauties throughout the ages will not end up with a very good ending......

And the same married people sometimes always envy the freedom of the single, but for the single people, why not envy those who are married to have a happy family? In the final analysis, it is nothing more than a besieged city, and when the people inside live hot, they will naturally want to go out to blow the wind, and for the people outside, when the wind blows cold, they will naturally want to feel the warmth in the besieged city......

The children of ordinary families, the reason why they envy those rich second generations, is because they actually only see the glamorous life of the rich second generation, but ignore the pressure and responsibility of the rich second generation, in fact, many rich second generations have received very strict education since childhood, in order to inherit their own family business, many rich second generations often have to work hard to learn a lot of knowledge that ordinary people will not learn at a very young age, in order to inherit the family business, Many rich second generations have to give up many things that they are interested in and devote themselves to the business sea......

In the final analysis, the vast majority of people think that their flaws are nothing more than simply because they can't get it......

Yes, you can't!

What you don't have, what you want, you naturally think that everyone else doesn't have it, and you naturally think that everyone else wants it......

So, I will subconsciously envy those who have it, and therefore, I will subconsciously envy those who live the life they yearn for......

However, is the life you yearn for really as beautiful as you imagined?

I'm afraid it's not very so......

It's like in today's society, there are a lot of young people, and they are always very envious of celebrities. No matter where you go. are able to be sought after in life. They are always very envious of those stars who have a lot of fans, who are always able to live in the best houses, enjoy the best life, and enjoy the gaze of other people......

It is because of seeing the glamorous life of celebrities, so they often try to become an artist when they are young, trying to make themselves famous, trying to make themselves a star, however. Among these people, the vast majority of people, they often only see the glamorous side of stars, but they rarely really understand how difficult it is to become a star, and what kind of price needs to be paid......

It is undeniable that among those who want to become stars, there will always be more or less those who sincerely like acting and acting in the true sense of the word, but. I'm afraid that the vast majority of people who go to the art academy are really pursuing. But it's not the so-called acting and acting, what they care about is the benefits and benefits they can bring to themselves after becoming famous, and what they care about is how much fame and fortune they can get after becoming famous......

For such people, what they pursue is not to become a star, but simply to pursue that kind of life of scenery and enjoyment......

And this kind of people, often when pursuing their so-called dreams, are always the least determined, and they will always strive to pursue a better life......

In fact, when these people really grow up and mature, they will understand that even so-called celebrities are actually just so-called dramas in the eyes of some powerful people......

At that time, their enthusiasm for the so-called stars will not be so strong, but will be replaced by a yearning and fanaticism for power......

No matter how good the acting skills are, even if they get a lot of recognition and praise, if they offend the powerful in the real sense, one sentence can completely knock a star into the dust, maybe only need to make a mistake that is too small to be small, it is enough to make a star who was originally in the sky completely give up his acting career......

And when these people realize this, they often change their ambitions and start trying to follow the path of civil servants......

And once they enter the system, they will gradually find that the power and welfare in the hands of each level of officials are completely different concepts, and the more senior officials, the power and influence are not the same......

In the final analysis, for many people, they are more concerned about how to make themselves stronger, just how to pursue the life they want, but rarely pay attention to what they really need......

Perhaps many celebrities just want to prove their acting skills at the beginning, but as time goes by, they may be eroded by a luxurious and comfortable life, and finally slowly degenerate, and officials may have the ideal of serving the people at the beginning, but with the passage of time, they may run for their rights, and finally unconsciously forget their original ideals, and begin to endlessly pursue higher levels of power......

At the end of the day, people are always subconsciously pursuing what they feel they need......

However, when they really get these things, they often find that many of the things they are pursuing are not what they want, but they just think they will want them......

Yes, it's just something you think you'll want!

A lot of the time, people are always blind......

In many people's cognition, power, wealth, and fame are all very powerful forces, and mastering these three powers is enough to make oneself strong......

Because of this, many people will always subconsciously pursue these things, because everyone else is pursuing, so they naturally feel that it is necessary for them to pursue these things, and it is necessary for them to become high-ranking officials, wealthy businessmen, and enjoy fame......

It seems that only in this way can you prove that you are successful and realize your ideals......

It's like a lot of people, they always hope that they can become another person, and they always hope that they can get rid of many so-called faults in themselves......

People who are not good at words always hope that they can meet people who can speak like a salesman who sells insurance. I always wish I could be like those playboys. No matter where you go, you can attract the admiring eyes of the opposite sex. can easily talk to the opposite sex, and even easily communicate with each other at a deep level......

However, they seldom think differently......

That is, if you really become like that, then you are still yourself?

If an honest man who always tells the truth, if he becomes a clever and stingy liar, has he become good or bad?

Ultimately. People will always subconsciously deny themselves, and then measure their own gains and losses by other people's standards......

Some people are honest and don't deceive, which is actually a virtue in itself, and it is also worthy of admiration and recognition, but if he changes his personality because he sees that those crooks can make money, then he is not actually becoming better, but on the contrary, just becoming more depraved......

Many people are actually very clear about this truth. But there are very few people who can truly practice the unity of knowledge......

It's like the vast majority of people. They often feel that a stunned young man full of justice is actually inferior to those sleek and mature middle-aged people, and they feel that this change from impulsive to sleek is a manifestation of a person's maturity, and a kind of progress and improvement in a person's character......

But in fact, in a sense, this kind of change is not actually human progress, but on the contrary, it is just a simple kind of people's helplessness and compromise with reality, and this kind of change itself is a helpless process, there is no so-called right or wrong at all, and there is nothing to be happy or sad about......

A person from insisting on justice, gradually become tactful, the process itself, itself should actually be said to be a kind of sorrow, on the contrary, if a person can still maintain the righteousness in his heart over time, can still implement his own justice, then such a person should be admired......

In the final analysis, the vast majority of people in this world often don't really know what they really need, so they can only modify their life patterns according to the example of perfection in their eyes......

However, do their so-called role models really live happily?

I'm afraid the answer isn't necessarily the right one!

Just like from the perspective of officials, the more high-ranking officials, often the greater their power, and often the more people and things they can influence, but few people will realize that the more senior officials, the more daily affairs they need to deal with, and the more daily affairs they deal with, the more they will consume their time and energy......

It is true that their rights are very huge, but in the same way, the effort and energy they need to put in to maintain their rights are not something that ordinary people can imagine......

The vast majority of people, what they can see is always the most beautiful side of others, but the efforts of others in the dark are not so easy to be seen clearly......

In fact, the reason why many people want to go for plastic surgery, in essence, is just because they always have a feeling of unconfidence in their appearance, and always feel that if they have a nose, eyes, and chin like a star, they may look much more beautiful......

However, they rarely think about it, the reason why celebrities look full of charm is not because of their appearance, but because of their fame, the more famous people are, the more natural they will be in appearance......

Celebrities are celebrities because of their fame!

It is precisely because of the fame of the stars that their appearance and their names are different, not because of how prominent their names or appearances are......

Many people think that they have plastic surgery to become a star face, and then they can become a star, but they are actually making the mistake of putting the cart before the horse......

You are yourself, and you don't need to be a second person!

You are yourself, you are the only one!

Many people actually know this truth. But people who can really carry out this kind of thinking. In fact, there are often very few people......

A lot of people do a thing before. They will always look to see if anyone has done the same thing before, and if someone has done it, then they will try their best to imitate the practices of their predecessors, rather than trying to solve the problem with their own methods, even if they are also full of confidence in their own methods, but in the face of the actual situation, they are often more willing to choose to use the conventional way......

This is actually in the process of creating the characters of the Phantom World. It's already very obvious......

Among the players in the fantasy world, the vast majority of players, in the process of pinching people, will make some changes in their appearance and figure, and these changes are basically some aesthetic changes......

Basically, every change itself is based on the aesthetics of ordinary people, beautifying their own roles......

In other words, the vast majority of players, when creating zào game characters. I will always subconsciously perfect myself, and I will always subconsciously present the most perfect self in my mind......

This so-called perfection. It's not based on their own perceptions, but on other people's perceptions......

To give a simple example, many people's lives, in fact, have always been to meet the needs of other people, for example, a person from high school, often embark on such a path, every New Year's holiday, there are often elders who take the trouble to ask a high school student's grades, good grades on the praise of two, bad grades on a few words of encouragement, high school entrance to college, if you can be admitted to a prestigious university, you can always live to the attention and recognition of the elders, as for the ordinary university, As for the parents of children, if their children are admitted to a good school, then their parents will be able to hold their heads up in front of relatives and friends, and if they are not good in the exam, then their parents will lose face in front of relatives and friends......

The reason why many children study hard, in essence, is mainly for the face of their parents, and after the college entrance examination, and after graduating from college, when they need to find a job, it is when many children work hard to meet the expectations of their parents and relatives and friends......

Generally speaking, if a person wants to save face, then the object must not be too ugly, in addition, the status should be relatively equal, only in this way can you often meet the expectations of your parents and relatives, and you will not be able to look very ashamed in front of your friends......

Many people, their lives, in the final analysis, are nothing more than a path that has been taken down in order not to lose face......

In fact, such a phenomenon is very, very common and very representative in modern society......

The vast majority of people, they are not actually living for themselves, more often, they are just living under the eyes of others, in order to be able to enjoy the envy and jealousy of other people, they tend to work hard, strive to realize the value of their lives, and strive to find an excellent partner......

A lot of times, they don't know what they need, they just care about what other people want them to be, then they try to do that and try to do it well......

This kind of life, of course, can't be said to be wrong, after all, in this world, in order for one's parents to have face, hard work, work and life is what children should do......

However, compared to the lifestyle of abandoning oneself, the true sense of self-recognition is what everyone should do......

Everyone living in this world has their own unique way of life, their own unique appearance, their own unique body, their own unique way of thinking, and their own unique name......

Everyone is unique, there is no need to imitate anyone, there is no need to envy anyone, as long as you do your best, it is actually enough! (To be continued......)