Anping is growing up all the time, and Zhen Wen's favorite thing is to take pictures of Anping with a camera to record the process of this little baby's growth little by little.

The other one that is slowly getting bigger is Li Yan's belly, although Li Yan is very unhappy about it.

After having a child, time flies really fast.

In the blink of an eye, it was the beginning of school again, and on October 15, Pan An held a birthday party for one-year-old Xiao Anping at home to celebrate his first birthday.

In fact, Pan An has no awareness of this, he himself has not celebrated his birthday, and he also feels that this is troublesome.

It's just that unlike Pan An, Zhen Wen and Li Yan are more concerned about this.

Because Pan An didn't want to have a lively relationship, this time he only planned to invite Zhang Qiyu over, and the four adults and a child celebrated together.

Zhen Wen took care of the big-bellied Li Yan and An Ping at home, while Pan An went out to pick up Zhang Qiyu.

Zhang Qiyu has lived alone for the past two years, and has moved out of the house, probably because she can't stand the nagging of her parents.

"Early. Pan An leaned on the side of the car, and after seeing Zhang Qiyu coming out of the building, he said hello.

Zhang Qiyu looked left and right, and stroked the tips of his hair that were blown up by the autumn wind, "It's getting cold." ”

"yes, summer is over. Pan An also looked at the slightly cold streets around him, and it seemed that it was easier to feel the desolation in autumn.

"Get in the car. Pan An gave up his position and invited Zhang Qiyu to get in the car.

The two quickly sat in the driver's seat and the passenger seat, and Zhang Qiyu said casually after sitting down: "I'm sorry, I haven't driven for a long time, and the car crashed into the guardrail as soon as I started yesterday." ”

Pan An drove the car, and he also talked without a ride.

"It's okay, Anping is much stronger now than two months ago, but he is also a lot naughty, and he looks too restless after leaving, and he threw away the toys given by Zhen Wen yesterday. ”

Zhang Qiyu knew that Pan An was not the kind of casual person, any casual words were not arbitrary, this was a man who liked to use his brain before speaking.

Calling Zhen Wen by her name does not mean that she is disrespectful, on the contrary, the relationship between their family has always been harmonious.

Zhang Qiyu is not the kind of person who will talk about others behind his back, at this time, leaning on the car seat, he said with a little curiosity: "How did you educate Xiao Anping? I heard my mother say, you have always been regardless of Xiao Anping, and you let Anping's grandmother teach Xiao Anping." ”

Pan An smiled and said: "I'm just a child, my body hasn't developed well, and what I lack now is nutrition, not knowledge." ”

"It's not like you're saying this from a father, it's your son, don't you want him to be the same as you?" Zhang Qiyu felt that Pan An had a problem, "I always thought that you were the kind of person who respected knowledge very much, so you would also educate future generations like this." ”

Pan Anke is not such a person, explained: "I also came here like this, and people are different after all, I don't want him to respond to anyone's expectations, just be yourself." ”

Before supplementing knowledge, Pan An is the first to supplement the nutrition.

"You were back then, could you be the same as now?" Zhang Qiyu was a little angry, "Xiao Anping is not lacking anything, it is your business that you are willing to endure hardships, why do you have to let children be the same as you?"

Pan An smiled and said helplessly: "Don't be angry, when I ate braised pork with rice, I ate it while crying, and now Anping is also crying and eating, but he is crying and refusing to eat." ”

Zhang Qiyu glanced at Pan An, "Children are like this, if you want to educate, you have to start educating from an early age, and you don't have anything to do anyway." ”

Faced with this statement, Pan An sighed calmly, "I also have my own things to do, in the eyes of you and Anping's mother and grandmother, I am irresponsible, but I have given him a statement and a comfortable environment, and I will give him enough freedom, I and Li Yan are the same, we don't want to be bound by children for a lifetime." ”

"Irresponsible! You two are so embarrassed to be parents!" Zhang Qiyu got angry and said in annoyance that these two people were wrong.

Li Yan is that kind of character, if it weren't for Pan An's stopping, she wouldn't want to have a second child.

Zhang Qiyu thought that Pan An would be more responsible, but he didn't want to get this kind of answer.

This is not a joke, Zhang Qiyu knows very well that Pan An is not the kind of person who can talk casually, he must think so.

Pan An continued: "There's nothing to be embarrassed about, there is food and drink, parents, grandmother, and so many relatives on both sides, what else does he lack?

That's right, but Zhang Qiyu still turned his head to look out the window, "Ruthless!"

"I also have a lot of things to do, Li Yan doesn't want to be bound by children for a lifetime, I don't want to work as hard as her mother, I don't want to hug my grandson just after watching the child grow up, I understand, so I will follow Li Yan in many things. ”

Now Li Yan is really hard, walking around with a big belly, because the child in her belly can't be herself for a long time.

I can't eat and drink at will, I can't play with Pan An at will, I often suffer because of the child in my belly, I can't go out to meet my friends and classmates, and I stay in the small room depressed.

Li Yan had never suffered before, so she couldn't grit her teeth like ordinary people and pass, and she would lose her temper with Pan An and Zhen Wen.

Pan An understands very well, and has always protected and resolved Li Yan's psychological problems due to physical relationships.

Zhang Qiyu thought that Pan An was too ruthless, "You don't have any expectations for your son, don't you want him to be as good as you?"

"It's too tired, it's the same as me, it's too boring, I can't know his life, all I can do is give him an environment where he can grow up, and it's very good so far. ”

Pan An gave his son enough environment, whether it was interpersonal resources or material resources, Xiao Anping surpassed 99% of the children in the country.

If he wanted to learn, Pan An would not fail to teach.

Not to mention Pan An, even a high-level intellectual like Zhang Qiyu is enough to take care of Xiao Anping for many years.

has everything, and there is no lack of care from relatives, Pan An feels that this is enough, compared to himself, his son's starting point is much higher.

The biggest difference between him and himself is not the system and magic, but whether he has the heart to become a strong person!

He had plenty of time to grow, and Pan An wouldn't press the other person's head, use a rope to help his neck, and pull him to crawl behind him.

Pan An walked to 1 step by step, stood up and walked, running, and the road of life had just begun.

"Do you think my son will follow in my footsteps?" Pan An looked at Zhang Qiyu and asked the question.

Zhang Qiyu frowned and thought for a while, then turned his head and looked out the window again, "Normal people, who would be as boring as you!"

"That's right. ”

Pan An smiled and continued driving.