Regarding Fei Guang's mother's bad record of Yezi, we have to start with her story.

Ye Zi was born in 1967, because of his soft body and outstanding appearance, he has become the most dazzling "pearl" in the family, and is pampered and favored by his parents and siblings.

Throughout the ages, a good body shape will always cause people to hurt, so she has been a "beautiful embryo" since she was a child, and as she grows older, her dazzle is no longer limited to her home.

Especially when she grows to the age of "eighteen changes in the female university", it is even more obvious when she is in the boudoir.

At that time, she was in the ten miles and eight villages within the scope of her life, no matter where she went, she was the focus of people's eyes and the topic of people's mouths. When the women saw her and mentioned her, their eyes were very red; When the men saw her and mentioned her, they admired her in all kinds of ways.

In the end, the pampering and pampering of her family, the red eyes and admiration of outsiders, harmed her.

She became squeamish, cold, arrogant, domineering, and self-serving!

These characteristics have become her "bad label".

When she got married, she was not yet 20 years old, and she naturally brought these "labels" to her in-laws' house.

After arriving at her mother-in-law's house, her three principles - "don't do work, don't do housework, and don't take care of children" made her mother-in-law extremely dissatisfied, and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had conflicts.

However, fortunately, there is an honest husband who protects her, but in order to make a living, her husband needs to go out to work all year round, so he is not well protected!

Finally, when her son Fei Guang was 5-10 years old, the conflict between her and her mother-in-law turned into a white-hot "war". When they confronted each other, they sneered at each other, swords rattling, and refused to give in to each other, even in occasional mediation, they were still cold-eyed and intolerable to each other.

In those years, Ye Zi, as the eldest son and daughter-in-law of the in-law's family, did not set a good example for her younger siblings, although it was wrong, but the mother-in-law who couldn't tolerate others was really right?

Some of the "melon-eating masses" in the countryside will not think about this, their greatest pleasure is to "watch the excitement and gossip", and their most unified thinking is "afraid that the world will not be chaotic"!

Therefore, during the "war" of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they labeled her with several "bad labels" - "confused daughter-in-law", "lazy to eat", "silver ring to the countryside", "useless".

The reason why the "melon-eating masses" have become the "melon-eating masses" is probably because after they are full, they will really panic, and they must say some "gossip" to help digestion.

In ten miles and eight villages, Ye Zi, a beautiful woman who has already become famous, is obviously not enough to be labeled as these "labels" by the "melon-eating masses".

They have to treat the "label" as a bad record of her life, and only after it is widely circulated can they be satisfied.

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When his son Fei Guang was 10 years old, Ye Zi fell ill.

As a migrant worker at the bottom of the society, her husband, Fei Song, who was not very wealthy, not only went bankrupt when he pulled her back from the "ghost gate", but also went into debt.

After returning from the "Ghost Gate", Ye Zi embraced "Christianity" in the countryside because of a slanderous saying "Believe in Jesus and have eternal life".

During the period of religious belief, although the "war" with her mother-in-law was suspended, the story behind it became another bad record in her life.

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Christianity, which was originally a good religion in the Western countries and promoted the good religion of "truth, goodness and beauty", changed its flavor when it spread to Eastern China, and then when it spread to the remote villages where Ye Zi lived, its taste became even more serious.

In the eyes of Ye Zi, who believes in "rural Christianity", "Jesus" is not the "Lord" who washes people's hearts, but the "God" who controls all things in heaven and earth!

The reason why she was able to "turn conflict into friendship" with her mother-in-law was not because she received the "baptism" of "truth, goodness, and beauty" in her soul, but because she was afraid of being "disciplined" by "God" and "punished" by "God".

It is said that she had "personally felt" the "discipline" and "punishment" of "God", which is why she was so loyal to "God".

After two years of religious belief, after Ye Zi was promoted to a "missionary" in the township, her loyalty to "God" increased a lot, even to the point of being extremely loyal!

Although the "missionaries" in the township had no salary, no bonuses, and the only benefit was that they could go to the nearest church's house for dinner and overnight on the way to "mission," but they could not shake her determination to "proselytize" in the slightest.

Determination, not only because of her incomparable loyalty to "God", but also because of an inscription that once strengthened her faith.

It was a superior priest, who had first explained and translated, and then wrote the inscription on the title page of the Bible that Ye had with him—

"God said, the heavens will descend upon the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act disorderly, so they will be tempted to endure and gain what they cannot!"

The senior priest who inscribed these words is the only "messenger" of the "god" in the county, and the "famous" priest - Qi Pian.

So, she firmly believes in it.

In 2000, when Ye Zi became a "missionary", her son was 12 years old, and she had just been raised by her alone for two years, and she had to throw it back to her mother-in-law.

Because in that year, she was instilled with a lot of "eschatology of Christ" by the priests-

"God said, When the end comes, wars will be frequent, and the people will fight against the people, and the kingdom will fight against the kingdom. Famines and earthquakes are frequent. Humanity is morally degraded. ”

"God said, when the old world perishes and the new century begins, I will save the people, and I will save the people."

"God said, Son, Holy Spirit, saints, come with me to awaken the muddy human race! Let them also become believers, enter the new century, and have eternal life. ”

Ye Zi, who was indoctrinated with "Christ's eschatology", was determined to be "the Son, the Holy Spirit, and a saint", so she wanted to wander and "mission", she wanted to "do great tasks", and she could only "give up her small family" and "for everyone".

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In 2010, a Mayan prophecy about "2012" swept the world, pushing the "eschatology of Christ" to a climax, and the task of "preaching" Yezi became more urgent.

If, before that, as a "missionary", she was only ridiculed by the "melon-eating masses", then after that, her behavior was difficult for even her family to accept.

Because, before the prophecy swept through, Ye Zi only went to "preach" on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, and did "worship" on Saturdays, and he could always go home and rest at night. But after the prophecy swept away, she needed to go farther and "preach" to more people, at least for a few days without returning home, and at most for more than a month.

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In the countryside where Fei Guang lives, before marrying a daughter, his mother-in-law usually asks someone to inquire about the family background of the "prospective son-in-law", and his mother Ye Zi has long been "famous", so it is not difficult to inquire.

Although before Chen Lu, the three girls who were engaged to Fei Guang belonged to a village ten miles away and farther away, he still did not escape the fate of being divorced.

The reason for being divorced is surprisingly the same - the woman's parents can't accept a prospective son-in-law with such a mother.

After all, in the countryside, mothers-in-law play an important role in helping their daughter-in-law take care of children, do housework and many other trivial chores in family life, who would want to marry their daughter to a family with this kind of mother-in-law.

In fact, with Fei Guang's appearance, there is no need to find a partner through a traditional blind date, but God is "stingy", and after opening "a door" for a person, he will never open more "one window".

Therefore, after Fei Guang was given favorable appearance conditions to find a partner, he was arranged by God with some unfavorable conditions-

Although since the reform and opening up, there has been a situation in the countryside where farming and part-time work are at the same time, the living standards of farmers are improving day by day, and their pockets are slowly bulging, but Fei Guang's family is an exception.

When Fei Guang was a child, most of the parents in other people's families were involved in working and making money, but in his family, his father was always the only one who worked and made money, and there was not much surplus.

When he was 10 years old, in order to treat his mother's illness, my father not only used up all his savings, but also owed a lot of debts, which were difficult to pay off by my father's part-time work for ten years.

As the saying goes, "the children of the poor are in charge early", at the age of 16, the sensible Fei Guang chose to drop out of school after finishing his first year of high school.

Although his results in the high school entrance examination were among the top ten in the county, so he received a free special recruitment from the first high school in the county, he still resolutely chose to drop out of school.

dropped out of school, not only because the school only exempted him from the fees for the first school year, but more importantly, he wanted to share his father's worries as soon as possible.

The poor family background gave rise to two disadvantages on Fei Guang's way to find a partner.

First, before the family's debts are paid off, he is reluctant to spend money to create romance for girls.

Second, after years of cultivation by the word "poor", he is not confident.

In addition, Fei Guang's character and thoughts are also destined for him, and it is difficult to find a partner.

He is introverted and reserved in his bones, in other words, it is called cowardice and cowardice.

When he touches a girl, he will look nervous and stutter when he speaks, and the more beautiful the girl, the more serious his nervousness and stuttering will be. After entering puberty, he tried many times to get rid of these two problems, but at present, it was not enough.

His thinking is too traditional, and tradition borders on pedantic. He believes that a man, no matter which girl he has ever been close to, must be responsible to the end and unswervingly. Therefore, even if a girl occasionally takes the initiative to give him a hug, he is not easy to get close to, for fear that he will not be able to take responsibility.

chose to go on a blind date in his hometown in the countryside because Fei Guang wanted to try to find a girl who was the right person, mediocre in appearance, and not too difficult to support.

In this way, after being divorced three times, Fei Guang met Chen Lu, and he felt that this might be love.

The reason why Fei Guang chose to reunite with Chen Lu for more than 20 days was not because he wanted to test his love, but because he was delayed until now by the important matter at home.

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On the second day of Fei Guang's engagement, his father Fei Song hurried back to work in other places. In the past few years, with the joint efforts of the father and son, although the family's debts have been paid off, the bride price money for Fei Guang's marriage has not yet been settled, and his father is of course anxious.

On the same day, Fei Guang's mother also rushed to another field.

For Ye, who is nervous about "missionary" work, it is not easy to come back to participate in his son's engagement ceremony, where can he dare to stay more.

It is "no coincidence that no book is written", my father and mother just left home with the front foot, and the grandfather who had been paralyzed for many years with the back foot in Fei Guang's house was sick.

Regarding the support of his grandfather, Fei Guang's mother and his two uncles and three aunts signed a written agreement - during the period of alternate support, when the elderly fall ill, the family of the supporter will be responsible for medical treatment and care.

With his parents not at home, Fei Guang should have taken on the obligation to take care of his grandfather, but because he was falling in love for those two days, he didn't pay much attention to his grandfather's condition. Even on the night when his grandfather's illness worsened, he went to the county seat for a date, leaving only his minor sister Fei Shi at home to perfunctory the old man.

The perfunctory result was that when Fei Guang said goodbye to Chen Lu and returned to his home in the countryside, his grandfather was critically ill. After being critically ill, he only lasted 3 days in the county hospital before his grandfather died.

After his grandfather passed away, Fei Guang felt guilty and made "the first seven", "second seven", and "third seven" for his mother for his grandfather, which lasted 21 days of filial piety.

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Fei Guang knew in his heart that his grandfather's funeral activities, and his mother Ye Zi did not come back to participate, would become a new bad record for her.

He wasn't sure if Chen Lu's family had inquired about her mother.

He was even more unsure of what Chen Lu's attitude would be after knowing her mother's many bad records.

He didn't know the bottom of his heart.

So, he hid the true situation from Chen Lu......