Chapter 42 Yu Shu and Xinbao talk about the true meaning of life

After Yu Shu gave birth to a child, Zihao, Jiaxin and Xinbao took care of her in three shifts at night for three consecutive days, Yu Shu was very moved, these three are usually too lazy to need others to take care of, in order to be a godfather, they worked hard, and each person took four hours seriously, at the beginning, Yu Shu In addition to Zihao, when Jiaxin and Xinbao took shifts, she still couldn't sleep, and she got used to it the second night, they brought a reclining chair and put it outside the door, as long as Yu Shu and the child had a little movement, they hurried in, Yu Shu felt that they did everything very well.

On the third day, Yu Shu's body was almost recovered, Xin Bao came to take over at two o'clock in the middle of the night, Yu Shu couldn't sleep, she called Xin Bao to go in and sit in front of her bed, Xin Bao was still a little embarrassed, Yu Shu said: "You sit, we have a good relationship like sisters and brothers, don't be embarrassed." Xinbao sat down.

Yu Shu asked Xinbao with a smile: "Xinbao, you tell my sister the truth, do you want to be rainy?" ”

Xinbao was silent for a while, nodded, big tears rolled down, Yu Shu's nose was sour, she asked Xinbao: "Do you know why Xinyu took that road?" ”

Xinbao said with a crying voice: "I still haven't figured out why Xinyu did that. ”

Yu Shu said: "That's because she loves you, do you think she doesn't have pain in her heart?" Because, she doesn't want to leave you, she doesn't want to lose the home she worked so hard to run. ”

Xinbao said: "I still can't understand what she has done, she can do artificial insemination, or, IVF." ”

Yu Shu smiled and said: "Xinbao, you are stupid, your situation is a lack of sperm, whether it is artificial insemination or IVF, you must use other people's sperm, and the sperm in the sperm bank is artificially collected, diluted, and frozen at ultra-low temperature, it will inevitably cause some damage to sperm, and then, the artificial insemination process may cause damage to sperm, therefore, their risk is very high." Many people in life say that their artificial insemination, or IVF, is secretly conceived naturally, but under the banner of artificial insemination and IVF, imagine what is the situation for any family facing a child with a physical or intellectual disability? This is also the reason why the underground surrogacy business is good. Do you understand what I'm saying? ”

Xinbao nodded, and Yu Shu continued: "Xinyu chose you to do this before you got married, she has the dedication to do it before marriage, the ideal situation is to conceive a child, you don't know the real situation, and you are not against artificial insemination or IVF, you are naturally married, and you have a healthy child; If you oppose artificial insemination and IVF, and you break up, she can have at least one child, and finally gain something, but the result is that she is calculated in society, and she can't get your tolerance and understanding at home, how much pain do you think she should have? ”

Xinbao said: "I know she is in pain, but I can't turn it over in my heart, but I miss her again, what do you say?" ”

Yu Shu said: "Xinbao, you are a little stupid, think about it, can you still find an eighteen or nineteen-year-old girl?" ”

Xinbao shook his head, and Yu Shu said: "It's not my sister who hits you, most mortal girls won't agree to you if they know your situation, not to mention how many women over twenty-five or sixteen years old are pure?" What is their history, you don't know, you don't know how many boyfriends she has had, I think Xinyu misses you very much, it's better to find a girlfriend again, reconcile with Tongyu again, you go to adopt a child, many families adopt other people's children and live well, what do you think? ”

Xinbao said: "My mother and aunt have never known the real reason why Xinyu left me, and they are always arguing that I will not coax girls, and I have lost such a good girl, and I also want to reconcile with her, but she hides from me." ”

Yu Shu smiled and said: "If you want to reconcile, first of all, you have to think through this matter from your heart, many men know that their wives are cheating, for many reasons, they did not divorce, survived the difficult days of those years, and then they are not old together, we all used to advocate pure and beautiful love, but life has changed everything, we can never go back to where we started, we are often maintaining our own image, but our original beautiful image has long lost its original face. In the second half of the sentence, she was not only a persuasion to Xinbao, but also a sigh for her own life.

Xinbao said: "Listening to you say this, my heart is much brighter, and I understand a lot of life truths, you help to tell Xinyu, I miss her very much, my mother and aunt miss her very much, and we all welcome her back." ”

Yu Shu said that he was tired and wanted to sleep for a while, Xinbao helped her to sleep, and he lay down on the recliner again, he slowly recalled Yu Shu's words, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that it made sense.

On the third day, Xinyu came to visit Yu Shu and her son, the baby happened to be asleep, Yu Shu told her mother that they were going to whisper a few words, and her mother went out to sit on a chair in the corridor.

Yu Shu asked Xinyu: "Have you ever thought about reconciling with Xinbao when you came back?" ”

Xinyu said: "I still have some thoughts about that home, after all, I have spent so much effort. ”

Yu Shu told Xinyu with a smile: "The night before yesterday, I had a long talk with Xinbao, first, I explained to her that it was not easy for you; the second is to intercede his current situation and your current situation; The third is to talk about the many benefits of your reunion. He misses you very much, he wants to reconcile with you, he didn't tell his mother and aunt why you broke up, they all criticized him, saying that Xinbao would not make you happy, so you left. I think if you reconcile, the whole family will welcome it. ”

Yu Shu was silent for a long time and said: "I can't just want to get back together, and after we broke up, Xinbao didn't look for me, I can't take the initiative to find him, right?" ”

When Yu Shu heard her say this, she knew that Xinyu still wanted to reconcile with Xinbao, so she said: "It's simple, don't leave here, I'll call Xinbao and ask him to come here, just as if you bumped into me again and met again." ”

Xinyu didn't speak or leave, Yu Shu hurriedly picked up the phone and called Xinbao and asked him where he was, he said that he was working in the unit, Yu Shu: "You come to the hospital, I will introduce you to a girlfriend." Xinbao said that it would be there soon.

Xinbao is also very smart, he estimated that Yu Shu did the work of Xinyu, and they could get back together, so he hurriedly went to buy a bouquet of roses and drove to the hospital.

Xinbao came with a bouquet of roses, which Yushu and Xinyu did not expect, he smiled and handed the roses to Xinyu, Xinyu was moved to cry, Yushu said: "Xinbao, hurry up and speak." ”

Xinbao stroked Xinyu's hair and said, "Xinyu, don't cry, let's go home." Xinyu fell into Xinbao's arms, and the two hugged each other tightly.

Xinbao said: "Xinyu, we don't want the past, we only want the future, I believe we will get better and better." Xinyu couldn't say a word, and nodded vigorously.