417 bet right
The reason why Luo Zhihao is so direct is that he inquired about the composer in advance.
Qu Liangbin's temperament is different from most literati, he is a bit perverse, and he speaks straightforwardly. Usually such a person doesn't like to make friends, but he has a lot of friends, and he is a five-grade member in the ministry, and he has a few friends with other departments.
There are even a few New Year's friends, and festivals come to the door like children and nephews.
Men fancy women, unlike modern times, they can go behind their parents' backs, fix the relationship and see both parents again, but in ancient times, it was not possible, this is called private teaching and receiving, and it is shameful.
If it were other literati, if he did this, maybe others would feel rash, reckless, and rude, and the matchmaker didn't need it, he took the initiative himself, and he didn't give the Qu family face.
Luo Zhihao thinks that Qu Liangbin is different from others and gambles.
Seeing Qu Liangbin's expression, he made the right bet.
First of all, he didn't think that he took the initiative to promote himself and despised him, listening to him talk about his own family, and even deliberately mentioning his adoptive father Fu Hanlin, Qu Liangbin didn't show a trace of sarcasm.
If the Qu family does not accept the relationship between the Luo family and the Fu family very much, and thinks that his mother is unchaste, Luo Zhihao will give up no matter how much he is moved by Qu Linyan.
Marrying back a daughter-in-law who looks down on her mother-in-law and her mother-in-law's family comes back, isn't that unfilial piety to her mother?
Seeing Qu Liangbin's reaction and not blasting him out, Luo Zhihao was happy. Even just now he also showed himself step by step, and finally felt that there was a door, so he proposed marriage. If there is the slightest mistake in the front, he just sends a Boxing gift and becomes an acquaintance in the future.
After Luo Zhihao left, Qu Liangbin called his daughter to ask about the road.
I haven't seen my daughter for three years, although she has been filial, her daughter is still elegant, there is no jewelry on her head, and a wooden hairpin is inserted on her head.
Looking at his daughter, who looked like his deceased wife, Qu Liangbin couldn't help but feel a pain in his heart.
He and his wife were married, and when he was eighteen, the Yue's family sent him off, and after marriage, he was also kind and gave birth to a son and a daughter. Three years ago, my father-in-law passed away, and my wife took her daughter back to mourn, but I didn't expect that the husband and wife would be separated forever, and they would get along for more than ten years.
The daughter wrote that she had been filial piety in the ancestral house for three years, and this time she hurried back because she found a famous doctor.
I'm eighteen next year, and it's time to find a son-in-law to marry.
Qu Liangbin only hopes that his family background is reasonable, his daughter is willing, and the other party can like his daughter, not just the words of the matchmaker's parents.
He didn't have a choice himself, and he hoped that his children would have a choice and choose the person they liked.
Therefore, the children were not married early.
When I said to my brother-in-law that the two families were married, it was just that both parties were sons, and saying this meant that they were close.
Qu Linyan had already understood Luo Zhihao's thoughts, and this person on the road had nothing to do, and his eyes were shining.
And her father is willing to marry her, this person can afford a woman, and will not let her daughter-in-law stay in the inner house to be filial to the elderly, take care of the inner house, and take care of the children.
Most men want their wives to be like this, but fathers are not like that, but mothers are good wives and mothers.
The parents are kind, but Qu Linyan knows that his father is not happy, but he can always accommodate his mother.
In Dongping Mansion, there are people who take a fancy to her, because no one will mention filial piety. The daughter of the Qu family is not worried about getting married, she likes the wife of the Qu family, and she likes her youth, but they all hope that she is the daughter of the Qu family.
Qu Linyan, I don't want to leave my father and brother to marry far away, she knows the loneliness of my mother's marriage, and she doesn't want to be unable to go back to her parents' house to visit her father on the second day of the Lunar New Year every year, and she can't be filial piety when her father is old.
Hearing his father ask Luo Zhihao about it, Qu Linyan knew that his father knew about it, and said calmly: "My daughter has no idea, just look at the person, General Luo Xiao is young and promising, and he is a good person." If it's a marriage, you can't draw conclusions yet, you have to understand. ”
Regarding her marriage, Qu Linyan also thought about it, and responded that her father in Tianfu would give her Zhang Luo, and she would marry the year after tomorrow at the latest.
The candidate is nothing more than the literati family in Yingtianfu, but she really doesn't want to be a template for the women in the literati's house. I don't want to live like my mother.
Her father taught her archery, and her mother said that it should not be done by a woman, and that a woman should be dignified and virtuous, and her mother taught her to embroider and read. Her father also taught her to read, which was different from what her mother taught.
Whatever the mother said, the father said yes, turned around and took her out. There is a Zhuangzi in the family, where her father taught her archery, taught her a set of punches and feet, and said that she could protect herself, and she didn't need to be a female boxer.
In Dongping Mansion, Qu Linyan met a close friend in the boudoir, the daughter of a military general, she kept filial piety and did not go out, and her girlfriend often went to accompany her, and the two of them shot arrows in the yard.
Three years have passed, and she can also shoot at the target in the dark, so she saved General Luo Xiao that night.
General Luo Xiao's talk surprised her, especially when he said: Who said that women don't go like men, men are afraid that they are not as good as women, so they let women stay at home and not go out. also said that her sister said this.
He said a lot about his sister-in-law, and the two Tao family members who followed him also admired the little general's sister-in-law, and talked about fighting the rebels, about selling tofu for clay pots, and about opening a shop in Fengyang Mansion to participate in the competition.
These things were all before he met the little general, and Qu Linyan was very curious and admired the little general's sister.
Seeing that his daughter did not object, Qu Liangbin smiled slightly, knowing what to do.
Luo Zhihao went home very smelly and beautiful, and he was beautiful in his heart.
I made up my mind to give gifts to fox friends and friends one by one, and then accompany my father and mother at home for the New Year.
The Dou family, this year's New Year received a lot of gifts, and the Dou Bao family smiled with a smile, just watching Yu's mother receive the treasury and register it, and she didn't let her take it back to her house.
My mother said that if she dared to reach out, she would chop off her hand.
Every day is either writing or embroidering, and Doubao really wants to grind tofu. But the business was all stopped, and the subordinates stopped working, and they were dressed with joy.
Dou Quanzhu saw that his wife was reluctant but also wrote obediently, regardless of whether she wrote correctly or not, it was okay to write only one female character on a piece of paper, at this rate, he couldn't write a woman's character on a piece of paper in two years.
How nice.
But in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, I got up and didn't see my old wife, I didn't see it after going around, and I asked the next person, saying that I went to the back room.
Dou Quanzhu looked over and was speechless.
Doubao was grinding, and Mama Cui and Mama Jin were each taking a broom to sweep the noodles on the grinding plate.
Seeing her husband coming, Doubao stopped and said, "Dad, I want to make ramen flour and grind it finely, get up and grind some fine noodles earlier, and eat ramen at noon." ”
"Isn't there a donkey?"
"After the New Year, let the donkey rest and recuperate, and then I will grind and know when to stop and sweep the noodles."
He didn't say anything in front of the two Mama Dou Quanzhu, even in front of people, he couldn't say it.
The old wife would rather be a ...... I'd rather grind tofu than write and embroider, this trick is not good.
No wonder I said last night that my grandmother's name would not be changed.
This means not wanting to write.
Forget it, don't force her, after a lifetime of hard work, she will be embarrassed again, she is tired, and the whole family is tired.
Keep an eye on her.