Dragon Slayer.

Wang Yu likes to fight, although he is not as fanatical as many battle maniacs, but there is no doubt that he knows very well that he has a heartfelt love for fighting......

Although this kind of liking is not very profound for Cheng Dù, for Wang Yu, it can be regarded as something that he is rarely interested in......

Although he is not a battle maniac, he genuinely loves the satisfaction of fighting each other, especially when he realizes his talent for fighting, which becomes very real......

No one wants to be a weakling, and no one will do the work they are not good at, the vast majority of people, the reason why they will engage in a certain kind of work, in fact, the most fundamental reason is because this person often has a certain talent for doing this, and people with talent are often easy to produce the initial sense of superiority, and the generation of superiority is often the biggest basis for a person to like to do something......

This kind of truth, in fact, is not a very complicated thing, just like some people get married, it must be because the object has the absolute advantage of attracting themselves, on this basis, there will be marriage, but after marriage, there are often all kinds of problems are exposed, in this case, whether two people will choose to divorce, the most fundamental point, in fact, is to look at the confrontation between the initial advantages of each other and the various shortcomings found after marriage, if the advantages are still absolute, Then it is not easy to get divorced. And if the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. Then it will be easy to have conflicts and then divorce......

When people are in a relationship. Always subconsciously cover up their shortcomings, and highlight their own advantages, always subconsciously with the so-called perfect mask to try to leave the best impression on the other party, many people have a concept, that is, once the raw rice is cooked and cooked, then they expose some shortcomings, it is not so important, after all, people have been together for a long time. It will also naturally produce feelings, and this feeling itself can offset the negative impact of some of the shortcomings......

This practice, in essence, is like the story of Beauty and the Beast, when the Beast meets a beautiful woman, he always shows part of his body to the beauty, and in this way, he makes the other party accept himself little by little, and uses the feelings generated by both parties little by little. to offset the flaws in their appearance......

This is like online dating. Many people may go on a blind date in reality, and they will part ways when they see each other, but if there is a foundation for online dating, then as long as they are not too much to see the light and die, the vast majority of them will become more tolerant of each other's appearance, especially those who have been dating online for a period of time, and they will not care too much about each other's appearance......

However, whether it is to exaggerate one's own strengths or one's shortcomings too much, it is not advisable to do so in a certain way......

Many times, people always prefer to find self-confidence in their superior fields, always like to maximize their own points, and always try to show their most perfect side in front of the opposite sex......

However, many people will always subconsciously ignore the necessity of showing their truest side, too much pursuit of camouflage, too perfect packaging of themselves, once the East Window incident, then it is destined to produce all kinds of cups......

In the final analysis, many modern people's marriages fail, the most fundamental reason is that they hide and disguise themselves too well, their weaknesses and shortcomings, are too whitewashed, so when these shortcomings are exposed little by little, it will naturally lead to the cup of marriage, so people still have to be the most true self, if you change yourself for others, then you have to change for a lifetime, if you can't change yourself for a long time for others, Then it's best not to change it at the beginning, otherwise, there will be no good results in the end......

In a certain way, if a person likes something, it is best to show it in front of the opposite sex as soon as possible, and if the other party can't accept it, then he can simply end such a relationship early, while some people always like to hide what the other party dislikes, trying to get the other party to counteract this disgust, which is actually a very stupid practice......

Just like the problem of the virginity complex, if a man has a relatively strong virginity complex, then it is best not to try to hit the man's attention, because such a man, even if he conceals it for a while and marries the other party, as long as the truth is finally learned, the result will be mostly a tragedy, for women, if a man has such a willful tendency, and has such a willful capital, then any cover-up is meaningless and will eventually be hurt, It's only going to be the women themselves, and this kind of thing, no matter what kind of verbal criticism it is, is meaningless......

Of course, that's a big deal......

To put it bluntly, people choose to work as if they were looking for a partner......

The original reason, in essence, is nothing more than having a certain degree of talent in a certain aspect, and in terms of career choice, a profession with a certain degree of talent is often more likely to be favored by this person, and in terms of finding a partner, a person must be more willing to find some partners who worship a certain talent of their own, just like a writer looking for someone who likes literature, a musician looking for someone who likes music, and an artist who looks for someone who likes art......

This kind of marriage and love is often far more stable than the vast majority of love in the ordinary sense, even if some artists, scientists, and writers have more or less quirks that ordinary people do not have, but for admirers, they often don't care too much about these, for their idols. The vast majority of people. will be tolerant and understanding enough. That is because of this, so this kind of love, a certain kind of Cheng dù, will become very long-lasting......

Only when a person is considered to have a talent that ordinary people do not possess at the beginning of engaging in a matter will this person have a certain sense of superiority, and then develop a certain interest and favor for this matter, and eventually change from passive to active. From the so-called "I want to learn" to "I want to learn......

And this kind of transformation will greatly affect a person's upbringing......

In the final analysis, they just don't want their children to lose at the starting line, but they don't realize that for children, it is often more important to cultivate their sense of superiority in a certain field than cramming education. Because the sense of superiority itself is the driving force for a person to move forward......

In fact, almost every student should be deeply aware of this. There is a very common phenomenon in school, but if a student's performance in a certain course is relatively bad, then the student will be afraid of this course like a snake and scorpion, every minute and every second of the class, for this student will be tormented, for fear of being named by the teacher to answer the question, and he can't answer it, he will feel very embarrassed, and in class, it is often not easy to listen, just force himself to concentrate on learning, but in the real sense of this learning efficiency, But it is very low, in the class that they are not good at, students often feel as difficult as sitting on pins and needles, and feel that time always passes very slowly, as if they feel that a long time has passed, and they only have a few minutes when they look at their watches......

On the contrary, if a student's grades in a certain course are very good, then the student will show a very relaxed and positive situation when taking this course, they are eager to be named by the teacher to answer the question, or go to the blackboard to report the topic, for them, there is such an opportunity, itself is a kind of show off rather than embarrassment, in the classroom, they are often the most active part of the learning people, and in the subjects they are good at, these students in the process of learning, Students tend to be very active, and often preview the lessons well in advance of the class, so students often feel that time flies quickly in the class, and they haven't enjoyed the class much, and the class is over......

In fact, in the education world, the difference between a smart teacher and a rookie teacher is actually here......

Why do you say that, smart teachers, will always create a relatively relaxed atmosphere in the classroom, they will not deliberately point to some students who obviously can't answer the questions to answer the questions, that will only exacerbate the students' nervousness, more often, they are more willing to push the boat to let the students who can answer the questions make the correct answers, in a relatively relaxed classroom atmosphere, students will always feel that time flies quickly, as if in the blink of an eye, the class bell rings, It may even feel like you can't get enough of it......

On the contrary, the biggest problem for those rookie teachers is that they can't grasp the rhythm and scale of the class, or in order to catch up with the progress of the course, they blindly seek speed, which is completely inconsistent with the relevant interaction of students......

Either in order to show their authority, they always find some students with poor grades to answer questions in the question session, and then bring a sense of tension and humiliation to the students, and make the classroom atmosphere very strict, which can certainly strengthen the concentration of students for a period of time, but at the same time, it will also make the students' spirit too nervous, difficult to relax, and reduce the overall learning efficiency......

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Dragon Slayer.

In fact, in the classroom, good students are always more likely to be treated preferentially by teachers, that is, because of this, good students often put more effort into the subjects they are good at, in order to ensure that their dominant position in this subject is not shaken, and on the contrary, for the subjects they are not good at, the vast majority of students will use a kind of similar to a broken stick to look at it too much, and this is often one of the main reasons for the vast majority of scientific students......

In fact, the partial branch is from a certain kind of Cheng dù. Not a bad thing. Because the vast majority of students are partial to the subject. Grades tend to be very polarizing, for example, people who can always get close to perfect marks in science, but who are barely able to pass in liberal arts, are a very normal type in various schools......

The key is to see how a person approaches the subject they are biased in......

This is actually the biggest difference between Eastern and Western education......

Oriental education, the pursuit of all-rounders, so once you encounter a partial subject, then for this student. The only way to do this is to try as much as possible to make their partial subjects less biased, whether parents or teachers, all they care about is the score, they want their children and students to improve the problem of partial subjects, and put their energy into the subjects that they are not good at, so that the grades become better, in fact, compared to those students with average grades. Students who deviate from the subject tend to be much easier to improve......

Westerners' education, on the other hand, is completely different. For them, they will only make what they are good at become better, their basic education, in fact, is very simple, simple beyond the imagination of the vast majority of ordinary people, but their education outside the basic education, but there is no upper limit, if their ability can allow, a very small number of them, perhaps in junior high school, will be exposed to the knowledge of advanced mathematics, at a very young age, will be exposed to some areas of very high-end things, At a very young age, he was able to publish a variety of heavyweight papers......

For them, as long as they have a subject that they are really interested in and talented, they will ignore other subjects and delve into those things that they are good at and interested in, as for other subjects, as long as they meet a very low passing standard, it is enough for them......

In fact, the education of Westerners has never paid attention to cultivating all-rounders, for them, every industry and every field, is the king of professionalism, they rarely do work outside their major, even if it is not complicated work such as repairing light bulbs or connecting toilets, they rarely do it themselves, more often they ask professionals to help......

This can be said to be two completely different extremes from almost all kinds of water, electricity, gas, and household appliance repairs that Oriental men are involved in......

And it is the direct difference between these two types of education that makes the achievements of the East and the West very different......

In the process of learning, Oriental students are always forced to put their energy on what they are not interested in, thus wasting a lot of the most valuable learning time, so that when others have begun to study, they are still just an ordinary student, and many things learned in school, in fact, after really entering the society, can be said to be almost completely useless, students get in school, in fact, is not useful knowledge, more just a learning experience, What you have mastered is just a learning strategy in the simple sense......

The achievements of Westerners are often reflected in various fields, and many of them may need to use a computer to calculate the answer even for the simplest payment of change, but they are often much better than Orientals in their respective professional fields, which can be seen from the issuance of the Nobel Prize......

In fact, this is where the source of the theory of the uselessness of reading comes in......

Of course, reading books is not useless, but what is really useless is to waste time on subjects that are almost impossible to use in the future that you are not interested in......

No matter what kind of subject it is, as long as students are interested in it, then it is worth learning, even if it is a subject that they will never use after entering the society in the future......

And if it is a subject that will not only be unused in the future, but even the students themselves are not interested, then such a subject is a waste of time in the pure sense for students, and such a vegetarian education is itself a kind of putting the cart before the horse......

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Dragon Slayer.

Wang Yu's student days were relatively smooth, although his grades were not very good. But there is no obvious deviation. Science is slightly better than liberal arts. They don't have any special favorite subjects, but they don't have any particularly hateful courses......

The grades have always been above average, and there are very few times when they are out of the middle or out of the charts......

Because of this, he will neither become a positive or negative teaching material in the teacher's mouth......

Before entering the illusory world, Wang Yu had always been an ordinary person, and it was not that he couldn't show some of his extraordinary side, but he didn't want to do it. In some courses, it is not difficult for him to improve his grades if he works a little harder, but he is always more content with the status quo......

It can be said that before entering the illusory world, he was an ordinary guy who barely had much sense of existence most of the time......

Even the QQ nickname. It is also so simple that it could not be simpler to boil water......

Because there is nothing in this world that really interests him......

For him. As long as you are in a situation where you don't let your parents be embarrassed in front of your friends and family, it's enough......

In his spare time, Wang Yu prefers to read online novels casually, play online games, and is not willing to put too much of his energy into study or work......

His behavior may seem to some people to be an unmotivated approach......

But from his own point of view, it is a very stupid thing to put in the effort to pursue what he does not want, since he is not interested, then such efforts are unnecessary, there is no need for a person to pay for other people's wishes and ideals, extreme willfulness is not right, but too extreme self-motivation is also a very stupid thing......

Many young people are because they are too motivated, so in the end, often even their original intentions have been completely forgotten, only remember to be motivated, in order to be motivated, they can ignore their own body, ignore their parents, ignore their partners, ignore their children, this practice, in fact, is purely for the sake of further progress, and even work too hard in the job and die suddenly, in fact, there are not a few young people every year......

In Wang Yu's view, such people are actually reversing the primary and secondary relationship in life, they don't really realize what they want, so they subconsciously strive to pursue what most people want to pursue, in order to gain the approval of others, but they rarely think about it, is that really what they want? It's like people in the rivers and lakes, always trying to be the leader of the martial arts alliance and dominate the world, many of them have paid an unimaginable price in the process, but when they really get the world, looking back on their lives, they may find that such a life doesn't seem to be what they want at all!

Wang Yu's concept is actually very simple......

Like the vast majority of ordinary people, he also has all kinds of **, but his** will never be built on the basis of making trouble for himself, simply put, he is a person who does not like to toss, what he can get, he will get, but what needs to be fought for with effort and price, he will choose to give up without nostalgia......

From his cognition, if a position requires his own efforts and costs to fight, then it only means one thing, indicating that above this position, he is not qualified, that is, because he is not qualified, so he needs to strive and pay the price to achieve the goal, and on the contrary, if he has enough qualifications, then even if he does not fight, the position will also fall on his head......

It's like an amateur chess player, even if you miss the age of the fixed stage, but as long as you stand out in some auditions and finally beat the professional players in the official competition to win the championship, then you will get the professional title......

He is a man who pursues freedom, so he probably won't do anything he doesn't want to do......

On the other hand, whatever he wants to do, no matter how many people oppose it, he will do it...... (To be continued......)