In the living room of Li Dashi's house, Liu Feng sat on the sofa, leisurely drinking tea, on his left hand, Li Dashi sat there with a smile, chatting with Liu Feng from time to time, asking Liu Feng about his recent situation.

Through conversation, Liu Feng learned that Li Dashi has two children, one of which is the child of him and his ex-wife, a girl, twenty-three years old this year, just graduated from college, Li Dashi means to let her join the army, with Li Dashi's connections, she can directly give her a job, but she herself doesn't want to, she doesn't want to be in politics, but is very interested in business, it's just ...... Even if Li Dashi has money, it is impossible to take it out to open a company for his daughter, it is too conspicuous, and now if he wants to open a similar company, he needs a lot of money.

As for the second child, it was born to Li Dashi after the death of his previous wife and his second wife, he is a boy, fourteen years old this year, he is in junior high school, he is not studying well, and it is estimated that it is difficult to get into high school, but with Li Dashi's connections, let alone high school, he can go to college if he wants! No pressure.

While chatting, a series of footsteps sounded outside the door, and when the door opened, a handsome girl pushed the door in, and looked at Liu Feng in amazement, at the same time, Li Dashi had also taken the initiative to help the two of them introduce, this girl was none other than Li Dashi's daughter, named Li Rong!

Under Li Dashi's introduction, Liu Feng and Li Rong nodded to each other, Liu Feng was full of smiles, but Li Rong was not enthusiastic, and after saying hello to Liu Feng coldly, he went upstairs by himself.

Seeing his daughter so rude, Li Dashi was also a little unhappy, since he married his second wife. There was a gap between him and his daughter. The communication with each other is less than one day a day. When he graduated from college, he even refused Li Dashi's arrangement and insisted on going out by himself! In the face of a stubborn daughter, as strong as Li Dashi, there is no way, it can really be said that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read!

Not long after sitting down, the door rang again, and this was the point where the students were out of school. When the workers got off work, Liu Feng came this time to get to know Li Dashi's family, and by the way, he had a meal here to increase his feelings.

The door was pushed open again, and a slender but tall half-sized man walked in, dressed in sweaty and gray clothes. You can smell the smell of sweat from afar.

Just as Liu Feng was observing, Li Dashi cursed angrily: "You bastard." How many times have I told you, your most important task now is to study hard, when will you still have the heart to play! If you can't even pass the high school exam, where do you let Lao Tzu's face go! You don't have a face, Lao Tzu still has a face! ”

"Alright, alright...... I know, can you talk less! In the face of Li Dashi's curse, the half-grown man muttered impatiently, and then walked into his room and slammed the door.

Looking at Li Dashi's angry appearance, Liu Feng couldn't help but smile bitterly, this Li Dashi is majestic outside, but at home, he is obviously not very bright, as the head of the family, no one listens to him.

"Hehe......" scratched his head embarrassedly, Li Dashi said embarrassedly: "Let you see the joke, these two children, it really broke my heart, but they still don't listen to me, their ideas are really different from others!" I don't understand, the same people, why is the difference so big? You said that if my son could be half as obedient as you, I would ......"

Looking at Li Dashi's wry expression, Liu Feng knew that Li Dashi wanted to have authority in the unit at home, but this was impossible, there was one thing, Li Dashi was confused at all.

After thinking about it, Liu Feng shook his head and said, "Captain, in this matter, your perspective on the problem is obviously not quite right!" ”

Hearing Liu Feng's words, Li Dashi's neck stiffened, and he said loudly: "What's wrong?" You say that people outside ask me to do it, but I may not do it, but they are good, they are born in happiness and do not know blessings, ah! I tried my best to raise it, but everything was ready, and they actually gave me a pick, so I didn't go! You said...... What is this called? ”

Looking at Li Dashi with a smile, Liu Feng said: "Captain, in this matter, you do have a problem with the angle, you must figure it out, others ask you because it is what others desire, and you take the initiative to arrange it for your children, but it is not what they want, forcing them to follow the path you arranged, that is, drinking water according to the head of the ox, isn't there a saying?" Twisted melons are not sweet. ”

"This ......" hesitated for a moment, Li Dashi took out a cigarette and lit it, took a few deep breaths, and then said: "What you said makes sense, but ...... If they don't follow the path I say, what will they do in the future? If I leave it alone, just that kid in my family, he has to work after graduating from junior high school, what do you think he can do? ”

Shaking his head, Liu Feng said: "I didn't say that you don't care, but as their peers, believe me still have some right to speak, I think...... You're interfering too much. ”

"What!" Hearing Liu Feng's words, Li Dashi suddenly blew his beard and stared! Obviously, he can't accept Liu Feng's statement, is there too much to say about the care and love of his parents?

In the face of Li Dashi's anger, Liu Feng was not worried at all, and after a deep groan, he said leisurely: "You have to give them the space to grow freely, and then when they need your help, you will reach out to help, what you have to do is not block, but to guide them to the right path, you twist the cow's head to drink water, then even if you have the strength of the cow, you can't always do this, typical thankless." ”

Speaking of this, Liu Feng paused slightly, looking at Li Dashi's disapproving expression, Liu Feng continued: "For example, your kid, he is not good at studying, but is it too late to work hard now?" Will you be able to catch up? Will you be able to get into high school? ”

Shaking his head, Li Dashi said dejectedly: "I also know what you said, but if you don't work hard, won't your grades never get better?" ”

Liu Feng continued: "If you don't get good grades, it's not good, anyway, with you, he went to high school, and it's no problem to graduate from college, in this case, what are you worried about?" Why don't you let him pursue what he likes? ”

"This ......" looked at Liu Feng wordlessly, for a long time...... Li Dashi also failed to say a word.

Looking at Li Dashi's speechless appearance, Liu Feng continued: "Although I don't know much about the situation of your family, I ...... Your kid likes basketball so much, it can't have nothing to do with you, right? ”

"Hehe......" Hearing Liu Feng's words, Li Dashi finally laughed, shook his head and said: "Yes, this is my fault, since I was five years old, I have taken him to play ball every day and cultivate his interest in basketball, to be honest, I regret it, but regret is useless, just his talent, his head, there is no development in basketball, I can take care of him when I am in power, you say that once I retire, what will he do?" ”

Shaking his head, Liu Feng sighed and said, "Actually...... You still plan his life according to your own preferences, if he is willing to do what you say, then he may one day live the kind of life you like, but you must know that the life you like may not be what he likes! ”

After a pause, Liu Feng continued: "Some time ago, Coach Ajiang came to invite me and made a promise that as long as I joined, I would be promoted to the regimental level within six years!" ”

"En......" nodded, and Li Dashi said: "I know about this, but why didn't you go?" This can not only give full play to your strengths, but also quickly get promoted, what a great opportunity! You better think about it, it's a pity to miss such an opportunity, you will regret it! ”

Shrugging his shoulders, Liu Feng said: "If I were your son, you would definitely have to force me to go, because this is the most cost-effective, but in fact, I will never go, no matter how much benefit there is, I will not go, because that is not the life I pursue!" ”

"You ......" Hearing Liu Feng's words, Li Dashi was finally moved! From this point of view, Liu Feng and his son are really a bit alike, and the choices they make are completely incomprehensible!

Looking at Li Dashi, Liu Feng said seriously: "Captain, it's not that I promised Coach Ajiang that I can reach that position, although other ways are more difficult, but they may also lead to the same end, and while getting something, we will inevitably lose something, and while losing something, we will gain something after all." ”

Speaking of this, Liu Feng completely let go and continued: "Even if your kid starts working hard now, I'm afraid he won't be able to get into high school, you have to get this strength, you don't care who cares about your son?" Since he can't pass the exam, why don't you let him live the life he wants? ”

"But...... What will he do in the future? Facing Liu Feng's words, Li Dashi was stunned.

"In the future?" Looking at Li Dashi, Liu Feng continued: "You can talk to him, before the age of eighteen, he can play and practice with all his heart, but if he still has no future after the age of eighteen, then after graduating from high school, he will listen to your arrangement, join the army directly, and then take the military academy!" If the level is very high after the age of eighteen and reaches the professional level, then it is better to be a professional player, strive to be sent to the Bayi team, mix for a few years, and the level will rise, you don't need to worry. ”

"Smack!" slapped his thigh violently, Li Dashi said loudly: "That's right! Why didn't I think of that? ”

Shaking his head, Liu Feng said: "This is called a matter of not caring about yourself, and caring about yourself is chaos!" And...... You always wanted to force them to follow your path before, and you didn't consider it from their point of view at all, although their thinking may be a little simpler, not mature at all, or even wrong, but still that sentence, what you have to do is not to block, but to guide them according to the situation, and gradually reverse their life trajectory to the path you want! ”

"Okay...... happily patting his thigh, Li Dashi said with a smile: "Speaking of which, I have to trouble you, your level is so high, your vision must be very good, you can help me take a look at my kid when you have time, and see if he eats this bowl of rice!" ”

Leaning on the back of the sofa, Liu Feng said with a smile: "Cheng, how can I refuse what you explained, I have been ...... You've helped me so much, but I don't know how to repay you, as long as there is a place where I can be used, I will never refuse! (To be continued......)