203 The Whipping of Love (part 1/5)
offended Li Yan, and the two little guys will suffer a lot in the future.
Pan An did not stop this, there is nothing wrong with giving children freedom, but excessive freedom, even the freedom to speak without brains, is harmful to them.
Having someone at home who is scared is not a bad thing.
Originally, Pan An consciously took on this stern role, but now he was robbed by Li Yan.
Blame the helpless ......
Li Yan wants Pan An to go to work in the company, but Pan An can't agree to this kind of thing, and usually the main thing is to watch the two children.
It is impossible for Zhen Wen to take care of two children day and night, and lack of sleep is a taboo for women.
A few years ago, it was mainly Pan An who took care of him at night, and when the child was a little older, he was thrown to Zhen Wen by Li Yan, and Zhen Wen was also willing to take care of Xiao Anping.
Xiao Pingping, who is just two years old, doesn't speak often, and more often says one word, a few words.
This is even true for Xiao Anping, who is not strong in language organization, and children of two or three years old are almost like this.
Xiao Pingping has a very fearful personality, and the relationship that has been with Pan An for a long time is not as fond of going outside as Xiao Anping does.
I don't know when, Xiao Pingping felt that Li Yan, Zhen Wen and the rest of the people were very sensitive to the difference between her and Xiao Anping.
Pan An was a little surprised that Xiao Pingping also said that she wanted to change her mother after Xiao Anping spoke, but she also understood Xiao Pingping's simple thoughts.
Xiao Anping can do a lot of things at home, and he will not be punished if he does it, the only thing he is worried about is Pan An's attitude.
Now that Xiao Anping is going to change her mother, Xiao Pingping naturally thinks that she can say her true thoughts along the way, thinking that there will be no problem in this way, and her father will not say Xiao Pingping.
That's a child's cleverness......
Pan An followed Li Yan's wishes and handed over the two children to Li Yan for education.
It's not that I'm worried about Li Yan's angry relationship, but the two children really need education.
Li Yan won't hurt the two little guys, and the two little guys, especially Xiao Pingping, really need to enter the human society and get in touch with the outside world.
Li Yan went to work in the company during the day and managed a large company and large enterprise with hundreds of people.
In the evening, the two children were brought to the study room for teaching, and the two children began to teach Chinese and English formally.
Xiao Anping didn't adapt for a while, and he didn't realize that he would be held against him if he said something wrong, so he was still very stubborn at the beginning, and then his butt blossomed and he was settled by the autumn queen.
As for Xiao Pingping, she is very well-behaved, when Pan An is not in sight, Xiao Pingping basically does not take the initiative to speak, and Li Yan will not embarrass this two-year-old daughter.
The crying and wailing of the elder brother made Xiao Pingping even more afraid of Li Yan, and she was vaguely aware of something, but her young body was not enough to support too careful thinking, but she had that kind of consciousness and feeling.
In the eyes of adults other than Pan An, Xiao Pingping is still the little girl who is afraid of life and stupid.
Fortunately, after studying every day, Dad gave Xiao Pingping a bottle of warm milk, and Xiao Pingping held the bottle in both hands while drinking the milk, and looked at her father, and soon forgot about her mother.
Xiao Anping also likes to drink milk, and sometimes he will ask for an extra bottle after drinking, saying that he wants to drink it for another young lady in the community.
Compared with her younger sister who needs to be taken care of when she is young, she cries at every turn (grabbing Xiao Pingping's milk, grabbing Xiao Pingping's toys), and her sister who doesn't talk all day long, Xiao Anping still likes to take her to play with her six-year-old sister.
Children, more often prefer older people, and few like younger than themselves.
This kind of thinking is a relationship of interest and can be cultivated, such as always praising Xiao Anping for being sensible and taking care of his sister, so that Xiao Anping can slowly have the consciousness of taking care of his sister.
Pan An originally waited until he was five or six years old to cultivate this consciousness, but soon found that the two-year-old Xiao Pingping had a very repulsive look at the stupid brother, and immediately felt a little helpless.
For a long time, it was my father who took care of Xiao Pingping, and my mother and grandmother took care of Xiao Anping, this is Xiao Pingping's cognition, and I think that Dad's praise of Xiao Anping is Xiao Anping's fault!
Therefore, handing over Xiao Pingping to Li Yan to take care of is Pan An's idea for a long time, Li Yan was not suddenly rejected by the two children, but was rejected from the ordinary.
This kind of thing can't be left alone, and the two little children are whipped without love.
Under Li Yan's education, the two children had no other way but to ask their grandmother for help.
When the two children were punished, Pan An never said anything.
When Xiao Anping was spanked for being naughty, it was useless to cry and shout about his father, Pan An usually went to the study to read books, and would not appear in front of children.
At this time, it is useless to ask Pan An for help, many times it is Zhen Wen who feels sorry for the child who comes out to fight against Li Yan, protecting Xiao Anping and Li Yan to quarrel.
Zhen Wen did not become a grandmother because of the arrival of the two children, she was in a good mood, and with constant nutrition, she was more like Li Yan's sister.
The changes in the body also affected the mind, so the quarrel with Li Yan did not have the accommodation that a forty-year-old woman should have.
Xiao Pingping is more well-behaved, and Li Yan doesn't have high requirements for her, more often than not, as long as she sits there honestly, it's fine.
Whether it is Zhen Wen protecting Xiao Anping and arguing with Li Yan, or Li Yan teaching Xiao Anping a lesson, it has little to do with Xiao Pingping.
More often than not, Pinkie sits alone by the wall, scribbling on paper on the ground with a small crayon, and looks at children's drawings that she still can't understand like her father did.
Occasionally punished for scribbling, or running away during class, Xiao Pingping is also the kind of crying that only leaves tears and does not make a sound, and will always look at Li Yan, which easily scares Li Yan and no longer punishes.
After Pan An knew about this, he persuaded Li Yan to play harder next time, don't get used to this kind of stinky problem, otherwise Xiao Pingping will take this as the norm when she has a long memory, which is not good for the development of children.
Li Yan was so bewitched by Pan An, she found an excuse to beat Xiao Pingping the next day.
At the beginning, he was still stubborn and didn't cry, and wanted to stare at Li Yan with an unhappy expression like yesterday, just like a father glaring at a mother.
However, the small body was quickly put on Li Yan's lap, and after taking off the little pants, he slapped the tender little ass and beat it, and after two blows, he cried loudly, and he couldn't pretend anymore, and he didn't dare to look at his mother with such eyes anymore......
In short, these two children are growing up slowly under the whip of love.