Chapter 284: If You See Bad, Take It

That night, the drunken groom, Guan Mengdu, was carried back to the second floor of the Wang family by Hao Min, fell into bed, and fell asleep.

The next morning, Mengdu naturally couldn't go to work.

It was the mayor's wife who called the unit leader of Mengdu, saying that after Mengdu got married, because of continuous travel abroad, after returning to China, there were still some trivial matters that had not been dealt with, and she needed to ask for a leave of absence for one or two days.

The leader of the Mengdu unit, who doesn't know who Mengdu's father is?

Now Vice Mayor Wang's wife has personally called to ask for leave for her son, isn't it okay to ask for one?

The leaders of the unit made a clear statement:

"Mrs. Wang, there is no problem with asking for leave in the dream, even if it is a few more days. We have arranged all the work in the unit. You just let Yumedo take care of things. ”

From the fact that the mayor's wife asked for leave for her dreams, it really fulfilled a popular folk saying:

Nowadays, learning mathematics, physics and chemistry is better than having a good father!

However, Mengdu is still the kind of "Adou" who can't support the wall.

When I got up in the afternoon, I remembered that I was supposed to go to work today. So, after washing his face and brushing his teeth indiscriminately, he put on a piece of clothing casually, took a large bag of candy, melon seeds, cigarettes and other items, and drove the "Audi" to the unit.

After returning home that night, after dinner, Liping saw that he had not fully recovered his spirit because of excessive drinking last night, so he suggested that he go upstairs to rest early.

Mengdu, at the banquet last night, he did drink high because he was happy.

This afternoon, although he went to the unit to order something, he still felt that he was not feeling energetic.

So, he listened to Liping's suggestion, and accompanied by Liping, he returned to the new house on the second floor early.

"Mengdu, you drank too much last night! Do you know, according to Hao Min's estimate, you drank at least eight taels of 'Moutai' alone! And drank more than half a bottle of red wine! ”

After going upstairs, Liping asked her husband to sit down on a chair at the small round table and talked to him about the previous night's drinking.

"yes, I've drunk so much? I don't remember exactly. However, it's rare for our classmates to get together, and we drink our happy wine, and you can't drink, so I have to drink more. ”

Yumedu replied a little disappreciatively.

"Of course you can drink wine. It's just that, as you know, drinking too much alcohol will hurt your body. I suggest that you drink alcohol in the future, and it is best to control the amount of alcohol. ”

Liping said her suggestion with concern.

"It's okay! Supposedly, if I have a good rest, eight taels of white wine and half a catty of red wine will be nothing to me! Young people, cross the threshold and three bowls of rice! The reason why I got drunk yesterday was because I fell in love with you in bed the night before! Otherwise, it is impossible to get drunk! Ahem, don't talk about that. Come, dear, don't drink today, come and let me kiss! ”

After Mengdu finished speaking, he got up from the chair next to the small round table, reached out to hug Liping, and kissed her on her fresh and reddened lips.

When you get married, it's only natural for husband and wife to hug each other!

Liping could only let her husband kiss herself.

After a while, when Mengdu left Liping's lips and gasped, Liping took the opportunity to gently push him to the chair next to the small round table, and said tentatively:

"Mengdu, I want to discuss something with you, I don't know if it's okay?"

"Tell me, what's the matter?"

Mengdu saw Liping's serious and solemn demeanor, looked at her strangely for a while, and then sat down at the small round table.

"Actually, it's not a big deal. I mean, in the future, when you talk about me in front of your classmates or friends, don't introduce me as a national diving champion, okay? ”

"Ah, why? Introducing you as a national diving champion doesn't this give you a gold sticker on your face?! At the same time, it can also add glory to my face! ”

After listening to his wife's words, Mengdu felt a little puzzled, so he brought out his thoughts.

"Alas, Mengdu, you don't know about athletes. As an athlete, when he had just made brilliant achievements and was climbing to the top of his career, he suddenly retired and changed careers, and his heart was very uncomfortable! Right now, I'm in that mindset. Think about it, every time I meet with someone, you introduce me as a national diving champion, how sad is my heart? ”

Liping also told Mengdu her reasons.

"Ahem, what's the matter? If you leave the Provincial Sports Brigade, it will also be an honorable retirement! Haven't you heard of it? We do things in society, no matter what we do, we must do 'two will be accepted'. One is called 'Accept when you see good' and the other is called 'Accept when you see bad'. What does that mean? That is to say, nothing human beings do can be better forever! The so-called 'flowers are not good for a thousand days'. Therefore, when we do something, we must accept it when we see it, so that you can maintain your achievements and maintain a glorious image. For example, after winning the women's diving championship in the National Games, you have reached the peak of your career, and at this time, you will accept it when you see it, and you will always keep your championship title and glorious image, and you will not quit the diving team after losing in future competitions. You're right?

There is also a situation called 'take it when you see it'! What does this mean? That is to say, when we are doing something, if we find that the direction is not right, or the trend is not good, and the development of things is not right, we can't just do it! If you blindly persist in doing it, the bad results may get worse and worse, and the losses will get bigger and bigger! Therefore, in order to minimize the loss, it is necessary to 'take the bad when you see it'! That's the choice of smart people. ”

I really didn't expect that after listening to Liping's thoughts, Mengdu actually said such a big theory.

Actually, it's a coincidence.

When Mengdu returned from the United States the day before yesterday, he was chatting on the plane with his friends from the same tour group. When they were talking about the U.S. government shutdown, the group member happened to talk about the theories of "take what is good" and "take it when you see bad".

Moreover, the group member asserted:

When the U.S. Congress sees the negative impact of the government shutdown and the damage caused to the country, it will definitely "take it when it is bad"! We will definitely minimize the losses caused by the budget appropriation issue!

In the past, Mengdu had only heard of the idiom "accept when you see good", and never heard of the new theory of "accept when you see bad"!

Therefore, he was particularly impressed by the theory of "take it when you see it"!

It's just that he didn't expect that when discussing with his wife tonight whether to introduce her as a national diving champion, he actually used the theories of "accept when you see good" and "accept when you see bad".

At this time, Mengdu was quite glad that he could hear the group member's theory of "take it when you see it", and at the same time, she was proud that she could use the theory of "take it when you see it" to refute his wife's point of view!

Sure enough, after listening to Mengdu's theories about "accept when you see good" and "accept when you see bad", Liping felt that what he said also had some truth, and she was speechless for a while.

However, after Liping was stunned for a moment, she felt that it was still necessary to remind her husband, hoping that he would not touch the unhappiness in her heart in the future, so she cheered up and said to her husband:

"Mengdu, I don't care if you say 'take it when it's good' or 'take it when it's bad', anyway, I just ask you not to say that I'm a diving champion when you introduce it to others in the future! Because as soon as I hear this, I don't want to mention it, and I feel very unhappy in my heart! ”

"Heyβ€”β€”, don't you want to 'dog bite Lu Dongbin, you don't know good people's hearts'! I transferred you from the Provincial Sports Brigade to the Municipal Government Office, but it took a lot of effort! How can you say that you are unhappy? Let me tell you, how many people can't squeeze in if they want to break their heads! And what about you, we transferred you to the city government, and you still say that you are unhappy? Since you're upset, why didn't you say it at the time?! What did you do then? ”

Mengdu listened to Liping say something unhappy in his heart, and his heart was also "unhappy"!

I saw that his face sank, and the level of his speech immediately lowered his level.

"Mengdu, it's not that I didn't say it at the time. At that time, when you helped me with the transfer, I didn't know beforehand! It was you and my father who went through the transfer procedures for me, and the transfer notice was given to me, so you told me about it, what did you tell me to say? To whom? At that time, if I didn't agree to the transfer, my dad, and my mom, would have been messing with me all the time! In addition, you and Hao Min, as well as Uncle Hao, the three of you have been urging me to work in the city government. Do you think I can say no? ”

Liping listened to Mengdu's questioning, and her heart was also angry, so she took out all the situations that were transferred at that time.

"Yo ho, so we transferred you from the Provincial Sports Commission to the General Office of the Municipal Government, and the whole transfer was wrong? If so, we'll transfer you back again? ”

Dream Capital seemed to be really angry, and his eyes widened as he spoke.

Liping saw that her husband was really angry, thinking that the two were still on their honeymoon, and she didn't want to be unhappy because of this matter, so she said tactfully:

"Mengdu, when we fell in love in the past, I didn't think you were like this?"

"You say I'm not, what is that?"

Yumedo still stared at his wife angrily and questioned.

"In the past, I felt that you were very self-conscious, and you were reasonable in whatever you were dealing with. When the two of us were talking, they were also very communicative. Nowβ€”"

When Liping said this, she didn't know what to say, so she looked at her husband and stopped talking.

"Oh, listen to you, you're saying I'm being unreasonable now? Is that saying I'm not able to communicate right now? Do you mean that I don't have cultivation now? ”

Dream is even more aggressive and asks his wife.

"No, I didn't mean that! I mean, can you be gentler and be more respectful to me. I hope that in your future speech and behavior, no matter what you do, you will not act according to your personal nature. ”

Liping explained as she pondered the words in her head.

"Heyβ€”β€”, I said Liping, what do you think I did according to my personal nature? Let's speak with a basis! ”

"Well, of course I have a basis for what I say. For example, my mother advised you not to go to the United States this time, and Uncle Hao also advised you not to go, and I also expressed my intention to tell you not to go. As a result, you still insist on going. Isn't this a matter of personal character? ”

Liping immediately stated her basis.

"Oh, that's the basis, huh? Of course the United States is going! Tell me, what is the United States? That's the most advanced, most developed, and richest country in the world! It is also the most democratic, freest and most fraternal country in the world! I have the opportunity, and I don't go to such a country to open my eyes, isn't that a fool? ”

"You say that the United States is the most advanced, the most developed, the richest country, and I have no objection to that; However, I do not agree with the view that the United States is the most democratic, free, and fraternal country. ”

At this time, Liping listened to Mengdu talk about his evaluation of the United States, and then expressed her different opinions.