Chapter 230: Thoughts

"My sixth sister is now sixteen years old, and she has just decided to get married, what am I anxious about, there are still two years. My father and mother will never let me suffer, let's take one step at a time. ”

Jinghu said: "You are also broad-hearted. The person who wants to live a lifetime hand in hand, you are arranged by your parents like this? Jiangnan Duocai, you have lived for more than ten years, haven't you really seen anything that can make your heart move? ”

Although everyone is a woman, it is not easy to see men outside the world casually. But in a big family like the Xie family, there is a cousin in this family today, and a cousin in Ming'er's family, and I don't know how many cousins I can see.

"Jiangnan is a talented man, but how many can compare to my cousin? I don't even like my cousin, how can I like someone else? ”

Jinghu nodded, this is also true. In her heart, Ke Mingxu is naturally the best man in the world.

"Besides, a woman is going to get married, and her husband and children are good, but I have never felt that the value of life is only reflected here. If it is really difficult for the husband and wife to coexist peacefully, then reconciliation and separation are enough. ”

"When you get married, you are the right person, and when you want to leave, you don't have to be afraid of your husband's family. When the time comes, isn't it good to go home, live a quiet life, and wipe the dominoes? I can also help my mother, so that she will not be bullied by concubines all the time. ”

Jinghu was silent for a moment, Xie Chiying still thought something was wrong with her, "Were you frightened by what I said?" Have you never thought of it that way? You are the county lord, and your status is higher than that of ordinary men. ”

Jinghu thought for a moment and considered his sentence carefully, "Of course I have thought about it this way. My father and mother are so good to me, they don't lack anything at home, what do I have to marry out to eat and be someone's daughter-in-law, and the pain of being someone's wife. ”

"But in this world, it is very difficult to be different, and no matter how much my father and mother love me, they will not allow me to stay at home for the rest of my life, because they will think that it is harmful to me."

"Since I was thinking that I was going to get married, I didn't want to be so pessimistic. I hope that my husband is something I love, and he likes me equally, and that we will live well together, be filial to each other's parents, and raise our children. ”

"There will be no one else among us who will live happily ever after. Here are my thoughts. ”

Xie Chiying smiled and shook her head, "It's too idealistic." Maybe it's because I've seen too few people, and I don't like anyone else. Maybe when I have someone I like, I will also have a good hope like the little county lord today. ”

"But I'm so scared that it will backfire." For her, it is better to follow her parents' arrangements. There is never much liking, so you don't have to worry about being disappointed in the future.

Every young lady of this age has different ideas about marriage. Xie Chiying is still more like Qingrou at this point.

Qingrou is right, not everyone can show a lot of courage like her to chase the person they like. I don't know if she received the letter she wrote to her, and what kind of result she and Zhou Qilu can achieve in the future.

If Zhou Qilu's painting was really her, and they ended up missing it, it would be a pity.

Xie Chiying asked her again, "Does the little county lord still have any questions?" ”

Jinghu thought for a while, "That Miss Feng, will come to live here every year?" Does your seventh aunt like her very much? ”

"I know that the little county master asked, I saw that when you talked to her, you were already very confused." Xie Chiying knocked Jinghu's arm with a palace fan, "She comes here every year, so naturally she has her plans." ”

"The seventh uncle wants her to marry my ninth brother, the youngest son of my third aunt. Actually, I don't hate Feng Yunjian very much, my tenth sister and I don't look up and look down, and sometimes we have to get into trouble, she always persuades my tenth sister not to conflict with me. ”

"It's just that she is Feng's niece in the end, and if you want to say how much you like her, that's nothing."

There's nothing surprising about that. People who don't have a clear self-understanding are always a little delusional.

Xie Chiying's third aunt is the Zhao family, and she is the concubine of the Hengguo Mansion in Yanjing. If Feng's daughter who became a political envoy of Jiangsu wanted to marry, Feng Yunqi's father was just a man, and he wanted to come to such an in-law family.

"I think she's a little weak, but she's a little like your mother. Even if you climb this family business, it's actually better not to climb. ”

"Your mother is still from a famous family, and her mother's family is a backer, she has nothing, just an aunt who also depends on the eyes of the third wife of the family, what can she do. If you really want to talk about it, there is some truth in the right door. ”

"It's best to be stronger, after all, people always have to rely on themselves. People are also bullying the weak and afraid of the hard, and the mother's family must be better, so that she can really have confidence in front of her husband's family. ”

Xie Chiying couldn't help but smile, "When the little county lord talks about other people's affairs, it's really the first thing. Are you and my cousin a good match? My cousin is your sister-in-law, and you want to be her sister-in-law in turn, what is that? ”

Jinghu became irritable, "You just deliberately want to go against me today." "There are more relationships in Yanjing City than this, and she is not bad. What's more, last time, Ke Mingxu had already planned to write a letter to persuade Ke Mingbi and Jing Shen to reconcile and leave.

Just now, Xie Chiying said that "Heli" is called light, but if it is like Ke Mingbi, who has a child, how should it be counted? No matter how bastard her husband is, after all, this child was born by her hard work, and with half of her blood, can she give it up and never ask again? There are a few women who can do it.

At least it is impossible for the mother concubine to let Ke Mingbi take Brother Ke back to Master Ke's mansion, and she will never let the princess of the county see her jokes.

She still thought too simple at the time, and after listening to Ke Mingxu's words, she subconsciously felt that he could arrange everything, and she was also a little afraid to ask again, afraid of hearing any bad news.

In short, there is no need to tell Xie Chiying about this matter for the time being, if she wants to laugh at her, then laugh at her. Besides, shouldn't she also take the opportunity to ask him about the progress of this matter?

After dinner, I walked slowly, and the distance that could be reached in the time of a stick of incense was a small half an hour.

Xie Chiying stopped near the Faint Courtyard, turned around and said a few words to her mother, and then came back to hold Jinghu, "I'm afraid that my tenth sister and they will come to disturb you tonight, so I told my mother and took you to recognize my door there." ”

It just so happened that Jinghu didn't feel tired, and wanted to look around the Xie family again, recognize the way, and save himself from having the Xie family's maid to guide the way no matter what he did, so he readily agreed.