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For a high-class goblin......

Speech can be said to be a course that must be practiced!

Because for the vast majority of high-ranking goblins, part-time merchants are a matter of course......

As a businessman, words are naturally absolutely necessary!

Language is a powerful thing in itself......

Kind words can make people encourage, they can make people satisfied, and they can make people happy......

Vicious words can make people feel pain, frustration, loss, and even despair!

Just like the mobilization of generals before the start of war, soldiers can often be fearless of death, and the poisonous tongue of strategists can also take away the enemy's mind and even life!

For this point, presumably the Internet celebrity Wang Lang and Wang Situ in the new era are very vocal......

That's the power of language!

The same purpose, expressed in different words, may result in completely different results......

The ancients always said that good words are good for deeds......

But from another point of view, it just shows that this kind of anti-ear advice should be said less......

The reason is very simple, any language, even if the purpose is correct, but if it is against the ear, it is better to say less......

Many times, some people will always have such a cognition......

That is, no matter what you do, as long as your starting point is correct, then no matter how you do it, you should not be blamed by others......

However, this perception, in a sense, is itself grossly wrong!

In this world, it can be said that it is very common for good intentions to do bad things......

Sometimes, a person may do things with the right intentions, but if they are used in the wrong way, the end result may be the opposite......

Especially in the expression of language, under the premise of the same content, the wrong tone often has the opposite effect......

This situation is especially prone to parents who have problems with their children's education......

Sometimes, some parents are always in a simple and rude state in education......

They seldom care about the child's real needs, and always dictate the child's behavior with their own thoughts......

They always feel that as long as their starting point is good, then no matter how they treat their children, they are bound to be right, they are bound to not need to take responsibility, and they are bound to have a good result in the end!

However, this is not the case......

Even if the starting point is good, if the method is wrong, then the possible results will be contrary to the expectation!

Doing non-loving behavior in the name of love is a mistake that many parents often make......

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What determines a person's position is not a person's thoughts, but a person's actions!

After all, everyone can have ideas, and good people can also have evil thoughts, but as long as you don't put evil thoughts into practice, you are still a good person......

On the other hand, if you actually end up doing something wrong or evil in order to do a good deed, then you are actually no different from a wicked person......

Just like when readers read online novels, there will always be a certain sense of substitution, and in this process, they will naturally have a sense of identity with some of the protagonist's behaviors, even if these behaviors themselves are not correct, but readers will also feel empathy......

However, it is one thing to have a sense of substitution, and whether or not to do it is another thing entirely!

It's like an online game, it's also full of violent pictures, but in reality, you can really cut people and explode equipment, except for a very small number of neurotics, I'm afraid it's almost non-existent......

On the contrary, many times, some well-meaning people tend to do bad things for various reasons, in a sense, such good intentions do bad things, in fact, there is no difference between bad people in nature, and even more harmful......

In a sense, it is not a big deal for a person to have evil thoughts in his heart, as long as he does not convert his evil thoughts into actual actions, it is not a big deal, however, even if a person's heart is full of good thoughts, if he lacks the wisdom to convert good thoughts into good actions, then it may lead to tragedy......

In this world, there are very few parents who do not love their children......

There are very few parents in this world who do not want their children to get ahead......

However, even so......

But there will still be a lot of children who go astray for a variety of reasons......

In a sense, this is precisely the lack of parental education!

Different parents often show love in very different ways......

And different education methods often get different results......

Some parents have excessive superstition and filial piety under the stick, so that their children's childhood grows up in the shadows, while some parents spoil their children excessively, so that their children have no way to survive like normal people in society......

Some parents know what is the right way to educate, but they can't be ruthless about it......

And some parents understand what is the right way and can implement it ruthlessly, but the final result is not satisfactory......

Why?

In the end, it's nothing more than two words!

Communicate!

Yes, communication!

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Many times, the vast majority of contradictions in this world often come from a lack of communication!

And in communication, the most important thing is naturally face-to-face language communication!

The stronger the voice communication ability, the stronger the communication ability, and the more capable of persuading others......

This is the so-called art of communication!

In fact, to put it bluntly, the so-called art of communication is actually a discourse!

How to better get others to accept their own suggestions, and minimize the possible resentment of the target in the process, are all part of the conversation!

In this regard, the most typical example is naturally the sales process of those salespeople......

For the same product, different salesmen will produce completely different sales performance, even if it is a non-face-to-face telemarketing, the performance gap between salesmen will be very, very huge......

In the final analysis, this is actually a gap in the level of speech, people who know how to speak, are always more able to attract the attention of potential buyers, and on the contrary, they often just say a word, and they will be hung up directly......

The better the insurance company, or the marketing company, the more rigorous they tend to be in the language of the word, especially in the customer service of large companies, it is often very obvious, no matter what kind of person, they are often able to calm the other party down through language, and in the process, people naturally enter a relatively reassuring dialogue rhythm......

Of course, in the same way, operators such as 110 often have similar qualities, after all, only with such literacy can they deal with all kinds of possible emergencies in a timely manner......

What to say and what tone to use are all very skillful......

If you choose the right way of communication, you can often easily gain the favor of the other party......

Of course, the same ......

On the opposite side of this type of rhetoric......

The other type of rhetoric works in the opposite direction!

If the former is a conversation technique used to make the other person feel good, feel happy, and feel satisfied......

Then this other kind of rhetoric is the opposite!

This kind of speech is mainly aimed at bringing negative emotions to the other party!

Compared with the former, this kind of speech often requires more skill, and the effect that can be achieved is often more drastic than the former!

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To put it simply, it's actually a mockery!

Yes, taunts!

Compared with words of praise and encouragement, sarcastic words can easily arouse the negative emotions of the target!

The same thing, said in an encouraging tone, or in a mocking tone, are two completely different concepts!

The former gives people a warm feeling, while the latter can easily make people have a nameless fire in their hearts!

To put it simply, it's actually the so-called trash talk!

Trash talk, after all, is actually one of the language arts!

Especially on the football field, it is especially common on the basketball court!

The fundamental purpose of trash talking, in the final analysis, is actually to provoke one's own enemies, so as to make the target enter a state of anger!

No matter what kind of sport or competition you are in, it is often difficult for an athlete in a state of anger to fulfill his duties perfectly!

That is, on the court, provoking an opponent is, in a sense, a weakening of the enemy!

And a lot of violence on the football or basketball court, in fact, in the final analysis, is the result of this seemingly inconspicuous trash talk......

Of course, there is a lot of trash talking, and there are also a lot of players who can talk trash......

However, there are often very few people who can anger opponents in the real sense, after all, the vast majority of professional players, whether it is football or basketball, have a very high degree of immunity to trash talk, many well-known players have already reached the stage of pampering and not being shocked, no matter how ugly the other party's trash talk is, they are often able to accept it calmly, although it may produce a little anger because of this, but this anger often does not make them lose their minds, but makes them more excited... …

However, even so, there will still be people who can say trash talk that is enough to make even well-known stars angry, such as the famous head hammer of Zizu in the World Cup, which is enough to show that even small trash talk, as long as it is opened at the right time, can cause terrible lethality!

And as a high-class goblin......

Mastering the art of speech is an absolute necessity!

And it would not be so difficult for anyone who has mastered the art of speech to say something that makes a friend feel as warm as spring, or a word that makes an enemy feel as cold as winter!

And Gris's words show exactly such an effect!

(To be continued.) )