Ljungberg was lucky, when the call came, You Mo just picked up his phone to check the time. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

This product has completely changed to silent mode since the phone was blown up, and calls back to the familiar number on time at eight o'clock every night. In fact, if it weren't for the inconvenience of the wilderness, he would have changed his mobile phone number a long time ago.

After listening to the Swede's question, Yumo couldn't help but laugh.

After all, Ljungberg is young and straight-hearted, and he can't understand what the huge psychological gap will bring when he becomes a superior from a lower to a superior person.

Just like when a small family-based business begins to expand rapidly, a dramatic change in life and exaggerated temptations can unconsciously change a person's state of mind. In the end, whether you choose to be conservative or aggressive, psychological changes are inevitable.

Champion = capital, wealthy = fame and fortune, once both are in hand, psychological slackness is easy to infect each other, form an atmosphere, and completely change the atmosphere of the locker room. Arsenal have been firmly suppressed by Manchester United in previous years, and even though Arsene Wenger's style of play has become pleasing since he took over, the reuse of foreign legislature has been criticised by the English media. So until last season's championship, the whole team held back their strength and vowed to prove themselves.

This mentality has a bit of a taste of revenge, and the source of power is more obtained from competing with the external environment, which can gather strong energy in a short period of time. But once the goal is successfully achieved, the words of praise are overwhelming, and it is inevitable to stop and forget to return.

If you don't have a strong enough heart, even if you win the championship, you can't become a dynasty, let alone a giant.

Arsene Wenger excels in tactical philosophy, talent development and long-term planning for the club. Locker room control is not his strong point, and the prestige in the player's mind is entirely his painstaking effort, and there is no element of opportunism.

In this regard, Ferguson is clearly a cut above the Frenchman.

Manchester United also have no shortage of thorns in the spine. But the team as a whole has never been locked in a long-term shock over a dressing room dispute, which is clearly not something that can be suppressed by prestige alone.

What's more, the entire Manchester United team has always been good at fighting tough games under his leadership, so that the strength of the team is obviously inferior to the opponent, and the technical and tactical level does not keep pace with the times, but the tenacity shown by the players on the pitch often turns the game upside down. The result is unknown.

In the game that decided the league title last season, it was not so much that Arsenal beat Manchester United by their strength, but that Arsenal beat Manchester United by their winning formula.

The topic is back to square one.

In You Mo's view, people are interest-driven animals, and if they can't fundamentally understand people's hearts, small things will become bigger, and serious things will be distorted, and eventually irreparable.

"What do you want so much money for, it's not three meals a day and a bed!"

This famous whining phrase came from Arsene Wenger. The timing was when Anelka was rumored again in the summer when transfer rumours were reported. Although the truth in the words is simple and obvious, it can only be understood after seeing through the world when you are old, and judging from the age of the players and the world of flowers, it is obviously an outdated language like an antique.

Perhaps since this sentence was uttered, the smug guys in the Arsenal squad have shifted their attention and gone completely to a path beyond the manager's expectations.

Of course, the construction of the new stadium is imminent, and it is a sure thing that the poor family has a thin foundation. The guys who have won the championship and have the capital have every reason to find a good place for their precious careers.

The Tao is different. This sentence has shone for thousands of years, and it still works. Everyone's experience is different, their abilities are different, and their hearts are different, and it is not easy to find a way forward together. Coupled with the iron-clad battalion and flowing soldiers, it is even more difficult to maintain a healthy and upward locker room atmosphere when people come and go.

Ljungberg's thoughts had come to an end here, and it seemed to him that it was an unsolvable deadlock.

Yumo's answer was as simple and direct as ever.

"It is true that there is no agreement of faith on different paths. However, the world is diverse, and as long as we can achieve the same interests, we will not be able to do any bad things if we do not conspire with each other. ”

Considering that Swedes' ability to understand is limited by the cultural climate, the product further explains, "My opinion is simple. At the moment, this Arsenal team has the quality to win the title, but it does not have the attraction to keep people all the time, so there is no need to worry about the frequent flow of people will constantly create conflicts and create chaos. What we have to do is actually very simple, just aim for ourselves yesterday, keep moving forward, and strength will prove everything. ”

Hearing this, Ljungberg let out a sigh of relief, and then asked, "I think what you said earlier, 'to achieve unity of interest', I think it makes sense. After all, we are all adults and have our own values and views of right and wrong, and forcibly reaching agreement with some major principles will not solve the problem, but will easily cover up the contradiction or directly intensify the contradiction. However, how can we achieve the unity of interests, materially speaking, everyone is willing to win the championship and spiritually? ”

The Swede's question is to the point.

There is a right to speak in the locker room of any team, and there will be times when everyone's fame and strength are not equal, no one wants to have no support at the trough, no one to help in the face of difficulties, and to take the blame alone when losing. Therefore, no matter on or off the field, everyone hopes that their words and deeds can influence others, and their image can be transformed into capital and plan for a rainy day.

The more wealthy the family, the heavier the pressure, and the more often under the magnifying glass, the more common this practice is.

So here's the problem.

If in the other person's perception, your existence threatens his status or simply looks unpleasant, then even if your strength exceeds that of him or his companions, he will still use his various conveniences to use his power for personal gain and exclude others.

In this way, spiritual interests seem to overwhelm material interests, and become a contradiction that cannot be reconciled between the two sides.

How to break?

"By asking this question, it seems that your understanding of the sinister level of the human heart has reached a certain level." You Mo smiled at the corner of his mouth, and his voice was brisk, as if he was discussing the upcoming Christmas dinner.

"The more exaggerated the fame and fortune, the more impetuous the environment, and the more out of line the spiritual needs become. When I used to work in Kaiserslautern, I spent a whole year dealing with various media. It's a bit of a glimpse of how well they tout the level and enthusiasm of others. ”

"Everyone in the big club will not be less exposed, and the praise and criticism are much more exaggerated than those of the small club. If you play well, you become a hero, and if you don't play well, you immediately become a bear. In this environment for a long time, the mental pressure is always there, and if there is no way to reasonably reduce the pressure, the longer the time passes, the more distorted the mind will become. There will also be no lower limit to the means. ”

Recognizing this, it's not difficult to find ways to decompress yourself, but it's not realistic to take the initiative to decompress others. Therefore, we must be fully mentally prepared to act in the wrong way for others to act according to the rules, act unscrupulously, and even take the initiative to provoke wars to achieve our goals. ”

"Responding to the provocations of others, remaining silent is not the solution. Intrigue is not a long-term way, strength speaks, reality slaps the face, this is the way to survive in the dressing room of a wealthy family. ”

After listening carefully to Yumo's every word, the stone in Ljungberg's heart gradually fell to the ground. Just as he was about to hang up the phone, the figure of another person came to mind, so he asked: "No wonder Overmars often sighs about this, he probably still has a hard time accepting this complicated locker room environment, right?" ”

Listened to this. You Mo smiled, and his tone was a little heavy.

"Yes. Both of our Dutchmen are jealous and hateful, and what happened to me actually had a bigger impact on them, especially when you compare them to the atmosphere in the dressing room last season. ”

Ljungberg's heart moved when he heard this, and he continued to ask, "Why do I think you are so much more relaxed than ordinary people in this kind of thing, is this a talent?" ”

You Mo smiled.

"Good and evil in human nature always coexist. Even from another point of view, good intentions can lead to bad results, and malice becomes good deeds. I would proceed from their interests, take the worst possibility as the bottom line, and draw a natural conclusion. So. Whatever they do, as long as it doesn't touch the legal line, I feel like I'm capable of solving it. ”

'The Dutchman simply divides human nature into good and evil, and it's irreconcilable, and the atmosphere in the dressing room hits them hard and the next game will be tougher.

"What about you? Ready to get started? ”

Hearing such a question, Ljungberg only felt that the haze that shrouded his forehead suddenly vanished, and everything in front of him became brighter.

"OK, no problem!"

......

After the defeat away to Lazio, the atmosphere in the dressing room, which had just warmed up, quickly turned cold.

Arsene Wenger had a good attitude after the fire, at least he didn't show a straight face all day. What really makes the players feel depressed is the media and brick families who change their faces faster than flipping through books.

Of course, some fans are among them.

Originally, after completing the task of qualifying for the Champions League group, many people felt that this team had achieved a historic breakthrough. As a result, they were beaten back to their original state in one game, and they were destined to finish second in the group, turning their high expectations into empty checks, except for criticism and abuse, few rational voices came out at all.

Not all of the players have big hearts, and few can be calm in the face of such one-sided accusations.

Now that the Internet is in full swing, the players' personal websites have sprung up like mushrooms. As a result, as soon as the locker room incident was exposed, and the two games were lost, these websites suddenly became the hardest hit area, with rumors flying all over the sky and abuse everywhere.

After getting used to the days of being sought after, this situation in front of me makes many people depressed and crazy.

It's all that damn guy!

This idea is not only patented by the French, but also by the English.

In fact, when Youmo and the two Dutch bigwigs got closer and closer, the English, who regarded themselves as the owners of the team, were already wary. They have been watching from the sidelines, but they still did not change their original intentions after the outbreak of conflict in the locker room, thinking that it was a good result for both sides to learn some lessons.

As a result, I didn't know if I didn't learn the lesson, and the mess was left behind!

Strictly speaking, most of them will not be able to leave England in their careers, and even if they retire, a good reputation will make them better able to re-employ in football. Born and raised in Sri Lanka, they value their reputation more than anything else, and although they don't have their share in the locker room conflicts, as veteran qualifications among players, they always have to carry a part of the black pot.

Omission?

In fact, there is no water in this speculation, and both captain Adams, Arsene Wenger's handpicked assistant coach candidate Balder, and vice-captain Seaman are all suspicious of the above evaluation.

The reason for inaction is actually quite simple.

I don't want either of them to sit big, and it's best to lose both!

Now that the incident has further fermented, the whole team of the Black Cauldron is out of breath, so they naturally target the guy who is at large, and they want to give him some color.

Of course, that's all for later, with the FA Cup last-16 on the horizon and the reigning champions of the tournament not wanting another defeat after two consecutive defeats in the league and Champions League.

Arsene Wenger thinks so, too.

Teams in the trough want to bounce back quickly, and a big win is the cure. Their opponents in this game were Birmingham City in the Championship, and it was reasonable to use as many substitutes as possible, but the team desperate for victory still put on the strongest line-up, showing a spirit far beyond the first two games from the start, and fixing the score at 3-0 before the end of the first half.

Nicolas Anelka took the lead of the three goals, followed by Patrick Vieira from the spot, and just when the French were full of pride, the guy they had already seen as a thorn in their side came out to steal the show.

In the 43rd minute of the game, Ljungberg received a pass from Overmars outside the penalty area on the right side, and a shocking arc ball went straight into the dead corner!

In the boiling Highbury Stadium, the Swedes didn't show much excitement, just raised their fists and waved vigorously at the stands, which was considered a celebration.

Overmars was much more excited than he was.

With Bergkamp suspended for a red card, he was left with only one friend on the pitch from the Swede, and it was a rare occasion to combine them to score a spectacular goal in this way.

"Why aren't you so happy?" Overmars asked curiously as he rushed over and put his arm around Ljungberg's shoulder.

"I called him last night." The Swedes didn't answer, but the Dutch understood.

"Oh? What did he talk about, what did he say? ”

"He told me that to win championships consistently, everyone needs to have a big heart that is all-inclusive, maybe a little idealistic, maybe it's hard, but I want to try."

"All-inclusive? Forgive the hateful guys? I can't do it! ”

"There is no forgiveness, and they don't need someone to forgive. Or to put it more clearly: understand the reasons for what they are doing, and trust that you are capable of dealing with any cards that are not dealt according to the rules. ”

"Oh...... I kind of get it. ”

"Let's work together!"

“ok！ Come on! (To be continued.) )