JJ always appears when the butterfly least expects it, and every time he talks on the phone, he always has to say a few words first, and then introduce his recent situation, his company, and his ideals at length. Butterfly knew that he was looking for her to make an appointment, but there was no need for so many opening statements.

JJ finally said, when will we meet, I will talk to you about the new draft. I want to do a wedding this time.

Butterfly said that the unit has been very busy these days.

JJ asked very strangely: Did you change units?

Butterfly is vague, in fact, Butterfly has a unit, after leaving the previous unit, Butterfly was idle for a long time, which is considered a long vacation for himself.

Butterfly is not a person who likes to work hard, working hard is pure helplessness, if she can she just wants to live freely, it is okay to have a job, she does not want to climb how high she is at work, in the end, her ambition is not big at all.

But sometimes people can't help themselves. Once you're in the workplace, you're faced with situations that make you fall into all kinds of struggles. It's like "The Legend of Zhen Huan", as well as all kinds of palace fighting dramas. To say that among all the themes, the butterfly's least favorite is Gong Dou. She always thought that if she was in a feudal society, and she happened to be a young lady from an official eunuch's family, and she had to enter the palace, she would definitely not be able to fight those ladies and concubines, maybe she didn't have to fight, she was ready to quit, and asked the emperor to give her a remote small courtyard, as long as a personal girl, if the imperial dining room does not provide food, she can cook by herself every day. Cook your own food, grow your own vegetables, raise your own chickens and ducks, and do everything yourself. Isn't it a bit like Daoxiang Village, Li Kun's residence in "Dream of Red Mansions", but maybe even if you are so peaceful, someone will not let you go.

Say you're pretending to be high.

Perhaps, the emperor's flowery man has seen too many competitive women, and in turn likes women like you, who are indisputable in the world, and arouses everyone's jealousy and hatred, maybe. Anyway, when I think about it, I think it's funny. Perhaps, when I turned my head, I had to squeeze my head into it, and I made my head bleed for some kind of status.

After all, with such a pan-loving man as the emperor, the women around him must have a hard time.

Butterfly doesn't want to be a woman next to a certain man, although she has become a woman next to Fan Fan before, but in fact, the ultimate fuse of their separation is that there is another woman next to Fan Fan. In Butterfly's opinion, this is intolerable, although she can't help Fan Fan correct her mistakes, but she can correct them herself. Since you have other pleasures, then I will take the initiative to back down.

In the eyes of butterflies, this is the best solution.

Although, she only learned afterwards that Fan Fan did have a woman.

Although Butterfly didn't know it at the time, it was difficult for Fan Fan's abnormal behavior to deceive her keen senses.

Strange to say, they didn't officially break up, they didn't say face-to-face: let's break up. It's not like those scenes on TV, two people crying and grabbing the ground for breaking up, ghosts crying wolves, and there is no excessive entanglement, and the lotus root is broken, just like that, there is no phone, no contact, no news, no everything, and gradually a blockade line is erected in the hearts of the two people, completely blocking the yearning for each other's world. Slowly, a strange feeling began to rise, like the fog of the early morning, quickly spreading, and the man's shadow gradually receded to the edge of his heart, and then began to abandon him.

It's a change that happens unconsciously, and although it will be very uncomfortable at first, like a scar that has not fully healed, once it is revealed, it will bleed once, but the blood will always flow less and less, until it is completely gone. That scar will come off on its own one day.

Then life will be easy, and even if you think about it, you don't feel it at all, as if you are thinking about a person who is not pure, a lie that you once weaved yourself.

Three years later, she unexpectedly learned about Fan Fan's situation, and he was indeed married, the woman from the north.

She knew that there was a northern woman who had fallen in love with him.

Hey, that day, she sighed softly, after all, she was still a man, and she couldn't wait for that day.

Since leaving Fan Fan, since her father died, Butterfly suddenly became strong in her heart, feeling that she should not belong to any man, and that kind of life was not suitable for a woman like her.

JJ said that we should write about the marriage of the post-90s.

Yes, I should write about the marriage of the post-90s, which is a good topic, because the post-90s are completely different from the post-70s or post-80s, they are in an era that has begun to transform rapidly. It seems that the K-line on the stock market is moving rapidly on the high speed of the times.

Butterfly happened to attend a post-90s wedding last month. It was a colleague of her unit, Ming Fei, who graduated from the acting department of the Drama Academy, but did not embark on the road of acting, but strayed into the dust net and entered the profession of journalist. It should have been the focus of attention of others, but now it has become an entertainment record. It's a world difference.

Every time she talks about it, she always shows helplessness and embarrassment, but her cute expression is still quite cute. She said with disappointment: I don't want to either, but I can't help it, I have to have a job after graduation, right? There are no good opportunities to make movies, and being a star is not something you can do if you want to be a star.

Other colleagues asked: It must have been not easy to be admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy?

She opened her eyes wide and said: Of course it's not easy, but it's difficult, interviews, written exams, all kinds of tosses, you can't imagine, how fierce the competition is.

The butterfly listened silently. She had seen it on TV, no matter how cold or hot it was, there was a long queue waiting for the exam.

If you want to talk about Ming Fei, in fact, people are not beautiful at all, and they can't match the beauty at all, a pair of eyes are very big, and they like to have long and thick bangs, which set off the eyes to be more black and flexible. I especially like to make weird noises.,It's funny to watch.。

Other colleagues asked her if she had ever filmed?

She grinned toothily and said, I have filmed, why haven't I filmed.

People asked, what kind of play?

She made a strange tone, and then said, a costume drama, in which a maid is played.

Everyone was happy, and then said, what cosplay?

She said with a bitter face that the play was not staged after that.

Everyone couldn't help but laugh out loud, saying, so miserable?

She pouted and said, there is no way, sisters, you must know that so many dramas are filmed every year, and not all of them can be released and put on prime time. There are so many actors fighting in the back, and not all of them can be popular, do you know how difficult it is?

Some people said: So you came to be an entertainer?

She grimaced at her and said: Isn't it good to be entertained?

The man said, "Where's your boyfriend?"

Ming Fei said that he is from the directing department. He's better than me, at least he's still directing. Unlike me, completely dumped.