Temple of Stone.

A lot of people have such a concept......

They feel that setbacks and blows are the source of motivation for human growth......

In reality, however, this is not the case......

Such a conclusion is actually biased......

It's like the saying that failure is the mother of success......

From the perspective of the successful, it is naturally an extremely correct conclusion......

However, if you look at it from the perspective of the loser, the situation is completely different......

The number of losers is far greater than that of the winners, and even completely disproportionate......

To educate the vast majority of people with a truth that holds only for a few is a mistake in itself......

In fact, when you fail, you should retreat bravely even if you are in the rapids and stop your losses in time, which is the truth that most ordinary people should understand......

The relationship between negative emotions and positive emotions is certainly transformable......

However, if you want to turn negative emotions into positive ones......

It's not very, very easy......

And to do that, there are two basic elements!

In fact, the vast majority of people have such things as emotional intelligence and IQ......

In a smooth and peaceful environment and mentality, the IQ and EQ of the vast majority of people will not be too low, just like when playing a game, in a tailwind situation, basically every player has played their true level, and can even play a game level far beyond their own or even level......

In the final analysis, it is nothing more than because the situation is smooth, people's mood is relaxed, and there are no worries, people's thinking and judgment ability will be improved to a certain extent......

And if it is a close match, the vast majority of players are often able to play their normal game level and get a well-deserved victory or a well-deserved defeat......

Only when the headwind is in the game, the player's level is the most difficult to be played, and the huge disadvantage of the situation makes any original correct choice, which will eventually get the wrong result, poor communication between teammates, or abuse, will greatly affect the mood of the vast majority of ordinary players, thus making it more difficult for a player to exert his strength when his original strength is insufficient......

Under the headwind, what really determines the player's performance is not the player's game level, but the player's mental will!

Yes, the will of the spirit!

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It's like that famous barrel theory......

The basis for determining the capacity of a barrel is, in the final analysis, the shortest part of a barrel to be constructed!

In a smooth battle, the player's spirit will not be pressured, and it will naturally not affect the player's game level, but once the game enters the rhythm of the headwind, the player's mental will will become the shortcoming of many players' game level......

And the so-called adversity quotient, in the final analysis, is a kind of wisdom that people have in the face of adversity and adversity!

Compared with the so-called IQ and EQ in good times, EQ in adversity is often more important in adversity!

When ordinary people face difficulties, they will affect their judgment and reason to a greater or lesser extent......

Especially in the face of negative emotions such as fear and despair, many people will even completely lose their minds, and such a person, maybe when they have a successful career and a happy family, will be a successful person, but once they enter adversity, they may even lose the most basic thinking ability, and completely lack the ability to cope!

And some people, in the face of slight adversity and predicament, will have diametrically opposite mental conditions, they will have a little excitement because of predicament and adversity, and these excitement will make them more wise and rational in adversity, they can make more wise judgments and choices in this situation, so as to get themselves out of adversity and predicament......

And this part of the people, in fact, is a typical person with adversity EQ and adversity IQ type, such a person, may be just an ordinary person in good times, but once in adversity and desperate situations, they may often burst out more outstanding than usual!

In fact, in reality, the vast majority of successful people have different levels of adverse quotients......

The reason is very simple, in this world, there are almost no smooth successes, if you want to experience success, you are bound to experience all kinds of troubles and difficulties, and even in a desperate situation of life and death, for these successful people, it is not an impossible thing!

And people who can overcome these predicaments and finally achieve success must have a strong enough adversity EQ and adversity IQ to be able to really do this!

In fact, this is also the biggest difference between professional gamers and ordinary players, ordinary players are often prone to polarization in the face of adversity, one is the extremely pessimistic type, they feel that as long as the battle situation falls into a situation that is unfavorable to their side, they basically have nothing to play next, and they want to encourage their teammates to give up the game at every turn, or play the game with an extremely negative attitude to the game......

On the other hand, they are extremely optimistic, no matter how bad the battle situation is, they will try to pursue the so-called theoretical possibility of victory, and sometimes, under the premise that the battle situation has been clear that there is no chance of winning, they will also blame those teammates who give up the battle rationally, feeling that it is an act of disrespect for the game, and finally try hard or lose, exhausted......

In the end, it's nothing more than going from one extreme to the other......

The biggest advantage of professional gamers is that they have a very high ability to resist adversity and pressure, no matter how unfavorable the battle situation is, it will hardly affect their game level, and even when the battle situation is unfavorable, their performance level will be improved......

In addition, their professional game level can often help them clearly judge what the situation is, and they will clearly know that under the current situation, whether there is a theoretical turnaround point on their side, whether the opponent's advantage is a real advantage or a false advantage, and what are their chances of winning? They will not blindly start an unnecessary group leader in a disadvantaged situation, but when they need to make a desperate bet, even if they make an act that is close to death, they will not hesitate at all!

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However, the vast majority of successful people, although they have a certain degree of reverse quotient, but among the successful people in this part, there are only a few people who can be regarded as outstanding in the real sense of the reverse quotient!

In fact, don't say that they are successful and superior, even if they are just ordinary people, they will actually have a certain amount of adverse quotient, and they can always deal with some small troubles very easily and happily......

And there is a limit to such a thing as reverse business!

The higher the adversity quotient, the deeper the adversity is able to maintain a high degree of sanity and thinking ability......

In fact, adversity itself is the best grind for a person!

The premise is that this person can maintain his adversity quotient in the face of adversity!

Compared with a peaceful life, people in the face of adversity can often achieve a faster growth rate......

Just like a young man living in a modern society with a well-to-do family, if he lives in the city, it may take a long time to become truly independent, but if he throws this young man into the army, basically, one year is enough for this young man to be reborn......

The life of the army, for young people living in modern cities, is actually a kind of adversity that is not big or small!

The saying that the army is a melting pot is not in vain after all......

In the final analysis, the so-called growth in adversity is, in essence, the same principle as human beings fighting against viruses......

Whether you can grow in the face of adversity, the most fundamental element is, in the final analysis, nothing more than the negative emotions brought about by adversity, which must be transformed or endured by adversity!

If a person is tolerant of adversity and can resist the negative emotions brought about by adversity, and transform this emotion into positive emotions, then adversity can quickly bring growth......

In the same way, the virus and antibodies are essentially the same, through the invasion of a small number of viruses, the human body produces antibodies to expel the virus, and finally because the body itself has antibodies, even if the number of viruses is huge, it will not be able to threaten the human body, so as to produce the effect of complete immunity to the virus, in the final analysis, it is actually a way to use the power of adversity to hone itself!

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From viruses, to antibodies, from harmful, to beneficial......

This process, in a sense, is a kind of transformation from adversity to prosperity......

It is the body's natural ability to fight natural viruses......

However, this ability is not inherently unlimited......

If the virus is strong enough to break the body's immunity at once, or if the antibodies produced by the body are not strong enough and not sufficient to expel the virus, then the virus will make humans sick or even die in a short period of time......

Whether or not a negative environmental tempering can be converted into a positive effect depends on many factors......

To simply say that failure is the mother of success is itself a biased approach!

It's like sports can make people healthy......

However, if a patient is born with asthma or serious heart disease, they will never be able to become healthy through sports, because it will only make their already bad body worse, and that's it!

In the same way, the training of special forces can make soldiers strong and elite......

However, if the training of special forces is used on the body of ordinary otaku, it only takes a few days, which is enough for an otaku to die alive on the training ground!

In the same way, it is the same for "You Yue"!

(To be continued.) )