661 phobias
After eating, I went back after eating, and when I just entered the hospital, Yu's mother said with a happy face, and the Tao family sent someone to say that Tao Liuye's daughter-in-law had given birth to a daughter.
Fu Xishi said happily: "Oh, I'm thinking about this today, then don't go in yet, take out the gifts you have prepared, and go over and take a look at it later." ”
Yu's mother knew that the eldest grandmother would come over immediately, and she had already prepared the gifts.
Fu used to fill in the golden lock he had just bought, and got into a carriage with Grandmother Dou and went to Tao's house.
As soon as I entered the yard, I heard the baby's cry, very loudly.
The Sun family did not return to Tao's shop to stay in Yingtianfu, but was ready to serve his daughter-in-law in confinement.
When he saw them come in, he was the first to come out. Fu Xi saw that her face was full of joy, but she didn't have a bad face because she was a granddaughter.
Some women, their daughters give birth to daughters, she doesn't think there's anything, and comforts her daughter that sooner or later she will give birth to a child. But when my daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl, I was a little unhappy.
However, Fu Xishi felt that the Tao family's three cousins would not be like this, but the conditioned reflex first looked at the look on the second aunt's face.
As an ordinary family, it is really a blessing to be a daughter-in-law to the Tao family.
When Fu Xi saw Chen Nanxing come out, she also had a faint smile on her face.
"Grandmother is here, cousin is here, come into the house." Chen Nanxing said.
"I just heard the news, hurry up, our old iron also wants to see the new sister."
Sun lifted the curtain and let them in. Fu used to put Lao Tie on the bed and hugged his arm all the way. Aunt Tao came out of the back room, with a smile on her face, and then Fu Xishi's words said: "The new sister is strong, you listen to the cry, eat and sleep for a while, and cry as soon as she wakes up, and the cry catches up with the cry of his father's birth, which can be heard three miles away." ”
The louder the newborn cries, the better the body is, no one is annoying, and listening to the baby's crying is more joyful than listening to the big play.
Tan Xitao wore a confinement hat, sat and hugged her daughter, and said with a smile when she saw someone coming in: "Grandmother, cousin-in-law." ”
Fu Xishi leaned over to look at the little baby, his face was red, his hair was standing on end like fried hair, very thick and black. According to her previous experience of giving birth, this little girl will grow up to have thick black hair.
Fu said rarely: "It looks so good, look at this little hand is strong, holding gold and silver treasures." ”
The baby is howling with his eyes closed, and his little hands are clenched tightly. After listening to Fu Xishi's words, Sun Shile said: "Borrowing the auspicious words of the old Tie Niang, I hope that Nizi will grow up to be as capable as the old Tie Niang." ”
Lao Tie was in Aunt Tao's arms, leaned forward and said, "Little sister, little sister." ”
Aunt Tao smiled: "It's our Lao Tie's little sister, and when my sister grows up, Lao Tie will take my sister to play." ”
Lao Tie nodded vigorously and said, "Give my sister something good." ”
Sun was so happy that he couldn't close his mouth and said, "Look at our old iron sensible, and we also know how to give things to my sister." ”
She didn't dislike her daughter-in-law because she gave birth to a girl, but felt better. It's not that you can't give birth, there will be a grandson in the future, this granddaughter is more than a year younger than Lao Tie, and they will play together in a few years.
My mother-in-law said that it is better to have a granddaughter, and in the future she will be Lao Tie's little cousin, and the cousins will grow up together.
Sun knew what his mother-in-law meant, the cousins who grew up together were almost the same as their own sisters, and the granddaughter of the Tao family had to follow her.
Fu Xi took the newly bought gold lock and put it on the little baby girl, and the ruby inlaid on the gold lock was not an ordinary product at a glance.
Tan Xitao said embarrassedly: "Let my cousin break the bank." ”
Fu Xishi said: "What is this, it is my mind." ”
He teased the crying little baby girl again: "Uncle Niang will give us Nizi in the future, Nizi will grow up quickly and dress up beautifully, Uncle Niang will dress us up for Nizi." ”
Tan Xitao's eyes were shining, and she replied happily: "Thank you, cousin-in-law." ”
Grandma Tan is right, this daughter is better than her son, Lao Tie has no sisters, and cousins are rarer than cousins.
After the New Year, the Tao family brought Grandma Tan, and now Grandma Tan is about to become an auspicious grandmother, let her sit in charge, and everyone will rest assured.
Grandma Tan is now dressed like a happy mother-in-law, and there are people to serve her if she doesn't work, in addition to her, the Tao family also invited other stable women, and Grandma Tan plays a role in pressing the array.
This will Grandma Tan come in from outside, Fu Xishi stood up and hugged her and smiled: "Grandma, I miss you, I haven't been busy coming to see you, I will invite Grandma to dinner in a few days and go to my house to watch a play." ”
Grandma Tan also hugged her, her eyes narrowed even more, and said, "I just said that the old iron lady has not forgotten my wife." ”
She took out a red rope and handed it to Fu Xishi, saying, "This is what I asked for from the Bodhisattva, and I have offered it for nine hundred and eighty-one days, and I gave it to us Lao Tie." ”
Fu Xishi took it and put it on Lao Tie directly, Grandma Tan was so happy that her face was full of chrysanthemums, and her daughter-in-law was still the same as before, she had not changed, and she did not dislike her former relatives in the countryside.
Lao Tie squatted down at Grandma Tan and said, "Thank you, Grandma." ”
She doesn't bless now, she only squats down, often squatting in the arms of adults, making everyone laugh.
Fu Xishi corrected and said: "You have to call your grandmother." ”
Lao Tie shouted again: "Grandmother-in-law." ”
Grandma Tan opened her eyes and smiled: "Look at how polite our old iron is." ”
She didn't dare to reach out and hug her, knowing that this girl was a golden pimple.
Lao Tie knew that he was complimenting her, so he squatted down and said, "Thank you, Grandma." ”
Fu used to be bad for everyone to surround Lao Tie, and said to Tan Xitao: "Is there a name?" ”
Tan Xitao said: "Grandmother's name is Xinmei. ”
"Tao Xinmei, good name."
Aunt Tao said: "I originally thought that I was going to be called Chunmei, but if I collided with her cousin, I would be called Xinmei." ”
My cousin only has the five eldest sisters of the Dou family, and Fu Xi only knew that the fifth sister was called Doulianhua, and she really didn't remember what the other four sisters were called.
The bean dregs usually say that my eldest sister and second sister or something like that, and my grandmother and grandmother and fat mother-in-law also say that they are the eldest and the second. The first time the okara had said it, but she didn't remember it either.
Of course I won't ask today, Fu Xishi smiled at the little girl baby in Tan Xitao's arms and said: "The new plum is good, the new beginning, the plum blossoms in the new year are more delicate." ”
On festive occasions, it is natural to say auspicious words, and Dou Chen also took out her gift and praised it together, saying that Xinmei looks like Xiaoliu, with big eyes and a high nose.
Fu used to see that this would be Xiao Xinmei closed her eyes and wanted to sleep, where could she see that her eyes were big, but she also knew that her grandmother praised the child
gave gifts and praised the children, and did not stay in the confinement room for long, and everyone came out again and sat in the hall outside.
Fu used to see that Chen Nanxing kept smiling all the time, silently behind everyone. She came a few times, and every time she saw Chen Nanxing, she was very quiet. It can be seen that her personality is very quiet, and she can't tell that she is a person who makes clay pots.
I stayed in the pottery shop, and I knew the hard work of making clay pots when I was in the past. It wasn't a face, and almost all the women in the pottery shop stretched out their hands, feeling that the nails were full of mud. Years of soaking my hands in the mud. Those traces can't be washed away.
Fu Xi paid attention to Chen Nanxing's hands, her left hand was on her right hand, holding her hand lightly, and she couldn't see her nails. But look at the hands, they are slightly rough, darker than the complexion on the face.
Chen Nanxing's appearance is still good, otherwise Xiao Qi would not have taken a fancy to her. It's not the kind that looks very beautiful at first glance, and there is a kind of elegance and quietness on the body, which makes people feel very comfortable to watch.
Seeing Fu Xi looking at her, Chen Nanxing smiled slightly and nodded.
She's always so soft.
Fu Xi remembered seeing her for the first time, although she also smiled, but there was a sadness in her smile. It always felt like she had a story.
But now see her smile. , but the smile is soft.
I think it's the warmth of the Tao family that makes her heart soft and peaceful.
Fu Xishi has always been curious about Chen Nanxing, what was her life like in her previous life? Who is her maiden family?
She admired Aunt Tao very much about this, and after accepting her as her granddaughter-in-law, she never asked or inquired.
In the Dou family, they also talked about Chen Nanxing, Aunt Tao said, marry a chicken with a chicken and marry a dog with a dog, even if you know how her mother's family is, she is also the daughter-in-law of my Tao family. Xiao Qi is willing for us to admit it, and if you want to talk about the previous things, you can say it, and if you don't say it, you can let him. It must be sad. Why bother asking people.
Fu used to feel that Aunt Tao was not only open-minded, but also looked at problems very clearly and clearly.
At that time, she also asked, what if her mother's family is a fugitive, Aunt Tao said that there is still a daughter in the court who is guilty of marrying, as long as she lives with Xiao Qi wholeheartedly, she is the daughter-in-law of my Tao family.
Fu used to think that she couldn't do this, maybe in a few decades, she would also have this open-minded mentality.
For Aunt Tao, this kind of big character is not one, and the wisdom gained from life is very admirable in the past.
Those who have been reading since childhood are first taught by their elders, and they learn a lot of knowledge from books, think clearly, and see thoroughly, that is that reading makes people reasonable.
And Aunt Tao is a simple and intelligent old man who is very rare.
Sitting and chatting and talking about when they will come back, Aunt Tao said that she had sent a letter to Lingnan, the child was born, and her father was not in front of her, so she also wanted him to know the good news.
Staying for a while, Fu Xishi offered to say goodbye, and Aunt Tao's grandmother Sun and Chen Nanxing sent him out and watched them get into the carriage.
Fu Xi lifted the curtain and waved to Aunt Tao, and when he put down the curtain, his eyes saw a person.
She paid attention to it, and it seemed to be Ye Tian Zhuo's eldest brother-in-law.
She looked and saw him hurrying south with his head down.
Dou Chen asked, "Who do you see?" ”
Because the appearance of the granddaughter-in-law is obviously to see the people she knows.
Fu Xishi said: "It seems to be Tian Zhuo's eldest brother-in-law, so he must have come to see his friends." ”
She taught Grandmother Dou that Tian Zhuo's eldest brother-in-law walked with his heels on the ground and bumped up, so he could recognize him from afar.
Dou Chen said: "It's okay to come, Tian Zhuo's eldest sister married from Guanzhong to the south, and her mother's family is not in front of her, so she will guard her mother's family in the future, and she can take care of anything." ”
Fu Xishi said: "What my grandmother said is that Tian Zhuo's brothers and sisters are all angry, and Tian Zhuo said that his grandfather taught him well. ”
Dou Chen thought of his grandson, and said with satisfaction: "That is, it is naturally different to follow learned people, and in the future, we will not be able to study in the same way." Your father said that he can't teach it now, and what they are talking about is the Tao. Your father said that if you can study with the Cen family, you can't ask for it from other people's families. ”
Fu Xishi said proudly: "Yuan He said that Da Tie is very smart, and they will be able to teach it." ”
Dou Chen said: "Yuan He is really smart, your father couldn't sleep for a few nights when he was excited, saying that it was a good seedling, who would have thought that it was the Cen family, no wonder." Able to read. ”
"Yuan He said that I want to thank my father the most, it was my father who had to let him study. At that time, he still wanted to deal with it, but it was my father's serious and serious attitude that made him pay attention to it and study hard. ”
Dou Chen said: "Your father said that it would be a pity if he didn't study. Your father was studying for him, and he thought about it at the time, so he couldn't take him to our house and urge him every day. Your father also said that other children have no conditions if they want to study, or they can't read the material that is not reading, like bean dregs when they were young. But Yuanhe is not like this, so your father was in a hurry at that time, thinking of finding Yuanhe and his father to discuss letting Yuanhe live in our house, fortunately he figured it out later, otherwise your father would not be able to sleep well. ”
Fu Xi smiled, the bean father who would be really anxious almost scratched his ears and cheeks, and when he saw her, he asked if he had gone back to his parents' house to tell your father, and he also went to the bookstore in person to buy books and come back to Yuanhe.
So Yuan He said, I have to let your father-in-law sleep well before agreeing to study hard, otherwise it will be too difficult for him.
That will be Yuanhe's temperament is careless, others say hot, he doesn't care at all, reading is not like others think, I want to be a big official in the imperial examination in the future, but everyone thinks that I study well, I don't study, you will be uncomfortable, then I will study.
Yuan He of the Cen family didn't know that the eldest sister was talking about him, he stared at Yan Hua, and Da Tie said next to him: "Is the third brother optimistic?" ”
Ertie dragged him down and said, "Don't speak, wait." ”
After a while, Yan Hua shook his head and said, "I can't see it, I just feel very uncomfortable, and my body is numb." ”
Cen Xinong took the stone to the cutting table and cut it himself, and saw that there was nothing in it, but it was something dense like small pebbles.
I don't know what it is, so let someone hand it over to Mr. to study.
Cen Xinong asked someone to come in, take out scissors, cut some broken hair, and spread the broken hair on it.
White paper, broken and black.
I saw Yanhua frowning, and his expression was a little painful.
She knew that this was the intensive phobia that the eldest sister said.
The eldest sister once said that some people have psychological diseases, and these diseases are not big problems, and some problems are relatively big.
The eldest sister said that there is a symptom called sociophobia, which is the fear of dealing with people. In crowded places, he was emotionally disturbed, afraid to speak, afraid that everyone would pay attention to him.
The eldest sister said that she herself was afraid of heights and was afraid of high places, and he dared to do anything else, but he didn't dare to jump down from a high place.
There is also a kind of dense phobia, like Da Tie, which is uncomfortable and scared to see such dense things.
The eldest sister also said that these things do not affect life very much, and the more serious one that affects life is called claustrophobia.
Tension and fear in a closed space, upbringing, personality, and psychological pressure, many of which are caused by unpleasant experiences in childhood.
As long as you stay in a closed place, even in a room, you will panic, shortness of breath, rapid heartbeat, and feel like you are dying, and some will not be able to breathe, and you will feel like you are really going to suffocate.
He would pretend to be casual and ask: Is there a way to solve it?
The eldest sister said: Heart disease also has to be a heart medicine, let the trusted familiar family accompaniment, you can post some warm pictures in the room, light the lamp at night, listen to some melodious and cheerful songs, and think of some beautiful things.
The care of the family is the most important, don't hit it, don't say it's a disease, the more you listen, the more you will feel that you are a patient.
The eldest sister said that fear should not be overcome, but resolved.
The eldest sister said that when she was free, she would also go to a high place to see Ying Tianfu and her home.
What a good home, how can you be afraid?
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