The photographer who followed took a few beautiful photos of Meng Ran and Dream Chasing with his camera.

After resting for a while, I turned over and rode back, this time riding to the B&B area, and went around again before returning to the racecourse. Everyone looked at the way they were chasing their dreams and knew that it was satisfied today. Meng Ran got off the horse and personally returned to the stable, bathed him, brushed him, and fed it forage.

The freshness of Mu Mu and his friends riding a pony also passed, and they went to other places with their father. Meng Ran took Mu Mu and thanked the proprietress, asked the others where they were going, and walked over with Mu Mu unhurriedly.

Everyone is watching pheasants at the chicken farm. There are many subspecies of this beautiful creature of the genus Pheasant, and there are as many as 19 species in China alone. In addition to their bright colors, the long feathers on their tails are also very aesthetically pleasing. Meeting with everyone, Xue Ding and Zhang Siwei discussed with Meng Ran what to eat at night. Sisi and Ming obviously want to eat braised pork, but Xiao Mingyu will feel tired of eating braised pork, Nuo Nuo is actually fine, Meng Ran eats whatever he wants. After a comprehensive discussion, it was finally decided that Sisi and Ming Ming's braised pork arrangements would be made for Xiao Mingyu to make a braised lion's head, and he was making a sweet and sour pork ribs, a roasted eggplant and a tomato and egg soup.

After turning around, I agreed to go fishing in the pond after breakfast tomorrow, mainly because fishing can hone the children's patience and exercise their concentration. Especially Sisi and Mingming, according to Xue Ding, these two children usually have nothing to do at home, and they are tired of playing with toys and hold the tablet to watch cartoons. How to put it well, it seems that most children are like this now. Parents are very tired when they are resting and don't want to move to accompany their children, so they turn on the TV, or give their mobile phones and tablets to their children and let them play by themselves, without any interaction and companionship. The original intention of this show is actually to let parents in front of the TV not take their children in this way, but more to let everyone take their children closer to nature.

Meng Ran felt that this was indeed very good. Whether in his own time and space, he had seen too many children who were not clear about the rest of the basic knowledge except for learning. One time he was walking with Mu Mu and Oscar in the villa area, and a child pointed to the corn seedlings planted in someone else's yard and asked his father what it was, and his father told him that it was a potato... Some adults don't know, let alone children. Some zoos raise poultry in their parks, which has been questioned by many people. The skeptics felt that the zoo was suspicious of fooling people because they knew the poultry, but they didn't think that in the eyes of people who didn't know the poultry, many of these fowl couldn't even be named.

Follow the program team to broaden the children's horizons, if you can let the parents of the children in front of the TV see it, they can also take the children out to play and enjoy the beautiful life between parents and children, it might as well be a good thing.

When I returned to the B&B, I asked the front desk for ingredients. Back in the house, the children were organized to line up to wash their hands, Meng Ran changed his clothes and put on an apron to go to the kitchen to prepare some side dishes. Nuno puzzles with Sisi, Ming Ming and Xiao Mingyu. When he went to buy groceries from the airport in the morning, Meng Ran bought two boxes of 100 pieces and 300 pieces of puzzles, so that the children could work together and at the same time enhance the friendship between them.

The waiter here brought the ingredients he wanted, and Meng Ran made dinner. Today he did it, tomorrow one day to Xue Ding, and the last day is Zhang Siwei, the distribution is reasonable!

Under the chef's cooking, one dish after another was soon served. Under the leadership of Xue Ding and Zhang Siwei, the children washed their hands and sat down at the table to get ready. This time, Meng Ran did not use chopsticks, but as they said at noon, there were several small bowls in front of each person, which contained different dishes, and they would serve them after eating.

This dinner is still very comfortable, and adults and children are very happy. Meng Ran also suggested that he should have a barbecue or something later. When I finished washing, Zhang Siwei came to help, simply rinsed off the grease, put the bowl in the dishwasher, and left it alone after setting. I added some clothes to the children at night, after all, the temperature difference at night is relatively large, and it is still quite cold. Take the kids outside to see the stars. In the end, the ecological environment is good, you can still hear the cry of owls outside, and even the howl of wolves can be heard in the distance.

In the open space outside the B&B, the proprietress lit a bonfire for everyone and prepared an astronomical telescope according to Meng Ran's request. Everyone is chatting over the fire, and the children are rushing to look at the starry sky with astronomical telescopes, which is quite a pleasant life. Three fathers held beer bottles around the campfire and chatted with a couple of parents who saw a bonfire and brought their children to play.

Their children have just entered primary school this year, and the pressure on learning is not great, but the children's grandparents and grandparents don't want their children to lose at the starting line, so they enroll their children in a lot of interest classes or something. The child's parents are usually busy with work and can't take care of these, so just taking advantage of the holiday, the young couple took annual leave to take the child out to play.

Meng Ran also thinks it's quite interesting, because I generally don't want my child to lose at the starting line, and it is only my parents who enroll their children in interest classes or something, and they are actually done by grandparents and grandparents in their family! How busy are the two of them? Or how Buddhist the two of them must be.

Seeing that several children were playing well, Meng Ran said to the fathers with some emotion: "In fact, whether it is parents or grandparents, grandparents and grandparents, the starting point is for the good of the children." But bar... I don't think I can put too much pressure on my child. As the old saying goes, work and rest are combined, and the string is always tightened when the child is wound as soon as he goes to school. After a long time, this string will become tighter and tighter, and it may break one day. It's also good to loosen it properly. Grades are important, but they are really not that important for growth. ”

Xue Ding touched the wine bottle with Meng Ran, took a sip of wine and said, "Our family Sisi and Ming Ming just came to the elementary school to register a few days ago. Nowadays, you have to take an exam before entering primary school, that is, you go to school with your children with the formalities or something, and you are separated from the children first, and the children take theirs, and you test yours. After the exam, you have to judge whether you can enter the school based on the comprehensive score. At that moment, I thought that this kind of school is a bit cruel for children. All of a sudden, I was worried about the future of my two children. This kind of learning environment, I don't want these two kids to become nerds. But the child thinks that school is a good thing, and only by studying hard can there be a good way out and a good future. That's right, then you have to choose between the present and the future. ”

Zhang Siwei continued Xue Ding's words: "Let me give you an example. I have two small, bare-bottomed ones that grew up together. One went to work outside after graduating from junior high school, and the other went to college and went to graduate school. Now the salary of Fa Xiao, who went to work after graduating from junior high school, is only more than 3,000 yuan a month, and the salary of Fa Xiao, who graduated from graduate school, is now more than 30,000 yuan a month after tax, close to 40,000 yuan. That's the difference. The money earned by the small job with a monthly salary of only 3,000 yuan was earned in a year, and the graduate student earned it in a month. Graduate students need to earn a monthly salary of 3,000 to earn money for ten years. This is the most realistic aspect of academic qualifications. ”

Meng Ran actually felt quite a few. In both time and space, I have a college degree in education. In his own time and space, if he hadn't been expelled from the military, he would have been better, but his monthly salary would not be too high. He may earn 30,000 to 50,000 yuan a month with a VIP, and the highly educated staff of the group sitting in the office are also 30,000 to 50,000 yuan, but the nature of the work is completely different. He fights on his own, and sometimes he gets injured. People sit in the office blowing the air conditioner, warm in winter and cool in summer, go to work on time, and get off work at the end of the day, the life is much more comfortable than him.

In life, it's all about choices. If I hadn't chosen to become a teacher and continued to go back to university, I might have had a different life. Just like Zhang Siwei's hair small, even if he goes to a technical school to learn some skills after graduating from junior high school, he will not have a monthly salary of only more than 3,000 a month. If you go to college, you won't be like this after graduating from college. Maybe choice is really more important than hard work.

As he spoke, he talked about raising children. The dad said that when their child was born, he quit his job to focus on watching the child at home. Because of this, he was not understood, and he was scolded for being a soft rice man, which caused him to be extremely depressed during the period when he was raising children, and he was in a bad mood every day, and even almost divorced for this. The child's mother went to work, came back to play with the child, and then went to sleep, ignoring him at all. makes his sense of existence very low, and the two of them don't talk more than ten sentences a day. Anyway, it feels a little strange. The child's grandparents and grandparents were not of retirement age at that time, what can they do? Hire a nanny, the minimum is more than 8,000 per month, and the small couple only earns more than 10,000 a month. Can the babysitter please, what will they eat this month after please? The money for the child's milk powder alone is not enough. That's the reality.

In fact, Meng Ran can understand him, and Meng Ran has always been opposed to the matter of grandparents and grandparents taking children. Because the child is their own child, it is obvious to all to the extent that the older generation spoils the child. It can't be said that it's all, most of the older generation spoils children really have no bottom line. Meng Ran saw with his own eyes that a colleague's child was angry and threw toys, when the colleague and his lover taught the child, the child's grandmother took the child away directly, and scolded the colleague and his lover, and finally threw down a sentence My eldest grandson can't care about anyone, and he went out to play with the child.

Is this spoiling right? No, when the child knows that grandma will indulge him, he can go wild at will, and as long as you are angry and want to teach him a lesson, he will run to grandma for protection. This kind of is actually easy to do, while his grandmother is away, it is good to understand it all at once. Nowadays, some people, parents discipline their children twice and say that they abuse children, and when the bear children go out and cause trouble, they say that the parents don't care about the children, what can they do?