The three-day tour has finally ended, and Yuan Dongshuai has come out of the shadow of failure, cheerful, and at the same time has made progress, at least knowing how to reflect. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

The ancients told us that it is a good habit to reflect and summarize every day.

It is impossible for Yuan Dongshuai to be **** to reflect, but the failure of this trial assessment is enough to make Yuan Dongshuai reflect for a long time.

He thought back to the details of the assessment, recalled what Yuan Xiti had said to him, and recalled the advice given to him by Alimu and Hong Baren, and he finally understood that the most important thing he had done wrong was to measure others by his own standards!

He has high requirements for himself, making himself a football genius, outstanding, few people can compare with him, but he shouldn't measure others by his own standards, after all, not everyone is crazy, teenagers have different personalities, fanaticism for football, and different understandings of football, it is impossible to use the same standards to demand them!

Even a coach can't do that, a coach can't use the standard of a striker to demand a defender, a defender to demand a midfielder, and a midfielder to demand a goalkeeper!

Even the requirements between midfielder and midfielder, defender and defender, striker and striker, goalkeeper and goalkeeper are very likely to be different, people cannot step into the same river twice, and there can be no same player between the same positions!

Take goalkeepers as an example, some goalkeepers may choose a good position, some goalkeepers may have a large defensive area, some goalkeepers may be a madman, some goalkeepers may react quickly, some goalkeepers may be strong and powerful, some goalkeepers may be tall and long, some goalkeepers may have outstanding skills at their feet, and some goalkeepers may have the ability to command the defense。。。。。。

Therefore, it is definitely not possible to use the same standard to measure different players!

The measurement standard is different from technical statistics, technical statistics are quantifiable things, such as pass success rate, running distance, number of saves, speed, acceleration and so on, technical statistics reflect the player's ability to a certain extent, but not all, such as Yuan Dongshuai, he has a super high performance in technical statistics, but his empathy (empathy) and social skills are not too strong, and these two things can be regarded as the standard for measuring players, and it is these two abilities that are too weak, Yuan Dongshuai offended the teenagers who met for the first time, creating a situation where he was not trusted, and was persuaded to retire by Lao Liao.

Of course, in terms of Yuan Dongshuai's current experience and experience, he has not clearly recognized his own shortcomings, but only one-sidedly thinks that others cannot meet his standards (technical and statistical standards), so Yuan Dongshuai has decided to turn a blind eye in the future, see where others play football unsatisfactory, and no longer be mean to others! But when it's time to be arrogant, you still have to be arrogant, otherwise, he won't be a handsome madman, an old coach, or a football genius! If others are not accustomed to his arrogance, they should come and defeat him, and as long as they can defeat him, he will be convinced, and be courteous in front of the victor! But the proud Yuan Dongshuai is not a person who easily admits defeat, after being defeated, he has to find a way to defeat others, in that way, his arrogance can be useful, and he can be in a good mood! Isn't playing football just about having fun?

The so-called general rule is not painful, but the pain is not clear, Yuan Dongshuai, who has figured out the reason, sat on the high-speed rail, looking at the scenery speeding by outside the window, and his heart was extremely smooth!

Yuan Xiti sat next to Yuan Dongshuai, watching the corners of his mouth go up, watching his eyes regain their vitality, feeling very happy in his heart, and secretly sighed: "The stinky boy has finally figured it out!" ”

"Dear passengers, hello, arrive at Karamay City, the left door of the train will open, please take your salute and get off in turn!"

Yuan Dongshuai and Yuan Xiti walked out of the train station with sports bags on their backs, and the two came to the parking lot, drove the car, blended into the traffic, and drove towards home.

In the car, Yuan Dongshuai made a call to Ayiguli and asked her to prepare braised beef, he wanted to eat a big meal!

When the father and son returned home, the red, oily, and fragrant braised pork was already on the table.

Yuan Dongshuai shouted: "The fragrant braised beef is more fragrant than what is made in restaurants outside, grandma, you are a five-star chef!" I'm going to eat five bowls of rice today! ”

Five bowls of rice! It's not a joke, it adds up to a pound!

But for Yuan Dongshuai, there is no problem at all, Yuan Dongshuai usually eats three bowls of rice or four bowls of rice, and when he is happy, or when he is unhappy, he can eat five bowls of rice!

Yuan Dongshuai wants to eat five bowls of rice! The first thought that came to Ayiguli was that Yuan Dongshuai was unhappy! But in fact, on the contrary, Yuan Dongshuai was very happy, so he had to eat five bowls of rice!

It's no wonder that she guessed wrong, she already knew that Yuan Dongshuai was eliminated, with Yuan Dongshuai's proud character, after being eliminated, she would definitely be unhappy!

Ayiguli gave Yuan Xi a look and asked him to go to the bedroom.

Yuan Xiti understood that Ayiguli wanted to ask about Yuan Dongshuai's situation, so he put down the dishes and chopsticks, followed Ayiguli to the bedroom, and closed the door so that Yuan Dongshuai could not hear their conversation.

"Why was Dongshuai eliminated?" Although Ayiguli is not a fan, she knows that her son is a football genius, and being eliminated by Tianshan Snow Eagle is a very unexpected thing in her opinion, and she wants to know more about the situation in order to comfort Yuan Dongshuai.

Yuan Xiti sat on the edge of the bed and told Ayiguli some key information, after Ayiguli listened, Xiaoshan frowned tightly and complained: "Dongshuai was eliminated, it's all your fault for being a father, only let him play football, and don't tell him the truth of being a man, now it's okay, let him suffer!" ”

Immediately, Ayiguli sighed and said, "It's also my fault, I'm a mother, and I should have a good chat with him." ”

The two walked out of the bedroom, Yuan Dongshuai had already eaten four bowls of rice, the fifth bowl of rice would also bottom, and there was not much braised beef left on the plate.

But Yuan Dongshuai's stomach is still flat, there are no ups and downs, and he can eat more rice!

But Yuan Dongshuai knew that as a player, he couldn't overeat, and after eating the fifth bowl of rice, he put down the dishes and chopsticks and prepared to go downstairs for a walk.

He took the soccer ball with him, and after a walk, he planned to go to the seven-a-side court in the neighborhood and practice shooting.

Just when he wanted to go out, Ayiguli stopped Yuan Dongshuai: "Dongshuai, wait a minute, grandma will go for a walk with you." ”

Yuan Dongshuai scratched his head, strange, grandma never walks with me, she knows that as long as I go for a walk, she will go to play football, she doesn't love football, she won't walk with me! How did Grandma change today?

Although his heart was full of doubts, Yuan Dongshuai still nodded and said, "Okay! But let me make it clear in advance that I won't be shopping with you! ”

There is a clothing market not far from the community, so Yuan Dongshuai will say so.

Ayiguli scolded with a smile: "Stinky boy, you are not a girl, I won't let you go shopping with me!" It's a pity, if you give birth to a sister, you won't be a person who twists your temper, at least after having a sister, you have to know how to take care of your sister, protect your sister, when your sister loses her temper, you have to coax your sister and let your sister. You, even if you have a twisted temper, you have to be unforgiving, you don't care, you have to fight for three points, and you are competitive! Don't you know, it's too rigid and easy to break, it's too strong, it's not a good thing! ”

Yuan Dongshuai and Ayiguli had already walked on the forest ** in the community, and Yuan Dongshuai said strangely: "Grandma, why did you start to talk about the truth?" ”

Ayiguli sighed and said, "Dongshuai, have you been eliminated from the academy of Tianshan Snow Eagles?" ”

"Yes, I've been eliminated, Daddy has already told you, right?" Yuan Dongshuai didn't understand why Ayiguli asked knowingly.

"I do already know, I'm just worried about you, afraid that you won't be able to come out of the shadow of failure," Ayiguli said. ”

Worried about Grandma, Yuan Dongshuai blamed himself, he said: "Grandma, I'm sorry for worrying you." However, you don't have to worry about me anymore, I've figured it out, as long as I don't sarcastic others when I play football in the future, I won't offend people, and I can unite my teammates and gain trust! ”

Ayiguli's eyes lit up, and she nodded with satisfaction: "Since you have figured it out, Grandma will be relieved!" But Grandma still wants to give you a reason, I heard your father say, in the team, there are players in various positions, players in different positions, different ways of playing, if you are a defender, don't ridicule other forwards, if you are a fullback, don't ridicule other defenders! Dongshuai, what Grandma wants to tell you is that even if there are no players in different positions in the team, you can't rely on your own strength to ridicule others! (To be continued.) )

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