Chapter 208: Psychological Counseling
"Well, since we're friends, I'll make it clear."
Xia Meng held her glasses again, of course, there was no sense of disobedience, because this was her habit. "I think you're a scumbag!"
"Huh?"
Sun Hao was almost scared, although he was often scolded as a scumbag before, but they were all guys who didn't like each other. As for friends, how can a handsome guy like him who is loved by everyone think that he is a scumbag, this is not scientific.
"I said cute girl, are you stimulated by something, why are you scolding me?" Sun Hao said helplessly.
"I'm older than you, you're going to call my sister."
"Pull it down."
Although Xia Meng always looks serious, everyone likes to use her as a joke during FOP, so no matter how serious Xia Meng is, she can't establish her prestige. As a result, basically no one wants to call her sister, at most she is called Miss.
Of course, Sun Hao likes to call her a sister, smooth.
"Calling you a scumbag doesn't count as scolding you, because you are." Xia Meng's words were not shocking, but she said in a very slow tone: "According to what you said, in fact, you don't love her for a long time, but you have been insisting because you are unwilling." ”
Sun Hao was unconvinced: "What are you unwilling? ”
"Because she is beautiful, she is the object of affection of many people in the school, and will satisfy your vanity. But you have to understand that this is not love, it is just to see her as something to show off, and there is no essential difference between it and beautiful clothes. ”
"I've never been interested in beautiful clothes." Sun Hao still can't accept this statement. "My feelings are very real, I used to think about her every day, and it would make me trance-free when I couldn't see her, and you told me this wasn't love?"
Xia Meng nodded and said, "There may be an element of love at the beginning, but didn't you say it, it feels like it's slowly fading." In fact, it is not fading, but disappearing, replaced by selfish possessiveness, which just gives you the illusion of fading. ”
Sun Hao frowned, this statement is so complicated, and how can it be related to the issue of selfishness.
"Love is tolerance, it is giving, you see her shortcomings, magnify her shortcomings, and can't accept this shortcoming, then you can't talk about love, this is a very simple truth. If there is no love, why do you refuse to give up on her? Xia Meng's tone was aggressive.
"No, I'm willing to pay. I gave up my studies in order to give her the best life possible, and I wanted to earn money to support her, isn't that a giving? ”
"Excuses! Can you say this kind of hypocrisy? You ask yourself, are you really playing esports for her? ”
Sun Hao was stunned for a moment and touched his forehead with his hand. yes, is esports his own dream, or is it to make money to please his girlfriend, or both? He couldn't figure it out himself, it was a mess.
Men are the creatures who are the best at making excuses, and a selfish thing can often put on a high-sounding reason, which has been the case since ancient times. Everyone understands this truth, but they don't have the ability to examine themselves, which means that men never know if they are really making excuses.
"It's still not right, if she had spoken, I wouldn't have chosen to come to Shanghai." Sun Hao felt that Xia Meng had not been able to convince him.
"Do you think it's a sign of love? If so, I have nothing to say. Xia Meng sighed at him.
"What do you mean?"
"I ask you, if you were on the road and you saw a speeding car about to hit her, would you push her away? Even if your life is in danger. ”
"Yes."
"Is this love?"
"Yes!"
"What if you replaced her with your friend, male friend, would you?"
“…… Yes. ”
"What about a strange kid again, will you?"
"This ...... I will. Sun Hao waved his hand and said, "There is a problem with your concept, if it was a friend or a strange child who opened my mouth to keep me, I would never agree." ”
Xia Meng smiled slightly and said, "You misunderstood what I meant, I just want to say that when the car stops, you won't push those people away, and when she opens her mouth to keep you, you will naturally not think about making money anymore." You think it's love, but it's not, it's a sense of responsibility to avoid condemning your conscience. ”
"You feel that if you don't save those people, you will have a troubled conscience, and if you feel that if you don't make money to satisfy her, you will also have a troubled conscience. To put it bluntly, it is a denial of oneself, one will think that one is useless, and one is afraid that the people around you will make irresponsible remarks about you, why can't anyone be saved, why can't anyone be raised? ”
"So, does it matter who it is? You're just thinking about yourself. The reason why your friends or strange children can't keep you is because they haven't gotten to the point where you blame yourself, and if you think you have a responsibility to earn money to support your friends and strange children, then the result is the same. ”
Xia Meng stared at him and said, "Now, do you dare to say that you love her?" ”
Sun Hao was depressed, what kind of logic is this? He felt that these concepts were wrong, but he was a little dizzy by Xia Meng, and he couldn't think of anything wrong for a while.
Seeing Sun Hao's silence, Xia Meng slowed down his tone and said softly: "I said it for a long time just now, but it's actually all nonsense. ”
Sun Hao nodded, isn't it all nonsense.
In fact, he knows that when a psychoanalyst unravels a person's heart knot, there will be a foreplay in many cases. It doesn't matter if there is the right logic in this foreplay, it doesn't matter, it just needs to make the other person feel a vague concept, because their purpose is to untie the knot, not to lectur.
This is actually the same principle as hypnosis, and the next thing is the main play.
Xia Meng's drama is very direct: "Ask the simplest question, let you marry her now, are you willing?" ”
"I ......" Sun Hao was stunned for a moment, his eyelids fluttered, and he gritted his teeth and said after a long time: "I don't want to!" ”
Xia Meng suddenly covered her mouth and laughed, and said, "Isn't this over, you don't love her, you and her are not the same kind of person at all, so why bother." I'll say something nasty, you're the kind of person you don't want and don't want others to get, isn't that the same as destroying her with your own hands? Do you say it yourself, are you a scumbag? ”
"Holy."
Sun Hao can't stand it, you're too outrageous, how did you rise to such a moral height?
"Isn't it?" Xia Meng smiled even more happily, and even had a very cheap feeling. "Don't deny it, a smart person like you should be able to understand, it's just a matter of depth, in fact, the truth is the same. I apologize to you if I spoke too harshly. ”
Sun Hao glared at her angrily, he understood that psychological counseling was not a bickering, since he accepted Xia Meng's counseling, then he could only be an audience, instead of trying to find some crooked reasons to refute, that would be endless, put the cart before the horse, and his purpose of asking Xia Meng to come over would be in vain.
It's just that Xia Meng's words are really ugly, even though he admits that there is some truth, but he still can't accept it.
Xia Meng didn't care about him and said, "So you can't forget her because you think she belongs to you." Throw away this selfish thought, because you have already gained too much. ”
"What did I get?" Sun Hao was puzzled.
"Your current girlfriend." Xia Meng held her glasses and smiled, "If you still have to dwell on her, you will lose the her you are now, are you willing?" ”
"I don't want to!" Sun Hao shook his head, but still explained: "I don't have a girlfriend yet." ”
"It doesn't matter."
"You're ruthless."
I have to say that what moved Sun Hao the most was Xia Meng's last sentence. yes, why bother with Xiao Qi's body? He also has Bai Xueqin. Although they haven't confirmed the relationship yet, he has already decided that Bai Xueqin belongs to him, and no one wants to snatch it!
Thinking about it like this, he felt a lot more comfortable. People, you can't be too greedy, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, what kind of system has it become? Why did you forget Bai Xueqin before, she was really kicked in the head by a donkey.
In fact, he didn't realize that Xia Meng said so much, just to weaken Xiao Qi's status in his heart as much as possible, and to insist on the fact that he didn't love Xiao Qi. And then improve the status of Sun Hao's girlfriend, and the purpose of soothing the knot will be easily achieved. Of course, as for whether to solve it, it depends on Sun Hao himself, and the love problem is the most difficult among all psychological counseling, and there is no one.
Professional psychologists can't do it, let alone psychoanalysts for esports teams? Their main work is not in this area, and it is already very good to be able to do this step.
"Hey, am I really a scumbag?" Sun Hao said depressedly.
"Of course not, how could you have such a strange idea?" Xia Meng looked surprised.
"Damn, isn't that what you said?"
Xia Meng shook his head and said: "If you talk about scum, everyone is scum, this is human nature, and there is no way to change it." There are no saints in this world, everyone is selfish, and you don't have to carry psychological baggage because of this, that's what only a fool does. ”
Sun Hao breathed a sigh of relief and said, "You're right, I'm just selfish, so what?" ”
"Why don't you pay for it?"
"Don't even think about it." Sun Hao simply refused, without any grace. "I'm a selfish person anyway, so I'll be selfish to the end. Besides, sitting here listening to your education for so long makes me very depressed, and you have to compensate me. ”
Xia Meng was helpless, this thing is really a child's temper. But when she wanted to pay, Sun Hao still rushed to pay, according to this guy's words, how can there be a date for a girl to pay the bill, it was just a joke.
As for compensation, he has his own words: "Hey, do me a favor." ”
Xia Meng was shocked, and knew that this guy was not well-intentioned, but Sun Hao sold her favor for unreasonable reasons, so she could only agree. Don't talk about the favor of psychological counseling, Sun Hao didn't talk about this at all, the reason for asking her out was to catch up and chat, that's all.
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