Chapter 65: The Anxious Big House Couple
In addition to Old Man Xue's disapproval, Xue Yuhai and his wife were also a little anxious.
Their family Shan Jing is only half a year younger than Lin Jing, this Lin Jing not only recruited her husband, but now she is also managing the accounts for the hunting team, and the daily income of the hunting team is gone, and the silver is taken in a few taels or two, and she has handled such a big thing!
It can be said that all the work of starting a family and starting a business, and her family Lin Jing not only has not decided on family affairs, but also has nothing else to do, just like her sisters, she will do housework, and she will have a good future.
One evening, it was dinner time, and when Xue Langjing came back and could talk to them, Shen, who was quite worried about his eldest daughter, kicked his husband several times under the dining table, wanting him to say a few words for his daughter.
But the man who is not angry at home only knows how to eat with his head bored, and he doesn't know how much to worry about his daughter.
The impatient Shen had no choice but to speak by himself, and first said to his own boss that she was not too young, and the family matter should have been decided a long time ago, don't be so picky, I think this is not good and that is not good, and now the few young men who told her Xiang are all good, just choose one of them.
As she spoke, she said that she was so old, it was time to contribute to the family, and she couldn't mess around with her sisters all day long, so that Xue Langjing could leave it to her second sister if she needed help. This person's energy is like this, she has worked hard enough to go up the mountain to hunt every day, how can she still let her worry about family affairs, she should have asked her sisters to share the burden for her.
In this regard, Xue Langjing of course should be, saying that if there is still a need in the future, she will definitely ask the second sister for help.
Of course, she alone promised that she could not give Shen enough comfort.
She felt that if there was still something good in the future, Xiaoba would definitely go to her own sisters first.
Although all the sisters are arranged in order, their own daughter is always a cousin to Xiaoba, and this cousin has never been able to compare with her relatives.
So at the moment, what she is most anxious about is thinking about how to make her boss quickly settle the family affair and close the family affair first.
When the time comes, there is such a sister who has already married in front of her, and Xiaoba has to have some scruples even if she wants to favor her own sister.
If she is really partial, she can justifiably go to her mother-in-law and reason with her, and let her give her granddaughter a head.
It is said that when it was Xue Shanjing's turn to say goodbye, she was not as lucky as her eldest sister, and she was able to say that she had a relatively wealthy family and good conditions because of Zhengding.
Under normal circumstances, those who are willing to pay for it are either from a difficult family background, and there are many brothers, and the family does not have so much money for all the brothers to marry a daughter-in-law, so they can only choose to let one brother recruit a daughter-in-law, which not only reduces the burden of the dowry, but also can exchange more bride price for other brothers.
Either the man's own conditions are not good, and the family is willing to let him go out, and the boy with slightly better conditions, unless the family situation is really tight, no one wants to ruin his own reputation and let his son go out and plug the door.
For the latter, of course the Xue family will not ask for it, not to mention that Xue Langjing will not agree to the bride price, even the Xue family sisters themselves, under her influence for a long time, will not be willing to recruit such a man as a husband.
Therefore, most of the men who are close to the Xue family belong to the first situation, and their family background is more difficult.
Regarding the problem of family background, Xue Langjing doesn't think there is anything, the sisters don't want to marry into their family, what does the other party's family situation have to do with them, as long as the person is good, suitable for the sisters, and it is enough for the sisters to look at it.
But for most people, including the Xue sisters who want to recruit relatives, the man's family background is still the most important mark. Not to mention anything else, their husbands' family is well-off, and they themselves and their elders also have a light on their faces, giving the family a long face.
However, among the sisters, Xue Shanjing can be said to be the most accepting of the ideas instilled by Xue Langjing, and she is also the most accepting of what Xue Langjing said and did that was beyond the scope of their cognition.
Originally, Xue Shanjing, who was usually the most thoughtful and intelligent, was the most thoughtful and intelligent in the eyes of her sisters.
Just like the last time Hachi had a showdown with his grandmother and made the sisters go wrong, after the conversation between the two sides, the sisters thought that they had collapsed, and she was the first to see that grandma had been shaken by Hachi's words, and they would definitely compromise in the end.
Therefore, she is more receptive to Xue Langjing's statement that the minimum age for a woman to marry should be twenty-two.
Therefore, when she felt that the quality of the object of her relatives was not very high, and there was no one who matched her heart, she did not let go, and she was not so eager to get married, which also led to her being too picky in the eyes of outsiders.
She can be picky and picky, but for the Shen family, they are all sons-in-law anyway, and the family conditions are all like this, and it is not always the same to choose any man! I think that at the beginning, how could my mother's family have such good conditions for me to pick and choose, not all of them were the words of the matchmaker of my parents, and my father and mother decided which one was which.
And her daughters are all of this age, what do you say if you don't get married! also delay the sisters below, and let her pick it up like this, when will it be a head!
So when she felt that the man who said she was close to her eyes, she would nag on Xue Shanjing's side, saying that this is good, that is good, let her not be so picky, be careful if you miss it, and you won't be able to pick a good one.
This also made Xue Shanjing very depressed.
Fortunately, her mother just broke her mouth a little before, and when she didn't agree, she just nagged and scolded a few words lightly, but she didn't force her too much.
But since the eldest sister started to manage the accounts for Xiaoba, her mother has changed her attitude of still being able to speak well in the past.
When she was idle all day, she was urging her to settle down quickly in her ear, saying that she didn't want to be angry with her mother if she refused to marry like this, look at who and who, she is as old as her, and there are several babies in this place, and she has no husband now, when will she be able to hold her grandson or something.
Her rhetoric and attitude also began to harden, as if she was unfilial if she didn't marry again.
It was both urging and coercion, one moment earnest and kind words to persuade her, the other moment impatiently scolding and scolding, and also said that her father would persuade her together.
Of course, she knows why her father's and mother's attitude has changed like this, doesn't she also want to let herself be like her eldest sister, and she can also speak in this family, participate in family affairs decision-making, and take on some things to do, but she is afraid that she will be robbed of her errands by her cousins.
In fact, they don't have to worry at all, Xiao Hachi is definitely not such a close person, otherwise, he would not have agreed to pay for the eight sisters in the first place, and he would treat all the sisters equally. Wouldn't it be nice to just help her four sisters, raising such a big family is much more laborious than raising a small family, so she doesn't think that Xiaoba will treat her cousins differently.