Chapter 22: Li He 1
For wine lovers, there is a saying called "Three cups lead to the avenue, one drunk relieves a thousand sorrows", but if it was for Chen Lu and Fei Guang at that time, it was "a wall knocks through the avenue, and a hot kiss relieves a thousand sorrows!" ”
Yes, just entering the newlywed period, after the wall knock and kiss, all the bad emotions such as troubles, sorrows, resentments, grievances, and losses will disappear.
When the two kissed until they were comfortable, Chen Lu stopped in time and let go of the lips that "relieved a thousand sorrows" for herself, she was afraid that continuing would lead to more needs.
Chen Lu stopped in time, but Fei Guang was still a little unsatisfied, he was learning and using it, changed from passive to active, pushed her to the opposite wall, and kissed wildly. Under the wild kiss, Shu Shuang escalated into excitement, and her two hands began to be restless, first swimming into the waist of Chen Lu's clothes, then her back, and finally when she wanted to go further, she shouted to stop.
"Stop, stop, if you touch it again, something will go wrong!" Chen Lu pushed Fei Guang away and whispered.
"Something wrong?" Fei Guang didn't understand, and was stunned again.
"I don't understand this, it's really stupid and not enough to eat."
"If there's something wrong, uncle, I'll solve your little chick on the spot!"
Chen Lu used ridiculous words to make a vague explanation.
"Oh......" Fei Guang rolled his eyes and responded as if he didn't understand.
After Chen Lu saw this expression that seemed to understand, she forcibly led Fei Guang into the small courtyard of her grandmother Li He, and she decided not to waste too much tongue on this stupid husband. I didn't eat much breakfast, and after the passion just now, my stomach was even emptier, and I really didn't want to say more.
"First go to the grandmother's house to find something to eat, and by the way, test the old lady's true enthusiasm for her eldest granddaughter-in-law."
"In the first few contacts, although I felt the enthusiasm, it was all verbal, and it was not interesting."
With such ideological activities, Chen Lu led Fei Guang into Li He's hut, the door of the house was open, and he could walk in directly.
"Grandma!" After entering the house, she didn't see anyone, and she shouted out a sweet voice.
Although before meeting Li He for the first time, Chen Lu had not called "grandma" for many years (Chen Lu's own grandmother died early, at most, she called the neighbors "Grandma Zhang", "Grandma Wang", "Grandma Li" and the like, and there was still a gap between the simple word "grandma"), but after a few contacts, she already had some feelings, so this "grandma" shouted sweet and kind.
"Hey-" Hearing this sweet and kind "grandma", Li He, who was in the inner room, hurriedly responded with a long voice, and then immediately said, "Lulu is here, sit down and wait for me for a while, soon, soon, soon ......"
When his daughter-in-law came to visit, Li He didn't want to put on a show, the reason why she didn't come out to receive her as soon as possible was because she considered the problem too carefully.
Before Chen Lu and Fei Guang came, Li He was doing a needlework in the inner room - Na Soles, for the eldest son Fei Songna's cloth shoe mille-feuille.
In 2011, the country's economy had already undergone earth-shaking changes, and the countryside was no exception. At that time, the living standards of rural people as a whole had improved by many levels, and families with a monthly income of more than 5,000 yuan abounded. It only costs 15 yuan to buy a pair of cloth shoes, and ordinary people will no longer think about making their own shoes to wear.
But ordinary people can't represent everything.
In his life, Li He gave birth to three sons and one daughter. The daughter, second son, and third son are all not bad, and their income can not only afford their own small family, but also have a surplus. Now, the one who worries him the most is this eldest son Fei Song.
Parents often prefer the child who mixes the worst and has the saddest life, and Li He is the same.
"My boss, my life is hard, when I was a child, my body was weak, I suffered many disasters and diseases, and I almost lost my life a few times!"
"I finally grew up and became healthy, but this short figure has become a problem again, and it is a big problem that is picked out at a glance when I am looking for a daughter-in-law."
"Fortunately, God blessed, I married my daughter-in-law and left a descendant."
"But I didn't expect that after this daughter-in-law arrived home, she would be a girl with a sick child!"
"On the day of her marriage, in order not to be discovered by us, she didn't drink Chinese medicine for a day, and she fell ill at night!"
"I ran to her mother's house in the middle of the night to get back the Chinese medicine and the Chinese medicine pot, and it took a night to save it."
"I finally married a daughter-in-law, I thought that there was a root cause of the disease, and we would treat the disease.
"At that time, I was afraid that my son Fei Song would be young and vigorous, and I would dislike this sick daughter-in-law Yezi. So I told him again and again, 'After marrying a daughter-in-law, you must put your daughter-in-law first, and everyone else has to stand aside, including me and your father', well, he is still obedient and executed it well. ”
"In the two years when I first got married, everything was fine, and my son and daughter-in-law were sweet and lovely. Ye Zi was weak, and I did not let her do farm work, nor did I let her do housework, nor did I let her go out to work with Fei Song. At that time, my old woman was very energetic, and I thought that as long as she lived a good life with her son, what would it matter if I served her for the rest of my life. ”
"Alas, good flowers don't bloom often, and good times don't always come! Who would have thought that this leaf would be like this after giving birth to my eldest grandson Fei Guang! ”
"I don't say anything if I don't work or do housework, but every time I ask her to feed my child, I don't want to do everything I can. At that time, my grandson was also mischievous, only recognizing her milk, other rice soup, milk powder, and batter, and he didn't swallow it in his stomach. Watching my little grandson cry every day when he is hungry, I am really distressed to be a grandmother. Every time my little grandson cried, my heart hurt as if I had been stabbed with the tip of a knife! ”
"At first, she pushed back and said that she was busy going to the market, busy visiting relatives, busy playing poker, I could accept it, I thought that when she was done, she could always feed the child. Later, she deliberately made things difficult for me, saying arrogant and ugly words, and asked me to bow her head and submit to me, which I can accept. I think that we are not people with status and status, just bow our heads, and we will not lose two taels of meat if we bow our heads, as long as she can reward her grandson with something to eat, nothing else matters. ”
"What I can't accept is that when my grandson was 6 months old, she asked for weaning, and scolded and scolded my baby grandson as a burden to her."
"Of course I wasn't happy, of course I didn't agree, so I had my first confrontation with her. After the conflict failed to solve the problem, I provoked the first war and started to beat her. ”
"This one can be regarded as a hornet's nest! not only did not solve the problem of breastfeeding the grandson, but also buried the son's happy married life. ”
"For the next three years, she stayed at her parents' house, and rarely came back when my son Fei Song returned home from work. Once in a while, the little couple has to tinkle, and there are more contradictions, I know that she is deliberately angry with my old woman. ”
"Because of a momentary mistake, I feel guilty and regretful! In order to make up for this mistake, in order for my son to have a normal daughter-in-law, and in order for my grandson to have a mother, I compromised again. It's a pity that it's hard to reunite after breaking the mirror, I ran to her mother's house countless times in those three years to coax her back, but to no avail. When I was finally cornered, I knelt at the door of her mother's house with a shy old face, and knelt for a whole morning before I coaxed her back! ”
"When I came back, I was kind to her in a different way, thinking that I could never mess with her again. But I didn't expect her to hold such a grudge, and after she came back, she made things even more difficult for me, and she couldn't get along with my son Fei Song everywhere. Sometimes the temper comes up, and he not only beats my son, but also my grandson. ”
"I can't bear this, so the original plan of 'not messing with her' was broken by me again. However, although our fighting never stopped in the following years, she did not live in her mother's house any longer. ”
"In those years, after every quarrel and fight, I was angry and worried, angry because of her annoyance, worried about her sick body. I was afraid that Fei Song would not be at home all the year round, and she would not be able to take care of herself, so she did not divide the family and continued to support her to eat. Continue to raise her, eat in one pot every day, and the number of times we make awkward will increase. ”
"Alas! It's all my fault, there was no room for a stomach at that time. ”
Later, when Hiroko was 7 years old, Ye Zi gave us another granddaughter, Shishi. When Guangzi was raised to the age of 8 and Shishi was raised to more than 1 year old, I followed the old man out to work, and arranged for my daughter Xiaoqin, who had not left the cabinet, to take their brothers and sisters at home. ”
"I chose to go out to work, not only because after marrying my other two sons separately, I was in debt with the old man, and the old man was slow to pay off the debts by working alone. The more important reason is that I have an awkward relationship with the leaves at both ends for three days, I am too unhappy, I often have chest pain, I am afraid that if I continue like this, I will be angry and have a big problem, at that time I have a great responsibility, but I can't get sick. ”
"In the first two years of part-time work, I heard Xiaoqin say that Ye Zi's mood and body were better when I was not at home, and occasionally I would cook a meal, and sometimes I would hurt my grandson and granddaughter. So when Hiroko was 10 years old, I split up with Ye Zi and handed over Hiroko and Shishi to her to raise alone. ”
"Leave it to Ye Zi to raise alone, for several reasons."
"Xiaoqin needs to get married, and it has been three years since she was engaged, and if she doesn't get married, it's really unreasonable. Originally, I should have been married in the second year of engagement, but I was selfish and insisted on letting her bring my grandchildren and granddaughters for me for two years. ”
"Hiroko is 10 years old and understands something, so she shouldn't be affected too much by the leaves in terms of personality. Alas, my old wife, at that time, was patriarchal, and she only had grandchildren in her eyes, so she didn't think so much about Shishi, and I don't know if she complained about me. ”
"Before Hiroko grows up, I want him to have more contact with Ye Zi and cultivate a deeper mother-son relationship."
"Who would have thought that I was wrong again!"
Less than a year after handing over the two children to Yezi, she went crazy and collapsed. During that period, she often got angry and angry with my son Fei Song - when Fei Song was at home, he was angry in person, and when Fei Song went out, he was angry on the phone. ”
"After Chong Fei Song got angry, she was often angry, and in order to get angry, she beat my Guangzi. It's natural for a mother to beat her son, and I won't say anything, but don't be angry with herself! ”
"I've heard that most of this man's illnesses are born from 'qi'."
"Not really! In just a few months, Ye, who was already in poor health, often got angry and made big mistakes! ”
"This illness has made my son suffer, and he owes a debt that has not been paid off for 10 years!"
"After rescuing Ye Zi, she believed in a 'Christianity' that teaches people to do good."
"When I first became religious, I was fine, I didn't quarrel with me, and I would call my mother!"
"But who would have thought that it would become so mad later?"
"I don't care about my children, I don't want my husband, I run out to preach all day long."
"My son Fei Song is too honest and has a good temper, I can't control her......"
"If he can't control it, he sulks by himself - angry that he is weak, angry that he is incompetent, angry that he is a wreck!"
"When I was angry, I cried on my lap I don't know how many times, and after crying, I thought about getting a divorce."
"How can I watch my son get divorced?"
So I persuaded, I said, "Oh, if this man leaves a woman, his home will not be like home." If a middle-aged man doesn't have a woman, he will be inferior in front of the big guy. Older men are even more miserable if they don't have women. Let's not say that you will be lonely in the future without a wife, just say that when you are sick and bedridden, who do you expect to take care of you with and urine? The son is definitely going out to earn money, can you count on the daughter and daughter-in-law?"
"I also said that because you Fei Song is a notoriously poor bastard, so Hiroko doesn't look at the talent, it's not so easy to find a partner, and now the girls value money more. Originally, it was difficult to find a partner, but you divorced his mother again, so that the future daughter-in-law would have no mother-in-law, do you think there are still girls willing to marry our Guangzi?"
"That's it, he listened to my persuasion and continued to endure and make do!"
"But this 'forbearance' is a knife on the head!"
"Poor my son, I don't know what the hardship has become in my heart all these years......
"It's all my fault, because my successive wrong decisions have caused such a big problem for my son."
"Hey! I hate that my old wife is useless, and she has brought problems, and she can't solve my son's worries! ”