Chapter Seventy-Five: The Self-Righteous Understand
Thinking about it, whenever she meets a boy who looks okay and has similar conditions to her own family, Ye's mother will let Ye Jiajia think about it.
Every time Ye Jiajia said that she had a boyfriend, she was directly skipped by Ye's mother as a joke.
This time, Ye Jiajia once again was sincere, serious, accurate, or something, anyway, she used all the adjectives that could be used, and introduced her boyfriend to her mother.
"My mother, don't you introduce people randomly, okay?"
"You said you're not too young, why don't you hurry? Your sister will get married next year, and you haven't landed yet. β
A little sister of a relative's family is one year younger than Ye Jiajia, and after graduating from the bachelor's degree, she met her current boyfriend through a blind date, and she has begun to talk about marriage after a year of dating. As a result, Ye Jiajia, who is an older sister, will inevitably be urged by the seven aunts and eight aunts to find a partner.
"Who says I'm unfounded? Didn't I say I had an object? It's just that you don't believe it, you can't blame me for not saying it. β
Mother Ye has no impression of this, with her inquiring personality, how could she not ask if her daughter mentioned it, and it is impossible not to remember it at all. Unless it's because she says that the person is too unreliable, or the way she says it is a thief is not serious.
The ball game on TV reminded her of the boy she casually pointed at when she came home at the end of the summer vacation: "Don't tell me it's the one who played ball......"
When she said this, Mother Ye still smiled and didn't take it seriously, but when Ye Jiajia told her with great certainty, her smile disappeared in an instant, this joke was not only not funny at all, but also very serious in nature.
"You're not fooling around! How big is that guy? β
"Aren't you four years younger than me......"
"Four? Still? Isn't that a joke! β
"What's the matter?"
"Do you know anything about that big little broken child? When he graduates, your sister's children will all play soy sauce. You'll have to wait at least four years to marry him! β
"I'm not in a hurry to get married...... We're fine now, so don't worry about it. β
"How did I become a fool? I'm doing this for your good, do you understand? Do people with bigger farts know what life is? Do you know what it's called love? Do you know what it's called feelings? Can he give it to you? β
"How do you know people don't understand?"
"You yourself don't grow up every day, and if you find someone younger than you, you two are going to live at home?"
"You know?"
"Of course I know, you look not small, and your heart is like a child."
It's like this every time, no matter what Mother Ye says, she feels that Ye Jiajia's ideas are immature, or too naΓ―ve, and she always feels that her behavior and performance don't look like a person in her twenties.
Ye Jiajia played with the handbook and made collages, but Ye's mother felt that those were just pastes played by children, saying that she didn't grow up; Mother Ye likes to buy figures, whenever she brings home her favorite two-dimensional male gods and goddesses, Mother Ye thinks that these are small broken toys, and she can't sell them for money and waste money, saying that she is naΓ―ve; Ye Jiajia played games and did live broadcasts, and Ye's mother said that she was not doing her job, and she had time to see how good the book exam was, and she knew how to play every day, so that friends who played the same game began to question her age. They don't understand that they are all in their twenties, and how to play a game and still be controlled by their parents. Don't talk about them, Ye Jiajia doesn't understand it herself.
She earns the expenses of these hobbies by herself, and she is still rich after the scholarship is paid. Mother Ye only saw that she was playing games very well, and the live broadcast was chattering, but she couldn't see the questions she had brushed and the books she had read. When she was serious, Mother Ye said that she was too nervous, and when she was not serious, Mother Ye said that she didn't seek progress, anyway, she said everything, but she didn't give Ye Jiajia a reason.
When choosing a major that year, Ye Jiajia wanted to learn journalism and didn't let him learn, he didn't want to learn psychology, he didn't want to learn literature, he didn't want to learn archaeology, and in the end, Ye Jiajia was so opposed that she didn't have any interest in volunteering.
Giving up her hobbies, giving up a better school, giving up a broader world, Ye Jiajia was confused for a long time, she couldn't find her own direction, couldn't find what she could work on, and couldn't find the meaning of continuing. It seems that her score is not for herself, but for Ye's mother.
Mother Ye seems to be used to controlling everything about her, and is used to letting her go according to her own requirements and plans, so when Ye Jiajia completes her goal, she will be very satisfied and proud, but when she deviates slightly, she will find all kinds of faults.
Ye Jiajia is an obedient child in the eyes of outsiders, but no one has ever asked her if she is really willing to do all this. Mother Ye only knew that she was shy and didn't like to talk in front of outsiders, knew that she had good grades, knew that she didn't have so many messy things, and didn't even have a rebellious period, but she never knew that Ye Jiajia in school was also punished by the teacher for making trouble in class, and because of conflicts with other girls, they had their own small groups and were asked to write inspections, because they had no intention of studying because they chased Li Ruike, and they burst into dirty words because they were in a bad mood......
Step by step to now, only this relationship is her own choice, and only the hosting of the summer vacation has made her deeply understand what it means to work hard for love.
In the face of Ye's mother's words, Ye Jiajia only had silence, no matter how much argument or reasoning, it was all in vain, it was better not to say it.
She turned up the volume on the TV and didn't bother to pay attention to her.
"You're playing tantrums with me here, aren't you? Let me tell you, you broke up with that kid as soon as possible, and now tell him that you dumped him, but you can't let him dump you, then it's too late! β
"Also, don't you know that watching football and reading books can't you? It's amazing to look at the ball! β
"Such a big person, not a child, you have to recognize the reality! Don't fix those unreliable, what kind of love and affection, it's useless! β
Ye Jiajia was speechless, just now she said that people don't understand love, and now she says that love is useless.
had a good preseason game, and it was originally a happy thing for the Warriors to take the lead, but the good mood was ruined by Ye's mother's "speech". She simply stuffed the remote control into Ye's mother's hand, went back to her room and closed the door to play games.
Put on headphones, start a live broadcast, find a little solace in the virtual world, but enjoy a moment of purity in a noisy environment.
In the conversation with Shuiyou and Jin Lan, she was able to forget the mess for a while, without thinking or being annoyed.
In the end, Mother Ye did not forget to bring the war to Father Ye.
"Look, look, it's all used to you! What an attitude! I don't know what to do! Don't watch TV again! Don't look at basketball! β
Basketball: What kind of grudge is this......