Chapter 139: It's Not a Secret to Speak
I can't tell Mrs. Niu clearly, in Chang'an's opinion, he and the women here can't have a common world view, outlook on life, and values!
This is also what Dong Xiaoying is worried about, her children think differently from the people here. She couldn't hold her son down and let him marry a girl who had only met a few times and hadn't said a few words.
Chang'an thought for a while, poured a big sip of fat sea tea, and said, "Milk, I think that people who want to live for a lifetime are suitable or not, and they must always get in touch with each other and talk about each other's views on life, the future, and life." People with opposite ideas will never be able to integrate in their lifetime, and it will be impossible to live a harmonious and harmonious life! ”
Mrs. Niu really thought carefully about her grandson's words, but she thought for a while and slapped the table again, "Chang'an, you know that you are a little ruffian, a second-rate son!" How can you think that? You have come into contact with other people's daughters, sit down and talk about life, and ruin the reputation of other people's daughters. It's not appropriate for you to talk about it again! Do you want your daughter to jump into the well, or hang yourself on the beam of the house! ”
Chang'an spread his hands and said, "Look, I just want to know more, so that she knows what kind of person I am, and I can also know what the other party thinks." How did you become a hooligan? ”
Mrs. Niu said sharply, "What can you think, whoever marries a daughter-in-law is not the same, when you marry back, you will take off your head and stare at you, and the good ones will live with their heads bored." What else do you think? Whose daughter-in-law is not the same, what ideas are not there, what does the man want to do with her! ”
Fang Mingyuan glared and said, "That's not a hit!" Who can have no ideas, no own thoughts? The family background is different, the experience is different, the education is different, the two are hard matched, the two have no common language, how can they live? ”
Mrs. Niu sighed, "Yes, I understand, you just think that the person I picked is wrong, and the door is not right." I understand, I told the matchmaker, you have to know how to be reasonable, and your father and mother are enlightened people. ”
"It's not! Old lady, what Chang'an means is to say......"
Mrs. Niu stopped Dong Xiaoying's words, "Don't say it, what does the child know?" The skewer dragged the fourth child to your house back then, and you didn't sit down to chat, isn't the relationship good? That's how life is, and it's slowly going well. Leave it all alone, I'm here! ”
Mrs. Niu waved her hand and left!
Dong Xiaoying looked at Chang'an, and then at Fang Mingyuan, what do you mean by her?
Fang Mingyuan looked at his son and sighed, "This thing is a bit difficult, it's a bit difficult to fall in love!" How can you fall in love without talking? Love at first sight should be slowly understood, and each other has a deep understanding of each other, and if you can achieve it, you will break up if you can't! It's so commonplace, it won't work here, it's hard to do! ”
Dong Xiaoying persuaded her son, "We had a joke on the Internet at that time, saying that it was good to marry a daughter-in-law of three from four virtues, you see, when you come here, you can grab a lot of three from four virtues, what three views!" Your mind is her whole spiritual world. ”
Chang An frowned and looked at his mother, "That's an empty shell that married a wooden man and came back with no brains." As long as she is a human being, she has her own thoughts, and obedience is only on the surface, who doesn't have a little Jiujiu in her heart? ”
Dong Xiaoying lowered her head and thought of a way, this matter is difficult to do, the big things of her son's life can't be improvised, where can I find a confidant daughter-in-law?
"So, old man! You go to the exam first, and then go to Beijing to take the top prize, let's take the child out for a turn, at least see more outsiders, maybe there is a bridge section into the temple to incense, the carriage on the road is broken, and the dog blood incident that was saved by our son in the water is gone, and the daughter-in-law will not have it! "Dong Xiaoying's idea is very positive, go out and touch the blind cat to kill the mouse!
Why am I again? Fang Mingyuan looked at his son, "Or you will take the test!" In the autumn, the champion will be examined in the coming year, maybe the emperor will point us to a princess! ”
Chang'an poured fat sea water, and I have nothing to talk about with you.
Dong Xiaoying patted Fang Mingyuan and said, "Tsk! Old Fang! Didn't you turn a corner? We An'an are science students, and I don't know the ancient exam process, so you give you a trip first.
Let me tell you, when is the era of fighting for fathers, you are good, I and the children can be good, at least An An can marry everyone's girlfriends, and Yueyue can find a wider range of partners. ”
I can't get better, can I? If I can't pass the exam, how embarrassed I am!
Dong Xiaoying said again: "Don't worry! We have a cheating weapon, our space! When you take the exam, you will lie on the table and pretend to sleep, and when the time comes, the daughters will go in and give you ideas, if you can't do it, let's turn the book and copy it! ”
Fang Yue entered the door with a smile and said, "Dad, there is a book given by my brother's ex-girlfriend at home, a collection of ancient examination essays, all of which are the elites of the Jinshi who have been admitted to the examination, and the classic articles that have been handed down are the books that my brother's ex-girlfriend participated in editing with her mentor when she was a graduate student!" ”
Dong Xiaoying looked at her son, "That female doctor, is it your ex-girlfriend?" When did you deal with someone, why don't I know? ”
Fang Yue said in disgust, "Mother, why are you slow!" If it weren't for my brother's relationship, I would have come to our house to play, and I could sit down and eat at the same table with you! ”
"They didn't show any intimacy! It's the same as a buddy. Dong Xiaoying recalled.
"This is the sorrow of female doctors and science men!" Fang Yue shrugged.
"Don't mention the past," Fang Mingyuan stood up and said, "You go and talk to the old lady, Chang'an's family affairs are not in a hurry for the time being, let her not worry about it." ”
Chang'an gave his sister a look and followed his father to the cafeteria.
What can Dong Xiaoying say to Mrs. Niu? It can only be said that during the mourning period of the first emperor, Chang'an's family affairs should be said slowly, and people can't take the handle, which is not conducive to the child's exam.
Fang Yue quietly told her grandmother, "Don't let my mother know, my father and mother discussed it at lunch, my father is going to participate in the Autumn Festival this year, and if he can win the lift, he will take me and my brother to Beijing to participate in the Spring Festival."
Milk, my brother's family affairs really can't be rushed, in case my father is admitted, is he the county master? The son of the county lord, that's Yanei, how can he casually talk about a daughter-in-law? , the chick doesn't understand, you talk about it! ”
Mrs. Niu smiled and nodded, "You still don't understand?" The little mouth is loud, and you have to say everything. Milk to say! That's what our chick said. ”
Fang Yue said mysteriously, "Milk, my father and mother don't plan to talk about this matter, for fear of affecting the students' exams, don't you say it outside, okay?" If we know about this, let outsiders know, my father will blame me for talking too much! ”
Mrs. Niu pinched her granddaughter's little face, "That's not right, you can't let your father talk nonsense, Mama Qi said, talking too much is taboo, and a lady who has rules and knows etiquette will not commit a battle of words."
Don't worry, the milk will keep it secret for you, and I'll wait for your father and mother to tell me about it. ”
Hum! The old lady is waiting to see when you will come to tell me, and when it is over, the old lady will be angry and show you!
Turning around, the old lady Niu went out to find the flower woman to chat.
"Don't tell outsiders, just the two of us know, I'm waiting for the fourth child to tell me in person! You're a bit of a doorman.
I just muttered, I didn't get into the last two times, but this time the fourth child can be admitted? If you get in, it's okay to say, but if you can't pass the exam, isn't it a good time to delay finding a daughter-in-law for Chang'an? ”
Hua Pozi said in her heart, we don't understand, who knows if Mingyuan's nephew can be admitted, if he does, our whole village will follow. Looking for a daughter-in-law for Da Zhuang, you should be able to mention it, but if you can't pass the test?
If you can't pass the exam, there is nothing to lose, while there are candidates in our family, and it is the mourning period of the first emperor, and the matter of seeing each other will be delayed for a few months.
So, after Mrs. Niu left, Mrs. Hua went to chat with Mrs. Jin......
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