Fu Yuanling was silent for a moment, Concubine Guo Xian's idea cannot be said to be wrong, after all, King Qingyang is now running around for most of the year, and it is indeed a little inappropriate to have no woman around him, and it is impossible for Chen Yan to follow her husband around.

How can a mother not feel sorry for her son, it is impossible to watch her son suffer outside.

"What does the sixth brother mean?" Fu Yuanling asked, just because they are cousins, it is impossible for Fu Yuanling to ask so directly.

"He, now that he is focused on doing big things, how can he have time for children to be long." Chen Yan looked at her little cousin with a worried look on her face, and immediately became happy, "Don't worry, the prince refused." ”

It's just that Chen Yan also knows that this time the prince can refuse, but what about next time?

She doesn't have a son by her side, in fact, she is also anxious.

Fu Yuanling frowned, "Otherwise, I'll discuss with the prince and see if I can let the sixth brother stay in Beijing on an errand for the past two years." The things on the side of the border don't have to be run over there, but at the beginning, you need to press the formation personally, and it is most suitable for the sixth brother to go. ”

Now that the other side is stable, it will be enough to send someone from the Bureau of Creation to take over.

Chen Yan's face was overjoyed, "Is it okay?" ”

"Let me ask, you know that I have never interfered in the affairs of the Bureau of Creation now." Fu Yuanling said.

Chen Yan was already very happy, and then said: "Don't be embarrassed, you can do it, if you can, forget it." ”

She can't delay the future of the prince because of her, she is unwilling in her heart.

"I'll write back to you when I ask, but you discuss it with the sixth brother first, and it would be better if the sixth brother could agree."

It just so happened that this time the king of Qingyang came back from Xilinguan to make a business trip, just in time for the begging festival, and he could stay in Beijing for a few more days.

Chen Yan smiled and agreed.

The two didn't talk for long, and on the other side, Princess Dongchuan came over with a smile, and everyone got together to chat.

Xu Xiuning was called away by Concubine Li De just now, I don't know what happened, but Fu Yuanling is not worried now, after Xu Xiuning understands it, it will not be easy for Concubine Li Defei to make her suffer again.

In a group of princesses, life is not very easy is Princess Wuling, King Wuling accepted a side concubine last year, it is said that the side concubine is pregnant, and Princess Wuling has only one daughter under her knees.

Princess Wuling looked a little forced to laugh, and she didn't want to be laughed at in front of everyone, Fu Yuanling found that there were a few times when everyone said this, she started to stay alone.

It's just that she can't help with this kind of thing, and she doesn't have much contact with Princess Wuling about other people's housework, so she can only pretend not to know.

When the luncheon started, Xu Xiuning came back with Concubine Li De, Fu Yuanling and Chen Yan glanced at each other, and both of them obviously found that Concubine Li De's face was not very good, but Xu Xiuning didn't see anything unusual.

Fortunately, because there was a group of children at today's luncheon, the palace concubines and princesses were separated.

Fu Yuanling took Xiao Yi and Xiao Chong, Chen Yan took Sister Fu'er, plus Xu Xiuning, and they couldn't sit down at this table.

Xu Xiuning helped Fu Yuanling take care of Xiao Chong, but Xiao Chong was really worry-free when eating, and he could eat well with a spoon by putting the food into a small bowl.

Xiao Yi didn't bother at all, the chopsticks were used very easily, and Fu Yuanling only needed to add food and rice to him from time to time.

Chen Yan looked at Fu Yuanling and asked, "How did you teach this child, how can you be so well-behaved, I remember that when Sister Fu was so old, she couldn't eat alone, and she still had to be fed by a nurse." ”

Xu Xiuning also hurriedly looked at it when she heard this, "You can talk about it, and I will also learn from it." ”

Fu Yuanling said with a smile: "It's a little different, you raise children very carefully, and our children are raised according to the child's will." From the time the two children wanted to eat with a spoon on their own, we didn't stop them. ”

Children eat by themselves, especially when they first learn to hold a spoon, adults are generally afraid that the child will hurt themselves, so they will prevent the child from eating by himself and let the nurse feed him.

In addition, children eat unsightly, often with a blanket face, looking dirty, and people with rules do not want to see such a scene.

Therefore, when children are young, they basically do not let them do it themselves, and adults do it for them.

It still goes back and forth like this, which discourages the child's fun of learning, and as he gets older, he is reluctant to do it.

Fu Yuanling is different, she encourages her children to do it themselves, even if it is a paste, it doesn't matter, there are so many girls and grandmothers at home, can't you make a few more clothes for the child and change them a few more times?

This kind of thing should not be afraid of trouble, it is necessary to cultivate children's interest and patience, and at the same time exercise the patience of adults.

As soon as Fu Yuanling said this, Chen Yan was silent for a moment, "You are really right, I just watched my daughter paste and didn't want her to eat it by herself." ”

It's not that I'm afraid of trouble, it's just that it's distressing to see my daughter dirty.

"Children grow up, and we always have to let go. Therefore, when children want to be self-reliant, we must not stop them, but encourage them. When they grow up, they can have a more resolute heart to go their own way. Fu Yuanling said with a smile, and as he spoke, he also took a handkerchief to wipe the things that touched the corners of Xiao Yi's mouth.

"Was that the same way you were when you were a kid?" Chen Yan was really a little curious, after all, this little cousin grew up in the Fu family.

"Yes, I suffered a lot more when I was a kid than these kids. For example, when Brother Chong'er was so old, my grandfather's favorite thing to do was to hold me in the account room and listen to the stewards, and what he was most willing to do was to hold an abacus and use it as a toy for me. By the time I was six years old, I was already very proficient in one-handed abacus, and by the time I was eight years old, I could hardly go wrong with two-handed abacus. ”

The key is to keep up with the speed of the brain, and learn to use both minds, looking at the account books with your eyes, dialing the abacus with your fingers, and turning back to reconcile the accounts without making mistakes.

Some masters can't learn to calculate, and the bookkeeper at the bottom will secretly do tricks when he reconciles the accounts, and there is one less number in the account book, which is a great loss.

So the first thing her grandfather taught her was to plan to memorize the formula, but at that time she only felt bored, and even pretended to be sick and skipped school.

Chen Yan and Xu Xiuningmo, they were still pampered little girls in the family when they were six years old, where did they suffer like this, so now Yuan Ling can be so powerful, it is all the hardships they suffered when they were children.

At this age, they are all living easily under the favor of their elders, where have they suffered like this.

Fu Yuanling lowered his head and looked at Xiao Yi with a look in her eyes, the child probably didn't understand what he meant, but he could feel the difference in the tone of the adult.

Fu Yuanling put another dish for him in a small bowl, and said with a smile: "Eat, take your brother to play when you are full." ”

Xiao Yi glanced at Aunt Wang again, then turned his head to look at his younger brother who was happy to eat, and continued to eat after hesitation.