Mrs. Zhao said in detail, Luo Yu listened very seriously, at the beginning Mrs. Zhao was still a little careless, but seeing Luo Yu's serious appearance, Mrs. Zhao also became serious, and at the same time seemed to have some understanding in her heart.

After listening to Mrs. Zhao's description, Luo Yu didn't say anything, but thought quietly, unconsciously playing with the teacup that had drunk all the water in his hand.

"Mrs. Zhao"

Luo Yu suddenly spoke, so that Mrs. Zhao, who was looking at Luo Yu playfully, subconsciously quickly turned her eyes away, and then turned back, but her small action of concealment was clearly seen by Luo Yu, Luo Yu smiled secretly in her heart, this Mrs. Zhao can finally correct her mentality.

At the beginning, Mrs. Zhao has always looked at Luo Yu with a mentality of elders looking at juniors, although Luo Yu did not feel any malice towards her, but this mentality made Luo Yu feel a little uncomfortable, so Luo Yu will deliberately treat Mrs. Zhao with the attitude of peers, and has been striving to take the initiative psychologically, and now Mrs. Zhao seems to finally understand something and put herself in a correct position.

This shows that Mrs. Zhao is a very smart and transparent person, and she has a decisive and calm personality, and she is by no means an ordinary old lady who only takes her grandchildren at home.

"What did Mr. Luo find?"

Luo Yu nodded, and said slowly while pondering: "Mrs. Zhao, judging from your description, the problem may be in subjective consciousness. ”

Mrs. Zhao said with a straight face: "Oh? Subjective consciousness? You're saying I'm not concentrating? ”

Luo Yu shook his head and said: "It's not that you don't concentrate, it's not that your willpower is not strong, I think it's just the opposite, it's your willpower that is too strong." ”

Mrs. Zhao frowned, and her body subconsciously leaned forward, in fact, she was not as open as she imagined, in this world, she still has a lot of things that she is reluctant to give up.

"Mr. Luo, I don't understand."

Luo Yu nodded, sorted out the words a little, and said: "Let's put it this way, visualization is actually a kind of self-psychological suggestion, do you agree with this?" ”

"Yes, I think so, so I think that as long as I firmly believe that my fiction exists, then the visualization can go smoothly, but the truth is"

Luo Yu nodded: "Yes, what you think is not wrong, but there is another problem with this kind of psychological suggestion, that is, the subconscious, you have a certain understanding of psychology, right?" ”

"Yes."

"Then you should also know that some people are difficult to be hypnotized, right?"

Mrs. Zhao is very smart, Luo Yu opened her head and she immediately understood: "Are you saying that in fact, my psychology, no, subconsciously does not believe that spiritual power cultivation is feasible?" ”

"No, you want to believe it too much, and you end up with gains and losses"

Mrs. Zhao was stunned, and after a while, Mrs. Zhao sighed gloomily, raised her eyes and looked at Luo Yu deeply, and said: "Mr. Luo, you are right, in fact, I am really scared, but I have never shown it, everyone thinks that I am very open-minded and open-minded, in fact, how is it possible?"

Mrs. Zhao lowered her head and wiped the corners of her eyes, raised her head and smiled a little ashamedly: "I made you laugh." ”

Luo Yu shook his head: "It's not ridiculous at all, on the contrary, I admire you, you are doing this for the people closest to you, because you are worried that they will bear too much psychological pressure, in fact, everyone is the same, there are things that are not reluctant, there is no need to hide it at all, let alone feel ashamed." ”

Mrs. Zhao was stunned for a moment, and then couldn't help laughing: "Mr. Luo, do you know, you make me feel very strange when you say this." ”

Luo Yu raised his eyebrows: "What, I said something wrong?" ”

"No, you're right, it's just that you look so young, and you're saying these things to me, an old lady, which always makes people feel very disagreeable."

Luo Yu shrugged: "Young? Huh"

Seeing a trace of vicissitudes and loneliness flashing in Luo Yu's eyes, Mrs. Zhao's heart suddenly moved, and she pursed her lips and smiled: "Or, should I ask you the secret of eternal youth?" ”

Luo Yu was stunned for a moment, then nodded with a smile: "The secret is very simple, when you give up your youth, your youth will never disappear." ”

Mrs. Zhao looked at Luo Yu suspiciously, he seemed to be hinting at something, but he didn't seem to say anything, this man who looked young on the outside seemed to have a heart as cunning as an old fox.

Luo Yu saw that Mrs. Zhao was a little stunned, and said with a slight smile: "Mrs. Zhao, let's get down to business, I don't think it's difficult to visualize, the key is habit." ”

"Habit? What habits? ”

Mrs. Zhao got serious.

"The habits of the brain, or rather the habits of the soul and the brain."

"Please go on."

Luo Yu gently turned the teacup and said: "I think that the relationship between the soul and the body is a subject-object relationship, the soul is the guest, the body is the main, and the soul resides in the body, that is, the so-called people have to bow their heads under the eaves." In order for the soul to reside in the body smoothly, it has to submit to the limitations of the body. If you want to perceive the world, you need to rely on the five senses, but is the world really what we see, hear, and touch? ”

"Isn't it?"

Luo Yu smiled: "Obviously not, at least, it's not just like that." ”

Mrs. Zhao rolled her eyes and said, "What is that?" ”

Luo Yu spread his hands and said: "How do I know, but all the people who study this world think that the world is not what we know, at least, not just like that, isn't it?" ”

Mrs. Zhao smiled helplessly: "Okay, I have to admit that you are right, so what?" What does this have to do with habits? ”

"It's very simple, we know the world through our five senses, and what do we think about the world through? Through the information collected through the five senses, through the brain, through hormones, and finally, the soul, have you ever thought carefully about what you really are when you get rid of all this? ”

"This"

Luo Yu didn't wait for Mrs. Zhao to answer, and continued thoughtfully: "The reason why Fluttershy can easily complete the consecration and visualization is because she has been using the virtual world as her main living environment since she was very young, she is not so dependent on her five senses, nor on hormones, she relies more on her own soul to survive, which is the biggest difference between her and others. ”

Mrs. Zhao seemed to understand something, and said hesitantly: "What does Mr. Luo mean that if you want to achieve enlightenment, you must get rid of those habits, including the habits of perception and thinking?" ”

"Yes."

"But this habit doesn't seem so easy to get rid of, and how can it be done?"

Luo Yu smiled and said: "I can't answer this, but it's nothing more than thinking about it from a different angle, although we are guests, our master family doesn't want to interfere with us, so the initiative is still in our own hands." ”

Mrs. Zhao thought about it seriously and said, "I like I probably understand, I need to go back and think about it carefully." ”

Luo Yu smiled and nodded: "I have a suggestion, you can start with memories, look at the road you have walked, and maybe you can find your true self." ”

Mrs. Zhao's eyes were a little dazed, and after a pause, she smiled and said, "Thank you, I will." ”

"You're welcome, I've also got a lot of inspiration from your situation."

Mrs. Zhao nodded, looked at Luo Yu with some strange eyes, and sighed slightly: "What does Mr. Luo think of my Xiaoying?" ”

Luo Yu, who was about to say goodbye, was stunned and asked with some doubts: "Zhao Ying?" She's a nice, very capable girl. ”

Mrs. Zhao's eyes drifted slightly, as if she was recalling something, and then showed a warm smile: "Yes, she is a girl who is very looking for someone to like, but she is also a silly girl, please don't blame her for what she did last time, this is all the old man forcing her, I don't want her to do stupid things for me, after all, my life is coming to an end, and she has just begun." ”

Luo Yu nodded a little inexplicably and said: "I can understand, however, Zhao Ying is also an adult, she naturally has her thoughts and choices, I respect her choice, as for the rest, in fact, I don't blame her, aren't we working together very happily now." ”

"Cooperation, hehe"

Mrs. Zhao smiled playfully, and there was some taste that Luo Yu didn't like in her eyes when she looked at Luo Yu, that is, the feeling that the elders looked at the juniors, Luo Yu subconsciously frowned.

Mrs. Zhao smiled at the corner of her mouth, slowly got up, Luo Yu also stood up, Mrs. Zhao tidied up her dress, and said with a graceful smile: "I'm disturbed today, it's really beneficial to be able to ask Mr. Luo for advice, if possible, I hope to meet again." ”

Luo Yu nodded, "Yes, I also want to thank Madame and the Zhao family for taking care of Fluttershy, thank you." ”

"You're welcome, that's as it should be, after all, we get more."

Mrs. Zhao didn't mean to go first, Luo Yu understood that Mrs. Zhao was showing that she didn't mean to follow her, so Luo Yu directly said goodbye and left.

Mrs. Zhao watched Luo Yu's figure disappear at the door, an inexplicable smile slowly bloomed at the corner of her mouth, and she muttered in her mouth: "Xiaoying seems to have met a great guy, but this stupid girl doesn't seem to have figured out her mind at all, no, I have to help her, good things are fast and slow, and it will be too late to be so confused." ”

Luo Yu, who was walking on the road, sneezed hard, Luo Yu felt that today was weird, a strange old woman, strange eyes, and a strange sneeze, and he couldn't understand what was wrong for a while, Luo Yu didn't bother to think about it, but today was not completely without gain, at least, Luo Yu somewhat understood why it was so difficult to open the light.

The ancients have long said that man's biggest enemy is himself, and now it seems that the ancestors really saw through the essence of the problem, but this sentence is too vague, people's biggest enemy is not only all kinds of delusions, but also should include their own body, that is, they borrow this body, many of people's desires, in fact, are brought by the body. r1152