Chapter 370: It's the first time to be a parent
"You're in the right place, hehe, break your leg and get hospitalized......"
When Jiang Wan drove back to the small shop in the mountains, Yu Le, who was sitting in the co-pilot, couldn't help but smile, Jiang Wan had a hint of shame, "Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, you have already arrived?"
Of course, Yu Le didn't arrive early, but he could let go of the hearing scan and lock on to a location to strengthen the monitoring, even if he didn't arrive at the scene.
When he heard Jiang Wan seriously instruct Hua Xiaohuo to break Zhao Tie's leg, Yu Le almost laughed out loud, I changed me to the scene, it's almost this routine, right?
The angel white lotus has fallen!
"What if there is a small fire, Xiao Duo can't control it, and it is really broken?" Yu Le actually still has some doubts, although he has unlimited support for Jiang Wan, no matter what the consequences are, he will take over the whole thing.
But if Yu Le was there, he would go and get the dumbbells himself, and of course he would have to shake it on the iron egg's head.
"Interrupted, then interrupted. Jiang Wan smiled slightly and concentrated on driving, "Why should I care about a gangster? I have no interest in the abuser's family background, mental state, whether he is a filial child, how his academic performance is, whether he has a tragic experience, he is just an abuser." ”
The probability of school bullying not happening is very high, but mild injuries happen almost all the time.
Teenagers are not only true, good, and beautiful, but also the evil of Chiguoguo.
It's really true, it's really true, it's really straightforward, it's not adulterated, it's not pretentious.
In this case, there is as much good and beautiful as there is evil, which is a two-sided thing.
That is to say, in the world of teenagers, especially children, there are no impurities in good and beauty, and there is no disguise in evil, they are all straightforward, straightforward and wanton, and children cannot be judged by adults' concepts of good and evil and rules of behavior.
Because children have neither ideas nor rules.
Usually, bullying incidents that explode on the Internet mostly occur from the upper grades of primary school to junior high school, that is, between the ages of 10 and 14, and the law has nothing to do with them.
It's not that there is no bullying before the age of ten, but that the consequences before the age of ten are not so severe.
In other words, it's not that the children are not so ruthless, but that they are not so strong.
Moreover, whether the consequences are serious or not is not necessarily as it seems......
"I was bullied by my classmates in elementary school, and I was often bullied, and at that time I was very suspicious of myself, panicked, depressed, insecure, and didn't want to go to school. But I definitely didn't dare to fight back, and I didn't think about it. In fact, children are very snobbish, clinging to the strong and bullying the weak, all of which are natural and undisguised. Jiang Wan stared at the road ahead, although there were not many vehicles and pedestrians on the road, "As for the gangsters like Tiedan, no matter what happens to them, I will not sympathize with them." ”
The juvenile protection law is often a villain who protects the underage.
"When I was in junior high school, I was an isolated child. In PE class, no one was playing with me, so I sat alone on the edge of the playground and tried my best to hide myself. A group of girls in our class went to the store between classes, bought a cone each, and ate it in a laughing and laughing game. Jiang Wan had a smile on the corner of her mouth, and her speech was very slow, and a distant scene was still in front of her.
"I watched them from afar," Jiang Wan said intermittently, her voice very ethereal, "When they are far away, I will also go over and buy one, the same cone as them......"
Yu Le slammed in his heart, "How does it taste?"
"Taste...... Very average. Jiang replied after a while, as if he had a reminiscence.
But they ate so happily. I must have done something wrong, or I had a flaw that I couldn't change, and how I wanted to eat cones in groups with them! When I got back to the class, I looked indifferent, as if I didn't care about anything at all, and I preferred to be alone. I'm afraid that a little different expression will lead to whispering, pointing, or inexplicable funny laughter. I felt like the whole class was waiting to see my jokes. It would be a shame if someone knew that I was following them to buy a cone......"
I didn't have time to participate in your past.
The elegant, rich and gentle white swan was once a bleak and bleak ugly duckling.
Yu Le wanted to say something, but he couldn't say it, so he finally covered his left hand on Jiang Wan's right hand and conducted some heat.
"When I was in high school, my mom was rich, I was beautiful, I studied well, and gradually became a goddess. After becoming a goddess, the world is beautiful, and there are smiling faces everywhere you go. Jiang Wan smiled and continued, obviously turning over an article, "But since I was very young, I wanted to find a boyfriend in the future, and I must find the strongest one, who can beat people, and who dares to hit people." ”
"Your wish has come true. Yu Le rubbed the back of Jiang Wan's hand, "The matter has also passed." Otherwise, I'll accompany you to visit your elementary school classmates one by one?"
Jiang Wan also smiled, it was indeed all over, "So, I want to protect Xiaoduo, protect every child, and don't let them have a psychological shadow, even if it's overkill." ”
The setbacks in life are special treasures.
Of course, if I had the choice, I really wouldn't want to have all that wealth.
Every little child should be treated with gentleness, at least one reminder that it's not your fault.
Every little girl should be a little princess held in the palm of her hand, at least tell her that her parents are your strong backing and will always support you unconditionally......
"Therefore, in your eyes, Tie Dan is also your child, a child who has made small mistakes. In my eyes, he is a complete villain. If they are allowed to do evil, it is likely to affect other children for the rest of their lives. Jiang Wan bit her lip.
Yu Le nodded silently.
When he was a child, Yu Le grew up without a head or a brain, and he had fights and troubles, but he had never been bullied. Wushuang is well protected by Yule.
So although life is a little hard, the childhood is very complete and happy, so Wushuang is so optimistic and flamboyant, even if he has stepped from the poor ravine to the metropolis.
Thinking about it carefully, Jiang Wan, who has always talked less and laughed more, does have a feeling of compromise, and even more delicate and gentle to hug and protect.
Childhood experience has a great impact, and regret cannot be made up.
Some parents are asked by their children about being bullied at school, and some children don't tell their parents at all.
Or she feels ashamed to be bullied, or she will suspect that she has done something wrong, or her parents or teachers have thrown her a sentence, so many children, why are they bullying you?
It is likely to have caused a lifetime of shadows, or at least the lack of a happy childhood.
And those parents who are lucky enough to be told by their children usually don't take it seriously, thinking that it's normal and not a big deal.
Even serious parents often find themselves in a dilemma: what should they teach their children to do?
Introspection and kindness to others?
Take a step back and open the sky, can't afford to hide?
A tooth for a tooth, a fight for violence with violence?
Let the child report to the teacher, or more simply, the parent will do it himself?
Jiang Wan's answer was very clear, "So, when Xiao Duo asked me, my answer was, whoever dares to bully you, you will fight back and hurt him!"
"Are you sure that Xiao Duo and them will not become the kind that outputs damage? You must know that Xiao Duo is no longer an ordinary child, once they do evil, the consequences will be very serious. Even if it is based on good intentions, it may lead to the fact that it is evil, what should we do at that time?" Yu Le treated Jiang Wan gently, and wondered if he was too harsh on Xiao Duo just now.
Jiang Wan was a little confused in front of her, and she couldn't concentrate on driving for a while, so she found a secluded place and stopped.
Even when talking about her childhood experience just now, Jiang Wan drove calmly, but when it came to Xiaoduo and other children, she couldn't do it.
The carriage was silent.
"You want to say that you will criticize them harshly and discipline them harshly, but you will not allow anyone but you and me to beak their beaks, right?" Yu Le continued.
"Then what do you think it should be?" Jiang Wan put her side face on the steering wheel and looked at Yu Le seriously.
"That's what I thought too......" Yu Le laughed.
Jiang Wan was obviously not satisfied with this statement, and originally thought that you had a perfect idea.
"I think it's good for Xiao Duo to grow up as ordinary people, neither too superior, nor can they have a sense of humility. I'll talk about the rest when I grow up. Yu Le knocked on the window glass with his fingers, and there was no pause.
Is it just a long-term view?
"But they are no longer ordinary, and elementary school students beat junior high school students. Especially Xiao Duo, I think even if she is alone, if she grits her teeth and is ruthless, it will be no problem to defeat the three iron eggs. Jiang Wan said while thinking, "I don't know if I should encourage her to be brave, or be cowardly to protect herself?"
"Isn't this the first time I've been a father to someone!" Yu Le also scratched the back of his head with a little distress, how can there be just the right degree, no experience......
But things came very quickly.
It was not Hua Xiaoduo who had the accident, but Hua Xiaosong in the third grade.
Hua Xiaosong and Hua Xiaoya are both in class 304, and there is a magical child named Zhang Lei in this class, and he is magical and he has beaten all the classmates in the class in less than three years.
There are many reasons for beating people, you don't give you things in time, you are slow to respond when you call you, why don't you wear a hat...... Sometimes you don't need a reason, a bad mood is a reason, no matter what you have in your hand, such as a pencil, a triangular ruler, or even a compass, it will directly shine on your head and face.
The students were afraid of snakes and scorpions, but the teachers did not dare to care.
Even during class, Zhang Lei stood up and danced and knocked down other people's desks. The teacher wrote on the blackboard, and he went up and wiped it.
Hua Xiaosong and Hua Xiaoya were also beaten.
Hua Xiaoya was hit headlong on the back, fell on her stomach, and a piece of skin was wiped off her forehead, leaving a scar on the face of the good little girl.
Hua Xiaosong was scratched on his face, leaving three blood marks, and the scar was faintly visible after he grew up.
Compared to those children whose heads were opened and their eyes were pierced, they were still very lucky.
That was more than a year ago, and Jiang Wan hadn't come to the mountain shop yet. When Uncle Lao Shan asked what was going on, both children said that they were fighting with their classmates.
Uncle Lao Shan didn't take it too seriously, and told them to unite with their classmates, and Xiao Song should protect Xiao Ya.
Hua Xiaosong and Hua Xiaoya don't want to cause trouble to Uncle Shan, there are ten children in the family, but there is only one parent, Uncle Lao Mountain is busy and tired enough.
Some parents are not so busy and tired, but after finding the school, the director of education said that they were very confused, and the school-age children have the right to receive compulsory education, but the school does not have the right to treat them individually.
The school also contacted Zhang Lei's parents, but the parents said that it was just a small friction between classmates, who had not fought with classmates when they were in school, and I paid for the medical expenses of the injured child.
The small friction between classmates can't be the friction between Zhang Lei and the whole class, right?
Some parents also formed a team to come to the school and asked to transfer Zhang Lei to another class. The dean smiled wryly, which class do you think is appropriate to transfer to?
Why don't you give him a separate class?
It is definitely not feasible to run a class for Zhang Lei alone, and some parents have raised the idea that Zhang Lei has a mental problem, it is best to go to the hospital for examination, and it is better to treat it in a targeted manner, so as not to delay the treatment and cause greater consequences.
Zhang Lei's parents became angry when they heard this, what is wrong with my child? Why should I prove to others that there is no problem with my child?!
In short, Zhang Lei has been playing the whole class alone for more than two years. If nothing else, it will take more than three more years. Parents had no choice but to tell their children to stay away from Zhang Lei......
Today, Hua Xiaosong made a move.
The reason for the shot was that Zhang Lei took a pencil case and cut the back of Hua Xiaoya's head.
Either he was inspired by Hua Xiaoduo's deeds, or he saw Hua Xiaoya's head bleeding endlessly, Hua Xiaosong suddenly burst out.
In fact, Zhang Lei's height is only a little more than one meter, which is much shorter than the whole class. Hua Xiaosong has already jumped to more than 1.4 meters, almost the tallest person in the class.
"I'll let you hit the cliff!" Hua Xiaosong kicked Zhang Lei out of the distance.
Then pounce on it and press it, full of old punches!
The whole class cowered and dodged, only Hua Xiaoya covered his head and kicked Zhang Lei's legs, feet and buttocks.
It was recess, and the teacher left with the lesson plan, and the noise behind her did not make her look back.
I had a full 10-minute recess, but the teacher for the next class was delayed.
The students from the next class gathered around the door of the classroom and cheered in a mess......
"This little bastard seems to be terrible, why don't the other students help him?" Yu Le put away the traceability technique and smacked his lips.
Jiang Wan was still staring blankly at the air, and only after closing her mouth did she feel that her tongue was cold, "That little gangster, you weren't beaten to death by Xiao Song, right?"
Hua Xiaosong made a move to protect Hua Xiaoya, Yu Le will definitely ensure that Hua Xiaosong is thorough, but under the eyes of everyone, the trouble is not small.
"Don't worry, it's not dead, Komatsu has regained his strength. Yu Le smiled, "It's their teacher's attitude that is quite interesting, and the people of this little gangster are very angry." ”
"Let's go, let's go!"
"Don't worry, you drive, wait. ”
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