Yu Shu and Lu Zihao's thirty-five-year-old appointment is a unilateral agreement with Yu Shu, Zihao didn't take it seriously, he still has illusions about Yu Shu, believing that Yu Shu will suddenly fall in love with him one day, especially in the past, although Yu Shu did not agree to his courtship, but he did not interact with other boys, so he was not in a hurry, this time he saw Yu Shu start a blind date under the condition of his mother's soft and hard work, and he is still a rich second generation, especially this kid is very flamboyant and flamboyant, so he is very anxious.

He found two good friends, Xiao Wang and Xiao Li, who were two of his colleagues, and they had a very good relationship on weekdays.

Xiao Wang is married, and his daughter-in-law is engaged in dancing, she is very beautiful, and she is very affectionate. Xiao Li is in a relationship, and often hides in the office to call his girlfriend, and a dozen is half an hour.

Xiao Wang and Xiao Li arrived soon, Zihao let the food and wine be served, these two people have been working under Zihao for three or four years, and they know Zihao's character very well, what Zihao doesn't say, you'd better not ask, so, Zihao let him drink, and they accompanied him to drink.

After four glasses of wine, Zihao put down the wine glass and sighed and said, "Two brothers, my brother has encountered great difficulties this time, and I want to ask you to come up with ideas and help." ”

The two hurriedly asked what was going on, and Zihao told the two good friends in detail about his love with Yu Shu, to becoming best friends, to this blind date, and the challenges he faced.

Xiao Wang thought for a while and said: "Mr. Lu's problem is tricky, and there are three main difficulties in it: first, you didn't seize the period of love turning positive; The second is that your girlfriend is studying philosophy, she has seen everything thoroughly, and it is difficult to move her with some small means; The third is that you have spoiled her, and even she herself thinks that she is a goddess, do you think that God can marry a mortal? Xiao Li nodded in agreement on the side.

Zihao heard Xiao Wang say, it turned out that there were so many things to pay attention to in love, so he said: "Can you tell me in detail?" I still don't get it. ”

Xiao Wang said with a smile: "Men and women generally have an upgrade from ordinary love to passionate love, that is, the transition period from undetermined love relationship to definite love relationship, this time is basically ten to twenty days, if you do not upgrade the action during this time period, love will also go flat, and finally break up." ”

Zihao said: "What is love upgrade? Can you be specific? ”

Xiao Wang said: "The initial stage of love is to have a good impression of each other, then the language of temptation, and then the language of "love you", this can not be regarded as a real lover, the real lover must go from the verbal blind date, to the physical contact and skin blind date, this is the real love, for example, first hold hands, then hug, then kiss, until cohabitation"

Zihao said: "Isn't this a hooligan? How can you do it to a girl? ”

Xiao Li on the side smiled, "What do you think is a sacred and elegant thing to fall in love?" It's just hooliganism! Doing something to the person you love, your girlfriend is willing, and, happy, this is love; Doing things to strange women is playing hooliganism and is immoral. What is the ultimate purpose of your relationship? Isn't it just getting married and going to bed? ”

As soon as he said this, Zihao suddenly brightened up and nodded again and again.

"And you've obviously missed the best chance to get close to each other, and it's harder to get her to fall in love with you. Second, your girlfriend is more rational in philosophy, and she is more mature, so she can see through all your little tricks, so it is not easy to attract her. Third, you hold her up too high and respond to her, so, after a long time, she feels that you should do anything to her, so she puts you in the position of a permanent spare tire. There is no need to invest time, energy and affection for you, and there is no urgency in your heart, because you will always be by her side, and she can marry you in the future. ”

Zihao was a little discouraged when he heard it: "This means that I have no chance?" ”

Xiao Wang said: "It's not that there is no chance, this has to be a gamble, you must insist, or, she becomes your girlfriend,; Or, become a regular friend. One is that you don't send her any messages from today, she sends you messages, and you must not reply immediately, but postpone the reply, or, do not reply; The second is that you can't be on call, you have to deliberately drag it back, so that she feels that she is not so important to you. If she really loves you, she will take the initiative to get closer to you, and even, get close to you; If she doesn't love you, she won't contact you anymore and you'll become friends. ”

Zihao felt that he had found a magic weapon, and insisted on not sending QQ messages to Yu Shu to say hello from this afternoon, nor did he call her.

Yu Shu was very busy this day, so she forgot about Zihao, participated in a research project, went home in the evening, and prepared to sort out the project plan, but there was a problem with the office software in the laptop, she remembered Zihao, opened QQ, and found that from yesterday afternoon to today, Zihao did not send her a single message. She sent a message saying that there was a problem with her laptop office software, and asked Zihao to take a look at what was going on immediately.

Who knew that the message was sent for half an hour, and Zihao didn't reply to the message, she sent it again, and after more than 20 minutes, there was still no one to reply to the message. She had to call Zihao, and after a long time, Zihao answered the phone, "Where did you die?" No reply, no phone calls," she asked loudly.

Who knew that Zihao said: "I'm busy today, I can't come, no, I'll help you take a look tomorrow, what's the matter?" ”

As soon as Yu Shu heard that he dared to say this, he immediately became angry and said loudly: "I order you to come over now, give you fifteen minutes, you must come over!" ”

Who knew that Zihao said calmly: "I'm really sorry, I still can't come, I have something." ”

Yu Shu was very angry and had no choice, so she asked the computer engineer of the computer company to get the office software right, and she was busy until midnight to get the plan ready.

She calmed down and thought about it, and felt that Zihao was very abnormal, but after thinking about it, Zihao loved her and would definitely admit his mistake to her.

However, when it was more than ten o'clock in the evening of the third day, there was no news from Zihao, she felt a little uneasy, after all, Zihao had become accustomed to greeting three times a day, she used to feel a little troublesome, and later, she got used to it, and now she suddenly couldn't receive his greetings, she was still a little sour in her heart, but it was not good to take the initiative to call over, so she had to stay up.

On the fifth day, she suddenly understood that this was Zihao fighting with her! So, she also insisted on not sending him any more messages. "Let's see who is good, I won't send you a message, I will ignore you." Yu Shu thought.