Chapter 444: A man's selfishness and a woman's open-mindedness
Gao Ruohan is a little panicked when he encounters some unexpected events now, the six gods have no master, and it seems that he has to find someone to consolidate his endurance. As we get older, we become more and more fragile, and it is easy to become startled, as if we are going backwards.
This makes butterflies secretly amused.
Thinking that she was not like this before, when her father had a lot of things, she dealt with them calmly, which made people feel that she was a woman with a deep city, a careful mind, and hidden hills and ravines.
In the butterfly's memory, because she is such a woman, she also affects the butterfly in many cases, even in the face of unacceptable setbacks, she can still deal with them calmly, no matter how difficult it is, she can finally cross this hurdle.
Gao Ruohan's first half of his life was not easy, and later married his father, who was a very selfish man, calculated, maybe his father didn't give Gao Ruohan much happiness.
But love is such a thing, sometimes it is really impossible to measure who pays more and who pays less, if you are careful, I am afraid that life will not go on for a long time.
She really gave her father a home of existence and a real love.
Dad doesn't know how to be grateful, grateful for how much a woman has done for him.
He took it for granted, because you are my wife, and I can marry you at an age when you can't marry anyone, and I can't marry you, which is obviously the greatest gift to you.
Many men in this world actually have this kind of dark thought. I always think that marrying you is the greatest honor for you.
And how many women are like this, crawling forward in humble married life, gradually losing their dignity and self-confidence?
At that time, feminist ideas began to show their edge in the human process, and the first challenge was marriage, followed by childbearing.
Beauvoir was a woman who resolutely refused to marry and have children all her life, but in fact, no one knows how much social pressure she had to bear, or the all-round attack of the entire male-dominated world?
To be honest, Butterfly knows this kind of dirty idea in her father's heart, and sometimes she doesn't even pretend to be it, and she behaves very explicitly.
Every time he quarrels with Gao Ruohan, although his father will not insult women like other men, he always takes into account his tall image as a professor, but occasionally pokes a sentence, that kind of bitter meaning is absolutely hurtful, and the disdain and contempt revealed in the words, how can butterflies not hear it?
However, Gao Ruohan often chooses to remain silent in the end, or retreat, since life is still going on like this, it is much easier to disarm and reconcile.
Butterflies, as people watching the battle from the side, are often a little uncontrollable, and they are thrilling to hear. But she always endured it at the end. Often the last person to compromise is always her.
Butterfly always thought that Gao Ruohan would be full of resentment towards his father, but in fact, every time he talked about him after his father passed away, she would say, Lao He was my only relative in those years.
Butterfly suddenly understood that what existed in her heart was not hatred, but love.
Love can make a person humble and insignificant, and even forget that he was once a hateful and temperamental person.
Later, she remarried Bi Yuchen, her life circumstances changed, and her whole person suddenly began to change. Gao Ruohan's layer of hard and tenacious, like a hedgehog shell, slowly peeled off, revealing the soft side inside.
Perhaps, this just shows that the person she married is right.
If a woman can live more and more self-conscious after marriage, it means that she is married to a good man.
Looking at Gao Ruohan's slowly changing changes, she may not have noticed it herself, but the butterfly can see it clearly. She was very happy for her. It shows that Uncle Bi really loves her.
Love does not mean sweet words and tenderness, but no matter what you want to do, he will support you, even if it is silently. And all your wishes, he will keep in mind and help you realize them.
Now Butterfly feels that the roles between herself and Gao Ruohan are shifting. The so-called mother is strong, the butterfly does not know when it became Gao Ruohan's backbone, everything has to seek a word from the butterfly, and the butterfly is very assertive and resolute in dealing with things.
For this reason, butterflies are also helpless.
Gao Ruohan babbled for a long time, in fact, in the final analysis, she wanted to pull the butterfly to see Bi Lin and comfort him, she was a little afraid that she would not be able to support it if she went alone.
Butterfly quickly understood what she meant, and then said bluntly: Aunt Gao, I understand, let's go see Bi Lin together.
When Gao Ruohan heard the butterfly's words, she finally realized her mind, as if she had unloaded a burden, she could retreat to the side of the butterfly, and the butterfly would be the master of the whole process, and said happily: Okay, it's just that I know that you are busy with a child all day now, and you don't have so much time. So, do you go for it now?
The butterfly has the heart not to go, but it is not easy to refuse, after all, Bi Lin also calls herself "sister" one by one, since she is a sister, there is no reason to care.
She glanced at the wall clock on the wall, it was close to lunchtime, but there was a whole afternoon to go, and there was still some time for the kite to get out of school, but the things at hand could only be put away.
After a little hesitation, he said, "It's okay, you drink tea first, wait for me to change my clothes, and then we will go out and eat something first."
Gao Ruohan was happy, originally because of Bi Lin's incident, Bi Yuchen was also a little panicked, and he couldn't talk to his son, as soon as his son saw him, it was like seeing an enemy, although Bi Yuchen did hate the relationship between the two of them before, but when he heard that Chong Jue actually died unexpectedly, he couldn't say why in his heart.
Although his death has nothing to do with himself, in Bi Lin's eyes, it seems that he is a murderer, an executioner, and it was he who broke up the two of them alive, resulting in Chongling's death.
At this point, Bi Yuchen himself was also full of depression.
He asked Meng Yue to look at him in the early stage, and Meng Yue was also full of haggardness. He took advantage of her inattention, cut his wrists once, swallowed some messy medicine, and made a first aid to the hospital for gastric lavage, and once she just turned around to go to the kitchen to see what happened to the stewed soup, and when she turned around, she found that he had climbed to the edge of the security fence on the balcony, and forgot to close the security window that day because of the quilt. scared Meng Yue into a cold sweat.
Don't dare to look at it privately, for fear that there will really be a mistake, how can you live?
called Bi Yuchen to come over quickly.
Bi Yuchen hurried over, and the two of them persuaded him in a bad way, but his mouth was dry and he was exhausted, but to no avail. Bi Lin lay upright on the bed, his eyes staring straight at the ceiling, that kind of look made the two of them look at each other and break their liver and intestines.
Bi Yuchen also panicked, once there was something wrong in the family, he hoped that there would be as many people around him as possible, and if he thought about it, he would call Gao Ruohan to come over and take a look, and by the way, he would persuade him, he knew that what he said was useless.
Gao Ruohan originally knew about this, so he wanted to hide away from the side, not because he didn't want to help, but he didn't know how to help at all?
She felt that the attitude of the two of them towards that matter was already a little more decisive, if she looked at it herself, what would happen to their young people? Green vegetables and radishes are good in their own way, so what do you do with so much? In the world today, this thing is not a strange theory, why make a fuss, make it like a stick beating a male mandarin duck?
But it's hard to say this, so I have to hold it back and come up with an attitude that it doesn't matter to me.
Now that this has happened, who can do it?
Gao Ruohan thought about it, and then thought of butterflies-