"...... you" Xie Shurou stared at Mu Hongshang in a daze: "Don't you feel wronged?" ”

"I'm a girl, what do I have to feel wronged." Mu Hongshang smiled: "My brother and brother don't feel wronged, why should I." Moreover, the wishes of my father and my brothers are my wishes, and I also hope that the north will be well. The Mu family has already paid too heavy a price for the north, and the north must be well-behaved, and the blood of the Mu martyrs cannot be shed in vain. ”

"Hmm." Xie Shurou suddenly felt that her eyes were a little damp, she reached out and touched the top of Mu Hongsheng's head, and said with a smile: "Don't worry, the north will be safe, your father and brother will be safe." ”

"yes." Mu Hongshang smiled and took a deep breath: "It's not my fourth uncle and fourth uncle, why did you get up with this." ”

"That's right," Xie Shurou also laughed: "It's obviously a trivial matter at home." Hongshang, I can follow you, if you marry someone in the future, don't learn from the so-called 'virtuous' of your fourth uncle, men should not take concubines, that's not right. A man like my father who brought a concubine into the house on the left and a concubine on the right should be called a scumbag."

"Scumbag?" Mu Hongsheng looked inexplicable: "Sister Xie always has a fresh word in her mouth, I haven't heard of this word, it refers to the man who accepted the concubine?" Aren't many men in Beijing scumbags? ”

"It's almost, but it's not just about taking concubines. Men who are unfaithful to marriage and feelings can be called scum "Modern Xie Shurou seized every opportunity and spared no effort to instill the idea of equality between men and women in Miss Mu, I am afraid that this ancient girl will grow up and be brainwashed by such ancient values of male superiority and inferiority."

"Unfaithful to marriage and relationships?" Mu Hongshang blinked: "Sister Xie, I didn't understand." ”

It's really a bit difficult to explain this to the ancient girl, Xie Shurou tilted her head and thought about it, and decided to turn around and explain: "It's very good to listen to the relationship between An Guogong and Guogongfu!" ”

"That's right." Mu Hongshang smiled and nodded: "Daddy, when he saw my mother on the shore of Ningcui Lake, he looked at his neighbors and thought that he must marry my mother home." My sister knew, my grandmother was reluctant to hire a clan daughter as a daughter-in-law, but my father and mother liked each other, and my father knelt down to beg my grandmother, and my grandmother agreed. ”

"That's it." Xie Shurou smiled and clapped her hands: "Marriage is a kind of contract, the father and mother of the red dress have feelings for each other, so they become relatives, their marriage should actually be regarded as a commitment to each other's loyalty, because they want to be together for a lifetime without betraying each other, so they become married." Therefore, in marriage, they should be consistent with each other, do you think, if An Guogong falls in love with other women and marries another woman and goes home as a concubine, will Duchess An Guo be very sad? This is called the betrayal of feelings and marriage, the relationship has changed, and liking someone else is to destroy the consistent commitment to the other person when they get married. Since they are married, the husband should have only one wife, one woman, and the wife should have only one man. ”

"I understand what Sister Xie means......" The ancient girl Mu Hongshang looked at Xie Shurou with some hesitation: "But if that's the case, then why do many people marry concubines." ”

"That's not right." Xie Shurou shook her head: "You can't think that many people are like this, just think that taking a concubine is a righteous thing." Hongsheng, do you think, can you find another man after marrying a woman? ”

"Of course not." Mu Hongsheng immediately shook her head.

"Yes, why can a man find another woman, but ask a woman to start from the beginning?" Xie Shurou said with a serious face: "This in itself is a kind of inequality. Marriage is a two-way affair, and men demand fidelity from their wives, and they should be equally faithful to their wives. This is a marriage of mutual respect. ”

"So that's the case...... Mu Hongsheng nodded suddenly: "So my fourth uncle is loyal to my fourth uncle, so my fourth uncle offered to marry him, but he refused." ”

"That's it," Xie Shurou smiled and nodded: "So your fourth uncle is a good man, not a scumbag"

"Sister Xie is like this," Mu Hongsheng's friend began to become a problem baby again: "Since they are married, both husband and wife should love each other, otherwise it is not right." But many people haven't seen it before they get married, and my fourth uncle and fourth uncle haven't seen it before they got married, fortunately, the fourth uncle is very good, and the fourth uncle likes the fourth uncle very much, but what if the other party is a very annoying person? ”

"So it's not right to marry blindly and dumbly," Xie Shurou began to fool again: "Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you have to live with another person for a lifetime, of course, you have to look at it yourself, otherwise how can you live happily." ”

"I understand that." Mu Hongshang smiled and nodded: "Grandmother is also like this, my eldest brother is on a blind date now, grandmother, it doesn't matter what is next to you, don't care about the rules and regulations of the Mu family's daughter-in-law, my eldest brother likes it is the most important thing." ”

"Old Madam Mu is really enlightened," Xie Shurou couldn't help but sigh: "In these years, many parents can't do this. Most people still regard marriage as the good of the family, and when they look at their son-in-law or daughter-in-law, they put the interests of the family first, and whether the two people who are married are doing well...... Usually not much of a consideration. ”

"Grandmother, let the eldest brother choose his own daughter-in-law. The eldest brother will definitely marry a very good sister-in-law. Mu Hongsheng looked expectant: "Then the house will be lively!" Maybe in two years, I'll be able to be an aunt. ”

"Definitely." Xie Shurou smiled and nodded: "Master Mu will marry the girl he likes." It's the same with red clothes, don't marry casually in the future, you must choose someone you like to marry, he likes you, you like him, and you can live well in the future. ”

"Me?" Mu Hongshang pointed to her nose and blinked, obviously not thinking about this question: "I choose my own husband?" Can't you? I'm going to marry to Jiangnan, is it possible to go to Jiangnan for a blind date first? Grandmother must not allow it. ”

"Jiangnan?" Xie Shurou was stunned: "You want to marry Jiangnan?" Why? ”

"Our Mu daughter will not marry in Beijing," Mu Hongshang replied with a smile, her expression was as calm as if she would not spare any more trouble: "My eldest aunt married to Xiqing Mansion, and my aunt married to Ping'an Prefecture, both of which are far away, and I will marry far away in the future." ”

"You ......" Xie Shurou's face froze. She is not stupid, of course she can think of why the Mu family would marry their daughters far away, just because she understands her psychology, so Xie Shurou really didn't say anything.

"Sister Xie, why do you have such an expression." Mu Hongsheng looked indifferent: "It's good to marry Jiangnan, my brother, Jiangnan is rich and prosperous, and the scenery is beautiful, when they get old, they will take off their armor and go to Jiangnan to retire." I'm going to marry Jiangnan first and wait for them. ”