Chapter 231: The adult world is not black and white
When Chen Zihan and Li Jing talked, they didn't talk exaggeratedly, but said quite artistically.
He often used Lu Ruorong's unconscious words to provoke new topics, and when he spoke, he didn't boast about himself, so he didn't let Li Jing feel that he was a fake person.
"I'm still quite a capable student." This is the conclusion that Li Jing came to after coming into contact with Chen Zihan.
Confident but not frivolous, sleek but not treacherous, this is Li Jing's conclusion to Chen Zihan.
However, Li Jing still continued to make her meaning clear, she believed that Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong were both young, and they should focus on studying, and wait for them to mature their minds before thinking about emotional matters.
"My mom said the same thing." Chen Zihan answered embarrassedly, "She also thinks that at this age, you should focus on studying." ”
When Lu Ruorong frowned slightly, he continued: "We have a daughter next door, she didn't fall in love when she was in college, and she put all her energy into studying. After graduating, I felt that I had to make some achievements when I first joined the company, and I also focused on my work. As a result, I am twenty-nine years old this year, and I don't have a boyfriend yet. Her mother was in a hurry, and she was busy arranging blind dates for her all day long. My mother used to joke with them, a few years ago, she was not allowed to fall in love, but now she forced her to marry herself as soon as possible, it is not easy to be a parent......"
"I told my mother, you have to learn their lessons, don't allow me to fall in love when I was in high school and college, and when I work, I am urged to go on a blind date every day, the adult world is not black and white, there should be an excess!"
After saying this, Chen Zihan grinned and said, "Auntie, in fact, I think that with the energy of our young people, it is not a problem to do several things at the same time. So, don't worry about us affecting our learning because of other things. Ruorong's grades are still so good, and I'm not bad. Together, we not only do not affect each other's learning, but also motivate and promote each other. ”
Seeing that Li Jing's expression was a little strange, Chen Zihan said the most fundamental problem very directly: "Actually, Auntie, don't hide your meaning, we know if you don't say it." I'm too ordinary in the Chen family, I'm not a good match with Ruorong, isn't it right to be a door! ”
Seeing that Li Jing and Lu Ruorong's faces changed, Chen Zihan still said with a smile: "Auntie, I understand your worries safely, if one day I become a parent and have a daughter, and my daughter grows up, I will have similar thoughts and worries, I hope that my daughter can find the right person to live with, so don't worry about different living habits, conflict between life and worldview, and will not let my daughter be wronged." Moreover, in reality, we can also help each other and join forces. ”
"When you were young, maybe you were the same as we think now, and you sneered at the so-called realistic things, but when you reach a certain age, you feel that these things are really important, these are the basis of life, and no matter how strong the feelings are, they will return to dullness with the passage of time." Chen Zihan glanced at Li Jing and saw that she had no signs of seizures, so he continued: "But in your hearts, there are also many things that you think are the purest and most beautiful. I think that if these innocent and beautiful things are finally accepted by reality, become a part of reality, and continue with life, then life will not be better? Isn't it the greatest happiness in life to go out into society with the people you love, accept the reality, encourage each other to grow together? ”
"I know I'm going to upset you Auntie when I say this, but these are my true thoughts. In a person's life, what is more proud and fortunate than experiencing life with a lover who fell in love at first sight, from a young couple to an old companion? No matter how long a person lives in a lifetime, it is only a hundred years. When you die, you can't take anything with you. If, at the time of death, we have regrets because of many things, then no matter how much we have achieved, we will have regrets in this life; If he dies without regrets, even if he has no outstanding achievements and no admirable status, his life is perfect. ”
After Chen Zihan finished speaking, he bowed to Li Jing very respectfully: "Young and frivolous, he speaks wildly, if there is anything offensive to Auntie, please forgive me!"
Many words, Chen Zihan said on purpose.
He knew very well that saying so much to himself would be counterproductive.
But he is only nineteen years old, and nineteen years old must have the frivolity of this age.
The nineteen-year-old boy Lang said a big call under excitement, which is also a normal thing in the eyes of middle-aged people in their forties and fifties.
In that case, let's get to the point.
Of course, when he said it, he had been observing the changes in Li Jing's expression.
Seeing that her expression was not very angry, he dared to continue.
Being good at reading words and colors is a way of survival.
After hearing Chen Zihan say this, Li Jing, who originally wanted to say something to him alone, knew that she didn't need to say anything.
Chen Zihan had already guessed what she wanted to say, and directly said everything in response.
"What has this guy experienced, he has so many emotions and so many insights at a young age, it's a bit strange." Li Jing became curious about Chen Zihan.
This doesn't look like a nineteen-year-old freshman at all!
Twenty-year-old Lu Ruorong is much more tender than him - Li Jing has always thought that Lu Ruorong is more mature than ordinary people.
Li Jing also believes that if Chen Zihan is given a platform and opportunities, this young man is likely to take off.
At her age, she has been mixed in the system for many years, although it cannot be said that she has developed a pair of fiery eyes, but her ability to recognize people is still good.
However, she still expressed her meaning euphemistically, hoping that Chen Zihan and Lu Ruorong could learn more about each other before making their own decisions.
After all, they are too young, or the age when they like to do things impulsively.
Seeing that Li Jing's attitude had eased a little, Chen Zihan immediately said again: "Auntie, Ruorong is very good, so good that most people are embarrassed. I also know that I am far from her, but please rest assured, I will definitely make myself better, good enough to match her. ”
Whether it is needed or not, Li Jingxiang does not believe that such a statement is still necessary.
Li Jing didn't say anything when she heard this, but her eyes softened a little when she looked at Chen Zihan.
At about half past seven, after the meal, Li Jing stood up and prepared to leave with Lu Ruorong.
Chen Zihan stood beside Lu Ruorong, who looked a little depressed, and said very directly: "Auntie, originally I carefully prepared a birthday party for Ruorong, wanting her to have a twentieth birthday that she can remember for a lifetime. But because of your sudden visit, the birthday party had to be cancelled. But it's good to leave some regrets, and you can also remember it for a lifetime. ”
Seeing the look of loss on Lu Ruorong's face, Li Jing was a little unbearable, but she still didn't admit her "mistake": "There are birthdays every year, not to mention that next year will be her twentieth birthday, and there is nothing wrong with celebrating next year." ”
Chen Zihan immediately proposed: "Auntie, why don't we accompany her to where to have fun and let her spend this birthday happily?" Okay! With you, your mother, by your side, and the blessings of other friends, this birthday must be especially meaningful! ”
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