Chapter 198: Life in the Tea Ceremony

Sure enough, the mayor's wife saw that the little nanny never said a word, and she really couldn't hold it in her heart.

The most uncertain thing for the mayor's wife is the silent little nanny in front of her, is it because yesterday, or recently, because she had that kind of unsightly relationship with the old man, and she didn't dare to say anything?

Or is it true that because of the fact that Mengdu is married to Liping, she feels very sad in her heart!

Anyway, last night, after a-for-tat conversation with the old man, and after repeated thinking in the second half of the night, the mayor's wife's final choice was:

Even if the husband did have an ambiguous relationship with the little nanny, in order to maintain the existing harmonious family and happy life of the Wang family, he would rather be jealous and sad than preserve the status quo of the Wang family!

After making this choice, the mayor's wife also decided:

When talking to the little nanny today, you must pretend that you don't know anything, and talk about what your husband said in the nanny's room last night, so as to avoid the little nanny being frightened, and not to let her have the idea of leaving the Wang family.

The mayor's wife feels that compared with the peace and stability of the Wang family, the most important thing at the moment is to do everything possible to keep Lingzi's people and hearts together!

Therefore, after Vice Mayor Wang finished breakfast and went out, the mayor's wife took the opportunity to take the initiative to talk to the little nanny.

Of course, the little nanny didn't know what the hostess and the "uncle" said last night, and she didn't know what the hostess was thinking now.

Sitting on the side of the hostess, she made up her mind anyway:

Try to talk as little as possible!

It's better not to speak!

If you really want to speak, then follow the tone of the "uncle" last night, and deal with the hostess cautiously.

After the mayor's wife talked alone for a long time, seeing that Reiko always answered, she pushed away the dishes and chopsticks in front of her, simply turned around, and said to the little nanny:

"Reiko, let's not talk about you and Yumedo now, okay?

Let's talk about something else.

To be honest, after so many years of life, today, I can understand a truth. What is the truth?

In my opinion, in fact, a person's life is also very simple, it is like drinking tea, just two actions.

Uh, by the way, have you ever heard of the two actions of drinking tea? ”

In order not to let her conversation with the little nanny be cold, the mayor's wife continued to talk about her topic regardless of whether Reiko was okay or not.

She chattered as she glanced at Reiko.

Seeing that Reiko was still silent, he stared at her and asked.

Reiko saw the hostess staring straight at her, she was a little flustered, and after glancing at her blankly, she still forced herself not to squeak.

After looking at her hostess, she shook her head silently.

"Oh, you haven't heard of it, have you? Then I'll tell you! However, on the topic of drinking tea, I also listened to my poker friends when I was playing cards yesterday. They say that there are only two actions to drink tea. ”

The hostess looked up, thought for a moment, and continued:

"Yesterday, my poker buddy said that there are only two actions to drink tea, and that is:

Pick it up, put it down!

Right?

You see, a person's life seems complicated. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is as simple as drinking tea, and it is also two actions:

Pick it up, put it down.

There are many things in our lives that we don't have to worry about;

Many people don't need to be entangled.

Many times, as long as we take things lightly, take things lightly, afford to take them, and put them down, our hearts will naturally be calm. ”

Speaking of this, the mayor's wife raised her head slightly, recalled for a moment, and then said:

"Things in the world can be like drinking tea, but it's just 'picking up' and 'putting down', just two actions.

When we drink tea, in fact, there are only two forms of tea:

Float up, sink down.

In the process of floating and sinking, tea can be soaked with natural fragrance;

And what about those of us who drink tea? In the process of picking up and putting down the teacup, you can also show the demeanor and grade of your personality!

It can be said that life is like tea, indifferent when it floats, and calm when it sinks.

As long as we can 'afford to take it and put it down', it is natural that someone will remember your fragrance and purity!

Yesterday, our poker players were talking about it and saying:

Anyone who has self-cultivation is like drinking tea all his life:

The water is boiling and the heart is calm.

In the hustle and bustle of society, let the world be flashy, go away from the dust, be quiet, be indifferent, be calm, and be casual.

When the teacup is put down, the heart is quiet;

When the heart is quiet, the world is at peace.

Oops, I'm older now, and it seems like that's the main thing I heard from my friends yesterday. Later, the card friends also said some Zen, raising, heart or something, anyway, I can't remember everything. That's probably what it means!

Reiko, tell me, isn't this metaphor of drinking tea as a metaphor for life very reasonable? ”

After the mayor's wife finished speaking, she said that she had corrected herself and her memory was not very good; In fact, she was deliberately showing off that she still had such memories.

After showing off, she also deliberately asked the little nanny with a grin.

In fact, what the mayor's wife just said about tea and life was just from her mobile phone last night, and she didn't hear it from a card friend at all!

Last night, when she saw this text about the tea ceremony and life, at first, it was not to do Reiko's work, but to use the content of this text to calm down and adjust her mentality repeatedly and continuously.

Looking, thinking, thinking, looking, don't you say, through the chewing and digestion of this text, gradually, the mentality of the mayor's wife has obviously calmed down.

Probably because I read it a lot last night, the above text is particularly impressive in the mind of the mayor's wife.

It's just that she didn't expect that when she talked to the little nanny today, she would be able to memorize it in general!

That's a rarity!

After all, the mayor's wife is in her fifties!

Generally speaking, most women who are over 50 years old will have a significant decline in memory.

"Auntie, Iβ€”I know. In the future, I will definitely listen to you. I, definitely, try to calm my feelings. As you said, I want to learn, be able to take it, be able to put it down, be a little quiet, be calm, be steady, and be casual. ”

After listening to the hostess's lecture about the life of the tea ceremony, Reiko felt that the hostess was not as ghostly as she imagined, and she did not use words to explain her special relationship with her "uncle", so she felt much calmer.

So, she learned what the hostess had just said, and especially learned the "four points" again.

Of course, because I only heard the hostess say it once, the little nanny was not entirely accurate when she learned the "four points" of her tongue. But that's irrelevant.

At this moment, in order to convince the hostess that the "uncle" was telling the truth in her room last night, and to prove that Vice Mayor Wang was indeed "doing ideological work" in her room last night, the little nanny deliberately showed a painful demeanor and said in a very low tone:

"Auntie, actually, I, these days, are really, hard, hard to accept, the fact that Mengdu and Liping are married. Moreover, I couldn't stand it, and as soon as they got married, they went abroad and traveled. This、It's too exciting for me、It's too big! I, my heart, is very uncomfortable. ”

"Okay, okay, Reiko, didn't Auntie tell you just now?"

The hostess didn't wait for Reiko to finish speaking, and immediately waved her hand to interrupt her and say:

"Life is like drinking tea, you have to be able to afford it and put it down! Do you hear that? As long as you put this matter down, in the future, no matter what difficulties and problems there are, you just have to tell your aunt! I still say the same thing, when the dream is married, life returns to normal, and the conditions at home improve, my aunt will definitely try her best to help you financially, including in all aspects! ”

"Thank you, thank you, Auntie!"

After listening to the mayor's wife's words, the little nanny remembered that in the past days, the hostess had indeed funded herself many times, so that she had remitted cash in time for her sister's treatment. If it weren't for the hostess's several sponsorships, it can be said that it would be impossible for my sister Yingzi to be hospitalized at all!

Thinking of this, Reiko raised her head from the bottom of her heart and sincerely cast a grateful glance at the hostess.

"Alright, let's stop here for today. Now, Auntie is going to dance in the park! Now that I am old, I have not participated in sports activities for a long time, and my body has deteriorated significantly. You see, yesterday, I only danced for more than half an hour, and at night I felt a sore back, and I felt uncomfortable, so I went to bed early. Okay, no more verbose, I'll go to the park. ”

The mayor's wife said, glancing quietly at the little nanny.

At this quiet glance, the mayor's wife immediately found that when the little nanny heard her talk about dancing yesterday afternoon, her little face instantly turned red!