"Mom and Dad, let's talk about the cost of children, don't talk about what year it was, what age is this, it's different.

You don't know, today's children are all precious, don't look at me teaching primary school, now primary school students are amazing, piano, dancing, calligraphy, guzheng, taekwondo...... All kinds of interest classes, tutoring courses other than language and mathematics are indispensable.

Those with good conditions are summer camps and winter camps, and in a week or two, thousands or even tens of thousands of them will be gone, and they are all money!

Now raising children, either you don't care if you are free-range, otherwise you are raising a gold-swallowing beast, and education alone is the big head. And Mom, now parents are required to tutor at home, you don't know it yourself, how to tutor children? ”

"It's as serious as you say." Yang Huizhen disagreed, "You didn't learn it yourself at that time, and we didn't teach you anything, didn't you also be admitted to university?" Moreover, if this child is really not the material for reading, then forget it, we don't ask the child to be more interested. ”

"That's it, Xiaoxi, you're exaggerating, it's just a book, how can it be so hard. As far as our family's genes are concerned, no matter how bad it is, we can always get into college. Liang Youyi also felt that what Lin Xiaoman said was too outrageous, "Ordinary people need to spend so much to raise children, and they don't want to cultivate a pillar of the country." ”

"So you don't think about education before you have children?" Lin Xiaoman asked rhetorically.

"We don't force it, the child is a piece of reading material, then his grades will definitely be good in the future, if he is not a reading material, it is useless to apply for many classes." Liang Youyi is very open-minded, and he has also considered the future of the child, "How can I say that your father and I also have a little connection in this town, even if this child can't study, when the time comes, I will be honest with the old face to trust the relationship, arrange a job for the child, and live a stable life." ”

"That's it, it's good to let your dad get a job and live a peaceful life in the town, close to us." Yang Huizhen agrees very much, she doesn't ask her children to have more fun, as long as she stays by her side, it's just lively.

"But parents, even if you don't ask for grades, starting from kindergarten, it is all kinds of parent-child activities, and the parents of other children's children are all young, and when you go to school, people will definitely treat you as grandparents. Today's children are all mature, and other children say, 'Liang Moumou, your parents are so old', what do you let your child think, he is not happy in his heart. ”

Lin Xiaoman continued to argue with reason.

"Net nonsense, the old saying has been said, the son is not ugly to the mother, we gave birth to him and gave him life, can he still think of us as old?" Yang Huizhen completely disagreed with Lin Xiaoman's words.

'Yes!' I will definitely dislike you in the future! Your son Liang Jie is a white-eyed wolf! Lin Xiaoman silently complained in his heart.

Liang Xi is definitely a good sister, she really educates Liang Jie carefully and tries her best to help, Lu Xian was instigated by the Lu family because of the lack of maternal love and finally became a white-eyed wolf, which is understandable. But Liang Jie ...... Lin Xiaoman couldn't see what was wrong with such a white-eyed wolf.

Probably, I forgot my mother when I had a daughter-in-law, not to mention that I was just a sister.

Liang Jie's daughter-in-law is not a good stubble. Of course, Liang Jie himself must be a little white-eyed wolf with no gratitude.

"Xiaoxi, I think you're just thinking too much, it's just that you have a child, and it's not that you can't afford to raise it, how can you have so many concerns." Liang Youyi obviously also felt that Lin Xiaoman was worrying blindly.

"Look at your second uncle's family, they gave birth to six, and your six cousins and aunts are not all very good. In those years, they all came. Now that life is better, you don't have to worry about food and clothing, what is there to worry about, I really don't know what you young people think.

Xiaoxi, listen to Dad, your work is now implemented, Lu Jun has earned a lot, Xiaoxian is about to go to kindergarten, you hurry up and have another one, and it will be lively when you get old in the future. ”

"Yes, yes, you have another one, and it will be convenient for you to bring two children with you when the time comes." Yang Huizhen nodded busily, agreeing with Liang Youyi's words very much.

Lin Xiaoman: It's so powerless......

"No, Mom and Dad." Lin Xiaoman hurriedly stopped the topic, "Haven't you thought about health issues?" Mom, you're 43 years old, an elderly pregnant woman, it's easy to be dangerous, and the probability of the child getting sick is ......"

"What nonsense!" Yang Huizhen interrupted unhappily, and straightened her face, obviously a little angry, "Your mother and I are strong and strong, and the doctor also said that the child is fine!" Don't crow beak here! ”

"No, Mom, I'm just assuming." Lin Xiaoman hurriedly explained, "It's a hypothesis, we must always take all the risks into account." ”

"What a risk! Why don't you say that people are hit by cars on the road? Some people choke to death while eating! There are risks here, risks there, and you can't live your life anymore? Yang Huizhen asked rhetorically.

"Okay, Mom, you're young, you're strong, you're definitely fine." Lin Xiaoman had no choice but to follow her, and then pointed the finger at Liang Youyi, "But Dad, you are 53 years old, and you don't usually exercise, you are a sub-health, how can you have the energy to take care of children at that time?" ”

"I'll be retired in a few years, so where is the lack of energy? And isn't it possible to hire a babysitter? Your dad and I still have this money. When the child is studying, how tiring can it be to pick up and drop off as usual? And I don't have any major problems, isn't it that my blood pressure is a little high, my blood sugar is a little high, and we are the same age as me, who doesn't have this little problem. Usually I pay attention to myself, what can I do? Liang Youyi didn't care at all, in his opinion, he was healthy.

Lin Xiaoman has a headache, in fact, under the conditions of the Liang family, if there is no accident, this second child can really afford to raise, but the problem is that there is an accident!!

Liang Youyi, he had a stroke!

"Dad, Mom, listen to me." Lin Xiaoman got up, sat down next to Liang Youyi, grabbed his arm coquettishly, quietly touched his wrist with the other hand, set up a pulse, and said with a sincere expression, "When you retire, the two of you will walk around, play at home, go abroad to see, and go on vacation from time to time." Isn't it nice to raise flowers, grow vegetables, play chess, and dance a square dance at home? Why do you have to have a child to burden yourself? I'm not afraid you're too tired! ”

After speaking, Lin Xiaoman's pulse was also diagnosed, Liang Youyi's physical condition is strong on the outside and dry in the middle, and it looks okay on the surface, but the inside has actually collapsed a long time ago, and the probability of stroke is really very high.

"Xiaoxi, you're not thinking right." Yang Huizhen frowned, and said with a critical education, "How can a child be a burden?" Children are the continuation of life, and because of love, children must be born. Every child is a little angel for their parents, a gift from God! Could it be that in your eyes, Xiaoxian is your burden? Then why did you give birth to him? ”

"Uh......"

was speechless when asked, Lin Xiaoman was powerless to refute for a while, and could only mutter, "I am different from you." ”

"What's different." Yang Huizhen rolled her eyes back.

"Xiaoxi, to be honest, are you worried that if you give birth to a younger brother or sister, we won't have your share of the money?" Looking at Lin Xiaoman fixedly, Liang Youyi asked inexplicably.

"Then parents, you can be honest, do you think I can't be trusted to marry and want to have a son?" didn't answer, Lin Xiaoman asked the same serious rhetorical question.

There are some things that you can't say if you see through them, and if you say them too realistically, it will hurt your feelings.