Chapter 32: Self-esteem and self-love

"Sister Mo Lan, you call me?"

Amai saw Mo Lan waving to her and walked over happily.

"Amai, come and sit down, let's talk."

Mo Lan pulled her down on her fur and reached for a berry and handed it to her.

"Hey! Thank you, Sister Molan! ”

Ah Mai held the berries and nibbled on them, eating them with relish.

Looking at Amai with a happy face, Mo Lan couldn't help but sigh secretly! Poor children here can't eat or drink, a sour and astringent berry is also a treasure, this kind of fruit can only work in the garbage can, how can anyone eat it?

"Amai, how old is this year?"

Mo Lan reached out and gave her another berry. Amai took it and replied with joy: "I'm fifteen! ”

Mo Lan nodded, looking at the same age, Ah Mai's eyes showed the energetic light of the second middle school boy.

"Do you live alone? Are there any other loved ones? ”

Mo Lan asked again.

"Nope! Amai's female mother is weak and has long since died, and the male father was also picked by a yak when he was hunting! Amai lives alone now! ”

Mai nibbled on two mouthfuls of the berries and replied.

When Mo Lan heard this, she was a little embarrassed. is another poor child with no father and mother, it is not easy for her to grow up alone until now!

"Amai, my sister asked you something, and you answered me truthfully!" Mo Lan looked around, leaned closer to Ah Mai, and said in a low voice.

"Good!" Amai seemed to be convinced by Mo Lan and nodded obediently.

Mo Lan thought for a while and said, "Amai, you tell my sister if you have ...... Uh, I mean, have any males ever looked for you? Or, want to get close to you on purpose? ”

When Ah Mai heard this, he blinked his eyes and said, "Sister Mo Lan, do you want to ask if there are any males looking for me to mate?" ”

When Mo Lan heard this, what Amai said so calmly immediately sank in her heart!

However, it was only then that Amai's answer relieved her.

"Nope! Amai hasn't been matched with a male ** yet! ”

"Really? Those males didn't look for you? ”

Mo Lan couldn't believe it, it was not easy for Amai to save her virginity in this troubled world!

"Of course there is! That's a lot of people! Vic, Soria, Carney...... They came to me every night and waited outside in line! But the patriarch said that Amai is not an adult, and they are not allowed to mate with Amai! So they're all waiting for Amai to grow up! Amai also eats hard and grows up quickly! ”

Will they grow up quickly and let them spoil it? Mo Lan crooked his nose angrily! For Amai's innocence, but also for the savagery of the orcs!

But fortunately, Han Che seems to have implemented a decree to protect minors, otherwise, I'm afraid Amai won't be innocent to this day!

Too bad! How could such a smart and lovely little girl be treated like that?

"Amai, how long do you have to be an adult?" Mo Lan asked.

"A month! Soon! Amai said with some pride, completely unaware of how miserable life awaits him.

"Amai, reject them, don't mate with them!" Merlan's unequivocal order.

"Hmmm! I will! ”

Amai surprised Mo Lan by her answer, and she couldn't help but wonder: "Amai , will you really refuse?" ”

"Of course! Because I've already agreed with Uncle Sanna to let him be my first male! ”

Amai solemnly declared.

"Uncle Sanna?" Mo Lan's face was immediately as black as the bottom of a pot! Where did a rogue uncle pop up again?

"Uncle Sanna was a good friend of my male father and one of the males of my female mother before her death. He has always taken good care of me, and he also agreed with me that I can correct my name as his second wife when I become an adult. ”

"What? Did you say yes? Mo Lan immediately questioned.

"Promised! Uncle Sanna is so good to me! If I can't eat enough, I will save food for me to eat, and if it weren't for him, I would have starved to death! ”

Amai replied as a matter of course.

Mo Lan stroked her forehead weakly.

A mother's mistress wants to marry his mistress's daughter? Still a second term? What kind of world is this?

Sure enough, as Mo Lan expected, the mating of males and females in the clan was chaotic, and there was no distinction between old and young, which was simply a moral degradation! That Sanna repaid the favor, it's too despicable, no! She must not watch Amai's life end like this!

"Amai, reject everyone, including that Uncle Sanna of yours!"

Mo Lan resolutely ordered.

"Huh? Why? "Amai doesn't understand why Mo Lan wants her to do this?

Mo Lan sighed and explained: "First, you are too young, he is too old, and the age gap is too big, you are not suitable. Second, he already has a wife, so he shouldn't be half-hearted. Third, and most importantly! Amai, you remember, grace is kindness, affection is affection, and it can't be mixed up! He gives you food and takes care of you, it is kindness, not love, you can't repay him with your body and your life! There are many ways to repay him, and the only thing that doesn't work is to mate with him! ”

"Why can't you mate with him?" Amai scratched her head, puzzled.

"Because he was once the male of your mother-in-law, he is considered your elder in terms of status, and the difference in generation is a reason. Also, if you are really in love with him, but there is a gap in age, it is okay to be his wife. But in fact, he has a wife, and the picture is just your body, at this time, you have to understand the refusal. This is the self-esteem and self-love that a woman should have. ”

"Woman? Self-esteem and self-love? Amai was confused.

"Woman, our Yan tribe's civilized name for the females in the tribe, self-esteem and self-love means that you must first learn to respect yourself and love yourself, in order to get the respect and love of others."

"I don't understand."

Mo Lan explained for a long time, but in exchange for two words that Amai was at a loss.

Mo Lan sighed, took Amai's hand and said, "You will slowly understand in the future." At this stage, as long as you refuse the random courtship of males, it is self-esteem and self-love! What do you think? Can it be done? ”

"Then, Uncle Sanna can't either?" Amai still asked with some hesitation.

"No, you can't!" Mo Lan gave her a categorical answer.

"Alright! Mama Su said that Sister Mo Lan is a holy witch, let me listen to you, then I will listen to you and not mate with them! ”

Ah Mai thought about it and finally agreed to Mo Lan.

Mo Lan breathed a sigh of relief, thought about it and said uneasily: "Ah Mai, come to me every day after dinner, and I will teach you to learn the civilization of our Yan clan." ”

"The civilization of the Yan Clan?" Amai said with a new look: "What is it?" ”

"That's a lot! For example, the cutlery I just taught you to make, the tailoring clothes that I prepared to teach at night, the bow and arrow that can kill Abbasid dogs, the ** that can wound brown bears, and the text that can record your whole life......"

"Good! All right! I want to learn, I want to learn! ”

Before Mo Lan finished speaking, Amai had already cried out excitedly.

This child is full of curiosity, and he is really a good seedling suitable for cultivation!

Mo Lan picked up a few large berries and stuffed them into her hand, and instructed, "You must remember what I said, can't you ignore it?" Come, tell me again! ”

"Got it! You can't match with the male ** at will, you can't use the body as a condition for repaying your kindness, you have to have self-respect and self-love, and you can learn the Yan civilization with Sister Mo Lan every day! Amai remembers! ”

Amai held the berries in both hands and repeated it happily.

"Okay, let's go back!" Mo Lan nodded with satisfaction, and then let Amai leave.