Chapter 895: An An Stable Family
Seeing that Tan Jingye had no objection to this family matter, Bachelor Tan asked his wife to go to the Gu family to propose marriage.
Mrs. Tan was not very happy to go to the Gu family to propose marriage, and said: "Miss Lin is famous, will marrying them affect you?" ”
Master Tan said: "Miss Lin's appearance and knowledge are all good, and Master Lin is also the general judge of the six grades. Whether it is from family background or personal conditions, it is all a high level of business. ”
Seeing his resolute attitude, Mrs. Tan didn't dare to go against Master Tan's wishes, so she had to agree.
After Tan Jingye moved out, the husband and wife quarreled over this matter, and then Mr. Tan was so angry that he didn't go into the backyard for three months. If she dares to pick a son this time, the relationship between husband and wife will definitely deteriorate further.
Qing Shu knew that the two of them were happy with this family business, so he told Mrs. Gu about it.
Tan Jingye is the son of a scholar's family, and the Ding Wang family is also large, which is in line with Mrs. Gu's requirements.
Old Madam Gu was very happy, but she also complained about Qingshu: "You didn't tell me about such a big thing before, and only told me when the matter was settled, your kid's idea is really getting bigger and bigger." ”
Qingshu said with a smile: "I'm also worried that the family affair will not be successful, and you will be happy when the time comes." ”
Old Madam Gu scolded with a smile: "Anyway, no matter what you do, you have your own reasons." Don't talk about this, when will the Tan family come to propose? ”
"Just these two days."
Old Madam Gu asked a little uneasily, "Why is it so fast, don't you tell her father and mother about this?" ”
"Master Tan can invite a matchmaker to come to the door, showing that he can call the shots in this family business. I think Master Tan should have told him about this. ”
Otherwise, even if it is an uncle, it is impossible to settle the nephew's family affairs without asking his parents. It is easy to make contradictions, and it is impossible for Master Tan to make such a low-level mistake.
Old Madam Gu said, "What about Mrs. Tan? She doesn't care about her son's life. ”
"Grandma, didn't I just say that Mrs. Tan doesn't like Tan Jingye's son? I don't care about his marriage anymore. Qingshu said with a smile: "You don't have to worry about her making things difficult for An'an in the future, Tan Jingye said that she will not return to Heze in the future." ”
Even if you go back to Shandong, you will live for ten days and a half months, and you will endure it. Besides, women from a big family like this all want to be face-saving, and Mrs. Tan shouldn't dare to go too far. Of course, An An is not a soft persimmon who will not swallow his anger when he is bullied.
Because both families were satisfied, this family affair was quickly settled.
On the second day of the marriage, Tan Jingye sent a silver phoenix openwork silver hairpin to An An.
Qingshu dotes on An An very much, and has bought jewelry for her every quarter over the years. This silver hairpin is not enough to see compared to An An's jewelry in several large boxes, but she is still very happy.
After putting it on, An An felt that this was too plain, so she added a pair of red gold lantern earrings.
Qing Shu looked at her outfit and was a little unaccustomed: "Why are you dressed so plain today." ”
Young girls must look better in bright colors, and An An also likes beautiful clothes in bright colors. Qingshu is willing to her, in addition to the eight sets of clothes sent by Mrs. Qi every season, she will also make twelve sets of clothes for her.
An An was embarrassed to say the reason, so she casually made an excuse: "Mrs. Tan doesn't like Tan Jingye, so I definitely can't dress too outstandingly in the future." Otherwise, I will definitely be scolded by her. ”
Hearing this, Qingshu's face was not good-looking.
was stared at by Qingshu, and An An's head was a little drummed: "Sister, what's wrong with you?" ”
Qingshu said: "I told you that after getting married, you can't revolve around your husband all day long, and you should also have your own things to do." ”
"I'll go out tomorrow to find something to do, and don't stay at home all day thinking about it."
An An saw that Qingshu's face was ugly, and his tone was also very stern, and he asked a little aggrievedly: "Sister, why are you angry?" ”
Qingshu said with a calm face: "Do you know why my mother became like this?" Grandma's doting is one reason, and another reason was brainwashed by Lin Chengyu. ”
"What?"
Qingshu said: "Our good father instills in my mother the idea that her husband is the sky all day long, and asks my mother to think about him wholeheartedly, and then she has to be filial and respectful to her in-laws." is also influenced by her, and in her heart, there are only people in her husband's family and no biological daughter. ”
Old Madam Gu raised Gu Xian to be selfish, while Lin Chengyu raised Gu Xian more and more brainless.
An An really didn't know about this: "I see. ”
"I'll go out tomorrow to find something to do, and if I can't teach, I can also learn to run errands for girls."
Anyway, I can't let An An stay at home, otherwise I'm really afraid of becoming a second mother.
An An hurriedly said: "Sister, I was just joking with you just now. Sister, I wore this dress to match the hairpin that Tan Jingye gave me. ”
Qingshu said: "If you don't have this idea subconsciously, then find a reason, instead of making such an excuse." ”
An An was stunned.
Qingshu slowed down: "An An, you listen to me, and you will insist on finding an errand to do after you get married in the future." It's not to make money, but don't stay in the house and revolve around men. ”
After listening to this, An An asked, "Sister, grandma has always wanted you to resign, will you resign?" What do you do if you don't stay in the back house after you resign? ”
Qingshu said: "After I resigned, I either went to do business or went to the women's school to find an errand to do, anyway, I won't always nest in the inner house. ”
"An An, don't you like to teach? If you like it, you should stick to it. ”
An An bit her lower lip lightly: "But grandma won't agree, and I also want to embroider a dowry." ”
Qingshu said: "Just listen to grandma's words, don't take them to heart." As for the dowry, you still have two or three years to get married, and two or three winter and summer vacations are enough to embroider. ”
An Anmu looked at her blankly.
"An An, if you don't go, I won't force me, after all, you are so old that you can decide your own affairs. But I hope that you will be able to live your own life on your own terms, and not be swayed by others. ”
She is actually very comfortable, and An An was brought up by Mrs. Gu, and she has also been affected a lot, such as her temperament is a little sensitive, and her temper is a little irritable. It is also because she has been correcting it all these years, and it has corrected a lot.
An An said with a bitter face: "Sister, I actually like to teach, but I don't want to get up so early every day." ”
"You can find a way to solve this!"
An An was a little puzzled: "What way?" ”
Qingshu shook his head and said, "You think about this yourself." An An, you are fifteen years old and an adult. When you encounter something, you have to find a way to solve it yourself, and you can't point to me everything. Could it be that your husband and wife will quarrel in the future, and your children will come to me for everything? I'll help you solve it at home, but I'm not there? ”
"Not where you've been?"
Qingshu said helplessly: "Your brother-in-law can't stay in the capital all the time, I will definitely go with him when the time comes." And Tan Jingye will be an official in the future, and he will definitely be released. ”
An An really didn't think so far, she said uncomfortably: "Sister, I'll go wherever you go." ”
Since following Qingshu to the capital, the two sisters have not been separated.
Qingshu said with a smile: "You have grown up, you should learn to handle your own affairs, and my sister can't be by your side forever." ”