Yu Qingwan asked.

Shi Xuanxuan replied.

Yu Qingwan quickly figured out the ins and outs of the matter.

She asked a few more questions that seemed unrelated.

For example: "How did your husband treat his children when he was a child?" I mean before the age of five. ”

Shi Xuanxuan: ......

It's hard to answer this question, okay.

Yu Qingwan is an alumnus of Jian Yixin, and the two had a good relationship when they were in school.

It's just that after graduation, Yu Qingwan went abroad for further study and broke off contact.

What happened before Shi Ran was five years old was related to the intricate relationship between the three adults, and it was difficult to answer.

She hesitated slightly, and Yu Qingwan could see what she was thinking!

"Oh, Mrs. Sheng, you read it again." She playfully twisted her badge.

Although Shi Xuanxuan didn't understand what it meant, she still did it: "Qingwan Psychiatric Doctor's Clinic, Doctor Yu Qingwan." ”

"Yes, I'm a doctor, not anyone's who."

Shi Xuanxuan: ......

So she told Qingwan what happened before Shi Ran was five years old.

She stood up and patted Shi Xuan on the shoulder easily: "Don't worry, Mrs. Sheng, your daughter is fine, don't be nervous." ”

Dr. Yu told Shi Xuanxuan that Shi Ran is a little girl who values love and righteousness, and she is like this now because she has lacked love since she was a child, so she attaches great importance to love and cherishes it.

Although there is an abnormality, it is not a big problem, although it is different from Sheng Zichen's situation last time, there is no need for special psychological counseling.

Yu Qingwan suggested that Xuan Xuan take the child out for a walk, and it was okay to knock on the side under the guidance.

This child's psychological defense line is too strong, and he will not be easily seen through his thoughts, and it is not good if he directly debunks it.

It's better to pretend that you don't know anything, change the environment and relax, and maybe you will get unexpected results.

……

At night, the couple complained about their children in the room.

Shi Xuanxuan sighed: "I finally know why so many people don't have children, choose Dink, it's too tiring to have children, and we actually have two children?" ”

She wants to have no children, just the two of them, and they can play wherever they want, and they don't have to worry about any problems on the road to the growth of these two bear children, how good?

Easy and enjoyable.

Sheng Hanyu: ......

The matter of complaining about his son will be put aside first.

You have to straighten out your wife's mind first.

"People can't live too selfishly, if they all think like you, humanity will be extinct."

Shi Xuanxuan disdainfully: "You treat me as a child?" Do I believe whatever you say? How can people be the same idea, there are many people who like children, so let the people who like it give birth. ”

Sheng Hanyu: "You don't like it. ”

Shi Xuanxuan: "I don't like it." ”

Sheng Hanyu: "It's okay, then throw it away, both of you throw it away, I'll play with you tomorrow, you can go wherever you say, no one has to think about it." ”

Shi Xuanxuan: ......

"Hey! How can you be like this? Are you the child's own father? Say throw it away? Not to mention the flesh and blood, even the kittens and puppies can't be thrown away casually......"

The husband didn't speak, and quietly listened to her indignation.

When she stopped, she asked, "Finished?" ”

"Humph!"

Shi Xuanxuan turned her head and ignored it.

Well, she just complained, how could she really throw the child away?

Not to mention throwing it away, you can't do it without a hair.

Shi Xuanxuan took care of the loss and was ready to change the topic.

The husband is considerate and has taken the initiative to shift the topic to his son.

The snack was hidden in the dictionary, and this thing almost made Sheng Hanyu vomit blood, but it made Shi Xuanxuan laugh.

She was not angry, and praised her son for being "creative", and was 100% sure that Sheng Zichen must be the mastermind of this matter, and her father-in-law was just helping to cheat with the dictionary.

For the study of eating, Sheng Zichen is born!

Self-taught.

After complaining about their children, the couple cherished each other.

Sheng Hanyu: "When the children grow up, we will not participate in their lives, and when the time comes, we will go out and travel the world, regardless of the children and grandchildren." ”

She nodded and snuggled into her husband's arms: "Okay, I'll listen to you." ”

……

Weekend.

Early in the morning, the Sheng family was very lively, and the servants kept shuttling back and forth, carrying everything they needed to eat and drink into the car.

The whole family is going to a seaside resort for the weekend.

While the resort has it all, there's something special about a barbecue by the sea in the evening.

In addition to seafood, beef and mutton skewers for barbecue are also skewered in the morning, refrigerated in the RV refrigerator, and the barbecue is just right in the evening.

"Sister, sister!"

Sheng Zichen stood at the door and roared loudly.

Going to the resort, the little ones are the most positive.

It doesn't matter how the scenery is, the important thing is that there is good food!

Sheng Zichen didn't need to call in the morning, he got up and dressed himself, and waited for departure.

On the contrary, Shi Ran, who has never been holding back, has dragged his feet today.

She was reluctant to go, and had shown a lack of interest the previous evening.

also proposed to do homework at home alone, of course, he refused without hesitation!

Mom has a good reason: "We are a family, and no one is missing." ”

"Okay."

Shi Ran agreed.

But in the morning, I still hesitated and didn't want to go out.

"Da da da".

No need to be reminded, Sheng Zichen ran in and slammed the door in his sister's room: "Sister, sister, sister-"

The door opened, and he was unguarded and rushed in.

Fortunately, his sister held him up, so he didn't fall.

Shi Ran is wearing a white princess dress today, and her black and thick hair like Shi Xuanxuan is tied into two ponytails and hangs down on her chest.

Sheng Zichen didn't raise his head: "Sister, you look so good today." ”

The little guy was held down by his sister and turned around in a circle, and pushed out: "Don't pat yourself on the back, I believe you are a ghost!" ”

The daughter and son came out of the gate holding hands, and Shi Xuanxuan breathed a sigh of relief.

At the critical moment, it is still the son who gives power.

The three old men, Sheng Hanyu and Sheng Zichen, took the RV, and Shi Xuanxuan drove in person and invited her daughter to sit in the co-pilot.

"Mom, I'm still with my grandparents, it's crowded."

The little girl has a lot of eyes, and her mother's attention to her has increased significantly in the past two days, and she feels it.

She was reluctant to sit in the same car with her mother for fear of being interrogated.

Without waiting for an answer, the little girl had already gotten into the RV and drove her father out of the car: "Dad, Mom will let you go." ”

By the time the two found out, the RV had already driven away.

Along.

Sheng Zichen was the happiest.

The little mouth La Bala didn't stop all the way, listening quietly from time to time, and smiling the whole time.

……

Seaside.

Resort.

It's been more than half a year since the last time I came.

I said I would come over once a month to play, but there were always such and such things, and in the end it was delayed.

I don't usually think there's anything, but when I come back again, I find that I haven't been here for a long time.

"Ahh

"Hahahahaha......"

Sheng Zichen pulled his sister to run on the beach.

Staying in the study these days, he is almost suffocating, and finally coming out of the house, like a bird returning to the sky, is very excited.

Emotions are contagious, and they are now.

My brother was very happy, and he was in a much better mood when he was infected.

The sister and brother had a lot of fun at the beach, digging crabs and picking up shells, and the little girl took care of her younger brother intimately, much more careful than Shi Xuanxuan.

The couple stood in the distance, snuggling up to each other and watching this harmonious picture.

The psychiatrist is right, care should also be moderate, care for the child but not too nervous.

A child has the ability to regulate herself, and sometimes she doesn't need to be enlightened, she will want to open it herself.

Time can dilute everything, and the same applies to children.