Chapter Two Thousand and Four
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In modern society, many people have been exposed to all kinds of chicken soup for the soul since childhood......
These chicken soups for the soul often have a great motivational effect......
Many people always try to find the trajectory of those successful people from these chicken soup for the soul, and try to summarize the so-called success learning......
However, in reality, this is not of much use......
All the so-called chicken soup for the soul, the so-called successology, in essence, are actually meaningless things......
The success of an individual is itself caused by many factors, and in many cases, success itself is something that cannot be replicated!
Because what really determines whether a person can succeed or not, many times, is not based on a person's status, wealth, background, or what level of education he has received, many times whether he is successful or not just depends on the individual!
To put it simply, if 10,000 people do the same thing, 10,000 people may fail, but only this one person will succeed!
In the real world, the result is always more important than the process!
Many people always try to replicate the success process of those who succeed, but in fact, in many cases, this success itself is not replicable!
Many people will always say that as long as you put in the effort, you will definitely get something in the end......
Of course, this sentence is not completely unreasonable, but it is not absolute!
The vast majority of successful people have put in 100% effort, but those who work hard do not necessarily succeed!
A strong person does not necessarily become a winner, and a winner must be a strong person!
Putting in the effort, more often than not, just gives people more possibilities to get closer to success!
But that doesn't mean hard work will lead to success!
Many people always have some naΓ―ve illusions at a very young age, thinking that if they work hard enough, they can get what they want, but in reality, hard work is only a small part of success!
The most important element is to build on the right direction!
Only when the direction is right, the effort itself will be meaningful, otherwise, no matter how much effort you make, it will only be the opposite of the opposite!
Just like in the world of science, the emergence of any kind of theorem must be a conjecture from scientists at the beginning, and it takes a lot of time and effort to prove a conjecture itself......
And this premise itself is based on the fact that the conjecture is correct, and if the conjecture itself is correct, then as long as enough time and effort are spent, the conjecture will eventually be proven by people in a short period of time!
On the other hand, if the wrong assumptions are made at the beginning, and the wrong conjectures are made, then all efforts aimed at such conjectures will become meaningless, because the direction itself is wrong, and no amount of effort will be in vain!
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Of course, there is a certain truth in diligence, but the premise of diligence must be based on the right direction!
If you go in the wrong direction from the beginning, then no matter how hard you try, there will be no point in it!
Just like for a student who is not good at learning, no matter how hard he tries to study, no matter what kind of educational methods he uses, no matter what kind of educational courses he is arranged, it will inevitably be half the effort, and it may even be ineffective......
In fact, no matter what kind of school it is, there are this type of students, they study the hardest, but their grades are always below average, and if there is no problem with attitude, this kind of problem can only mean that it is a problem at the level of ability!
In the final analysis, it is actually a lack of learning ability!
In fact, this type of students is precisely the most headache for teachers, for experienced teachers, they know very well that this type of students, no matter how much effort they put in, it is difficult to really improve their grades, because their attitude has been the best, and their academic performance is not good, it is just a simple sense of ability, this kind of problem, in a sense, can be said to be completely unsolvable!
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On the contrary, those students who like to play games, or other reasons that lead to poor academic performance, this type of students, in fact, has more room for improvement, as long as the child is smart enough, even if the grades are not good, as long as they change their attitude, they will immediately make a big leap......
In a sense, the so-called learning ability is actually a general direction, and people who have reached a certain level of learning ability can naturally get good results after studying hard and enter a higher level of study......
Students with stronger learning ability need less effort, while students with weaker learning ability need more effort, and for students who do not have learning ability, no matter how much effort they put in, it is impossible for them to meet the standard of further learning......
The actual process of going on to higher education is actually a natural screening process for students in the education system, students with sufficient learning ability or sufficient effort can naturally enter a higher level of school to study, and the higher the level of the school, the higher the requirements for the student's learning ability and effort after graduation, especially the standard of learning ability, the more in the institution of higher learning, the higher the importance!
To put it simply, learning ability determines the upper limit of what a student can achieve!
Why do some good students in junior high school drop their grades rapidly after entering high school? Many parents may not understand the reason for this, and feel that they have not abandoned their studies, but their academic performance naturally becomes difficult to maintain, and the reason is actually very simple, it is nothing more than a lack of learning ability!
Any study, in essence, is based on understanding, only to be able to understand the relevant knowledge, can be slowly mastered through water grinding work, and learning ability is largely determined by a person's ability to understand, and if the understanding itself is difficult, then no amount of effort and diligence is enough to solve the problem......
Students' promotion to higher education is such a natural process of screening students, through continuous entrance examinations, what the school needs to screen, in fact, is not the knowledge level of the students themselves, but the students' learning ability and adaptability!
The stronger the learning ability, the stronger the comprehension ability, and the faster the learning ability, the more likely such students are to be favored!
Just like in modern society, why college students' diplomas can play a vital role in job hunting, the fundamental reason is actually this, the vast majority of college students, when employed, will not actually match their majors, from the perspective of work experience, they are not fundamentally different from people with high school degrees!
But why those companies are still keen to admit college students, the reason is very simple, because they value the learning ability and adaptability of college students, professional ability, can be cultivated through the day after tomorrow, but the ability to learn and adapt, but the cost and efficiency of training can be largely determined, from this point of view, the potential of college students is better than that of high school students or college students......
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In a sense, people who are better at learning will always be able to gain more advantages than ordinary people with the same amount of effort......
This is actually the so-called right direction!
Everyone is good at doing or not good at doing, learning is not the only way out, if a person chooses what they are good at, in fact, it is to choose the right direction, in the right direction to make efforts, naturally it is easier to achieve......
On the other hand, if the direction itself is wrong, then no amount of effort becomes meaningless!
In the same way, the same is true for martial arts!
Although in martial arts training, diligence is a very important element!
But in fact, every aspect is also very, very, very important in addition to diligence!
The world of martial arts is itself a consequential world!
Martial arts itself is an ability with combat and killing at its core, the strong enjoy the aura of everything, and the weak have nothing......
And this is the fundamental reason why the martial arts world is polarized!
Powerful martial artists often have the best and most complete inheritance, and at the same time have the best martial arts talent inherited from their parents and elders, and they have no worries about food and clothing since childhood, under this premise, their martial arts growth speed will be much faster than that of ordinary people, because in the process of cultivation, they almost do not need to worry about their detours, even if they encounter all kinds of troubles and troubles, they can often be answered in the first time......
Such a person can naturally be regarded as a figure like the pride of the sky, and on the contrary, ordinary martial artists, the initial reason for practicing martial arts is usually simply because of poverty, and it is difficult to get in touch with the inherited martial arts circle in the real sense, and it is often difficult to get the true inheritance, and generally after mastering some martial arts, it is easy to give up continuing the path of martial arts because of the improvement of life, and turn to work such as bodyguards and security guards, and live a relatively stable and not so hard life, and if it is a martial artist who pursues exciting pleasures, Or they will simply join various underworld organizations, become a thug or even a killer among them, and live a life of drunkenness and dreams......
However, when they give up the path of martial arts and integrate into the lives of ordinary people, these warriors are destined to become mediocre and destined to become obscure, even if they have more powerful force than ordinary people, but their choices make them unable to really see the scenery of the peak of martial arts, but become ordinary passers-by, in fact, this is also the martial arts in the eyes of the vast majority of ordinary people......
Ordinary people should be security guards, bullish people should be security guards, and stable people should open martial arts gyms, such people don't have much sense of existence in society, and no one will envy such martial artists, let alone too many people want to live such a life......
When time passes, they gradually become ordinary ordinary people who can no longer be ordinary, their skills are reduced, they are aging, and then they experience birth, old age, sickness and death like ordinary people......
However, unlike these warriors who have gradually become ordinary people, those warriors who have received the inheritance of the most orthodox martial artists since childhood have the opportunity to become strong in the true sense of the word in addition to experiencing a certain amount of dormancy and experience!
Yes, the strong in the truest sense of the word!