Dragon Slayer.

Wang Yu is not incapable of making mistakes, but his biggest advantage is that as long as he realizes the mistakes he has made, he will reflect on them as soon as possible......

And this is also a quality that many people do not have......

Many people, whether they are teenagers or adults, tend to have a more or less unwillingness to admit their mistakes, especially when there is no serious result, they are often more enthusiastic about shirking responsibility rather than taking the initiative to take responsibility for the mistakes they have made......

And in many cases, some tragedies and mistakes that could have been avoided often lead to catastrophe because of this mentality......

In the final analysis, this is also a common problem for many people, after making a mistake, often the first thing they want is not how to face it, but choose to escape for the first time, they don't know how to face it, so they don't face it, and even more, they like to use strong words, trying to cover up the mistakes they have made, or attributing their mistakes to other people's heads......

In fact, from a certain point of view, this is also a defect in the mentality, many times, a person can not become a successful person, often the most important thing to look at is whether a person's heart is strong enough, knowing mistakes can recognize mistakes can be corrected, this is the most basic element of why many people can achieve success!

Even if it is not a question of life, purely from the perspective of games, why are some people who are also players only need a short time to be able to play a game and reach a high level. Others, on the other hand, tend to reach a certain level and then simply stop. Improvements cannot be obtained in any way......

Actually, if you want to find out the reason. It's often very simple, because the former will always look for problems in themselves, while the latter will always look for problems in others, and people who are looking for problems in themselves, after every game, no matter whether they win or lose, they will always be able to find the shortcomings in themselves and make up for them, they will feel. I lost the game, not because of anything else, but simply because I wasn't strong enough......

Even if they have played well enough, even if they have penetrated their opponents, even if they lose the game because their teammates have been broken by the enemy, they will still feel that the reason why their teammates have been blown up is because their support is not timely enough, and the reason why their side has lost the game has little to do with other people. It's just that I didn't give full play to my strength, and I failed simply because I wasn't strong enough. That's all!

On the other hand, people who look for problems in others are always able to find all kinds of excuses to prove that their performance and performance in the game are no problem, and the reason why they fail is only because of the incompetence and weakness of their teammates, which is why it is always difficult for them to really improve their level, and they will always stand still......

Many people always feel that in the game, command is a more important part than personal skills, and the command ability to have a good overall view and insight into the battle situation is often easy to lead teammates to victory......

Because of this, some people often feel that their command ability and overall view are not said, but they often lose the game because their teammates do not listen to the command......

However, in the final analysis, the reason for this situation is essentially because the player himself is not strong enough......

It is true that in the passerby game, it is not easy to want teammates to listen to the command, but if you are strong enough, then under normal circumstances, the passerby teammates in the game will be willing to accept the command more often, and when a player successfully commands a few beautiful team battles in the game, then the command will often be determined, and there will not be too many doubts......

The reason why many people are reluctant to obey the command is not for any other reason, but simply because he feels that the command of the conductor is not convincing enough......

Just like the same propaganda, a sexy beauty and a lewd otaku will inevitably have a completely different publicity effect......

It is always easier for people to trust some powerful beings, and there is a lack of trust for some people who are not strong enough......

Logically, it's actually quite simple......

For an ordinary person, the reason why they trust the strong more is because the powerful person is too far away from them, so there will be no intention to deceive them, and it is impossible to deceive them, and on the contrary, the words of the person who is not strong enough are often easy for people to question, especially for the other party's purpose, because the other party is not strong enough, so the two sides are easy to have entanglements in interests......

Just like a property dispute between two ordinary people, if you let the third ordinary person make a judgment, it must be difficult to convince the public, because the losing party will always more or less doubt whether the winning party is suspected of bribing law enforcers, and if you let a richer and richer tycoon make a judgment, then it can often be convincing to both sides, in the final analysis, it is nothing more than because for a real tycoon, it will not and cannot covet the property of both parties. The more you are able to gain the trust and recognition of both parties......

This point, just like a celebrity with a good reputation and good character, if he does charity, he will often follow the same reason, and on the contrary, if an ordinary person wants to do what to raise money under the banner of charity, then it will most likely be considered a means of fraud......

In the final analysis, whether it is in the game or in reality, it is often hard power to speak, and if the strength is strong enough, then it will naturally have the right to speak, and on the contrary, if the strength is not enough, even if there are thousands of strategies in the chest, in the final analysis, it is just talk on paper, and no one will pay attention to it at all......

The game is so. The same is true of being human......

The reason why a lot of people are doing nothing. Essentially, for this reason. They will always look at other people, and they will not think about what mistakes they have made, but will always focus on what other people have made......

He is always very tolerant of the mistakes he makes, but he is careful about the mistakes of others and holds on to them......

The so-called leniency towards oneself is such a kind of person as strict as the law......

However. Wang Yu is the opposite......

He will always be strict with himself and lenient with others......

No matter what it is, he will always think about what he can do better and more perfectly, and rarely pay attention to other people's behavior, and rarely shift the responsibility to others......

His idea is actually very simple, everyone only needs to do what they should do, in fact, it is enough, as for other people's affairs, only other people need to care. It's enough to deal with it yourself......

No one is obligated to tell others what they should do. Nor is it obligated to correct other people's misconceptions......

Wang Yu's tolerance for others is actually not a kind of tolerance in a simple sense, but a kind of indifference......

It's like the university's tolerance for college students......

Everyone knows that compared with high school, the living environment and learning environment of the university are actually a very relaxed state, but this relaxed state has also shaped a large number of college students to have nothing to do in the university, linger in the Internet café every day, and when taking exams, they rely more on cheating means to get a pass......

In a certain sense, universities are indeed tolerant enough for college students, but this tolerance itself is actually a test of college students' self-control......

This is also the biggest exam that the university gives college students to enter the society......

It can be said that this state of life in the university is, in a sense, a kind of transition from the campus to the society......

What is the biggest difference between campus and society?

That is, there are all kinds of rules and regulations on campus, and the rules and systems of society are only laws!

Compared with the campus system, the rules and regulations in the society are undoubtedly much broader, when students are in school, they are always forced to learn all kinds of things, forced to go to school every day, forced to go to class every day, forced to complete homework every day, it can be said that a student's success is often under the establishment of various rules and regulations......

In this process, students are actually very few places that can be autonomous, and most of the time, what they need is to study hard, and other people's things are actually not in their scope of consideration!

Especially in the three years of high school, study is the most important kind of work for the vast majority of students, and the college entrance examination will determine the fate of many people, which is why students before the college entrance examination, in fact, their studies are not purely for themselves, but for many people who care about them......

However, after leaving the campus and entering the society, the situation is completely different......

In society, there is no so-called restriction, people can do anything that is not illegal, and even, if they think about the consequences, even if it is illegal, it is not impossible to do it......

The existence of the university is actually a bridge between the campus and the society......

In college, no one cares how a college student spends his or her college career, college students are very free, they can even skip a class that the teacher does not name, as long as they can pass the exam, then they will not be held accountable......

In fact, this is also a microcosm of society, in which people's behavior is hardly subject to any constraints, and in universities, students' learning conditions are almost unrestricted......

And this is a kind of test similar to the big waves......

Different people, at this stage, will take on completely different postures to ......

Some students will study hard even when they are not supervised, and even if they don't need to get a high score, they still hope that they can get a high score on the exam. By the way, earn scholarships awarded for study......

There are also students who are trying to expand their social circles at the beginning of their careers at university. Try to make a lot of different friends. Strive to join the student union, strive to join the party, and improve your competitiveness after entering the society......

In addition, the vast majority of college students tend to be more enthusiastic about Internet cafes and various online games during their college years, and then every time it is time for an exam, such college students will begin to cram. Try to pass the guò short period of surprise efforts, pass the exams of each subject, the score is not high, just pass......

It can be said that during the university period, different people's cognition of scores, learning, and future will be very clearly presented......

Without the strict campus rules of high school, the vast majority of college students will present their true nature in college. Where there is hard work, there are naturally lazy people. There are those who are full of ambition, and there are naturally those who are content with pleasure......

In a way, this is the most authentic embodiment of the state of these college students before they enter society......

People in school always hope that they can be free one day and live freely like adults, while people who really enter the society often miss the simple and beautiful campus life and carefree days......

At the end of the day, it's nothing more than asking for it......

The tolerance of the university, in essence, is actually a kind of indifference, this indifference, itself is a test, itself is a kind of trial, the behavior of college students during the university, is the answer they give in this exam, whether it is serious study, expansion of social networking, or greedy for fun, in fact, a large extent, it will determine the state that college students will present after graduating from college, because this is a kind of university prophecy for society......

In this sense, the university is also cruel......

People are always like this, when other people tell them how to do it, they often don't lose their way, just like before high school, what students need to do is just to copy the calligraphy and painting of those famous masters, once they have a direction, students will naturally know how to do it, but if no one tells them how to do it, people are easy to fall into a kind of lost, so it is difficult to really do the right behavior. It's like how college students behave in college......

Should you study hard to get high grades as before, or should you lay the foundation for yourself to enter the society and make friends, or should you live 60 years and have fun in time?

Many college students can't really come to a standard conclusion about this issue, and there is only one thing that can be determined......

That is, no matter what choice you make, after graduating from college, you must pay for the choices you make......

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Dragon Slayer.

From Wang Yu's point of view, he will never interfere too much with other people's choices......

The reason is very simple, for Wang Yu, no matter what choice other people make, it is their own business, and he has no obligation to correct other people's ideas, nor is he obliged to protect the interests of others......

Whether other people's actions are right or wrong will eventually be proven by time......

Those who are willing to accept their own construction will naturally be willing to accept it, but if they are not willing to accept their own construction, then they will not accept it anyway, and Wang Yu will not spend any more lip and tongue......

People always need to pay for their ideas and practices, and Wang Yu will not do something thankless......

He only needs to be responsible for his every action, but he will never pay for the mistakes of others, and he will not be like those who like to stand on the moral high ground, swearing to swear that you are not doing right, you are doing wrong, how should you ......

In fact, Wang Yu himself hates such a person the most......

Many times, many people are disgusted for this reason......

Some people always like to impose their ideas on other people, and as soon as the other person refutes it at all, it will immediately become hysterical, as if the other person does not follow his advice, which is the biggest mistake in the world......

It's like a guy who always likes to forcibly snatch other people's cigarette butts in public places, saying that it is for the good of others, but in fact it is a very disgusting guy......

Many things, many people's intentions may be good, but they often have a negative impact on people, in essence, it is nothing more than a problem of methods and methods......

In his opinion, when others make mistakes, they naturally need others to bear the consequences, and there is no need for them to be angry or annoyed by others' mistakes......

The only thing he needs to pay attention to is himself!

Yes, it's just yourself! (To be continued......)