Chapter 22 Contradictions

The two troublemakers appeared in succession on a taxi line as if they were discussing it all day.

There is a Sun Mengyao in the front who is in hot pursuit, and there is a Li Ruike in the back, Ye Jiajia and Hao Ze want to fall in love calmly and with peace of mind, it seems that it is not as easy as imagined.

Sun Mengyao, it's blatantly chasing, but Hao Ze doesn't feel anything, he is unmoved, but there are many such things, and it is easy to develop to two extremes, either Hao Ze feels extremely tired of staying away from her and taking a detour, or the accumulated goodwill changes from quantitative to qualitative. Fortunately, no matter which one it is, Ye Jiajia can have a way to prevent it.

Compared with this direct type, Ozer's hidden danger of love enemies is greater. He was facing a person who Ye Jiajia used to love but couldn't love, and now this person is single, and he will often go in and out with her in this year's time, he thinks that Li Ruike's eyes are a little strange when he looks at Ye Jiajia just now, but he can't say it.

Anyway, both of them have opponents to deal with, and they both have to hold themselves unwaveringly.

I feel tired just thinking about it.

Haozer sent Ye Jiajia downstairs to her house.

"It's all here, let's go up and sit down for a while." Ye Jiajia had long been ready to introduce him to his parents, just waiting for a suitable opportunity.

Although today was not the best time for them to see, Ye Jiajia thought that since everyone had already come, there seemed to be no reason for him to return empty.

Sooner or later, you have to face it, and the result will probably be the same.

"No, I haven't reached my ideal state yet, and I won't go to see your parents until I can't give you a stable and visible future." Ozer could imagine the pressure on her after he entered her home, and after being warmly received by her parents.

"You've already qualified! It should be fine! ”

"It's one thing to be qualified, it's another thing to have results, so wait."

"It's obvious that falling in love is a matter of two people, why is it so difficult!" Thinking of the "spell" that Ye's mother often chanted, Ye Jiajia had a terrible headache.

What's not too young, hurry up and find a partner!

Find a stable job and have a baby quickly!

Why find a family with comparable conditions, so that both parties are very good!

Why don't you look for a young one, it's unreliable to listen to!

What kind of love is useless, reality is more important!

Although the parents are out of kindness, although many people finally succumb to the cruelty of reality, although love really can't be eaten, but, in Ye Jiajia's view, if there are two things in this world that she is unwilling to compromise, then it must be work and marriage.

Work should choose what you want to do and like, not just for money; Marry with the person you like, even if you marry someone because of the right word, but the premise is to like it, not because of other messy things.

If there is only one left that she can't compromise, then it must be marriage.

Because the job can be changed, if you don't like the content, you can choose the environment, if you don't like the environment, you can find the industry, and if the industry doesn't like it, you can watch the content, many points, you can always find one, if it doesn't work, then change.

But marriage is something that can be changed, but no one will change it all the time, right?

Take another 10,000 steps back, even if you have to be defeated by reality in the end, at least you should have a pure love that is simple, has no purpose, and is just because you like each other.

"Haven't people always said that love is a matter for two people, but marriage is a matter for two families?" It was rare for Ozer to remember some of these words, and he felt that this sentence seemed to make sense.

"But do you think that the love in the eyes of your parents is the kind of way you see marriage at a glance, and they will feel that if this person is not suitable for marriage, there is no need to waste time to fall in love, and talk about the so-called love." Speaking of this, Ye Jiajia herself is actually very conflicted, "But it's too difficult to find someone you like and who is suitable for marriage." ”

It's hard to find one you like, it's hard to find a suitable one, and the two get together, not negative or positive, but even more difficult.

And that relationship between love and marriage, which is equally a headache.

Isn't there a saying that "love that doesn't aim for marriage is a hooligan"? Some people just want to play with you, but there will still be people who want to be serious with you, but this seriousness will not be able to be serious anymore due to some external reasons.

As for what is not suitable? Some people will consider personality and living habits, some people will consider the back of the family, and some people will consider the economic conditions, the house and the car......

Is there a right or wrong?

Not really.

It's just a personal choice and pursuit.

Tie the knot? In love? Suitable? Object?

What a mess this is!

"Ahh Ye Jiajia said that she gave up treatment, she couldn't think about it anymore, and the more she thought about it, the more she twisted her face.

It can't be helped, it's a problem full of contradictions, and most of the time you have to make choices, even if you're an adult.

"Okay, okay, don't think about it yet, you will call your uncle and aunt down in a while, I don't know how to introduce myself."

"I'll pull you up, and if they don't agree, I'll run away from home! What do you think? ”

"No...... Baby, how old are you? ”

"Then let's elope! Ends! The four seas are home! ”

"Sounds good, but where is the end of the world?"

"it! Let's talk about it later! ”

"Baby, no money."

"Woo......"

Sure enough, in the end, it came back to reality, two people who don't have much savings, let alone elopement, can directly empty their assets even if they go out for a trip.

"I'm still honest about taking exams, honestly looking for a job, and when I save enough money, I can elope." Ye Jiajia folded her hands and counted, "Save a hundred thousand yuan first, change places, third-tier cities or something, then find a house to live in, and then I will look for a job, and then ...... If you save 10,000 yuan a year, ten years is about the same, and you have to count the price changes...... Count the time value of money...... Count ......"

The more I calculated, the more I suddenly felt that the cost of being able to live a little more comfortably was so high.

Haozer couldn't listen to it anymore: "Baby, don't forget it, I can support you when I get the big contract, what do you want to do, why are you doing all this?" If I play well, you can play well! ”

Is this "I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for being beautiful like a flower"?

How many people will feel warm in their hearts when they hear such a promise, don't care about the unrealistic, at least the boy is willing to say it.

However, these words were heard by Ye Jiajia, who was calculating, and the reaction was different.

Shocked.