476 I am pragmatic

Although Tao Liugui was satisfied with Ye Tianzhuo's answer, he didn't make decisions about major family matters, and had to ask his old wife and third son.

When Tao Fuyun came back, he told his son about the Ye family's proposal.

Tao Fuyun was taken aback, he didn't expect it.

After coming to Ying Tianfu, he has been busy, knowing that there is a prefect in the house, and because of the relationship between Yuan He, Ye Gongzi and his son know each other.

When Yuanhe returned to Cen's house, Ye Gongzi moved in to live with his son Xiaoqi. Tao Fuyun also explained to his son, he is a noble son, don't be like a neighbor in the countryside, don't pay attention to what you say, and then offend people and affect your family.

After a few contacts, he found that Ye Gongzi was very easy-going, without the arrogance of a noble son, so he didn't ask more, as long as the young people were together, they didn't do bad things.

Later, Ye Gongzi's thoughtfulness towards his father, Tao Fuyun felt that it was rare, and asked his wife to take care of him more, knowing that he loved to eat, and wanted to make something delicious for him.

Where did he think that he fell in love with his niece Guiju.

Tao Liugui looked at his son's surprised expression and asked, "What do you think of this family?" Just looking at people, I fell in love, really, I didn't have any eyes. But Guiju has no heart, if she marries a thoughtful person, she won't know if she is bullied. ”

Tao Fuyun said: "Tomorrow, let Xiaoqi and her mother go to Dou's house to ask her mother and see what her mother says." ”

When Tao Liugui heard this, he knew that his son did not object, and said, "Okay, listen to your mother." ”

Tao Fuyun went back to his hospital and told his daughter-in-law, Lu was also surprised, she had more contact with Ye Tianzhuo than her husband, treated him as a child, a sensible and honest child, and sometimes sat down with her for a long time.

Because of his family background, the Lu family never thought about family affairs.

After listening to what her husband said, she was first of all happy, what a good candidate, good family background, and real people.

But I didn't dare to say it in front of my husband, after all, she was a niece, not her own daughter, so she didn't express her opinions, lest her in-laws say that she was snobbish.

Lu asked: "Do you want to tell Xiao Qi, he is familiar with Ye Gongzi, ask Xiao Qi, what is ...... Ye Gongzi?"

Is there anything wrong, otherwise how would you fall in love with the Tao family.

"No, Xiaoliu and Xiaoqi know, go to Ye Gongzi and embarrass the family. Go directly to your mother, what the elders have set, don't get involved with the juniors. ”

When my brother naturally looks at my sister, I don't care if you are a noble son, I run to ask the east and the west, it's not good.

The next day, Lu went to Dou's house and told his mother-in-law under the window.

"Good thing, why didn't I expect Tian Zhuo and Guiju to be a couple? The two of them are too suitable, Tian Zhuo is a good person, and Guiju will not lose money marrying him. ”

Aunt Tao asked, "Do you really think so?" My family Guiju ...... can't take it, the female red can't, she looks average, and her temperament is very aggressive. ”

Fu Xishi said with a smile: "No matter how good it looks, it will get tired of watching it for a long time, and after a long time, it depends on the essence of people." Since Tian Zhuo is asking to marry, he definitely doesn't care about those appearances, maybe he found out that Guiju is good after getting along with Guiju. Didn't they give fat balls weight loss in Mazhuang a while ago? Over time, it must be so. ”

Aunt Tao joked: "Then listen to you?" ”

"Listen to me."

After Fu Xishi finished speaking, she felt that it was not good, it shouldn't be her idea, so she hurriedly changed her words: "My opinion is not important, I have to ask Guiju, she is married, no matter how good others say, it is useless for her to look down on it." ”

Aunt Tao said out the window: "Third daughter-in-law, go back and tell your father, just say what I said, agree to the Ye family's proposal, and when I go home, I will talk to Tian Zhuo." ”

Lu Shi answered and went home happily.

If the niece marries well, her daughter can also be stained, and the youngest daughter Osmanthus is even better.

Fu Xishi asked Aunt Tao strangely: "Aunt and grandmother, why don't you ask Guiju to settle down?" ”

Aunt Tao said: "Guiju and the three of them, Guilan I have to ask, Osmanthus has to ask, and I have to pay attention to her eyes, she will say to listen to the elders, she may not be willing in her heart, you have to watch her reaction carefully." Guiju alone, it's useless to ask her, just give her the decision. Gui Ju has no heart, she can't tell what to do. In the past, I was most afraid that she would fall in love with one by herself, thinking that she would be good, and then she would have to marry if she was desperate, and she would suffer in the future. Now she doesn't understand, and it's too late to regret it when she does. A woman's marriage is an important turning point, okay, good for a lifetime, bad for a lifetime. So can't listen to her. ”

Fu used to understand that it is modern, how many women choose their own husbands, which is not beautiful when they get married, thinking that they can be sweet for a lifetime. It didn't take a few years to find out that I had married a scumbag.

There are many family members who oppose it, friends who are not optimistic, and often so, most of the results prove that others are right, and there is a problem with their own vision.

In ancient times, the words of the matchmaker were paid attention to the orders of parents, but there were also some families who would ask their children's opinions.

Gui Fang, the eldest cousin of the Tao family, asked her at the beginning, she nodded, that was also the master of her mother's work, but she didn't expect it to be a non-person. Fortunately, he remarried Dr. Fang, and they had contact before they got married, so they got married.

Fu Xishi still asked: "What if Guiju doesn't want to?" ”

Aunt Tao said with a calm face: "If you don't want to, then become a sister-in-law!" When she agrees, maybe she picks some rotten melon to come back, she doesn't know how old I am when people coax her with a few good words, how old have I lived? Can't see farther than her? I chose the three daughters-in-law, there was no trouble, Gui Fang was her mother stupid and her brother and daughter-in-law came to tell me, Gui Fang agreed with her mother without arguing, I don't care if I am angry. The other ones who marry, the ones who marry, which one is having a bad time? ”

Fu used to be a sycophant: "My aunt and grandmother have a good eye, I am most convinced by this, and in the future, Datie and their aunt and grandmother will have to help me check it." ”

Aunt Tao smiled: "No problem, as long as you can trust your aunt and grandmother." ”

"Faith! I believe in my aunt's grandmother's vision the most. ”

"It's not about whether the vision is good or not, you have to look at the problem in all aspects. Tian Zhuo, this child, I took a fancy to it early on, just because the family background is not suitable, the family is an official family, if it is a commoner. Although Tian Zhuo is a concubine, he has an open heart, which shows that his mother teaches him well, only the child is taught to read when the father is older, and the mother teaches to be a man since he was a child. A reasonable mother-in-law is even more rare for a daughter-in-law. I'm not looking at the Ye family, I'm like Tian Zhuo. If the person is not good, let alone the concubine of the official family, I will not agree to marry my granddaughter if it is a concubine, and my Tao family will not sell my granddaughter to live. The family not only relies on men, but also on married daughters and granddaughters. It is not up to a woman to marry into the family to bring benefits. High marriage is just icing on the cake, not the first condition, it is better to marry an official family, my wife is pragmatic, but not vain and snobbish. ”

Fu used to slap his face, and his aunt said it was too good.

Sisters Aunt Tao and Grandma Bao. Aunt Tao is wiser than Grandma Bao, Fu Xi thought to himself, if the fat mother-in-law's mother was Aunt Tao, before she married into the Dou family, the Dou family would not be like that, and the granddaughters of the Dou family would be more sensible than now.