Xie Shurou has not experienced any setbacks and has always lived smoothly. In the past, trivial things such as bad exam results, not grabbing tickets for idol concerts, and not being rated excellent in the literary and artistic programs in the class were all like the sky falling in her eyes, which was enough for her to cry and be sad for a long time.

And today, in a strange world, she has become another person, and she is about to face the life and death situation when she opens her eyes, panicked and helpless, Xie Shurou has no confidence in herself at all, she thinks she can't bear it. She thought that such a great psychological pressure would make her collapse or depression quickly, she thought that she would just lie in bed like this, desperate and waiting for death, but she didn't after all.

It is probably due to the fact that she grew up in a free society for more than 20 years, received an equal liberal education, was loved by her parents, and had a good family atmosphere, all of which made her grow into a cheerful and optimistic girl. I have to say that her psychological quality is still good.

In modern society, it is not uncommon for her to have such an optimistic and contented personality, but at present, Xie Shurou is extremely grateful for equal education, a tolerant social environment, and the love of her parents, which can allow her to develop such a personality.

She lay down for a few days, crying countless times, sad for a long, long time, but after crying, as if she had completely vented the dark emotions in her heart, she miraculously became energetic, and began to rekindle the hope of living.

What about the dead?! Xie Shurou thought a little, isn't she still dead! Since you haven't died, there's a way. The affairs of the Xie family and the affairs of the five princes, she really can't take care of the soft-spoken lady of the house, so she just tries to find a way to get herself out before the accident!

If you can't save a family, save yourself first. This is the new strategic policy that Xie Shurou has formulated for herself. Although she still doesn't have much confidence in saving herself, how can she know if she doesn't give it a try?! If you don't do anything, you're dead, so why don't you try to save yourself! What if it succeeds? It's better than lying down and waiting to die......

After formulating a new strategic policy, Xie Shurou began to take medicine and eat honestly again, and was no longer as silent as before, she began to chat with the maids, and chatted with the sisters and elders who came to visit her, wanting to know more about the Xie family and the world.

After all, although she has the memory of Xie Shurou before, after all, it is someone else's memory, she knows many things, but she has no sense of substitution, and some details that should be paid attention to naturally cannot be noticed.

As the saying goes, the devil is in the details. Xie Shurou felt that since she couldn't interfere with major matters, it was better to carefully study the trivial things, and maybe she could find life from them.

Xie Shurou seems to be "recovering day by day", of course the Xie family is very happy, there are really many people who come to visit her every day, in addition to a few brothers and sisters in the family, a few concubines of Grandma Xie and Mrs. Xie, Prime Minister Xie and Uncle Xie and Fourth Master Xie have also come, and even Xie Sanye, who lives outside the family, and several aunts and grandmothers who married out of the family have also come back to see her.

I heard that she was getting better, and several families in Beijing who were good friends with the Xie family also sent their mothers-in-law to ask for peace, and some familiar young ladies came to visit in person. Although Tse Shurou is still "sick", there are many visitors every day.

Xie Shurou has the memory of the original girl, theoretically, she should be familiar with these people who came to see her, but even if the Xie family came to her house, she still had to react for a few seconds before the visitor's face and the person in her memory were matched, not like YY in the general novel, with memory, everything is fine, it is like a different person.

If only that! The fact is that even with the memory of the original girl, Xie Jiaqi is still Xie Jiaqi, with the new identity of Xie Shurou, she can't become another person, everything still needs her own efforts to adapt, and she can only integrate the information in her memory with reality.

So in the days when she was sick in bed, Xie Shurou didn't seem to have much to do, but in fact, she was still very hard, trying to integrate the information in her memory, chatting with others to collect new information, and practicing hard to become another person.

The richer the information, the more worried Xie Shurou became. Because she found that the heroine Gu Yilan is really "well-connected", at least the young ladies who have visited her now are almost all "acquaintances", and all of them are classified as vicious female partners. Some of them were her Xie Shurou's doglegs in the original book, and some of them were conflicts with Gu Yilan because of other things.

Of course, according to the urine nature of the author of the original book, most of this "other thing" is also robbing men. Alas! After thinking about this question, Xie Shurou wanted to sigh even more. These girls can't think about it, it's not good to rob a man with anyone, so they have to rob the heroine Gu Yilan. Three-legged toads are rare, and there are many two-legged men! There are so many young talents in Beijing, could it be that they are all fans of the heroine? Wouldn't it be over if you change it!

But with a lot of information, Xie Shurou quickly reacted to a fact. It seems ...... to ask these girls from the vicious female supporting camp to bypass the huge male supporting group It's really not easy.

This dynasty is not so closed and the feudal rules are strict, although women are still vassals of men by the root, but the constraints on women in this era are not particularly strict, and there are many social activities such as banquets, cruises, and flower viewing throughout the year.

In the social activities of many nobles, the defense of men and women is not very strict, so there are still many opportunities for young men and women in the noble circle to meet. But, even so, there is no such thing as freedom to marry.

Marriage is a good family, first look at the family background and then look at the person, this year to find the in-laws is the top priority, looking at the daughter-in-law and son-in-law is not as Xie Shurou imagined at the beginning, first look at the character of the boy and the child, looking at the in-laws is much more important than looking at the person.

There is a cloud in the "Book of Rites": "Those who are married, the two surnames are good, and the upper is the temple, and the lower is the successor." "The important thing is who is married to whom, it is an alliance between two families, and as for who the two people who are married, it is secondary. The most important role of a married girl is to serve as a link between the two families and stabilize the relationship between the clans. As for the other ...... in marriage It's not that it's not important, it's just not that important.

In this case, when a man marries a wife and a woman marries, the right person is of course the first priority. The people of the Great Zhou Dynasty are relatively open, and it is not impossible for the two to be happy, and if this "Xiangyue" object is a man who is the right person, the family will fully support it.