Xinyu took Xinbao to see an andrologist, and the expert said that Xinbao's physiological structure is not problematic, his problem is temperamental, that is, his growth environment makes him feminine, and his male traits are degraded, so if you want to treat it, it is mainly from the psychological order, slowly guide and restore his masculine characteristics.

Xinyu took Xinbao to work and went to see her aunt, and her aunt was very surprised to see her alone, so she asked her why she postponed the marriage, Xinyu said: "I took Xinbao to see you in my absence, Xinbao has some problems." She told her aunt about the doctor's appointment.

The aunt was a little anxious, and at the same time said: "It's all his mother who killed him, and raised him as a girl since he was a child, it's not that I strongly oppose it, the situation is even more serious." ”

Xinyu said: "At present, we can only take our time, only we can live together first, let him return to the male role, and see if we can wake him up." There is also no medication to treat. ”

My aunt thought for a while and said, "It's embarrassing girl, I'm going to tell his mother about this situation and let her know the seriousness of the situation." After Xinyu finished speaking, he took his leave.

After Xinbao's mother knew the situation, she was silent for a long time and said sadly: "I hurt Bao, I am always afraid that he will be hurt, alas, I want to see Xinyu, all hope is in her." Xinbao's mother returned Xinbao's house money and pocket money to her aunt at one time, and the two sisters reconciled for Xinbao.

Jiaxin is busy with business all day long, Zihao is busy working overtime, Jiayue and Sun Lin go to school, and Yushu and Xinyu are very idle on weekends.

The season is already in the depths of winter, and it's a Saturday, Yushu called Qingmei and asked her what she was doing, Qingmei said that it was cold, and there was no work in the vegetable field, and she was reading and writing at home alone, Yushu said that she wanted to play, Qingmei said welcome, she called Xinyu, and Xinyu was also bored because Xinbao was working overtime, so the two of them went to Meizhen together.

It was already past one o'clock in the afternoon, and Qingmei had already prepared a meal waiting for them. Xinyu said to drink some liquor and let go of your body and mind.

Yu Shu said that she wanted to prepare for pregnancy, and Xinyu said that her husband was 108,000 miles away, and if she was pregnant, she would let her drink liquor too, and Yu Shu smiled and asked Xinyu to pour herself liquor.

Qingmei said that she couldn't bear the liquor, drink some red wine, Xinyu said that she drank liquor when she was pregnant, and you didn't prepare for pregnancy, why didn't you drink liquor? I also poured white wine for the green plums.

The three women drank, but no one limited the amount of alcohol they drank, and they roasted the fire and talked while eating. After drinking a few glasses of wine, everyone's emotions rose, and they asked Qingmei how to get in touch with that old forest.

Qingmei said: "Interview acquaintance, at that time, as a reporter in the newspaper, it was the time when the paper version of the newspaper was in decline, the newspaper almost drove all the reporters to the outside line for interviews, that bitter, not to mention the low salary, and could not be paid on time and in full, when the salary was paid every month, looking at the income of Weibo in exchange for their own sweat, knowledge and talent, people really couldn't see the hope of life, at that time, my mother was sick, and she couldn't make ends meet every month, what dreams and ideals, and there was nothing in the face of poverty. I received a task to interview successful entrepreneurs, my specific interview object is Lao Lin, at that time called him Mr. Lin, the newspaper asked to do an interview, he came and went to get acquainted, he asked me which university I graduated from, I said that it was Peking University, he asked me if I didn't like private enterprises, if not, I came to him as a secretary, without a bonus of 8,000 yuan per month. I said think about it, actually, I have already decided to go, and it is just a little trick to say think about it. The next day, I called him and said that the private sector did not have a pension guarantee, and he said that he would add 1,000 a month, 9,000 a month, which was almost three times my newspaper's salary.

In fact, the work is also very leisurely, that is, tidying up the office, sorting out the documents, occasionally accompanying him to some formal cocktail parties, and accompanying customers to dinner, he will not let me go, I am very grateful to him.

When the economic conditions were good and his life stabilized, he began to write poems, naively wanting to make money by publishing poetry collections. I write every day when I have free time, and I write when I have nothing to do at work.

One day, I was writing during work hours, and suddenly I felt that someone was watching, and when I looked up, it turned out to be Mr. Lin, who was frightened at the time, and I didn't know what to do.

Mr. Lin said kindly: 'Do you like to write poetry? When I was in college, I also liked to write poems, and I published them, but later, when I was busy, I stopped writing, and you wrote good poems in the future and showed them to me, how about it? ’

I hurriedly agreed, and promised not to write again during work hours in the future. Mr. Lin said: 'It's okay, it's good to write poems, it's much better than chatting and talking about right and wrong!' If you like it, you can write it, and if other bosses criticize you, you will say that I asked you to write it. ’

In this way, he left a good impression on me, and later, I wrote a poem and I gave it to him, he read it very carefully, and helped me change the poem, he changed it very well, and then we talked about poetry, chatted and chatted, there was no difference in identity, there was no age gap, I didn't see him for a day, I missed him.

Once, he went abroad for an investigation, and after half a month, I called him once, and I couldn't always call him, so I missed him very much, and I found that I fell in love with him. That year, he was fifty-six, I was twenty-five, and we were thirty years apart, but I just couldn't help but love him.

When he came back, I immediately rushed into his office, his office was crowded with high-level reporting officials, everyone looked at me in surprise, but Lao Lin smiled and said, "There are good poems again?" Come back later, I'll see what good poems you've written lately. ’

I retreated, guarded the door, and did not let anyone in, and told them that the boss would tell me something in a while, and when the people inside came out, I pushed the door in again and closed the door.

Lao Lin smiled and said, "Little friend, what poem have you written?" Show it to me. I dressed up that day, and I danced in front of him, spun around a few times, and then blushed and said, 'This is the poem I wrote, do you say beautiful?' ’

Only then did he react and hurriedly said, 'Well, this poem is good, classical and graceful. ’

He beckoned me over, he took out a brooch from the drawer and gave it to me, I couldn't control it anymore, I fell into his arms, I told him, I loved him, and we started to fall in love.

He paid for me to publish a collection of poems, treat my mother's illness, give me a house, and especially, what touched me was that he heard that I liked Meizhen and wanted to live there, so he built this small courtyard, bought another piece of land, and renovated it into a vegetable field.

We have been dating for three years before we really came together, with Lao Lin, you are always happy and warm, and he never forced me to do what I didn't want to do. We have been in love for seven years are very happy, I think it is worth it, much better than falling in love with young people, love is like a pair of shoes, there is no distinction between old and new, only suitable feet and uncomfortable, people's expectations for a lifetime are not too high, just suitable. ”

Yu Shu and Xinyu nodded enviously when they thought of their love and their distant marriage.

Yu Shu asked her: "You study traditional Chinese culture, do you know fortune telling?" Help us see our fate. ”

Qingmei said: "You are studying philosophy, do you still need to see your life?" God has given you too many things: beautiful looks, superhuman talent, man's care, and superior family conditions, then, you must be worse in love and marriage. Both of you are the same, and neither of you is with someone who is not where you are going. This is fate, there is no way, the reason is that the man is physically defective, and it will be fulfilled soon. After hearing this, Yu Shu and Xinyu felt that Qingmei was powerful.