Hearing Xue Langjing say this, Xiao Jiule laughed, "Haha, if they knew about it, they would definitely be angry with you, they obviously wanted to scold Master Zheng Wen and make her reputation stink, but it turned out that you accidentally knew about her and began to follow her example." ”

"That's it, that's it."

Xue Langjing took the opportunity to instill her thoughts with them seriously, "So, sometimes people or things that many people oppose, especially things related to women, don't completely believe it, because the pen is in the hands of men, and what the world knows is what these men holding the pen want us to know, and what they want us to know may be that they use it to deceive us and deliberately guide us in the wrong direction, and we must look at everything dialectically." ”

If everyone says that a person is bad, do you also think that she is a bad person?

Yes.

But if you don't do anything, and people call you bad, you will get angry and think that these people who say bad things about you are not good people.

Then when these people say bad things about others, you will question the truth of their words.

Especially when they scold you and another person for the same reason, the same experience makes you feel sorry for that person, and you will try to verify the truth of their words.

Although the three of them become tigers and all mouths are golden, these people who have the right to speak can say that the white is black, so that people's cognition follows their meaning.

Just like after their propaganda, Xue Langjing will also think that this is a bad person, and he is deceived like everyone else.

But a lie is a lie after all, and when their words are full of loopholes and cannot withstand scrutiny, people will question it, and it will have the opposite effect.

No, the two men's slander of herself and this person for no reason aroused her curiosity about Zheng Wen as a person, so she tried her best to understand this person.

Eventually, they tried to constantly deceive the woman's words, and because they showed too much malice, she rebelled.

"What is dialectic?"

Uh, well, "Dialectics is about looking at a thing more comprehensively, not believing everything they say, but listening to those who disagree with them, summarizing what both sides say, and not partially." ”

"The eighth sister is so powerful, she knows everything", the little fan sister said.

Although she still wants to show off more, but it is still important to get down to business, look at this topic, I don't know where it goes, I have to come back, "Okay, then let's pull the topic back, so sisters, what do you think yourself, if you have no plans to get married at the moment, you must also tell the truth, otherwise it is not what I want to let everyone go against their own hearts to recruit trouble." ”

She said that she had said a lot, but some things were still too shocking for them, after all, after years of admonition in the surrounding environment, some ideas had long been ingrained, and they could not be changed by just one word.

Sure enough, she asked this question in vain, and the sisters finally said that they were not against getting married, nor against grandma They told themselves to be matchmakers, but they were afraid of marrying into a bad in-law's family, afraid that they would continue to live a hard life, and heard her such a statement, and they were even more reluctant to marry, if she could convince grandma to them, they would naturally be more willing to recruit them.

But the change of thinking is only this step, such as letting them find their own husband, their own marriage, or being single and not married, etc., they really dare not think and can't do it, after all, this is still too out of line for them.

Since everyone has decided so, Xue Langjing naturally knows what to do next.

After talking about business, what they were worried about was solved, and the sisters completely relaxed, and they were still very interested in the people and things that Xue Langjing said, especially about the legendary woman Zheng Wen she said.

And when asked to talk about the people he admired, Xue Langjing naturally immediately talked non-stop, without even thinking about it, he wanted to introduce his idol to everyone.

The sisters sat around and chatted for most of the night, and then they went away with great joy and could finally go back to a good night's sleep.

Although he said that he wanted to help his sisters persuade his grandmother, it was not a good time at the moment, anyway, finding his in-laws' family was not something that could be done in a while, and he was not in a hurry, so Xue Langjing did not act immediately, but was waiting for a good time.

In the next few days, I still got up in the morning to exercise, went hunting in the mountains during the day and collected medicine, and read and practiced at home at night.

And the Xue family members had a headache for the two family affairs that they couldn't retreat.

Whether it is the village chief or Li Zheng, the benefits that should be made have been used, or there is no effect, according to the situation that Li Zheng went to the county to inquire about, as long as the Jiang family and the Liu family insist on not retreating, the Xue family will want to retreat, especially the county prince pays more attention to the women's name festival, and estimates how to favor the Jiang and Liu families, so that the Xue family still admits it, and the two granddaughters-in-law will accept it, although there is less silver, but at least the reputation is good, especially if your family is going to recruit now, this reputation is bad, It's just up to this granddaughter-in-law to redeem it, isn't it?

Moreover, the Jiang family is rich and connected, and this chastity archway can really stand up, and even the Xue family's face will shine when the time comes.

But at this time, the Xue family didn't think so, if it was in the past, the family had plenty of money, then of course they cared about these reputations, and they would give up the money. But now, all the cash of their Xue family adds up to only five or six taels of silver, can they not care about these twenty taels? And the extra two people.

When you don't have money to eat, how much is fame worth?

Therefore, the Xue family first went to the Jiang family to make trouble, but the Jiang family did not let go.

After going to the Liu family, the two families naturally scolded each other, and several young and middle-aged men from the Liu family stayed at home, and they didn't reason with you like the Jiang family. Therefore, the Xue family can only scold for a while, and Grandma Xue and the eldest daughter-in-law dare to play tricks in the Jiang family, and when they arrived at the Liu family, as soon as the old lady of the Liu family rushed up with a few grandchildren, Grandma Xue was instigated.

So what to do in the end?

The Xue family was heartbroken, and went to the county yali to beat the drum to redress their grievances, and wanted to sue the Jiangliu family.

On the street outside the county government of Fengqing County, more than a dozen people who looked like a family were walking forward with great fanfare, led by an old lady supported by two middle-aged women, and the old lady shouted in her mouth, 'God, the lord of the blue sky wants to be the master for us', and shouted all the way, and several men on the side all had calm faces and looked open.

Looking at this situation, it seems that he is going to the county government to beat the drum and voice grievances.