221 Ding Family Affairs
Mrs. Ding originally had three sons, the third son died young, and only two grew up, Tao Guiqin married the second son of the second room, and the eldest son Ding Jingxian married his mother's cousin, since childhood, although Mrs. Ding was not very willing, but her grandson was willing, Mrs. Ding didn't see much of a problem, so she followed her grandson's wishes.
After getting married, the two were also in love.
Most families set up relatives for their children is the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker, after marriage, you are the husband and I am the wife, give birth to children, work hard for the family and the children, some of the feelings between each other are getting stronger and stronger, and some are still you are the husband and I am the wife, and I am dutiful.
Some childhood sweethearts, who are in love with each other, or love at first sight, within a few years of marriage, have lost their original love, and because of trivial matters at home, they have changed each other, they are critical of each other, they have no affection, only complaining, and slowly the two of them have become hateful.
The second-room eldest son couple is like this.
The second son, Ding Jingxiang, said that he went to Taojiapu to take a fancy to Tao Guiqin, but it was better to say that Mrs. Ding took a fancy to this granddaughter-in-law. She went back to Tao's shop many years ago, went to Tao's house, and met Tao Guiqin who was following Aunt Tao.
At that time, Tao Guiqin was still young, and Mrs. Ding had no plans to marry back to the Ding family. Later, the second daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law wanted to return the relatives of the Dingzhang family to their grandson, but Mrs. Ding was reluctant and asked her eldest son to take her grandson back to Taojiapu.
told her grandson about the daughter of the Tao family, if the Tao family did not marry her daughter, and the grandson was willing to see someone, then she would ask someone to propose marriage.
Therefore, there is a saying that the Ding family returned to the ancestral house, and the Ding family's sons took a fancy to the Tao family's daughter and got married.
After Ding Jingxian, the eldest son of the second room, annoyed his wife, he raised an outer room outside, who knew that this outer room was older than him, not to mention, he also had the son of the previous man. Now she is pregnant, and she has a month to go.
Ding Jingxian didn't tell his father and mother, knelt down and begged his grandfather and grandmother, wanting to take the outer room home for the sake of the child in his belly.
This can make Mrs. Ding angry, she wanted to marry her cousin at the beginning, and she would have to take the woman outside home again, what did he want to do The elders have to rely on him?
Mrs. Ding bit down and disagreed, Mrs. Ding went out to inquire, the outer room was a poor person, not the kind of fairy jumping, and the Ding family did not have a family business that people could plot.
Ding Jingxian counted on his grandparents to agree, and some people pinched their noses for the sake of their own bloodline and recognized it, and the elders apologized to their in-laws, and the in-laws had to take a step back, and it was not good to let their daughters reconcile for this.
Who knew that the grandmother disagreed, saying that she did not lack great-grandchildren and would not let outside illegitimate children enter the door.
This is a recent incident, the reason why Mrs. Ding asked her granddaughter-in-law to go back to her parents' house was to ask her to avoid it, for fear that her grandson would open her mouth to tell her granddaughter-in-law about the affairs of the outer room, and the family would make an ugly fuss in front of relatives. The granddaughter-in-law went back to her parents' house, and the grandson went to his father-in-law's house to tell his daughter-in-law.
Otherwise, because her granddaughter-in-law didn't bang the door on her and went back to her parents' house, her relatives were still living in Ding's house, and the second room would be even more difficult to get along with in the future. Mrs. Ding is not a foolish person who doesn't think about doing things.
Mrs. Ding helped her great-grandson walk for a while, picked it up and put it on the square chair to rest, touched her great-grandson's little hand and said, "You see that the child is delicate, and the mother has the idle mind to take care of the affairs of the concubine, why don't you take care of the child?" Things are messy in my own house, staring at my concubine all day long, and I can't raise my children well. ”
Mrs. Ding looked at her great-grandson, touched the Buddhist beads in her hand, listened to the chatter of his old wife, and said for a long time: "I thought about it all night last night and passed Jingxiang to the third child." ”
Old Mrs. Ding raised her head violently and said in surprise: "It's not for Jingliang to ......."
The big house has three sons, the youngest is fifteen-year-old Ding Jingliang, the couple and their son discussed, let Jingliang inherit the incense of the third room, so Mrs. Ding was surprised when she heard her husband's words.
"The eldest man's room is okay, the second ......" Old Lady Ding shook his head, "I used to want Jingxiang to hold his second room, but he is not the eldest son, can the eldest be comfortable?" Their second room is getting more and more ....... We were in a dilemma at the beginning, and it was not that we did not do it, and we stayed up until we separated, so my eldest brother kept saying that my father and mother were eccentric, as if the family business we earned was given by my father. Daddy and mother are eccentric, eccentric boss, before he died, he still held my hand and asked me to take care of the eldest brother's room, and now you and I care about them, don't you just kneel and agree to my father. ”
Mrs. Ding was angry when she thought of that house, and after decades, the money spent on them to buy a few more mansions would not be enough, otherwise why would their family still be crowded in this dilapidated house.
"I thought about it last night, why bother to let Jingxiang go through the road I walked, just pass him over to the third child, and in the future, the second child can be mixed up with them, Jingxian is wasted, let them be, let's go into the ground, we don't have the energy to worry about him alone, and he is not without a father. Jingxiang passed on to the third child, and then he was the second nephew in the next room, which is better than that the son was instructed by his father. ”
Mrs. Ding burst into tears, most afraid that her children and grandchildren would lose their family business if they were not filial, and seeing that they were going to repeat the road of the previous generation, why did they work hard for decades?
"Don't be sad, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, who makes the sins who bear it, let's not learn from my father, give the unfortunate to others, my father and mother think it's help, but I don't know it's harm. I know that you asked Jingxiang to marry the Tao family, just like my mother took a fancy to you at the beginning, you want Jingxiang to hold up the second room, and the second room will be handed over to him later, but he is not the eldest son, just like I am not the eldest son, I must always be bound by the long house. ”
Hearing this, Mrs. Ding hated it, she was angry with her sister-in-law, that is, she divided the sister-in-law into a long room, how can you drop in the second room.
Wiping away her tears, Mrs. Ding said hatefully: "Then let Jingxiang succeed, Jingxian wants to bring the outer room into the house, then divide the family!" After splitting the family, he loves to toss in the second room. ”
I don't know if I don't compare, in the past, Mrs. Ding always thought about how her children and grandchildren would be, and the second room was not a little more angry, and let Jingxiang stand up in the future, Jingxian was incompetent and relied on his brother to live.
can think about the husband and wife, who have helped the eldest uncle for a lifetime, dragged them down for a lifetime, and in the end, their grandson kept saying that their second room owed the big house.
Let Jingxiang be the same as them in the future?
Mrs. Ding continued: "I also made this decision after listening to the Tao family's separation, why the Tao family separated when the father and mother were here, I think it is because the Tao family does not want conflicts between children and grandchildren in the future. The third child of the Tao family has worked hard for the Tao family for decades, and he has his own grandchildren, their brothers can be peaceful, can their children and grandchildren be peaceful in the future? So it's better to split up now, and still maintain the love between brothers. That is, which room needs to help in the future, others can also happily stretch out their hands. ”
Mrs. Ding nodded, hugged her great-grandson and shook him to sleep.
"Jingxiang has his father-in-law with him, it won't be bad, his daughter-in-law is smarter than him, and his children and grandchildren can't be wrong in the future. It's better for them to be a husband and wife than to rot in their second room, like we did at the beginning. ”
Mrs. Ding was a little disappointed in her granddaughter-in-law before, after entering the door, she was a good wife, she didn't care about everything, she served her husband in a proper manner, and honored her parents-in-law and grandfather and grandmother.
But the Ding family is a trader, and if you take a fancy to your Tao family, isn't it also a trader? Hoping to marry back can do things. I heard that her mother can read and settle accounts, and the Tao family's business and Tao Lao and the third husband and wife take care of it together, but the Tao family's daughter went in and went to look like a husband and a child.
The husband still understands that he is old and soft-hearted, and he always thinks that his children and grandchildren will not become like the big house.
The old couple of the Ding family decided on the matter of succession, and they were going to wait for the outer room to give birth. The news that Jingxian has an illegitimate child in the outer room will not drag on for a long time, at that time there will be a big trouble in the second room, and their old couple will not favor their grandson to take the outer room into the door, but the granddaughter-in-law is not a good-tempered person, and the in-laws Zhang family, if there is a lively scene, then it will be proposed to let Jingxiang pass over.
Looking at the delicate great-grandson in her arms, Mrs. Ding sighed, her father and mother were not angry, and it was the child who suffered. is so small, and he was raised by his mother to be more delicate than a girl, and I don't know how his father and mother will toss it in the future.