Chapter 202: Matching

Ke Mingxu seemed to be a little more melancholy inexplicably, and turned to face the direction of the setting sun. "Actually, sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't be so constrained by the teacher. is a good Confucian in the world, but he was forced to become a little thief. ”

"I asked him last night if drinking is really so important compared to his life?"

He turned his head and smiled, "The teacher was probably very angry, and he said to me, 'If you can't live arbitrarily, what is the difference between living in this world and dying, it's just that you can breathe.'" ”

Jinghu didn't think so, "But this breath is not just for himself, in the world of life, there is no one who really doesn't even have a family and friends." ”

"Even Meng Heting went to the northwest, and there is still a friend like you, and someone is worried about him day and night, not to mention Mr. Zhou, a man who has a wife and children, and his grandchildren have reached the age of marriage."

"It's that he doesn't care about his own body, he should always think about others, and he shouldn't be so selfish."

Jinghu thought that if she died, she didn't know how many people would be sad for her, so she felt more sad than them. Perhaps people are like that, and the living will suffer more than the dead.

Ke Mingxu waited quietly for her to finish before smiling self-deprecatingly: "I didn't think that the little county lord could have such an opinion, but sometimes I don't think so clearly." ”

"Master Ke, I always feel that you don't seem to be very happy today." That's what she thought, and that's how she said it.

He turned his gaze away and fell back on the waves of the river studded with gold edges, "Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory, who can always be satisfied?" Let's talk about the deer. ”

"The teacher must have told you that he intends to make Qilu take over as the head of the Songshi Academy after his death. But he is only fifteen years old this year, and he will still be very young after a hundred years of teaching. ”

"He is not from the Zhou family, and it may be difficult to succeed the mountain chief."

Jinghu didn't care too much about this, this was not a matter in front of him after all, "Last night, Mr. Zhou also told me that Zhou Qilu probably already has someone in his heart to admire, is the relationship between Master Xiao Ke and him good, have you ever heard of this?" ”

"It's really not clear. So last night, the little county lord wanted the teacher to draw this woman's picture scroll? ”

Jinghu's reaction was quick, "Really? I wanted Mr. Zhou to draw this woman's picture scroll last night? I don't quite remember anymore. I don't hide it from Master Ke, I have seen him a few times in one of my handkerchiefs, and I have a good impression of him. ”

"But the woman is always most afraid of making a mistake, so I guess I want to help her inquire about this person. If he is not a good person, it is also a good thing to dispel the idea as soon as possible. ”

Ke Mingxu glanced at her, "This handkerchief, is it Sister Qing?" ”

Jinghu was startled and blurted out, "How do you know?" ”

His expression looked composed, not the slightest surprise, "It's just speculation." Looks like I guessed right. ”

Jing Hu regretted, "No one knows about this matter, Master Xiao Ke has to keep it a secret." ”

He nodded, looking at Jinghu's frightened appearance and felt a little funny. It is indeed very similar to the appearance of the little fox in the Jianye Forest when it was scared away. But he didn't want to scare her away.

"It's natural, I'll keep it a secret, no one will say it."

Jinghu couldn't help but ask him, "Then Master Ke thinks that Zhou Qilu is a good match for Sister Qing?" ”

He asked her rhetorically, "What does the little county lord think, how can two people be considered compatible?" ”

Jinghu was silent. The match in the eyes of the world is just those conditions, the right family, the life of the parents, and the love and affection.

Affection is the least important, Yanliang is already considered to be open to the people, if it is in the previous dynasty, a large number of couples will not have the opportunity to meet before marriage.

is today's Yanliang, most of the poor families are still blind and dumb marriages, rich and noble families like their family, under normal circumstances, if they are not childhood sweethearts, at most they will let unmarried men and women see each other through the screen before marriage.

Therefore, Mama Liu has always been afraid that she will act out of line, especially with the matter of Nanyi Hou Shizi in front of her, and her reputation can no longer be damaged a little.

But she doesn't think so, she just thinks that love and agreement are the most important thing in this world. If two people who join hands don't have much affection for each other at all, how to work together to face the many ups and downs in life.

The sun was sinking, obscuring the green hills in the distance. The golden waves on the surface of the water lost their temperature in an instant, and turned silvery white again.

"It doesn't matter if it matches in the eyes of others. Many couples in the world are not suitable in the eyes of the world at all, but they can still play a harmonious role and work together for a hundred years. ”

"In the final analysis, life is just like drinking water, it is just two people in a marriage."

"Does Master Ke think so?" Jinghu raised his face and asked him.

He glanced back at her, "Doesn't the little county lord think so?" ”

She rarely contradicted him, but she didn't think so. "Like Xiao Ke, I think the most important thing is the two people in the marriage. If you can't appreciate each other, love each other, and face each other day after day, you will eventually look at each other and hate each other one day. ”

But marriage is not a matter of two people, who have relatives and friends. Sometimes they are the pillars, or they are the ones who bring the storm. ”

It's like a gentle thing. Jinghu felt that the elders of the Dingguo Mansion should not allow her to choose such a husband, and would use various means and methods to obstruct it.

Even if she can marry Qilu, from the daughter of the prince of the country to the wife of the mountain chief, the difference in status is not half a star.

Former friends may still have such a high status, and friends may not be friends at that time.

Ke Mingxu's idea is too idealistic. When it comes to marriage, it seems that men and women naturally think differently. Men can gallop around the world, but most women cannot.

They have to raise their children, honor their in-laws, and share the consequences with their husbands if they are incompetent or cause some trouble. When it comes to marriage, women give much more than men.

Qingrou once told her about her teacher, Mr. Zhou of Yongsuzhai. She was a widow, and before she got married, her husband passed away, and she didn't choose to remarry, just because she felt that it might be better for one person to live than two.

At that time, she had just fallen in love with Ke Mingxu, and she had just begun to have a vision for her future life, so naturally she couldn't understand Mr. Zhou's thoughts.

But later she also figured out that Mr. Zhou was because she had no one to admire. If she had, perhaps she would not have chosen this way, and she would be willing to bear the inequality in her marriage. Like a moth to a fire.