Chapter 144: Wandering Around
After the child fell asleep, Conan saw that she was about to fall asleep, knowing that she was tired and did not want to disturb, but it had to be said that he wanted to talk to her.
"Don't you want to talk?" Conan said.
"I want to say, but I'm too tired to do it, and I'm afraid I'm going to collapse. Now the child is still young. Your salary is small. What will happen in the future? She said.
It turned out that Conan's wife had high requirements for him, and she did not allow financial crises or other crises. I don't want my child's future to be bleak, so as not to complain.
Maybe the child will not complain in the future, no matter where he lives, no matter what kind of bed he sleeps in, Conan is very reluctant to waste time for this, when he is sleepy, no matter where he is, what kind of bed he sleeps in, he doesn't pick and choose, just follow the square, it's okay.
The beds were not good, something went wrong and it affected the mood. His wife was not too much to ask, and this basic request was also her personal preference, after all, men and women are different, and she didn't want to have too much argument in this regard, so he said, "Okay, let's put the bed up again." ”
The person in charge of the unit is strict with his front-line colleagues in all aspects, almost harsh, but he is still relatively relaxed about himself. Who calls someone the person in charge of the unit? This bed, for example, is a clear example. Generally speaking, it is on the bench, and with a bed board, it is a bed. The person in charge of the unit is not, sleeping in a soft bed.
Conan knew that if you want to become a veritable reader, it is useless to be nostalgic for the bed, too harsh on life, and paying attention to the small things or details in life will affect the pursuit of knowledge, and it is impossible to spend too much energy on the most important things.
His wife is not a reader, and she doesn't love reading like Ji Conan, she cares about the details of life, the bed squeaks, it just doesn't work, it affects the mood, it's not interesting, she can't sleep well, how can she work? If you don't have a good rest, it will affect your work, that's for sure.
After Conan compromised with his wife, the two began to look for the reason for the sound of the bed board, and found the gap, Conan's wife found a cardboard shell, folded it, inserted it into the gap, looked for it one by one, and finally lay down on the bed, and tried the effect again, if there was a sound, look for it again until there was no sound. Then, the two of them fell asleep with peace of mind, but they didn't dream, and fell asleep directly.
In the middle of the night, his wife complained and said, "What a hungry wolf!" You should put more effort into making money, like a wolf, to have goals and action. ”
When Conan heard this, he was confused and confused, and he didn't know why she was making such a sigh.
"What's wrong with you? Are you crazy about money? Ji Conan asked.
"I'm not crazy, I'm awake. What do you see you do? Don't want a wife or children, run to the mountains, sleep alone at night, eat alone, eat and drink, it's all very simple, isn't this the life of an ascetic? Is this your life's work? She said.
"No, my quest now is to sleep. Important things will be talked about tomorrow, and we will not talk about ideals in the middle of the night. Ji Conan said, very unhappy.
She had no choice but to be silent, no longer sleepy, looked at the child, looked at Conan again, didn't say anything, and when she got here, she stayed in peace.
Ji Conan's drowsiness was big, and he said he would sleep, and after an unknown amount of time, Ji Conan opened his eyes and looked at the faint morning light that came through the gap in the curtains, the sky was not yet bright, and he could sleep for a while, so Conan fell asleep again.
When Conan woke up, he found that his wife had gotten out of bed and was nursing the baby. Conan opened his eyes and asked, "When did you get up?" ”
"The baby woke me up. You father and son, it's really annoying. You bother me at night, and the baby bothers me during the day. I've been tortured enough by two people. I really can't stand it. She said.
Conan smiled and said, "Then I will be a woman in the next life." What do you think? ”
"Forget it, you are a woman, and you are not a fuel-efficient lamp, I am afraid that you can't do without men all day long, you think about men every day, you don't let go, so that men can't work normally, can't live, you have long been tortured to death, and you really do the spring silkworm to the end of the wax torch into ashes and tears began to dry." She said.
Conan smiled and said: "Look at you, you still say that if you don't read, you will come when you open your mouth, and the exit will be a chapter, don't blaspheme Li Shangyin, he didn't write this poem to say this, you misunderstood." It is a good thing that husband and wife meet each other's physiological needs and will not go out to fool around. If you don't do that kind of breeding and intimacy with your spouse, do you do it with your lover? ”
"That's what you're talking about. I don't know what this poem means, but I think it's good, and if someone sings it, I'll remember it. However, I think you need to see a doctor, there is a psychological problem, my wife is here, she is pestering every day, not doing her job, and if you continue like this, you have to make people disabled. She said.
"Love is deep, uncontrollable, forgive me, wife!" Conan said.
"Don't be poor, I'm not an adult, I'm a woman, not an adult, you have to figure it out. Every day is confused, there is no seriousness, and the real addiction is a disease, and it has to be treated, and if it goes on like this, you will have problems. It depends on when you can do it, and you won't be tempted to see the beautiful women delivered to your door. She said.
"I've done it. Now that a beautiful woman is sent to the door, I just think in my heart, and I can't take action, it's illegal, and I can't even think about it. Conan said.
She smiled and said, "What do you dare not think?" I know all your fancy. Remember, there will always be a time when you run out of ammunition. If you don't believe it, we'll see. ”
Conan said, "Of course, I'm a human, not a pig." I really don't want to talk about pigs, pork is more expensive than Tang monk meat, and I can't look down on pigs. However, we can't help but talk about pigs. ”
"I know you're still human. It's just a little bit of color. You're a pig, and even a pig has an idea. She said.
Conan said: "Hehe, men are not colored, then the human race is going extinct." Pigs too. Among the four people who learned scriptures from the West, I think Zhu Bajie is still the most human-like, the most humane, like a person, and the other three are not like people, never a waste of time, and they want to become immortals and Buddhas. I don't have the heart to mix in the world. It's that Zhu Bajie always thinks about Gao Laozhuang and Miss Gao, so he doesn't want to go to heaven and his character. Not hypocritical, not pretentious, not good-looking, but very good-hearted, I don't have to say. ”
She said: "You are just a mouth, and you will find trouble if you have nothing to do." Don't keep trying to save people. If you are not sexy, it is enough, why bother with those men in the world? ”
Conan said, "I won't be poor with you." I'll get up and make you breakfast. Take practical actions to show performance, so as not to always say that I am not motivated and have not grown. ”
"No need, there are snacks in the town, I want to eat outside. Eating is a small matter, and when you go back, others can answer it, so it's not in vain, and you can't lie and deceive people. She said.
Conan said, "Okay." It's a good thing to have this experience, which others don't have. I know that the scum is the characteristic of the town. Have you heard of it? ”
"Nope. What is it like? She said.
Conan said: "It's made of soybeans, like soy milk, but it's thicker than soy milk, and there are vegetables in it." ”
She said, "Okay, let's go out to eat." ”
Conan didn't want to take his wife to the place where the round-faced girl invited him to dinner last time, for fear that someone would recognize him and say nonsense, thinking that this kid was a distracted person and had changed women. In fact, as soon as Ji Conan speaks, others can tell that he is a foreigner, which will attract the attention of others.
Conan took his wife to find a breakfast shop near the supermarket, ordered two portions of dregs and buns, and gave them to his wife, Conan held the child and let his wife eat first, and after his wife tasted it, he said: "It's okay, it's not salty or sweet, it's original." ”
Conan said: "I have eaten the dregs with diced lean meat in it, and those who love meat like it, but today I ate the dregs of vegetarian lotus, without minced meat." ”
Conan's share was also on the table, but Conan didn't move, he held the child and wanted to wait for his wife to finish eating before he ate. His wife said, "Give me the child, I can eat and hold the child." Awesome, right? ”
Conan asked, "How did you do that?" ”
She said, "I practiced it." Your mother works part-time outside, how can she have time to care about our mother and son? If I don't practice this skill, how can I bring my child? Fortunately, my son is still obedient, he sleeps when he is full, and he doesn't make much trouble with me, so I can free my hands to eat. If it really doesn't work, coax the child while eating. ”
Conan watched as his wife held the child in her lap, one arm supporting the child and the other for eating. The movements are very skillful and sophisticated.
Conan admires this wife in his heart. At the same time, I also blame myself in my heart. Why not make more money? With money, you can stop your child's grandmother from going out to work part-time, you can let his grandmother help take care of the child, and the wife will not have to work so hard. However, the reality is often very cruel, Conan's monthly income is dead, that is, those thousands of dollars! It's impossible to do a second career part-time, because the time is the same, you can't do two things at the same time, people's energy is limited, they are not all-round champions, and they can't reach the level of supermen.
After eating, Conan said, "Let's go to the Yangtze River Bridge in the small city today." Yesterday's news said that today the bridge was opened to traffic. You're here at the right time. ”
Conan's wife said, "What does the opening of the bridge have to do with me? I'm here to see you, not the bridge. There are several bridges in our hometown, what is there to see? There's only one here, and I'm so happy. The rarer it is, the more precious it is. ”
"yes. This is called "Hope is the most important thing". I'm glad to hear what you said, it's to come to see me, not to see the bridge, yes, I'm more valuable than the bridge. The bridge is a tool to connect the north and south of the Yangtze River, and love is a tool to connect you and me. Conan said.
She said: "Don't you come to this set, don't you feel like meat?" ”
Conan said, "You know what? In the past, people had to take a boat to cross the river. I don't know if you remember, the last time you came to the town, you saw that there were often ferries on the river? ”
She said, "yes." I remember the day I left, you crossed the Jiangbei and went with Assistant Deng from the county branch. ”
"No, it's not surnamed Deng, the surname is Tan, it's a staff member Tan." Conan said.
She said, "Yes, I remember what an assistant he was, and when he asked me to come back to town, he told him that he was going to invite us to dinner or something." ”
Conan said: "That was more than a year ago, and now the county branch has changed the person in charge, and Assistant Tan has also been excluded and is not reused." I'm afraid that if you come this time, it will be impossible to invite you to dinner. ”
She said, "What's going on?" ”
Conan said: "The current manager Wan is very greedy, and if the foundation's money does not pass through him, he has the intention of driving us away." However, under the pressure of the provincial head office, we were reluctantly allowed to continue to do it for another year. If the provincial head office didn't suppress them, we would have left a long time ago, and you wouldn't have the chance to see the town again. ”
She said, "I see! ”
Conan said, "Yes! Being in charge is really fickle. Just like the fat girl Feng Feifei in our unit, she has a great hope of being elected as the administrative director of the provincial head office. ”
She said: "Women as officials? ”
Conan said: "There is no way, now it is yin and yang are declining, and women are in charge, and there is indeed no talent to call." ”
She said, "What's in it for you to be in charge?" ”
Conan said: "Now, we are her subordinates, in the field, for her political achievements, the credit is hers, paving the way for the promotion of the person in charge; The hard work is ours, and we don't know what year or month it will end. ”
She said: "Then what benefits can she bring to you as the person in charge?" ”
Conan said, "Didn't I say that she could not bring me any benefit as a leader, only to herself and those close to her. She believes in 'if a man is not for himself, heaven and earth will be destroyed'. ”
She said, "What does that mean? I don't understand. Isn't she old? ”
Conan said, "Teacher? We remember that she was a teacher, and she herself may not think so, but if she remembered that she was a teacher, she would not treat her subordinates like this, but would care about her students like a class teacher. ”
Conan's wife said, "You are just an angry young man, complaining a lot, and after reading some books, you want to be superior." I want to take more money, I don't want to be as flat as a monk's hat, right? ”
Conan said, "yes, or else, what is the purpose of reading?" Those who read and those who don't read are the same, is it still useful to read? Knowing that reading can bring revival to oneself and the institution, it is not allowed to read. Although, on the face of encouraging everyone to read, in fact, they are afraid of everyone reading, encourage reading, and do not take actual rewards, and do not discriminate between colleagues who read and those who do not read, as a result, what is the use of shouting empty slogans there, you are just whipping people to study, and they are not willing to study. Reading is drudgery, you have to sit on a cold bench, and you have to give up a lot of worldly entertainment. ”
Conan's wife said, "Then are you still studying?" ”
Conan said, "Read, why don't you read?" Reading is for reason, not fame and fortune. I study to make my life more fulfilling. ”
She said, "You're full of ass!" Why don't we fill our pockets? I advise you to work hard, learn some skills as soon as possible, so that you can support your family and let our family live a dignified life. If you have money, you have dignity, and if you don't have money, you don't have dignity. Believe it or not. ”