"No problem, Doctor Leng, I will take care of your friend."

Hanging up the phone, Dr. Niu received the young people who came to visit.

Dr. Niu is well-known in a certain field and can be said to be the top authoritative expert in China. It's just that the field he is good at is relatively special, and most people have never heard of it, so few people have heard of Dr. Niu's name

This situation sounds weird, but to put it bluntly, it is not unusual at all.

For example, there is a local Dr. Huang, many young patients do not know the existence of this doctor, but in the minds of many middle-aged and elderly male patients, Dr. Huang is definitely a legendary idol. For many years, Dr. Huang has been treating impotence, premature ejaculation, and incurable diseases such as lifting but not being strong, and being strong but not stiff.

Of course, there are certain differences in the areas in which Dr. Niu and Dr. Huang are special.

That afternoon, six men sat in a small club organized by Dr. Niu.

The middle-aged uncle in the white coat at the head is Dr. Niu, and his opening remarks are very passionate: "There are new people joining today, and I want to emphasize what I told you before." Many people say that a person who is addicted to drugs is the end of his life, but I have personally seen people who have successfully recovered from drugs and started a new life. Sex addiction, like drug addiction, is difficult to quit, but it is not impossible to quit, as long as you don't give up on yourself, you will definitely be able to quit. I can assure you that when you quit sex addiction, everything will be fine."

Speaking of this, Dr. Niu's tone is even more contagious: "The purpose of our mutual aid association is to help each other and encourage each other to achieve the goal of successfully quitting sex addiction. In this shijie, others can't understand you and look at you with colored glasses, but the brothers and sisters in the mutual aid society don't do that, you have a common experience, and you can talk about each other's innermost unspeakable pasts. Many things, as long as you dare to say them out loud, are half the battle. When you put aside the psychological pressure, throw away the invisible baggage, and find the self-confidence as a normal person, success will not be far from you."

After a pause, Dr. Niu directly named him: "In the first two batches of mutual aid members, 6% of spoon people have successfully quit sex addiction." Li Jun, you are the person who wants to quit in the third group of members, and now I would like you to speak as the first representative, so that the new members can see how you have succeeded step by step."

A lewd uncle in his thirties immediately moistened his throat, looked very familiar with business, and said: "My name is Li Jun, and I am thirty-four years old this Chinese New Year's Eve. I've always had strong sexual fantasies about women, and when I see women on the street, on the bus, or at work, I can't help but fantasize about posing them in many positions. I had my first girlfriend when I was twenty years old, and we were wild and had to do more than two or three ...... a night."

"At first, I thought that young people were like this, and compared to those seven times in one night in YY's novels, I was nothing at all. Later, things didn't go right, and I found out that my friends around me were not as frequent as I was. My girlfriend thinks I don't like her, and she thinks the reason I'm with her is just to have sex. I couldn't explain that, and then I got a second girlfriend and she also thought I was only interested in her body. I haven't been in a relationship since graduating from college, but my thirst for women has grown. With my kind of looks, it is not realistic to develop a one-night stand, and I can only spend money to solve the problem......"

"At that time, the price of pork had not risen yet, and the price was still relatively cheap, and I remember that it only cost 300 yuan to find a hair salon girl to go out for a night. After going there a few times, I became addicted, and I panicked when I didn't go for a day, and I felt like I was about to go crazy. In the long run, I couldn't afford it financially, 300 a day, 9,000 yuan a month, and my monthly salary was less than 5,000 ......."

"Every day when I go to work, I miss those salon girls so much, but after I go, I feel very sick. Especially in the process of with them, I didn't feel pleasure at all, and I didn't understand that I was going to do this. But the next day, I really want to go again. In this way, I fell into a vicious circle day by day. I'm getting more and more physically exhausted, financially miserable, and I'm in debt......"

"I lied to my parents several times, and each time I came up with a different excuse to ask them for money. Later, they found out that something was wrong, and once my dad secretly followed me and finally discovered my secret. My parents couldn't accept me, they thought I was ashamed enough to not get married when I was thirty years old, and they still did such a humiliating thing......"

With Li Jun's self-report, the faces of several male animals present became more and more heavy.

"Sex addiction" in the academic community has actually existed since ancient times, and it was not until twenty-one shijie that it gradually attracted the attention of the medical community. "Sex addiction", also known as "orgasmic addiction", is a behavioral disorder, just like gambling and drug addicts.

According to psychologists, "sex addiction" is not only driven by sexual organs or sexual activities themselves, but also is essentially an external manifestation of anxiety, or an instinctive self-avoidance behavior due to emotional setbacks or challenges. To put it bluntly, this is a kind of sequelae of being flying, sex addicts treat sex as aiqing band-aids, and with sex, there is no pain, and "sex addiction" patients usually have a strong sense of insecurity.

Before sexual activity, the organs are exhausted, and every step is carried out. Feeling ashamed, upset, and empty after sexual activity, and even falling into deep self-blame. They knew that they might be relieved to stop immediately, so that they could get a VIP in hell after they died, but they still couldn't Op, until one day God stood in front of them, pointed to his watch and said GANPOVE.

Li Jun's self-reported situation belongs to this disease.

Sex addiction is not only the preserve of men, but also of women.

The most lascivious sisters in the history of the Celestial Empire, Zhao Feiyan and Zhao Hede, are very colorful in this regard. Regarding who is more beautiful or Xiao Zhao, the historical community has been arguing endlessly. Those who support Xiao Zhao even clamored to change the idiom "Yan Thin Ring Fat" to "Virtue Thin Ring Fat". However, there is one thing that does not need to be argued, that is, Xiao Zhao's super strong libido. Xiao Zhao is not only more delicate than his sister, but also knows how to be a fox man, the little lady is glamorous in the harem, and eats the emperor's brother Liu Biao to death. Xiao Zhao is not only addicted to sex, but also privately develops "Viagra" independently, using Liu Biao as a guinea pig. After a few tosses, Liu Biao finally had a big chest - sagging, and became a legendary heavenly remnant, and Zuihou was actually slaughtered by Xiao Zhao Xiangboudoir.

There are countless sex addicts and celebrities in the West, as early as the early twentieth century, Vivien Leigh, a flower girl who became popular in Shijie with a "Gone with the Wind", is a typical example of this.

Later, in "A Streetcar Named Desire", Vivien Leigh played a declining aristocratic woman who suffered from "sex addiction" tendencies. When he was about to get married, he was exposed, and his future was ruined. This film won Vivien Leigh a second statuette.

However, here at Vivien Leigh, there is a huge coincidence between art and reality. On July B, 196, Vivien Leigh collapsed alone in front of her bedroom door and passed away.

Ex-husband Oliverton pointed out to thousands of husbands, this literary uncle who starred in "The Prince's Revenge", rebelled angrily and was ashamed. Oliver poured out the story in his biography, claiming that Vivien Leigh herself was a "sex addict" who demanded too much sex, even asking for three times a day, and Lawrence was really frustrated with it. is coming, this British Chen Shimei looked up to the sky and sighed: "With Vivien Leigh, I am about to be squeezed into ......"

As a result, Vivien Leigh won the name in front and behind her in one fell swoop.

Hollywood's most famous father and son Douglas and his wife often make a big splash at major awards parties. In fact, the elder Douglas is a severe patient of "sex addiction", and he has only officially ended his life in the near future. Lao Tzu is a hero, little Douglas took his father's gun, and the whole line was red and remarkable, he rode his horse and galloped, and there was no wilderness left where he walked.

When Hollywood beauty Catherine Zeta-Jones decided to marry Douglas, she knew that her husband had always carried the red flag against the red flag, and had to set a limit in the prenuptial agreement, if Douglas was unfaithful in marriage, he would pay a huge sum of $600,000.

There are also personality addicts in the sports world, and golf superstar Tiger Woods has also been revealed to be a severe sex addict. This black buddy is no less than ten mistresses alone, the first half of his life is brilliant, and the second half of his life is riddled with sex scandals, and his story is very embarrassing.

Strictly speaking, in fact, the stories of these celebrities are quite okay, and the celebrities have one thing in common: they are not bad for money...... For ordinary salaried people, if they suffer from a "noble disease" such as sex addiction, the end is really miserable. For example, Li Jun in front of him, he has no girlfriend, his monthly salary is so little, once he suffers from severe sex addiction, it is better to die.

At this moment, Li Jun continued to tell:

"I'll never forget the look in my parents' eyes. Sometimes I suspect that I was born a pervert, and I tried to kill myself, but I didn't die. When I was taken to the hospital, the doctor suspected that I had a mental problem and gave me a thorough examination, which found out that I was a heavy sex addict. It wasn't until I was thirty that I understood what it meant to be a sex addict, and that I wasn't born a pervert, I just had a disease. ”

"After several years of hard work, I have overcome a lot of problems, regained my self-confidence, and my sex life has been controlled. Now it's basically once every two days, which can be regarded as a normal person. I have to thank Dr. Niu and my brothers in the mutual aid society, without their encouragement and support, I would not be able to do this. ”

Several patients in the mutual aid association listened to Li Jun's story, their expressions fluctuated, and when they heard Zuihou, several of them seemed to be encouraged, and their eyebrows revealed positive energy that could be visually detected. Only the young man who looked like the newcomer had a cross scar on his face remained motionless, his expression was very calm, as if he was not at all touched by the real person in front of him.

Then, in order, another young man began to share his experience: "My name is Lu Shan, and I am twenty-four years old. Like Brother Li, I also have strong sexual fantasies about women. You don't need to laugh when you say it, I used to be very pure, and I never jerked off before I went to college. When I was a freshman, under the influence of the boss in our dormitory, I learned to watch movies and masturbate. Since then, it has been out of control. At that time, I had a nickname, it was called masturbation ......"

"If I don't masturbate three times a day, I will feel worse than death, and I will feel unspeakably uncomfortable. By the time I was in my junior year, I had a distinct sense that something was wrong with me, and I often felt dizzy, dazed, my legs went limp, and my memory was deteriorating. Every time I finish masturbating, I feel a deep sense of guilt, feeling like a beast and a pervert. But it didn't take long for me to again, or I'd be so uncomfortable that I died......"

"I'm a real, and I haven't talked about a girlfriend yet. From my freshman year to my college graduation, I masturbated no less than three times a day on average, and five or six times a day in severe cases, and I had the experience of masturbation and bleeding. I often feel that I am hopeless, and if I spread the word, I will definitely not be accepted by women......"

"I've secretly consulted online, and someone has pointed out that I might be a sex addict in this condition. Last year, I finally mustered up the courage to confess my story to my family, and then they took me to see Dr. Niu. Through this year's treatment, my condition has improved a bit, and it is still a rhythm of one masturbation a day. I don't know if I'll be able to quit completely, but now I can see a little hope, at least I'm much better off than I used to be, and I hope my experience will help everyone......"

"My name is Zhao Ming......"

"My name is Zhen Shuai......"

Next, two other patients also shared their experiences.

The young man remained silent, but he observed four of his fellow travelers and discovered an interesting phenomenon. When the four of them told the unspeakable secret, the whole person was much more relaxed.

It is probably this that gives him the courage to tell his privacy in public.

The other four people were also looking at him, they had already seen that this person was not ordinary, no matter how he looked at it, he looked like a low-key luxury and rich handsome man, and they also wanted to know, what kind of mental journey did this rich and handsome have?

"My name is Gao Chao, I'll be twenty-eight after a while, and I'm also a heavy sex addict......" Gao Chao's voice is very soft, with a little magnetism, and it sounds particularly vicissitudes, which is a typical voice of a man with a story, and it has a certain lethality to women.

Under the comments of everyone, he was not as calm as before, and his heart seemed to be struggling, and after a few seconds of buffering, he showed a hint of self-deprecating smile, and his tone was very rough: "Actually, my name is not very harmonious, men who hear my name will show strange smiles, and women who hear my name will react more strangely......"

The four fellow Daoists laughed lewdly, and with a few simple words, they discovered the difference between themselves and Gao Chao. Although everyone is a sex addict, Gao Chao's grade is obviously much higher than theirs. The man in front of them has a special charm, looking at his expression and listening to his voice, they obviously feel that Gao Chao is very much like the bohemian prodigal son in the movie, who can make men worship and women crazy in a very short time.

After the man named Gao Chao finished his opening remarks, he didn't seem to have any scruples, and his tone was much smoother: "I talked about my first girlfriend when I was a freshman in high school, and I secretly ate the forbidden fruit in my sophomore year of high school. Since then, I've been addicted to that kind of thing, and the price of doing that is that my girlfriend can't understand me, and then something unpleasant happens and breaks up with me. At that time, I was young and ignorant, and I thought I could find other girls to replace her, so I dated many different girls. When I was in college, I met another girl I liked, and later ...... Hehe, she can't accept someone like me. ”

"At first, I also went online to secretly check my own problems, normal people's sex life is B6 times a week, but I have B6 times a day. I knew I had a problem, but I was particularly unbeliever, and my private life was chaotic at that time, with long-term friends, one-night stands, and money to solve. I'm lucky, I don't have financial problems, and I'm more feminine, and I've never lacked women, which causes me to occasionally think that it's okay to go on like this. Isn't there an old saying, when a peony flower dies, it is also a ghost to be romantic......"

"Then things got out of my control, and eight years ago, I was opening a room in a hotel with a girl, and while I was doing it, I went dark and lost consciousness. That was the first time I had fainting, and the doctor told me that my body had become severely premature, and that if I continued like this, my body would deteriorate to an unimaginable level. I didn't take the doctor's words to heart, and after I was discharged from the hospital, I forgot about the pain, and it didn't take long for me to pass out again......"

Speaking of this, Gao Chao's expression was gloomy, and he said with some sadness: "I once had a wonderful girlfriend, she was a doctor, and she wanted to help me, but I chose to give up on myself and let down her kindness......"

"Later, because of an accident, I went to a place where there were no women, and I lived there for several years. At first, I couldn't bear it, but then I met a kind old man who taught me a kind qigong for health preservation. Since practicing Qigong, I have finally been able to restrain myself...... Before he died, the old man told me that I must insist on abstinence for ten years, but I didn't listen to his advice, and I only persisted for seven years, and I couldn't stand the temptation of this flowery shijie anymore......"

"When I left that place, I was like a stallion off the leash, and I couldn't control myself anymore. I have been a soldier for three years, not to mention that I have not only been in the army for more than three years, and during that time I desperately indulged myself. Just two days ago, I went out to fool around with a student girl......"

"Today, retribution is finally here......" Speaking of this, Gao Chao let out a long breath, and he seemed much more relaxed when he said what was in his heart, and laughed at himself: "Maybe it's because of the relationship between practicing qigong, my seizures are different from before." Today, I was walking halfway with my two girls, and suddenly I had a seizure, a stream of hot blood rushed to my head, I felt cramps all over my body, I felt my heart twitching and was about to jump out, and I even felt like I couldn't breathe for a while

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