"Simply put, that's the story, and I have to admit that I know so little about my players that I didn't know that Arshavin was a single-parent kid...... But this also explains why he has that kind of introverted and withdrawn character, a child who is spoiled by his mother, a child who goes to college to study fashion design, because of the lack of fatherly care in life, the habit is a little feminine, his mother has been most afraid of him since he was a child, so he will definitely not teach him to have such a mother like our other players, and his temper is not surprising. ”

"I think this kind of temper is also very good, what is wrong with a child who listens to his mother?" Wan Qian held the wine glass, tilted his head and thought for a while before saying, "Moreover, how did you convince him to be obedient?" ”

Christmas is followed by the New Year, and on New Year's Day, at the usual gathering held by the coaching staff, people were surprised to find that Li Bin actually received a Christmas gift from Arshavin, which surprised the coaches, and also made Wan Qi keep pestering him, asking him how he made that somewhat introverted guy talk so well.

Although it involves privacy, Wan Qi has never been a big-mouthed person, and after Li Bin instructed two sentences, he had nothing to hide, so he told her about Arshavin.

"Prescribe the right medicine, for a child with a serious mother-love complex, it is natural to let him know that his mother expects him." Li Bin said, "Actually, I didn't expect that this guy's literature and art would reach this point. He even had the idea of giving up football because he didn't think it was as interesting as he thought. He's an adult, it's his profession, but he's so ...... I don't know how to describe it. However, I think now, he will have a lot less such thoughts, let's talk about it, perhaps, he will not have so many cranky thoughts, the child of a single-parent family has a special nature, and his mother is very important to him, and the influence will be great. ”

In my memory, Arshavin's career was very unsmooth. Although he was already well-known in Russia in his early years, because the Russian Super League has always been ignored and the salary given is high, no one has been digging up there, and his name appears in games such as FM at most, and few people really watch him play. It wasn't until 2008 that he became a complete sensation, making a splash at the European Championships before moving to Arsenal for a club's record transfer fee. At Arsenal, he played very well, repeatedly scoring for Arsenal, and contributed to Arsenal's title winning or retaining four many times, but because of Arsene Wenger's insistence on changing attacking players to the wing, coupled with his own personality problems, he did not reach the heights expected at the end of the day. Although he was once considered by all Europeans to be a better player than Cesc Fabregas, he began to decline in his career just after the age of 30. Because his career did not reach the heights he expected, he began to become self-defeating, alcoholism, divorce, hooking up with three versions of girls, many problems surfaced, so that he lost his main position early, and then, was swept away by Arsenal, and returned to Russia to spend the end of his career.

In the past, it was difficult to connect these things in the memory of news knowledge with the situation of Arshavin, and Li Bin was always a little difficult to understand, for what such a sullen person, when he came to the environment of Arsenal, it would become so bad, no matter how bad the football environment in England was, it would not be like this. Now, after learning something about Arshavin, he also understands Arshavin's problem. In his early years, this child who grew up under the pampering of his mother, although he had a love for football and excellent talent, but because of the growth environment, he lacked hard work. And after arriving at Arsenal, his career suffered a setback, and seeing his career go downhill, he also began to indulge himself. He had in his eyes a great example of self-indulgence - his father, so he began to learn to be like his father, drinking, divorcing, and fooling around. It can be said that this is his way of self-destruction and self-abandonment, because he grew up in a single-parent family, his personality is also relatively feminine, he likes to go to extremes, and his self-abandonment after not pursuing his career is also extremely violent.

And in this life, after knowing a lot of things about him, Li Bin also decided to dissuade him and turn him into a better person. Arshavin is a player under him, although his personality is a little unsociable, but after all, he is also a part of the team, Li Bin does not want to see him give up on himself, even if it is not from the perspective of a professional player, just from the perspective of being a person, he does not want Arshavin to become very bad.

Li Bin believes that he can do it, on the one hand, Li Bin believes that he is not Wenger, and will not make some requests to him that he does not like, on the other hand, Italy is not England, although there are many models here, but compared to the third version of the girl is still slightly better, Li Bin believes that if he works hard enough, he can make Arshavin a different person from his memory.

Arshavin is introverted and sullen, but in fact he is not a person who particularly likes to cause trouble, in his career, he has always only accepted interviews with one Russian reporter, and the number of interviews is once or twice a year, and he will never cause trouble in a high-profile manner, Li Bin believes that as long as he can correct his problems, he will still be a good player.

"I've learned a lot about him." Li Bin said, "Sometimes, our views on a certain person are one-sided. We only see Arshavin's unsociable temper, we see that he doesn't work hard enough, and we see that he is not an ideal player, but if we don't talk to him seriously and communicate with him well, how can we know these things? And if you don't know these things, how can you help him correct them? If you don't know these things, I don't have the courage to say that I can teach him well. ”

"There are different things to say about different players. Milito is a man who has a lot of years and pursuits for a successful career, while Rossi has an incomparable pursuit of fame, and Arshavin, I bet on his mother that is his weakness, obviously, I bet right. It is impossible for any child who is doted on by his mother not to love his mother, I analyzed his mother's expectations of him, analyzed his mother's thoughts, and encouraged him to make a phone call with his mother, communicate well, and then take his mother to Italy, which naturally made him work harder when he played. ”

"Well done." Wan Qi smiled, "And what's even more rare is that you also know a lot of psychological things, what do you do for him?" Psychoanalysis? I haven't heard you say anything about it. ”

"I've only studied some sports psychology, it's not psychology at all, I can't learn this kind of stuff, it's troublesome enough to psychoanalysis, behaviorism, I've just read some NLP books, and it's not a formal psychology, but it's quite practical. However, there are some things that I always empathize with, saying that it is psychological analysis, I am ashamed to bear it, that is, some simple persuasion, his mother is a very great person, with such a good mother, he should know how to cherish it. ”

"It seems that you mean something else when this comes out of your mouth?"

"It's not something else, I can make it clear: when I was a child, I also had my own dreams, but my parents were not so open. They told me I had to learn to make money in a profession and then grow up to make money. There was a time when my little dream was wiped out, and it wasn't until a long time later that I mustered up the courage to start my own life, so I envied his mother's kindness. ”

"Your dream is to be a coach? Childhood? ”

"Of course not, I had other dreams when I was a kid...... It's not kicking, it's something else. But those were all from childhood, and there was nothing to say. Li Bin smiled and said, "Those things are over, and it is important to look forward." ”

"But you don't seem to have much to do with your parents, okay?"

Li Bin didn't say anything, he had no way to explain the things of his previous life.

"Anyway, you can do your own business, and I won't say much. What gift did he give you? I just glanced at it, but I didn't see it clearly. ”

A book, Michael Lewis's new book, Weakness: The Course of the Game, in English. I've been studying English lately, so it's good to read these kinds of books. I mentioned it to him once, and he bought it for me as a gift. ”

"Michael Lewis?" Wan Qian frowned, "The Liar's Playing Cards, and the author of "Leaving the World Behind You"? ”

"Have you read his books?"

"I've read some of it, and I think his book is pretty good, but I haven't read this one yet."

"This one is about rugby. Some of his books are sports-related, and his first two books, "Moneyball" and "Magic Ball: The Wisdom of Winning in Adversity", are all about baseball, and they are all very relevant - sports are interconnected, and a lot of what he writes is about management. Unfortunately, he was an American and didn't like football much, but I really wanted to know what his soccer books would look like. ”

Wan Qi looked at Li Bin, she understood a little, even if she is a Serie A coach, she has to broaden her horizons from time to time and constantly recharge herself.

No profession is easy, no one can do it once and for all, after doing a line, he will always stand at the top of the world by relying on his own survival. Even in your heyday, you can't afford to neglect to recharge yourself, which is what a good coach should do.

"Lend me a look after you've read it...... If you have the last one, you can borrow it from me now. After Wan Qian finished speaking, he suddenly remembered something, "Are you learning English to prepare for going to the Premier League in the future?" ”

"Of course."

Wan Qian raised his eyebrows and did not speak again.

"What's wrong? You don't like the Premier League? ”

"What does it have to do with whether I like it or not, is it because I don't go you won't go?"

"Not really, I have my own career plan, but if I go to the Premier League, as a member of the coaching staff, you have to go to the Premier League together."

Wan Qi narrowed his eyes and looked at Li Bin for a long time before nodding, "Okay, Italy has stayed long enough in the past two years, and when the time comes, we can go to the UK together." But by then, I'll be thirty years old. ”

This time it was Li Bin's turn to be silent: Is this, trying to hint at something?