Chapter 67 Ask the Sun family to make a note
But this Sun family also dared to open his mouth, and even asked for a bride price of twenty taels of silver as soon as he opened his mouth.
It's really their Xue family's money blown by the wind, and the Sun family will say as much as they want!
The Xue family is unwilling, especially the Xue Milk who is searching, I feel that their Xue family is not the only Sun Dingwang anyway, and now there are many good young men who come to the door to ask for money, and our granddaughter doesn't have to be you, where did your Sun family get twenty taels of face?
We don't look down on your grandson family, if you want this family, just ten taels of silver, if you don't have more, don't pull it down, I recruited the eldest grandson-in-law with such good conditions to give ten taels of dowry, why do you want so much from a poor family!
Although the Sun family thinks that their third son is more than enough to match the granddaughter of the Xue family, let alone become a son-in-law, the initiative is in the hands of the Xue family, and they can't be tough if they want to.
Originally, the reason why they wanted twenty taels, the Sun family's plan was to spend a few taels of silver to tell the eldest and second child that they would have two relatives, and there would be more than a dozen taels left, and they could also repair and repair their dilapidated house, and then have some money left to improve their lives.
Now when it comes to twelve taels, I'm afraid I don't have to think about repairing the house, but at least the family affairs of the two sons don't have to worry, this female baby is not as valuable as a male baby, and I am not afraid that I can't say that I can't say that I can't say that I can't give two or three taels.
Besides, Xue Langjing naturally doesn't care about the family affairs that her sisters have decided, but I don't know if it's her delusion, I always feel that this Sun Dingwang doesn't make her feel as sincere as her eldest brother-in-law.
How to say it, it's a bit too shrewd, but I can't say the specific good or bad when I talk about it in detail.
Moreover, although this matchmaker has to inquire about the situation of the two families as clearly as possible when talking about the matchmaker, and she can only have a statement when she arrives in the other family, how did she inquire about the situation of the Sun family so clearly, and even the private thoughts of the Sun family's father and mother?
But she thinks that it can only be her own opinion, and she can't jump out and oppose it just because she thinks it's not right to look at others.
After all, she herself has never been married, she doesn't know the twists and turns in it, she has no experience as a person who has come before, and she is not confident enough to think that she has a pair of fiery eyes that can look at people.
And there seems to be nothing wrong with being shrewd, being a man is to be shrewd, in order to live a good life, that kind of selfless Virgin Mary and Holy Father is good, but everyone loses themselves, what's the point of being it.
For this reason, Xue Langjing, who was a little distressed, thought about it and felt that she often exchanged letters with Zheng Linchu anyway, so why not ask her about this matter and hear what she thinks?
Although they are not very old, they are from a big family, and they have been out for so many years, and they have more experience than themselves, not to mention their horizons, they are definitely broader than themselves.
In this way, she wrote a letter, and when she handed over the goods to Gu Rongxuan the next day, she handed the letter to the other party and asked him to help her bring it to Zheng Linchu.
Only one day later, I received a reply from Zheng Linchu.
This person didn't shy away from it because it was her family matter, and he really gave a lot of advice.
And the advice given is beyond her imagination, it can really be said that she is worthy of being a descendant of the Zheng family, acting boldly and always thinking differently from ordinary people.
The gist of the reply letter is that if she really has concerns about Sun Dingwang, then she can let them make a note before her sister is married, if in the future, because of the man's reasons and faults, the two parties or the woman ask to leave, or the man forcibly leaves the Xue family, then the Sun family must return the full amount of the bride price given by the Xue family to the Xue family.
also let Xue Langjing not have to worry so much, as the person who paid for it, in order to avoid letting her hard-earned money go down the drain, she was naturally qualified to ask the other party to make a note.
Xu felt that this suggestion would scare her too much, and finally Zheng Linchu also specifically pointed out that this was not his family's words, and many families would also set up such a relevant note when recruiting sons-in-law to prevent their own family from suffering.
For example, after the man relied on the power and property of the woman's family, he sought to seize the property of the woman's family and take it for himself, or after gaining power, he turned around to hold the woman hostage, changed the original self into a woman's marriage, or changed the surname of the children who originally followed the woman's surname to his own, and there were also those who felt that they were unhappy in the woman's family and did not want to take the responsibility of becoming a son-in-law, so they directly left the woman's family and ran away, so that the woman lost both people and money, etc.
In short, in such an environment, it is much more difficult for a woman to recruit a wife than for a man, and it is normal to have all kinds of concerns.
Xue Langjing took the letter and thought about it, and felt that it was also the reason, this bride price was earned by her hard work, why couldn't she make some requests?
It's just that if I really put forward this note, it will definitely cause dissatisfaction among many people, and no matter how much this family thing has not yet been accomplished, the curse will be reconciled.
I'm afraid that grandpa will be the first to jump out and scold her.
And she is not a party after all, and it is not good for her, an outsider, to forcibly intervene in other people's family affairs.
All kinds of worries still make her worried.
After thinking about it for a few days, seeing that it was time to give the bride price on the day of marriage, Xue Langjing still made up her mind to let the Sun family set up a note, and the note was just in case, if you don't have any moths, isn't this note just like a piece of waste paper that you can't use at all, what are you afraid of.
Just let me scold a few words, anyway, except for grandpa in their Xue family now, everyone is a bit of a self-proclaimed scholar, and they can't scold their relatives so badly.
Let's salute first and then soldiers, and now we will make everything that should be said clear, so we don't have to worry about this and that in the future, how good it is to live comfortably.
On the day of Xue Shanjing's marriage, Xue Langjing specially rested at home for a day, and the hunting team asked Yi Xueqing and Bai Rongrong to lead the team to hunt.
When it was the turn of the Xue family to give the bride price, Xue Langjing took out the note and asked the Sun family to sign the note first, as long as the Sun family signed the note, she would give the money immediately.
For this reason, she also specially called Old Man Zhang to come over to testify, and asked him to read the contents of the note to the Sun family as an intermediary, so as to prevent herself from doing anything on it.
Sure enough, although the father and mother of the Sun family scolded and scolded that their Xue family was not kind, they still pressed their handprints in the end.
And the most fierce scolding was not what she thought, that is, Old Man Xue, and Xue Yuhai and his wife's faces were also a little not good-looking, although the others were surprised, they didn't say anything.
Grandma Xue unexpectedly agreed with her, and even thought more about the reason for her.
Regarding her grandmother's reaction, Xue Langjing thought of the reason in her mind for a while.
As far as grandma's search is concerned, she is already distressed about the twelve taels of silver, and she is more afraid that the money will be wasted, so she naturally wishes that she would set up such a word just in case, this is a real dozen taels of silver.
What if the Sun family cheated and ran away with the money?
Ahh Just in case! Just like Hachi said, the letter is just for insurance.
In the end, Xue Shanjing's family affair was decided.