Li Yan looked at Pan An and looked at Pingping.

Pingping hid in her father's arms, a little scared.

Pan An looked at Li Yan and put Pingping down, "Pingping, go play with Suzi." ”

Pingping stood on the ground, looking up at her father, holding her father's hand with both hands, not wanting to be separated from her father at this time.

Li Yan looked at the relationship between Pingping and Pan An, and completely understood her status in Pingping's eyes.

Li Yan squatted in front of Pingping and looked at Pingping sincerely, "Pingping, you go play with the cat, my father and I won't quarrel, my mother did something sorry for Pingping before, can Pingping forgive my mother?"

Pingping didn't dare to look at her mother's eyes, and looked at her father at this time.

Pan An also squatted down, "Pingping, mom is also for your good, everyone will make mistakes, dad too, but dad and mom are both Pingping's family, is Pingping willing to give mom a chance to correct?"

Pingping looked at her father, then at her mother, and nodded.

Li Yan breathed a sigh of relief, and said gently to Pingping at this time: "Pingping, my mother apologized to Pingping, and now I have to apologize to my father, Pingping should go play with Suzi, okay?"

"Oh......" Pingping ran to the chair next to her, picked up Suko who was sleeping, and ran out again while Suzi was struggling with meow.

When calm returned to the room again, Pan An looked at Li Yan, "I just said that to talk about things early, I know your temperament very well, your tough attitude will only provoke Pingping's disgust, I'm not sure if Pingping will remember what happened when she was a child in the future, but if it is according to your previous practice...... Probably yes. ”

Pan An's words made Li Yan sigh, and then sat on the chair where Pan An often sits, "You talk to me well, can I still listen to you? Don't tell me that you don't have time, and don't say that you only discovered Pingping's talent today." ”

Pan An also sat on the stool on the side and explained: "You won't listen to what you say, you have your things to do before, and Pingping was still young at that time, I also think it is more important to take care of Pingping's body first." ”

Li Yan's self-esteem is actually very strong, and it is not an exaggeration to say that it is a comparison, and her self-esteem is to make her not bow her head and not be worse than others.

Pan An directly shattered Li Yan's self-esteem, and put Pingping's problem directly between the two, not giving Li Yan a chance to get angry.

Only when you recognize your mistakes will you correct them.

A person usually corrects a mistake after discovering it, and many people don't think they have made a mistake.

Pan An just wanted Li Yan to know how much she owed and neglected Pingping, not what Li Yan could do for Pingping.

Li Yan always has an excuse to say that it is for Pingping's good, but Pingping is actually a very cautious child, and she has long held a grudge against Li Yan.

Now I'm just afraid, when I'm older, or after my own talent is valued, this cautious girl will be even more indifferent and indifferent to Li Yan.

Li Yan does not lower her posture, even if Pan An keeps matchmaking, Pingping will look down on Li Yan.

Some people are easy to remember the bad things of others, and Pingping's careful eye is like this.

In the past, Pan An felt that it was unnecessary, but now after discovering Pingping's problems day by day, he realized that Li Yan had to make changes quickly.

Li Yan felt very defeated, and said in a low voice: "The two children are my own children, and they are both closer to you, and I have failed in everything I do......"

"You don't have time to spend with the children, if you are as idle as I am, you will have enough time with them, and you will get to know the two children better. ”

This is a lie, a beautiful lie, human beings are human beings after all, and it is impossible to put all their energy into observing others, but also to have their own lives and time.

This lie is very useful to Li Yan, Li Yan is a little better, "I also understand that I should get along with the children, but there must always be someone in the family to make money, how high is the cost of children now, especially when there is a parent-teacher conference in the future, the teacher asks them, what do your parents do, you can't let them say that your parents are idle at home to eat grandma's, right?"

This is indeed a problem, and Pan An said: "Then say that my father is a scholar, my mother is an entrepreneur, and my grandmother is a financier, so the teacher can't still call to ask about the investigation, right?"

Li Yan felt very funny and glared at Pan An, "You haven't even entered the school gate, so you're embarrassed to say that you are a scholar?"

Pan An smiled and said, "Why is this embarrassing? If anyone thinks that they are better than me, then I will talk to him, I don't believe that I have read fewer books than him!"

Li Yanke didn't care about this, and she had other things to say, "Pingping's matter is my fault, and I didn't expect that I was only two and a half years old and a young child...... That's all."

Li Yan stretched out her hand to compare Pingping's height, looking a little overwhelmed.

Pan An understood Li Yan's feelings very well, and comforted: "It's okay, you also know, now it's a child, you should beat this child, you should scold, I will support you, but you have to talk to her about the previous things first, and you must also explain the reason clearly when beating her." ”

Li Yan hesitated a little, "She doesn't like me very much now, where do I dare to beat her again." ”

"It's okay, when she glared at you before, didn't she just change it when she hit it? Although this child is smarter, she doesn't need to get used to it, if you hit her too much, more times, she can't remember your disadvantages, but you should still be gentle when you should be gentle, and this is true for both children. ”

Pan An gave Li Yan an idea to deal with Pingping at this time, beating children like this, nothing to do, since Li Yan has made a good start, then it is better to continue.

Children who are beaten by their parents are pitiful, but they are only beaten by their mothers, and children who are hurt by their fathers are happier.

Li Yan also thought about the previous beating of Pingping, and was frightened by that kind of look at that time, and when she beat her ass red the next day, and Pingping screamed, the child didn't dare to look at herself like that.

"Is this really okay?" Li Yan didn't understand, why beating a child could make her relationship with Pingping better, shouldn't she be coaxing Pingping in pain?

Pan An explained: "Believe me, yes, children always have deep memories of special things, and they forget it after many times, for example, she can't remember things about eating, and she won't remember things about playing with Suzi, but if you give Anping delicious food, she will remember it very well." ”

"I haven't done anything like that!" Li Yan glanced at Pan An, no matter how partial, she wouldn't lose the money and not buy food for Xiao Pingping.

Pan An said with a smile: "For example, it's the same thing about being beaten, unless it's a particularly powerful time, or a special weapon is used, most of them don't remember." ”

Li Yan was much relieved when she heard Pan An's assurance, this husband is very reliable in all aspects, but he doesn't work too hard.

"Well, then I'll talk to Pingping well, how do you think we should raise the two children?" Li Yan asked Pan An's opinion this time, instead of making the decision as soon as her brain was hot.

Pan An had already made a decision, and when he saw Li Yan asking himself, he said: "Anping will learn Go for a few years first, and then go to participate in sports and other training when she is in the third or fourth grade of primary school, Pingping will not learn dance and painting, her personality is very problematic, and our family is not short of money, so let her go to learn music." ”

"Music ......" Li Yan thought for a while, and said hesitantly: "None of our relatives on either side do this, and they don't know this, how can we teach Pingping? And Pingping's ability to draw is ......."

"It's not a good thing to have talent, believe me, Pingping just likes to paint, this is okay as a hobby, there is no need for us to help her cultivate this interest, for the sake of her future, let her learn music. ”

Li Yan looked at Pan An, and finally nodded, "Okay, I'll listen to you." ”

Pan An saw that the matter was settled, so he stood up and said, "After saying so much, is it okay to give a reward?"

Li Yan looked at Pan An with a smile, "What reward do you want?"

"I want to see the babes. Pan An said what was in his heart, he was going to go on a trip in two days, and Pan An really wanted to see the hot girls.

"Don't talk about it! Let's take care of your wife and children first!" Li Yan stood up, regained her true character as a strong woman again, and walked upstairs calmly and strongly, without looking at Pan An next to her.

Pan An reluctantly walked to the kitchen and continued to be his housewife.