Chapter 246: Xiangxiang's obsession
Luo Yu wants to find a real person, the best candidate is undoubtedly Liang Xiuer, but Liang Xiuer is too young, which has both advantages and disadvantages, the positive side is that Liang Xiuer trusts Luo Yu very much, so she is very obedient and simple-minded, and the negative side is that it is difficult for her to accurately grasp her psychology, so her young age has become an obstacle.
Since Liang Xiu'er didn't succeed in cultivating before, there must be a reason for this, Liang Xiu'er is young, it is difficult to find out the crux of the problem by herself, and Luo Yu doesn't have so much time to analyze it slowly, not to mention, Luo Yu is not studying psychology, and this task can only be handed over to Ye Junxiang.
Thinking about it this way, isn't Ye Junxiang, who is proficient in psychology, a qualified real object?
When Ye Junxiang went online, he naturally looked at the position where Luo Yu liked to sit, and when he saw Luo Yu looking at him with a smile, Ye Junxiang's heart suddenly swelled with joy.
"Coming back?"
"Well, I'm back."
Ye Junxiang took the teacup handed over by Luo Yu, and the moment his fingers touched Luo Yu's fingers, it was like an electric shock, and Ye Junxiang's cheeks were a little hot.
"See someone?"
"I saw that this person had indeed practiced, and he had really practiced, not just enlightened."
Ye Junxiang looked at Luo Yu with some surprise: "It's really practiced, how did he do it?" ”
Luo Yu smiled slightly: "There are many strange people in this world, so expanding the cultivation base is definitely the most correct choice, this person is originally an otaku who likes fantasy, so it can be said that he is familiar with this kind of behavior, and even obsessed." When he completes the consecration, the progress will naturally be rapid. ”
"That's right. What a surprise! Is this the spring of otaku? ”
"Hehe, Confucius once said. I have not seen a person who is as virtuous as a womanizer, this statement shows that the power of lust is very powerful from one side, and visualization is actually a way to concentrate spiritual power, as for what to concentrate to it is not important, lust can also be. ”
Ye Junxiang chuckled: "So it's easier to succeed in color blanks?" ”
"That's not wrong if you say that."
Ye Junxiang looked a little strange, looked at Luo Yu and said playfully: "Is that understandable that you are also a color blank?" ”
"Eh" Luo Yu couldn't cry or laugh, he didn't expect Ye Junxiang to wait here, but this can be regarded as lifting a stone to hit his own feet, he deserves it!
saw Luo Yu's embarrassment. Ye Junxiang didn't continue to persecute, and said with a smile: "Okay, what if this exercise really creates a large number of perverts?" ”
Luo Yu shrugged his shoulders: "No way, but in the long run, lustful may be able to pass the visualization level smoothly, but the latter is not good, lustful people are often not strong-willed, especially for themselves, and the later cultivation is aimed at their own ** and delusions." When the time comes, it will naturally keep those perverts out of the door. ”
Ye Junxiang nodded.
Luo Yu shook his head and said: "We don't need to delve into the social responsibility of this matter, this exercise is made by the system, and the system must have an assessment in this regard." ”
Ye Junxiang snorted and said, "I'm just joking, you have to explain it seriously." Haven't you heard that explanation is a cover-up? ”
"Well, I'm wrong, I shouldn't have reasoned with you."
Ye Junxiang pouted and said, "Then you mean I'm unreasonable?" ”
"Of course, there is no such thing. Hehe, Xiangxiang is very reasonable, very reasonable. It's just that your reasoning is too strong for me to understand. ”
Ye Junxiang smiled slyly and said, "Okay." Closer to home, what did you find in this man? ”
Luo Yu Zhengse said his thoughts and speculations carefully, in fact, after meeting Mrs. Zhao last time, Luo Yu told Ye Junxiang about this idea, but there was no evidence at that time, and Luo Yu himself did not insist on this view, after meeting Feng Feng today, Luo Yu felt that the possibility of this speculation was quite large, and some attempts could be made.
"Xiangxiang, what do you think should be the relationship between the subconscious and the main consciousness, or the hidden consciousness in the main consciousness, and how should it be discovered and changed?"
Ye Junxiang frowned: "You have asked a big question, this is a very difficult topic, and it is also a topic that psychology has been studying. The first is the subconscious, since the subconscious is called the subconscious, of course, it is difficult to be discovered, especially to be discovered and confirmed by the person, not to mention changed. ”
Luo Yu frowned: "What about the hidden consciousness in the main consciousness?" ”
"Are you referring to those who subjectively don't want to admit it, but who do have a sense of subjectivity?"
"Yes."
Ye Junxiang smiled helplessly: "There is a saying in Taoist cultivation that three corpses are beheaded, and Buddhism also has a saying that there is no name, Confucianism is more clear, righteousness and sincerity are the prerequisites for cultivating virtue, and the premise you give is to correctly understand yourself and face yourself, do you think this difficulty is very small?" ”
Luo Yu shrugged his shoulders and said: "Whether it is difficult or not, this needs to be solved, I understand when you say this, in fact, this problem has long been realized by those sages." ”
"Realizing that it doesn't mean that it can be solved, throughout the ages, there are very few people who can successfully do this, so isn't it too much for you to ask everyone to open the light?"
Luo Yu smiled bitterly and shook his head: "Maybe, but don't you do it?" Isn't it worth it when it comes to the survival of life? ”
Ye Junxiang also smiled bitterly, if it is worth it, of course, there is no doubt, but whether it can be done is another matter, although modern society attaches great importance to mental health, but unfortunately, in this era of considerable material abundance, mental health is still a big problem, or it should be said that it is a bigger problem.
If the ability to correctly understand oneself and dare to face oneself is regarded as the passing line of mental health, then there are really very few people who can cross this line.
Luo Yu looked at Ye Junxiang's embarrassed appearance, and said with a slight smile: "Xiangxiang, I don't care so much about whether everyone can open the light, you should understand that what I care about is the people around me, what I care about is you, it's Xiu'er"
Ye Junxiang was stunned for a moment, and then a very beautiful smile bloomed on his face.
"Well, I understand, Xiu'er is still very young, according to my observation, Xiu'er's problem is that she is extremely wary and distrustful of the people around her, and at the same time has a strong obsession with her parents, this problem is difficult to say, easy to say, the key is still on you."
"Me?"
"Yes, it's you, Xiu'er regards you as her own parents, so you have to be responsible as a parent, her problem is that she is worried about you leaving, this worry puts her under a lot of pressure, perhaps, it is because she wants to succeed very much, but she can't succeed because she is afraid of failure."
Luo Yu nodded: "This is somewhat similar to Mrs. Zhao, both of them are led to failure because of fear of failure." ”
"It's human nature to suffer from gains and losses, and the more you want to have, the more you are afraid of losing."
Luo Yu nodded: "In other words, I want to make Xiu'er believe that I can definitely do it, but I lack an opportunity?" ”
"Well, the focus can be on age, Xiu'er is still very young, she still has a lot of time, so there are more opportunities, as long as she believes in you and believes in herself, she will always succeed."
Ye Junxiang nodded and said, seeing Luo Yu's knowing expression, Ye Junxiang continued: "However, don't worry about it first, I'll talk to Xiu'er first, it may be more effective to start from the side, besides, this is just my current analysis, it is based on my previous understanding of Xiu'er, and it may not be very comprehensive." ”
"I see, I'll bother you about this."
"What's the trouble, Xiu'er is also my sister, and I treat her as a relative."
Luo Yu smiled and nodded, paused and asked, "So, what about you?" ”
Ye Junxiang looked at Luo Yu and sighed slightly: "I knew you would ask me, but I can't answer you now, people can't see themselves by themselves, they can only observe themselves through others." ”
"Yes, take people as mirrors, I, I am your mirror!"
Ye Junxiang tugged at the corners of his mouth: "I'm sorry, you are not qualified, I think Lin Hong is my mirror." ”
Luo Yu's face was frustrated, Ye Junxiang couldn't help but purse his lips and smile when he saw it, reached out and gently touched Luo Yu's hand and said, "I will be willful, coquettish, and sometimes lost in front of you, so you can't." ”
Luo Yu was stunned, and then laughed happily.
Ye Junxiang went offline quickly, and he didn't know if he was in a hurry to figure out what his problem was, or because he was shy
"Your obsession?"
Lin Hong frowned and looked at Ye Junxiang, and asked a little uncertainly.
Ye Junxiang nodded vigorously: "Yes, do you think I have any hidden obsession in my heart?" Is it the kind of thing that once you say it, I will immediately refute it with a white face and absolutely refuse to admit it, or those thoughts that I don't know but unconsciously pursue? ”
"What are you asking for? Is there something wrong with your mental health? ”
Ye Junxiang waved his hand and said, "No, you sue me first, and I will naturally sue you for the reason." ”
Lin Hong looked at Ye Junxiang suspiciously, seeing Ye Junxiang's serious appearance, Lin Hong had to temporarily put aside his psychological doubts, and thought about it carefully: "Yes, your obsession is a fetish!" ”
"Nonsense!"
"Look, it's refuted!"
Ye Junxiang looked at Lin Hong with a smile and said, "Are you serious, what you mean by fetish is him, right?" I'm not going to argue with that, I'll admit it, I just like him, I like him very much. This is also an obsession, but it is not a hidden obsession, but it is on the surface, and what I need to know is my hidden obsession, or something that I am afraid of. ”
Lin Hong smiled, stretched out his hand and nodded at Ye Junxiang with a narrow smile, and then thought about it seriously: "What are you afraid of?" Hidden obsession? Is there this? (To be continued......)