Chapter 206: What is Love
The butterfly swallowed, very astringent. At this time, it is indeed not a matter of two people arguing about whether to get married or not, and now the child is not sure when it will come, so let's pass this pass first. So he stared at Zhuang Yousheng helplessly for a long time, and muttered: It's not early, it seems to be snowing this day, go back quickly. Did you drink today?
Zhuang Yousheng hung his head, and then said: I drank some wine with some friends at noon.
The butterfly said: You drive, and you drink?
Zhuang Yousheng said: Because I was a little annoyed, I drank some.
Butterfly looked at him, men sometimes, it's really hard to figure out, they all say that women are not good to figure out, this man's heart is easy to figure out? Women will also reveal some thoughts through noisy humming, but men will drink with their heads bored, and they can't make a stuffy fart, so that women can cry there.
Behind a woman who can toss is usually a man who is very silent. If two people who are very forbearant and can tolerate silence can't actually go to one place at all, reason would have made them part ways a long time ago.
In the world of love, there can be no tenacity and absolute reason, and reason will only make the damage hard and lasting.
Butterfly knows that she is a very rational woman, although she knows that she loves each other deeply, but once she knows that there is some kind of difficulty in their love, she will first consider what level this difficulty belongs to, if it is she can not overcome and surpass, she will immediately carefully consider the substance of love. If this difficulty hurts each other, she will choose to leave sensibly.
It just so happens that diving birds are also such people.
Therefore, a lot of seemingly imperfect love is continuing, but two people who obviously feel that they are a good match can't go far.
Back then, she and Fan Fan could run a marathon love for at least a few years, that was because Fan Fan had no reason at all, when he missed you, no matter where you were, no matter what you were doing, whether you missed him or not, he would come over from far away, even if there was no car, he would come over.
Come to your side, hold you, and tell you that he misses you and needs you. He will quarrel with butterflies, even commit suicide, or die together, he will never hide his love, but just expose it naked.
will be tired, but at least the butterflies can be moved together, and they will be dizzy together, and they can't tell how much they love him, his love is crazy, and it will also make her inexplicably crazy. She went crazy with him for several years without shame or restraint in the stormy waves.
Butterflies need such passive love, and diving birds also need such passive love.
But the reason why they left was because she was very fragile, once the strong love faded away, the trembling fragility was placed in front of the two, two rootless hearts, destined to collide, with the waves, drifting farther and farther.
When they first saw the diving birds, they did go crazy. At that time, the diving bird was not vulnerable, he was strong inside, and he was a man who knew what to do. She thought he was the silent land, able to hold a floating heart. Once made the butterfly feel that her heart seemed to be able to settle down, and even began to look forward to the two of them spending a long life together.
But his problem is that he is too calm, too sensible, too willing to be a bystander. Butterfly is precisely a woman who can never sing alone, and she is unable to manage a love.
The diving bird, on the other hand, mistakenly thinks that she, like most women, is more often the case that women are strong enough to handle it alone. Men, once they are given love, can retire successfully. He's an attacker. Men are not good at keeping.
Once this happened, the diving bird suddenly chose to retire and withdraw from the story of *, perhaps he felt that this matter should naturally be faced by you, the future daughter-in-law-to-be.
Almost everything that a woman who is going to get married has to face, butterflies, and you are no exception.
In fact, many men leave the difficult matter of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to women to overcome by themselves.
How paradoxical is it to make two women who have no relationship at all and don't know each other suddenly want to become a family, live together, and deceive each other into thinking that they are also the most important people in each other?
Originally, it was because of you, the man, that they would go under one roof, but if you left your sleeves alone, how would they face a situation and dilemma that they would be at a loss.
You either admit defeat and be a temperless daughter-in-law. Either you have the ability to deal with that mother-in-law and make her afraid of you. Either embark on a path that is incompatible with each other.
Maybe he felt that one was his mother and the other was his own woman, and he didn't want to hurt either party, so it might be an easy choice to back down. But he didn't know that this would only make the war between the two even more dead.
When the butterfly was left alone, the butterfly suddenly woke up suddenly, her lonely consciousness awakened, and her panic of isolation and helplessness became embattled in an instant.
Those who were paralyzed by love revived their sanity, and she immediately understood that she had to retreat quickly.
Butterfly said in a low voice: Mr. Zhuang, you see, such an important matter is related to the happiness of your life, and we can't be too casual. I don't think you know much about my situation either, so you better think about it again. This ring, well, is very beautiful, but I can't take it, otherwise it would be irresponsible to me or to you. You put it away first, and when you really meet the person you like and like you, then make a decision. I'm not rejecting you, it's just that my current situation is really bad, and I don't want to drag anyone down, you came to see me, and you brought me so many things, I don't know how to thank you anymore, I don't know how to repay your kindness? ……
The butterfly said intermittently, his eyes did not dare to touch Zhuang Yousheng's eyes, at this time his eyes were deep and eager, and the butterfly was afraid that he would be infected if he was not careful.
The clearest thing she thinks about these days is that she doesn't want to have anything to do with any man in her life.
She felt that enough was enough.
She would touch the little pet gloomily and say: "Stop kite, don't complain about your mother, your mother is helpless, she can't let you stay with your father." But you won't feel lonely, Mom will definitely let you live happily.
It was actually her own who comforted her.
Zhuang Yousheng was a little sad, he looked at the butterfly's eyes, eager to see from her twinkling eyes that it was a disguise, it was a lie, but what he saw was firmness.
He silently stuffed the jewelry box into his pocket, and then said slowly: What I said today is sincere, whether you believe it or not, I also know that you do have your difficulties, I can understand it, and I will not force you to agree to me immediately. I just want you to know that my heart for you is genuine, without any jokes or sympathy, and that what I like is you. And I think I can give you the life you want, you have to trust me. For now, yes, wait until you're done with the baby.